by Jason Ball
But until then, don’t let anything or anyone stop you from living the life of your best self.
30. Forty-two
The universe is social. Interconnected. Everything is mutually interdependent. At its best, everything just works.
31. A retrospective
Looking back, how have you treated those around you – your parents, teachers, friends, lovers?
Can you honestly say you’ve never done any of them wrong?
Think about everything you’ve gone through in your life. As your time comes to an end, think of all you’ve seen, the pleasures, the pains, the honours you refused, the people you treated fairly (even when they didn’t deserve it).
32. Call yourself wise?
Why do idiots confound the wise? Maybe a better question is, who is really wise? When it comes down to it, only the person who can see how reason runs throughout eternity.
33. Waiting for the end
Pretty soon, you’ll be just ashes and dust. A name that some people remember perhaps. Perhaps not.
Everything that people set their hearts on in life is little more than stuff and nonsense. All too often we act like toddlers – laughing one minute, sulking another, then throwing ourselves on the floor in the supermarket when we don’t get what we want.
Decency and truth are nowhere to be seen. So why stay here when you know your senses are dim and easily fooled? When even a million social media likes mean absolutely nothing? What should you do?
Chill out. Keep calm. Wait for the end – whether that’s death or some form of transformation.
But what about until then? Do good to others (no matter how they act towards you) and remember: Whatever is outside your body and mind isn’t yours to own and owes you nothing at all.
34. Prosperity this way
Keep on keeping on, no matter what. Stay in control of your choices and actions and you’ll prosper on your terms.
Two things are true for every rational being. The first is that you can resist whatever stands in your way. And the second is that real happiness stems from doing the right thing.
35. Who cares?
If a wrong is not your fault and society doesn’t suffer as a result, who really cares?
36. No harm, no foul
Don’t get too dragged into others’ problems. Help where you can, but if they’re not really harmed, don’t pretend that they are.
Just because someone is crying over things that don’t ultimately matter, it doesn’t mean you have to join them.
37. Stay lucky
Some people are fortunate, they lack nothing that matters. They die knowing that they had the best temperament, the best impulses and the best behaviour.
11
The Sixth Book
‘Be at one with the universe around you.
Love others unconditionally. Play nice.’
1. The universe doesn’t hate you
In itself, the universe is a pretty docile place. It doesn’t hate you. It’s not out to get you. When you think about things this way, it’s easy to see that the natural laws that govern everything around us aren’t evil. They don’t make mistakes. They harm nothing. And ultimately, it’s these same laws that govern everything that happens to us from birth to death.
2. To your last breath
I’ll say it again, do the right thing.
It doesn’t matter whether you’re freezing cold or dead on your feet. Nor whether you are being cheered on or beaten down. Or even whether you’re living it large or drawing your last breath. See, even the act of dying is part of life and deserves your best efforts.
3. Go deep or go home
These days, too few people look beneath the surface. Don’t be one of them. Look deeper to find the intrinsic worth in everything and everyone.
4. Fire and flood
Everything around you will change – whether it comes to some fiery end or gently disintegrates into its component atoms.
5. Get out of the way
Reason knows what it’s doing. More than this, it knows how to do it and why.
6. Revenge
The best revenge? Don’t be like them.
7. Happiness starts here
If you focus on one source of joy in this world, let it be this: Be kind, help others, repeat.
8. Clarity lies within
The rational part of you has no problem understanding the world around you. It can take any form it likes. Fundamentally, it can do what it damn well pleases.
9. You are here
Everything works as it does within one interconnected universe. Face it, barring the discovery of wormholes or some such, there is no other universe. None.
10. Order vs chaos
We can either look at the world as a random collection of atoms bumping into one another or as an interconnected environment governed by order.
If we go with the former, why be so eager to struggle on prolonging a life that’s destined to be forever chaotic and confusing? It’s all going to turn to dust anyhow. In fact, why worry about even that?
Of course, if we go down the route of an ordered world, we can calmly accept that we’re part of the bigger picture and get on with doing our bit.
11. Surfing the shitstorm
When everything is getting too much – your friends are being annoying, your enemies are being even more shitty than usual, the dog has done who knows what on the carpet – turn inwards.
Get back in tune with who you are and what’s really important. The more you do this, the easier it will become, and you’ll be able to call on this inner peace whenever you need to.
12. No evil stepmothers
Say you had both a stepmother and a mother at the same time. Sure, you’d treat your stepmother with respect (you would, wouldn’t you?), but it’d always be your mum you’d go back to.
