by Barbara Dee
Praise for My Life in the Fish Tank
“I loved My Life in the Fish Tank. Once again, Barbara Dee writes about important topics with intelligence, nuance, and grace. She earned all the accolades for Maybe He Just Likes You and will earn them for My Life in the Fish Tank too.”
—Kimberly Brubaker Bradley, author of Fighting Words and Newbery Honor Book The War That Saved My Life
“I felt every beat of Zinny Manning’s heart in this authentic and affecting story. Barbara Dee consistently has her finger on the pulse of her middle-grade audience. Outstanding!”
—Leslie Connor, author of A Home for Goddesses and Dogs and National Book Award finalist The Truth as Told by Mason Buttle
“My Life in the Fish Tank is a powerful portrayal of a twelve-year-old dealing with her sibling’s newly discovered mental illness. Author Barbara Dee deftly weaves in themes of friendship, family, and secrets, while also reminding us all to accept what we can’t control. I truly loved every moment of this emotional and gripping novel, with its notes of hope that linger long after the last page.”
—Lindsay Currie, author of The Peculiar Incident on Shady Street and Scritch Scratch
“My Life in the Fish Tank rings true for its humor, insight, and honesty. Zinny is an appealing narrator, and her friendships with supporting characters are beautifully drawn.”
—Laura Shovan, author of Takedown and A Place at the Table
“Barbara Dee offers a deeply compassionate look at life for twelve-year-old Zinny, whose older brother faces mental health challenges. This touching novel will go a long way in providing understanding and empathy for young readers. Highly recommended.”
—Donna Gephart, award-winning author of Lily and Dunkin and The Paris Project
Praise for Maybe He Just Likes You
“Mila is a finely drawn, sympathetic character dealing with a problem all too common in middle school. Readers will be cheering when she takes control! An important topic addressed in an age-appropriate way.”
—Kimberly Brubaker Bradley, author of Fighting Words and Newbery Honor Book The War That Saved My Life
“In Maybe He Just Likes You, Barbara Dee sensitively breaks down the nuances of a situation all too common in our culture—a girl not only being harassed, but not being listened to as she tries to ask for help. This well-crafted story validates Mila’s anger, confusion, and fear, but also illuminates a pathway towards speaking up and speaking out. A vital read for both girls and boys.”
—Veera Hiranandani, author of Newbery Honor Book The Night Diary
“Mila’s journey will resonate with many readers, exploring a formative and common experience of early adolescence that has too often been ignored. Important and empowering.”
—Ashley Herring Blake, author of Stonewall Children’s & Young Adult Honor Book Ivy Aberdeen’s Letter to the World
“Maybe He Just Likes You is an important, timeless story with funny, believable characters. Mila’s situation is one that many readers will connect with. This book is sure to spark many productive conversations.”
—Dusti Bowling, author of Insignificant Events in the Life of a Cactus
“In this masterful, relatable, and wholly unique story, Dee shows how one girl named Mila finds empowerment, strength, and courage within. I loved this book.”
—Elly Swartz, author of Smart Cookie and Give and Take
“Maybe He Just Likes You is the perfect way to jump-start dialogue between boy and girl readers about respect and boundaries. This book is so good. So needed! I loved it!”
—Paula Chase, author of So Done and Dough Boys
A Washington Post Best Children’s Book
An ALA Notable Children’s Book
A Project LIT Book Club selection
A Bank Street Best Children’s Book
For my family, with endless love
February 21
James Ramos got a haircut yesterday, but so what.
I mean, nothing against his hair: he had a perfectly regular-shaped head and un-clownish ears. And now you could see his eyes (brown), if that was super important to you.
But not to me. Unlike my two best friends, Kailani and Maisie, and probably a whole bunch of other girls in the seventh grade, I wasn’t obsessed with James Ramos, or with his hair. So while we walked to school that morning, and Kailani went on and on about James Ramos And His Haircut, I tried to click on a different mental link.
Think about other stuff, I told myself.
The crayfish we’re getting in science lab.
