“No, no,” Bruz said while rushing over to the referee. “He’s my brother. It’s all right.”
I have no doubt that the officials calling our game had developed as much respect for Bruz by that time as the players. The referee kept the flag in his pocket. On the next play, Browns running back Boyce Green ran twenty yards over right tackle for a touchdown. The game was over.
Was I disappointed about losing and about whiffing against my brother? You’d better believe it. But at the same time, I felt so thankful to be on that field that I couldn’t get too upset. If I had to lose that day, at least someone in the Matthews family walked away a winner.
You could say that’s the Matthews family in a nutshell. We love to take each other on and will show no mercy no matter what the contest—yet we’re always rooting for each other and delighted to see each other succeed.
Our family has been blessed with many more opportunities to square off against each other since that game in Cleveland. Bruz’s career lasted nineteen seasons and included four Pro Bowl trips and three seasons with All-Pro honors. He’s still the Browns’ franchise record holder for career tackles, sacks, and forced fumbles. I was fortunate enough to also play nineteen seasons, start 229 consecutive regular-season games (most ever for an offensive lineman), and earn fourteen Pro Bowl and seven All-Pro honors, which led to my induction into the NFL Hall of Fame in 2007.
It’s the next generation of the Matthews family that’s making waves now, however. Bruz’s son Clay III has starred for seven years as a linebacker for the Green Bay Packers. At this writing he’s a six-time Pro Bowler and has been a first-team All-Pro. He’s also been named NFL Defensive Player of the Year and owns a Super Bowl ring. His brother, Casey, played linebacker for four years with the Philadelphia Eagles before moving to the Minnesota Vikings. My son, Kevin, meanwhile, is a center who’s spent five seasons in the NFL with the Titan and Panther organizations. His younger brother, Jake, has been a starting tackle for two years with the Atlanta Falcons. And my son Mikey spent training camp with the Browns in the 2016 season as a rookie center.
I guess that’s why some people describe us as the NFL’s First Family and why Sports Illustrated recently put us at the top of their list of best all-time football families. Are there more Matthews NFL players on the way? It’s certainly possible. Time will tell.
I’m proud of each of these guys—father, brother, nephews, sons—but I’m just as proud of the wives, siblings, sons, and daughters in my family and in the extended Matthews family who aren’t NFL players. In his or her own way, each is a success and has contributed so much to this world. I love them all.
That’s a hint at what this book is about. It will tell my story, the journey of a big, shy kid who became an NFL Hall of Famer. But it is also an inside look at the Matthews family and the qualities that have allowed us to flourish in the NFL and elsewhere. Please don’t get me wrong: I don’t claim to have life all figured out and I’ve made plenty of mistakes along the way. But by God’s grace, I’ve been blessed with a wonderful career in football, a faith that sustains me, and the best family a man could ask for.
I invite you to keep reading. I hope that the following pages will be entertaining. Even more, I hope they will provide a few insights that will help you on your journey.
Ready? All right, let’s go.
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TOUGH BUT FAIR
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Competition is the spice of sports; but if you make spice the whole meal you’ll be sick.
GEORGE LEONARD
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PEOPLE SOMETIMES ASK ME, “HOW do you guys do it? What’s the secret that enables your family to keep turning out NFL players?”
There are many answers to that question. One of them is that we’ve been blessed with good genes and bodies that can take a pounding. But there’s definitely more to it than that. It’s a story that begins more than a century ago, back to at least 1889. That’s when my grandfather, Howard Lynn “Matty” Matthews, was born. He got his start in Jeffersonville, Ohio, but spent most of his life in Charleston, South Carolina. That’s also where he met and married my grandmother, Elsa “Booty” Bargmann.
Matty began his athletic career in baseball, playing in the minor leagues from 1911 to 1915, primarily in the South Atlantic or “Sally” League. He never earned a spot on a Major League roster yet he made his mark in other ways. Matty was fast, which led to a position switch from catcher to outfield soon after he reported to his first team in Macon, Georgia.
According to a newspaper clipping from those days, the Detroit Tigers and Boston Red Sox were in Macon for an exhibition game that first spring. The best-known name in the big leagues during the early 1900s was Ty Cobb, the “Georgia Peach” and Detroit Tigers outfielder who would become one of the original inductees into the Baseball Hall of Fame. Cobb was famous for his hitting and nasty disposition, but also for his fleet feet. He stole 892 bases during his career, which at the time was the all-time record.
A newspaperman came up with the idea of a footrace featuring my grandfather, Cobb, and another player. The contest was a sprint from home plate to first. I can imagine onlookers placing more than a few wagers before those competitors squared off. If they bet on Cobb or the other player, they lost their money. Matty beat them by three yards. Even then, it seems, the Matthews family hated to lose.
When America entered World War I, Matty joined the army. They introduced him to the sport of boxing and it grew into one of his life’s passions. In 1926, he joined the staff of the Citadel, the military college in Charleston. He coached boxing, baseball, and track and field there, but it was boxing that built his reputation. He taught the sweet science to Citadel cadets for nearly three decades and coached a number of champions. Just a few years ago I spoke at an event in Charleston. After I was finished, some of the elderly locals spoke to me. They told me about taking boxing lessons from my grandfather, saying he was tough but fair. I thought that was pretty cool.
