“He’s extraordinary,” said David, giving her the support she needed.
“Yes, he is, he’s absolutely not ordinary.”
“But he’s all right, he’s just …”
“A normal healthy fine baby,” said Harriet, bitter, quoting the hospital.
David was silent: it was this anger, this bitterness in her that he could not handle.
She was holding Ben up in the air. He was wrestling, fighting, struggling, crying in his characteristic way, which was a roar or a bellow, while he went yellowish white with anger—not red, like a normal cross baby.
When she held him to get up the wind, he seemed to be standing in her arms, and she felt weak with fear at the thought that this strength had so recently been inside her, and she at its mercy. For months, he had been fighting to get out, just as now he fought in her grasp to become independent.
When she laid him in his cot, which she was always glad to do because her arms ached so badly, he bellowed out his rage, but soon lay quiet, not sleeping, fully alert, his eyes focussed, and his whole body flexing and unflexing with a strong pushing movement of heels and head she was familiar with: it was what had made her feel she was being torn apart when he was inside her.
She went back into bed beside David. He put out his arm, so that she could lie by him, inside it, but she felt treacherous and untruthful, for he would not have liked what she was thinking.
Soon she was exhausted with feeding Ben. Not that he did not thrive: he did. He was two pounds over his birth weight when he was a month, which was when he would have been less than a week old if he had gone full term.
Her breasts were painful. Making more milk than they ever had had to do, her chest swelled into two bursting white globes long before the next feed was due. But Ben was already roaring for it, and she fed him, and he drained every drop in two or three minutes. She felt the milk being dragged in streams from her. Now he had begun something new: he had taken to interrupting the fierce sucking several times during a feed, and bringing his gums together in the hard grinding movement that made her cry out in pain. His small cold eyes seemed to her malevolent.
“I’m going to put him on the bottle,” she said to Dorothy, who was watching this battle with the look, it seemed to Harriet, everyone had when watching Ben. She was absolutely still and intent, fascinated, almost hypnotised, but there was repugnance there, too. And fear?
Harriet had expected her mother to protest with “But he’s only five weeks old!”—but what Dorothy said was “Yes, you must, or you’ll be ill.” A little later, watching Ben roar, and twist and fight, she remarked, “They’ll all be coming soon for the summer.” She spoke in a way new to her, as if listening to what she said and afraid of what she might say. Harriet recognised it, for this was how she felt saying anything at all. So do people speak whose thoughts are running along secretly in channels they would rather other people did not know about.
On that same day, Dorothy came into the bedroom where Harriet fed Ben, and saw Harriet pulling the child clear of breasts that had bruises all around the nipples. She said, “Do it. Do it now. I’ve bought the bottles, and the milk. I’m sterilising the bottles now.”
“Yes, wean him,” said David, agreeing at once. But she had fed the other four for months, and there had been hardly a bottle in the house.
The adults, Harriet and David, Dorothy and Alice, were around the big table, the children having gone up to bed, and Harriet tried Ben with the bottle. He emptied it in a moment, while his body clenched and unclenched, his knees up in his stomach, then extended like a spring. He roared at the empty bottle.
“Give him another,” said Dorothy, and set about preparing one.
“What an appetite,” said Alice socially, trying hard, but she looked frightened.
Ben emptied the second bottle: he was supporting it with his two fists, by himself. Harriet barely needed to touch it.
“Neanderthal baby,” said Harriet.
“Oh come on, poor little chap,” said David, uneasy.
“Oh God, David,” said Harriet, “poor Harriet is more like it.”
“All right, all right—the genes have come up with something special this time.”
“But what, that’s the point,” said Harriet. “What is he?”
The other three said nothing—or, rather, said by their silence that they would rather not face the implications of it.
“All right,” said Harriet, “let’s say he has a healthy appetite, if that makes everyone happy.”