It’s the same with society and philosophy. Keep going back to philosophy, it will refresh you and make living in this crazy world more bearable.
13. Fish corpse anyone?
So you enjoy a fancy meal, how nice. But think about it, on your plate is a dead fish or chicken or pig. The wine? Grape juice.
And what about sex? Some enjoyable friction ending in a bit of moaning and your O face (hopefully).
When you think about things this way, it cuts out all the bullshit. You see things for what they really are. And you can apply this to everything in life.
So when things are being hyped up, clouded in smoke and mirrors, you’ll be able to lay them bare. And don’t for a minute think you get out of this, it’s just the same when you’re tempted to believe your own hype too.
14. Check out those threads
A lot of people will admire the stuff around them (fast cars, a nice watch, a killer pair of shoes). Others are more likely to admire people (the A-list actress, the current face of whatever fashion label is trending, the Instagram celeb with the impossible lifestyle). Others still will admire the products of talent and skill (great art and design, writing that speaks to you, films that move you to tears).
But in the end, if you really value reason above all else, you’ll spend less time admiring such things and more time focusing on nurturing the core of who you really are and searching out others who think the same.
15. And breathe
It seems some things can’t wait to be born while others can’t wait to die. In fact, even when something is on the way in, part of it is often on the way out.
Change is endless. The universe is continually renewing itself around us as time flows by. But with all this swirling around you, how do you know what to focus on? It’s like trying to get the number of that gorgeous creature you saw in the bar when they’ve already jumped in a cab and headed off into the dark.
But that’s just the way it is. Life is simply a series of breaths. In and out. On and on. It’s something you gained just yesterday at your birth and will give back when you inevitably die.
16. Strip it back
So what should
we really care about? There are billions of different creatures on the planet, all breathing just like us, all with similar senses (some better, some worse), many are social, all need to feed – and all need to shit too. What makes us special?
Is it our desires, jumping and laughing and dancing at the drop of a hat? No.
What about the praise of others, the clapping of hands, the wagging of tongues, the hundreds of likes on our latest update? No again.
When it comes down to it, the only thing to really care about is acting in accordance with your true self – when everything else is stripped away – the core truth of what it is to be you.
It’s the same with any tool or technology. It does precisely the job it was designed to do (whatever Siri says, your phone doesn’t care what you think of it). It’s the same for people, the ones who are absorbed by what they do. Whether they’re gardeners, baristas, teachers, whatever, it’s like they’re born to do it and do it to their very best abilities.
This is what you should care about. Focus on this and everything else will be garnish.
But what if you can’t shake your other desires?
Then you’ll never be free. You’ll endlessly be subject to others’ vacuous praise, empty wants and petty jealousy. It’ll haunt you. You’ll always be looking for who will take your stuff, who will trigger your fears, who can be blamed for your misfortunes.
But focus on the core and you’ll find peace within. You’ll be at one with others around you. You’ll be able to roll with whatever happens.
17. Rough and tumble
The elements around us swirl and tumble like a hipster’s vape on a windy day. But real virtue is different. It’s purposeful, serene and moves in ways we struggle to measure.
18. Don’t feed the trolls
I tell you, some people, eh? They haven’t a good word for those around them but they throw a hissy fit if they aren’t praised themselves. They want fame from everyone, even future generations they will never live to see. They might as well moan about not getting any likes from the dead.
19. No one likes a quitter
Just because something is hard, don’t believe it to be impossible. Instead, if it is at all possible, assume you can do it.
20. Cross-trainers can be a bitch
Say that someone bumps into you in the gym. I bet you wouldn’t take offence or think they are out to get you. You wouldn’t go and bump them back would you?
You might give them a bit more space – some people are pretty clumsy. But you’d do it good-naturedly. So why not take this and apply it to all areas of your life? If people offend you, give them space and keep your cool.
21. Am I wrong? Good.
If you can prove me wrong, I’ll gladly change what I think and do. You see, I want the truth and the truth never hurt anyone. In fact, it’s only hanging on to ignorance that does harm.
22. No obstacles. None.
I’ll do my thing and let nothing get in the way – doesn’t matter if that’s people, things or irrational thoughts.
23. Being reasonable
As a human being with reason, be reasonable to the animals and things around you. Treat other reasonable people as brothers and sisters. Stop and think when you need to get things clear in your head. Take your time, there’s no rush.
24. Mainly carbon
In death, Leonardo da Vinci met the same end as the unknown apprentice that mixed his paints. Either they both went back to the mystical source of all things (if you believe that kind of thing) or they both simply dispersed into atoms.