My grandfather passed on his athletic genes to my dad and my dad’s two brothers, but Matty also gave them a major dose of his toughness and will to win. He had all three of his boys boxing before they entered elementary school.
Dad grew up in Charleston and continued to hone his boxing skills. He was a two-time heavyweight Golden Gloves champion. The only fight he ever lost was his first—his mother made his trunks and, in the first round, the elastic popped. Dad was trying to fight with one hand while pulling up his trunks with the other. During the fight, he yelled at his mom, “Look what you’ve done!”
Boxing wasn’t my dad’s only sporting interest, however. He went to college at Georgia Tech, joined the wrestling team, and became the Southeastern Amateur Athletic Union heavyweight champ. He was eventually elected to the Georgia Tech Athletic Hall of Fame. He was also a college swimmer and diver.
But competing in the ring, on the mat, and in the pool wasn’t enough challenge for my dad. He also decided to test himself on the gridiron. At Charleston High, he went out for the school team and was a standout on the offensive and defensive line. He continued with football in college.
Those years were part of a golden age for Georgia Tech football. In 1947, my dad’s first season with the varsity, legendary coach Bobby Dodd was in just his third year with the Yellow Jackets. The team won nine of its first ten games, losing only to Alabama before knocking off Kansas, 20–14, in the Orange Bowl. They were nearly as successful the next two seasons, finishing with a 7–3 record both years.
Dad enjoyed plenty of athletic success in college but, in those days, professional sports were not nearly as lucrative as today. They weren’t the answer for most young men who wanted to make a decent living. Dad graduated with a degree in industrial engineering and planned to use it.
Then he got a call from a representative of the San Francisco 49ers, a team that had just joined the NFL, s
aying the draft was over and they wanted him on their team. The league draft wasn’t a media sensation back then. Dad never did hear when he’d been chosen. Many years later, when I was with the Oilers, I was in the training room and picked up a Los Angeles Rams Media Guide. I’d always been interested in the history of the game, so I looked up the Rams’ annual draft results. Suddenly, I saw a familiar name. I was so excited that I called my father that night.
“Hey Dad,” I said, “I picked up a media guide today and found out when you were drafted!”
“Oh?” he said. “When was it? The first round?”
“No,” I said. “The twenty-fifth round. You were the last pick of the Rams. Then they traded you to the 49ers.”
Dad obviously wasn’t at the top of the 49ers’ prospect list, yet the chance to compete and test himself against the best was too appealing to pass up. He decided to report to the 49ers for the 1950 season. Dad made the team, earned a salary of about $6,000—decent money back then—and played in all twelve games for San Francisco as a right tackle on offense and a tackle and end on defense. He recovered two fumbles, recorded an interception, and even returned one kickoff.
The 49ers wanted him back for 1951, but Dad had a new challenge in mind. By then the United States was involved in the Korean War and Dad wanted to be part of it. He volunteered to become a paratrooper and was sent to Fort Bragg in Fayetteville, North Carolina, for training. The leaders at Fort Bragg pushed their men hard, trying to weed out those who might quit on the battlefield. My dad was one of those who lasted. He eventually made twenty-one jumps as a member of the U.S. Army’s 82nd Airborne Division, though he never saw action in Korea. Dad’s brothers, my uncles, showed the same kind of determination and desire to test themselves. Lynn, his older brother, graduated from the United States Naval Academy and eventually commanded a nuclear submarine. Dale, Dad’s younger brother, became an ace jet pilot in both the Korean and Vietnam wars.
Jumping out of airplanes wasn’t the only thing on my dad’s mind at Fort Bragg, though. It was while he was in Fayetteville that he was introduced to a vivacious woman named Daisy Crowson. She was, in my dad’s words, “Gorgeous, blonde, with green eyes and a nice figure. A sweet lady.” They married in 1953.
When the U.S. signed the armistice ending the Korean conflict, Dad returned to civilian life and the NFL. After three more years with the 49ers, the team traded him to Philadelphia. By this time my parents had a daughter, Kristy, who was born in 1954, and Clay, who was born in 1956. Dad was already making more money in the off-season than he was as a player. He decided it was time to exchange his uniform for a suit and tie. It was the right decision financially, because he would soon have more mouths to feed. My twin brothers, Brad and Ray, were born in 1959. I joined the Matthews family on August 8, 1961.
Little did I know what I was getting into.
One of my biggest impressions of my early years, really of my whole childhood, was of packing up and driving to a new home. Part of my dad’s job at the time was shutting down unproductive factories for Scovill Fasteners, a company that’s still around to this day. The result was that we moved a lot.
When I was born, we lived in Raleigh, North Carolina. We moved to nearby Clinton when I was one or two, then we were off to Wisconsin, Michigan, and North Carolina again before we moved across the country to Arcadia, California, for my final three years of grade school. All the moving meant I didn’t keep friends for too long. Maybe that’s why our family is so close-knit. We learned to depend on each other because, so often, we were all we had.