Dorothy took the fighting creature from Harriet, who collapsed exhausted back in her chair. Dorothy’s face changed as she felt the clumsy weight of the child, the intransigence, and she shifted her position so that Ben’s pistoning legs could not reach her.
Soon Ben was taking in twice the amount of food recommended for his age, or stage: ten or more bottles a day.
He got a milk infection, and Harriet took him to Dr. Brett.
“A breast-fed baby shouldn’t get infections,” he said.
“He’s not breast-fed.”
“That’s not like you, Harriet! How old is he?”
“Two months,” said Harriet. She opened her dress and showed her breasts, still making milk, as if they responded to Ben’s never appeased appetite. They were bruised black all around the nipples.
Dr. Brett looked at the poor breasts in silence, and Harriet looked at him: his decent, concerned doctor’s face confronting a problem beyond him.
“Naughty baby,” he conceded, and Harriet laughed out loud in astonishment.
Dr. Brett reddened, met her eyes briefly in acknowledgement of her reproach, and then looked away.
“All I need is a prescription for diarrhoea,” said Harriet. She added deliberately, staring at him, willing him to look at her, “After all, I don’t want to kill the nasty little brute.”
He sighed, took off his glasses, and rubbed them slowly. He was frowning, but not in disapproval of her. He said, “It is not abnormal to take a dislike to a child. I see it all the time. Unfortunately.”
Harriet said nothing, but she was smiling unpleasantly, and knew it.
“Let me have a look at him.”
Harriet took Ben out of the pram, and laid him on the table. At once he turned on to his stomach and tried to get him self on all fours. He actually succeeded for a moment before collapsing.
She looked steadily at Dr. Brett, but he turned away to his desk to write a prescription.
“There’s obviously nothing much wrong with him,” he said, with the same baffled, offended note that Ben did bring out of people.
“Have you ever seen a two-month baby do that?” she insisted. “No. I must admit I haven’t. Well, let me know how you get on.”
The news had flown around the family that the new baby was successfully born, and everything was all right. Meaning that Harriet was. A lot of people wrote and rang, saying they were looking forward to the summer holidays. They said, “We are longing to see the new baby.” They said, “Is little Paul still as delicious as he was?” They arrived bringing wine and summer produce from all over the country, and all kinds of people stood bottling fruit and making jams and chutneys with Alice and Dorothy. A crowd of children played in the garden or were taken off to the woods for picnics. Little Paul, so cuddlesome and funny, was always on somebody’s lap, and his laugh was heard everywhere: this was his real nature, overshadowed by Ben and his demands.
Because the house was so full, the older children were in one room. Ben was already in a cot with high wooden slatted sides, where he spent his time pulling himself up to a sitting position, falling, rolling over, pulling himself up.… This cot was put in the room where the older children were, in the hope that Ben would be made social, friendly, by his siblings. It was not a success. He ignored them, would not respond to their advances, and his crying—or, rather, bellowing—made Luke shout at him, “Oh shut up!”—but then he burst into tears at his own unkindness. Helen, at the age to cherish a baby, tri
ed to hold Ben, but he was too strong. Then all the older children in the house were put into the attic, where they could make as much noise as they wanted, and Ben went back into his own room, “the baby’s room”—and from there they heard his grunts and snuffles and roars of frustration as he tried some feat of strength and fell down.
The new baby had of course been offered to everyone to hold, when they asked, but it was painful to see how their faces changed confronting this phenomenon. Ben was always quickly handed back. Harriet came into the kitchen one day and heard her sister Sarah say to a cousin, “That Ben gives me the creeps. He’s like a goblin or a dwarf or something. I’d rather have poor Amy any day.”
This afflicted Harriet with remorse: poor Ben, whom no one could love. She certainly could not! And David, the good father, hardly touched him. She lifted Ben from his cot, so much like a cage, and put him on the big bed, and sat with him. “Poor Ben, poor Ben,” she crooned, stroking him. He clutched her shirt with both hands, pulled himself up, and stood on her thigh. The hard little feet hurt her. She tried to cuddle him, persuade him to soften against her.… Soon she gave up, put him back in his pen, or cage … a roar of frustration because he had been put down, and she held out her hands to him, “Poor Ben, dear Ben,” and he grasped her hands and pulled himself up and stood grunting and roaring with triumph. Four months old … He was like an angry, hostile little troll.