25. Man that’s big
Think about just how much is going on inside every one of us right now and it won’t surprise you to learn that there’s an almost infinite number of things happening at this very instant right across the universe.
26. Spell what?
Say someone asks you to spell ‘rhythm’. Would you shout each letter at the top of your voice? And if that angered, would you get angry in return? Or would you speak the letters quietly, one by one?
It’s the same with pretty much everything else you do. Things get done in steps. It’s down to you to follow those steps without getting wound up with anyone or anything that gets in your way.
Just keep on keeping on.
27. Wrong, wrong, wrong
It can be pretty shitty stopping others doing what they think is best for them. But that’s what you do when you get all upset with them for doing something you think is wrong. After all, your ‘wrong’ is their ‘right’.
‘But they really are wrong!’ you cry. OK, then help them see where their real best interests lie rather than just getting wound up about it.
28. Cry freedom
Death is freedom. Freedom from the stuff our senses make up. Freedom from kneejerk subservience to whims and wants. Freedom from the stuff going round and round in our heads. And freedom from being slaves to desire.
29. Just. One. More.
Don’t let the brain give up when the body can still go on.
30. This. Absolutely this.
Don’t get drunk on your own power and sense of self-importance. Be good, genuine and unassuming. Be just (and a friend to justice). Be kind – serve the human race and focus always on doing the right thing. Be the person this philosophy would have you be.
Life’s short. The only good you can get out of it is to be disciplined on the inside and selfless on the outside.
Get this right and you’ll never get tired of being reasonable, moderate and calm. You’ll be as indifferent to praise as you’ll be to those who would try to bring you down. You’ll never give up, never abandon a task, never act in haste. Gossip just won’t matter – you’ll judge people on their actions and characters, not on some Twitter troll’s latest shitstorm. You’ll be free of anxiety, naturally brave, not pussyfooting around the things that matter.
More than this, you’ll be able to live with little and not regret it for a moment. You’ll be fine with hard work because you’ll know you’re doing the right thing. And you’ll be patient because the universe demands it.
You’ll be a good and true friend. But you’ll speak your mind, disagree when others are wrong and be happy to change your views when others are right. And when death comes calling, you’ll head off without worry or regret.
31. Sleepy time is over
Wake up dammit! Remember who you are. Those other things troubling you were just dreams. See them for what they really are.
32. Welcome to indifference
I’m one part mind, one part body.
My body is indifferent to what goes on around it because it can’t make decisions or form opinions.
As for my mind, the only things that aren’t indifferent to it are those it can control – and there aren’t many of them. In fact, it can only really concern itself with the present moment as it has no control over either the past or the future.
33. Ouch
A pain in your hand is perfectly natural if it came about from doing what a hand’s meant to do. In fact, we can broaden this out – no pain is unnatural if you are doing what you should. It’s not evil to suffer, it’s just life.
34. Now that’s odd
Criminals, perverts and tyrants enjoy some pretty weird things.
35. A line in the sand
People who know their stuff may try to accommodate the wishes of a less-skilled boss up to a point. But when push comes to shove, they’ll draw the line and go no further. It’s a matter of principle. Isn’t it a shame that the same can’t be said for most people who buckle at the first sign of resistance?
36. When you look at it like that
When seen from the perspective of the wider universe, continents are just small corners of dirt, oceans just a drop of water, and Everest a tiny hill of rock.
All the years of our history are just the blink of an eye. Everything in this life of ours is inconsequential and short-lived. And everything comes ultimately from an orderly universe governed by rational laws.
37. Omniscience for beginners
To see the present is to see everything that’s been before and everything that’s yet to come because everything is linked.
38. Think about it
Stop for a while and consider just how interconnected everything is. Everything is interwoven, spooning like long-time lovers, the result of an eternity of obedience to the laws of nature.
39. Life in the sandpit
Be at one with the universe around you. Love others unconditionally. Play nice.
40. Don’t fight it
It doesn’t matter if the person who makes a tool isn’t around when it gets used, it’ll work anyway. It’s different for things in the natural world because nature is still within them. You’re no exception. You can’t escape the natural laws that govern your being. But work with them and everything will be cool.
41. A bad idea
If you reckon that things outside your control are either good or bad, then when bad stuff happens, chances are you’ll go looking for someone or something to blame. But that’s a direct route to injustice.
Instead, if you limit what you think of as good or bad just to what’s within your own control, there’ll be no need to go picking a fight with others.