Not that we sat around complaining about it. We were too busy discovering new ways to compete against each other. That need to test oneself, so important to my father and grandfather, definitely passed on to me and my siblings. Bruz, Brad, Ray, and I played all the usual outdoor sports and relished each battle (Kristy was usually more interested in horses than in messing around with her brothers). We also turned to standards of the day such as electric football or tabletop hockey. We sat on the floor, hunched over, and twisted the rods that controlled those metal hockey players until our backs were sore. But it was great fun.
When we got tired of traditional contests, we turned to more creative pursuits. Baseball was one game we decided we could play anywhere. First it was indoors, pitching a Nerf ball against a batter with a rolled-up newspaper. Then it was in the basement, hurling darts at a dart board while a batter wielded a two-by-four—you had a hit if you got the dart to stick in the “bat.” Nobody was maimed, but we did have a few brushback pitches.
After we moved to California, our competitions became even more inventive. Bruz and I created a baseball game that we played in our backyard pool. The pitcher floated on the surface, facedown, and dropped or spun the “ball”—a circular steel plug, less than three inches in diameter—toward home plate, which was actually the drain at the bottom of the pool, six feet down. Also at the pool bottom was the batter, who recorded a base hit by getting the plug to rest on the back of his hand.
We played that one often. In theory, the pitcher wasn’t supposed to delay in delivering his pitch, because the longer he waited, the less air the batter had, and the more likely he was to fumble his “swing” or make a bad decision. That was the theory, but my memory is that Bruz used that tactic against me often.
I don’t remember doing the same back to him, of course. But it’s possible my brother’s memory of those times might be a little different.
When I look back on those competitions with my brothers, I wonder how we survived. Part of it was knowing when to stop (or Mom or Dad making us stop). The other part must have been God watching over us.
Dangerous or not, I loved every minute of it. Something about contending for a victory, even if the reward was just bragging rights that lasted only until the next game, made me feel alive. I couldn’t get enough of it. Naturally, I loved recess at school. Kickball, softball, punch ball—whatever was going on, I was in the middle of it.
It was during fourth grade that I also got into Little League baseball. I was a catcher and pitcher. I was pretty good too, a consistent line drive hitter. Though I couldn’t run fast, I was quick to get after the ball and make the throw to second base. I started dreaming of becoming a Major League catcher. I was a big kid, weighing 125 pounds. I was so big, in fact, that I sometimes hindered the umpires. I remember one adult ump saying quietly to me after he called a ball, “Sorry, that might have been a strike. I couldn’t see over you.”
My baseball success led me to try out for a Junior All-American football team. It turned out, however, that they had a weight limit. I was twenty-five pounds too heavy. Bruz wouldn’t let me forget that one. He kept telling me, “You’re the first Matthews to ever get cut from a team.”
My desire to compete usually brought out the best in me, but there have been a few occasions when it got the best of me. One of those times came a few years later, when I was sixteen. I’d never done much boxing. Dad didn’t insist on it the way his father did with him, though Dad did teach me how to throw a jab and protect myself. Then one day I got in the mood to throw a few punches.
“Hey,” I said to my best friend, Dave “Sam” Samarzich, “let’s spar a little.”
We started messing around in our driveway. It was supposed to be just a bit of fun, but pretty soon I was peppering Dave in the mouth with jabs. The problem was that Dave wore braces, the old-school kind with lots of metal. Dave started getting ticked off, and with good reason. His mouth was all bloody.
My dad happened to come home from work right then. He was not happy about what he saw.
“You’re going to take advantage of someone like that?” he said to me. “That’s crap.”
Dad walked into the garage and returned a few seconds later. He tossed a pair of boxing gloves in my direction. “All right, tough guy,” he said. “Put the gloves on.”
I knew I was in trouble. “Dad, I’m sorry,” I said. But it was too late.
At that time I was proba
bly six foot three and 225 pounds, the same height as and heavier than my dad. But it didn’t really matter how big I was. I wouldn’t have lasted a single round against him if he’d been trying to knock me out. To his credit, he only wanted to make a point. He hit me with just a couple of jabs and it was like the old Rocky movies, with my head snapping back like a yo-yo on a string. All I could think was, Oh, my gosh, I do not ever want to tangle with my dad.
Dad taught me a lesson that day—competition is great, but there’s a line that you don’t cross. To put it another way, be tough but fair.
Despite that driveway confrontation with my dad, my desire to compete and win actually intensified as I got older. It always showed up during my continuing competitions with Bruz. When I was at the University of Southern California, he and his family lived near the campus. During his off-season, I would drive over and we might start with a fierce Ping-Pong war. Then we’d sit on his couch and play video games on one of the old Intellivision consoles. There was plenty of taunting and smack talk, including at least a few imitations of the Jets’ Mark Gastineau doing a sack dance. Those battles could go for hours, until two, three, or four in the morning—however long it took for me to win.
I certainly drew on my competitive nature while playing football for USC and when I reached the NFL. It was a major motivating factor in my drive to excel and defeat my opponent whenever I stepped onto the field. Yet the most fun I had competing continued to be the games and battles of skill and wills with Bruz. That was probably because we learned where to draw the line with each other. I still remember the day we figured it out.
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