She did make a point of going to him every day when the other children were out of the way, and taking him to the big bed for a time of petting and play, as she had with all of them. Never, not once, did he subside into a loving moment. He resisted, he strove, he fought—and then he turned his head and closed his jaws over her thumb. Not as an ordinary baby will, in the sucking bite that relieves the pain of teething, or explores the possibilities of a mouth, tongue: she felt her bone bend, and saw his cold triumphant grin.
She heard herself say, “You aren’t going to do me in, I won’t let you.”
But for a while she did try hard to make him ordinary. She took him down into the big living-room where all the family were, and put him into the play-pen there—until his presence affected people, and they tended to go away. Or she took him to the table in her arms, as she had done with the others—but could not hold him, he was too strong.
In spite of Ben, the summer holidays were wonderful. Again, there were two months of it. Again, David’s father, briefly descending, gave them a cheque, and they could not have managed without. “It is like being in the middle of some bloody great fruit pudding, this house,” said James. “God knows how you do it.”
But afterwards, when Harriet thought of those holidays, what she remembered was how they all looked at Ben. There would be a long thoughtful stare, puzzled, even anxious; but then came fear, though everyone tried to conceal it. There was horror, too: which is what Harriet felt, more and more. Soon she was shutting Ben up in his room away from everyone. He did not seem to mind, or even to notice. It was hard to make out what he did think of other people.
Harriet lay inside David’s arms one night before sleeping, talking over the day, as they always did, and she remarked, out of a current of thoughts about the summer, “Do you know what this house is good for? What people come for? It’s for a good time, that’s all.”
He was surprised. Even—she felt—shocked. “But what else do we do it for?” he enquired.
“I don’t know,” she said, sounding helpless. Then she turned in to his embrace, and he held her while she wept. They had not yet resumed love-making. This had never happened before. Making love during pregnancy, and very soon after pregnancy—this had never been a problem. But now they were both thinking, That creature arrived when we were being as careful as we knew how—suppose another like him comes? For they both felt—secretly, they were ashamed of the thoughts they had about Ben—that he had willed himself to be born, had invaded their ordinariness, which had no defences against him or anything like him. But not making love was not only a strain for them both, it was a barrier, because they had to be reminded continually of what threatened them … so they felt.
Then something bad happened. Just after all the family had gone away, as the school term began, Paul went into Ben’s room by himself. Of all the children, he was the most fascinated by Ben. Dorothy and Alice, who were together in the kitchen, Harriet having gone off to take the older ones to school, heard screams. They ran upstairs to find that Paul had put his hand in to Ben through the cot bars, and Ben had grabbed the hand and pulled Paul hard against the bars, bending the arm deliberately backwards. The two women freed Paul. They did not bother to scold Ben, who was crowing with pleasure and achievement. Paul’s arm was badly sprained.
No one felt like saying to the children, “Be careful of Ben.” But there was no need after the incident with Paul’s arm. That evening the children heard what had happened, but did not look at their parents and Dorothy and Alice. They did not look at each other. They stood silent, heads bent. This told the adults that the children’s attitudes to Ben were already formed: they had discussed Ben and knew what to think about him. Luke, Helen, and Jane went away upstairs silently, and it was a bad moment for the parents.
Alice said, watching them, “Poor little things.”
Dorothy said, “It’s a shame.”
Harriet felt that these two women, these two elderly, tough, seasoned survivors, were condemning her, Harriet, out of their vast experience of life. She glanced at David, and saw he felt the same. Condemnation, and criticism, and dislike: Ben seemed to cause these emotions, bring them forth out of people into the light.…
The day after this incident, Alice announced that she felt she was no longer needed in this house, she would go back to her own life: she was sure Dorothy could manage. After all, Jane was going to school now. Jane would not have gone to school this year, a proper school, all day, for another year: they had sent her early. Precisely because of Ben, though no one had said it. Alice left, with no suggestion it was because of Ben. But she had told Dorothy, who had told the parents, that Ben gave her the horrors. He must be a changeling. Dorothy, always sensible, calm, matter-of-fact, had laughed at her. “Yes, I laughed at her,” she reported. Then, grim, “But why did I?”
David and Harriet conferred, in the low, almost guilty, incredulous voices that Ben seemed to impose. This baby was not six months old yet … he was going to destroy their family life. He was already destroying it. They would have to make sure that he was in his room at mealtimes and when the children were downstairs with the adults. Family times, in short.
Now Ben was almost always in his room, like a prisoner. He outgrew his barred cot at nine months: Harriet caught him just as he was about to fall over the top. A small bed, an ordinary one, was put into his room. He walked easily, holding on to the walls, or a chair. He had never crawled, had pulled himself straight up on to his feet. There were toys all over the floor—or, rather, the fragments of them. He did not play with them: he banged them on the floor or the walls until they broke. The day he stood alone, by himself, without holding on, he roared out his triumph. All the other children had laughed, chuckled, and wanted to be loved, admired, praised, on reaching this moment of achievement. This one did not. It was a cold triumph, and he staggered about, eyes gleaming with hard pleasure, while he ignored his mother. Harriet often wondered what he saw when he looked at her: nothing in his touch or his look ever seemed to say, This is my mother.
One early morning, something took Harriet quickly out of her bed into the baby’s room, and there she saw Ben balanced on the window-sill. It was high—heaven only knew how he had got up there! The window was open. In a moment he would have fallen out of it. Harriet was thinking, What a pity I came in … and refused to be shocked at herself. Heavy bars were put in, and there Ben would stand on the sill, gripping the bars and shaking them, and surveying the outside world, letting out his thick, raucous cries. All the Christmas holidays he was kept in that room. It was extraordinary how people, asking
—cautiously—“How is Ben?” and hearing, “Oh, he’s all right,” did not ask again. Sometimes a yell from Ben loud enough to reach downstairs silenced a conversation. Then the frown appeared on their faces that Harriet dreaded, waiting for it: she knew it masked some comment or thought that could not be voiced.
And so the house was not the same; there was a constraint and a wariness in everybody. Harriet knew that sometimes people went up to look at Ben, out of the fearful, uneasy curiosity he evoked, when she was out of the way. She knew when they had seen him, because of the way they looked at her afterwards. As if I were a criminal! she raged to herself. She spent far too much of her time quietly seething, but did not seem able to stop. Even David, she believed, condemned her. She said to him, “I suppose in the old times, in primitive societies, this was how they treated a woman who’d given birth to a freak. As if it was her fault. But we are supposed to be civilised!”
He said, in the patient, watchful way he now had with her, “You exaggerate everything.”
“That’s a good word—for this situation! Congratulations! Exaggerate!”
“Oh God, Harriet,” he said differently, helplessly, “don’t let’s do this—if we don’t stand together, then …”
It was at Easter that the schoolgirl Bridget, who had returned to see if this miraculous kingdom of everyday life was perhaps still there, enquired, “What is wrong with him? Is he a mongol?”
“Down’s syndrome,” said Harriet. “No one calls it mongol now. But no, he’s not.”
“What’s wrong with him, then?”
“Nothing at all,” said Harriet airily. “As you can see for yourself.”
Bridget went away, and never came back.
The summer holidays again. It was 1975. There were fewer guests: some had written or rung to say they could not afford the train fare, or the petrol. “Any excuse is better than none,” remarked Dorothy.
“But people are hard up,” said David.
“They weren’t so hard up before that they couldn’t afford to come and live here for weeks at a time at your expense.”
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