The fish tanks we’re designing.
All the cool experiments we’ll be doing—
Now Maisie tugged my jacket sleeve. “Don’t you think, Zinny?” she was asking.
“About what, specifically?” I glanced at Kailani, hoping for a clue.
“That James likes Kailani! That he has a crush!”
“Oh, definitely,” I said.
“Zinny.” In the chilly air, Maisie’s skin was pale, and her freckles stood out like punctuation marks. “No offense, but you’re doing that thing again.”
“What thing?”
“You know,” Kailani said gently. “Tuning us out. Pretending we’re not here.”
“That’s not true,” I protested. “I mean, okay, sometimes my mind wanders a little—”
Maisie snorted. “Can I ask you something, Zinny? Why are you walking with us if you don’t want to be with us?”
I couldn’t answer that question.
Even though the words were all in my head:
But I do want to be with you.
To be honest,
with all the stuff going on in my family,
if I didn’t have the two of you,
I couldn’t go to school at all.
Six Months Earlier
“Okay, gang, time to line up,” Dad says.
The four of us groan, because groaning is part of it. Every late August, just before the start of school, Mom and Dad make us pose for the Annual Kid Photo. For this, Dad always takes out his old-fashioned digital camera (“This is not some cell phone picture,” he says) and has us stand on the stairs, each of us on a separate step. We do it in size order, or maybe chronological: Gabriel on the bottom, then Scarlett, then me, with Aiden on the top, like the cherry on a sundae.
The Four Stages of Manning, Dad calls these photos. He always makes this joke, because our last name is Manning, and he likes to pun in a dad sort of way.
We roll our eyes.
But this time Scarlett protests. “You know, Dad, you shouldn’t say the Four Stages of Manning like that means everybody. Because it doesn’t.”
“ ‘Man’ means man and woman,” Gabriel tells her. “It’s inclusive.”
Gabriel is eighteen, just about to go off to college. His know-it-all streak drives Scarlett crazy.
“Bullcrap,” Scarlett tells him. Although she doesn’t say “crap.”
“Scarlett,” Mom says.
“Really, Mom, I just hate it when people say things like that! It’s really offensive to other genders. Including women. And girls.”
“I agree with Scarlett,” I say loudly.
Scarlett flashes a smile and gives me a fist bump. She is sixteen, four years older than me, and her approval matters.
“Stop complaining, you two, and let me shoot this thing,” Dad says, squinting. “Try to move forward a little, everybody. Aiden, bring your head closer to Zinny, and kind of lean into her.”
“Then I’ll lose my balance,” I say.
“No you won’t, Zinny. Lean into Scarlett.”
“Yeah, Scar, but what’s your point?” Gabriel asks. “You’d rather our last name was Manning-or-Wo-manning?”
“We don’
t need to make it binary,” Scarlett says. “We could all just be Hu-manning.”
My big brother laughs. “Well, hate to break it to you, but I’m not calling myself that!”
“How about if we get to choose our last name?” I say, laughing. “We can be Manning, Wo-manning, or Hu-manning!”
“How about if everyone stops talking nonsense and we get this picture over with?” Mom says in her teacher voice. Her high school students love her, I know, but she can be tough.
“Okay, fine,” Scarlett says. “But please stop calling us the Four Stages of Manning, Daddy, because it isn’t funny. And anyway, we’re not stages of anything, because we’re all separate human beings. And we’re not turning into each other.”
“That’s called evolution,” Aiden announces. “We learned about it in school.”
“Already?” Scarlett asks, looking up over her shoulder at our little brother. She always seems surprised that Aiden isn’t a baby anymore. “How did your teacher explain it—did she use the word ‘man’?”
“I don’t remember. I think there were pictures, anyway.”
“Well, Aidy, if your teacher says ‘man’ to mean ‘people in general,’ you should tell her—”
Suddenly Gabriel slumps over and lets out a large grunt. And because we’ve all been leaning into one another, we go sprawling.
“Gabriel, what was that?” Scarlett squeals.
He sticks out his bottom jaw. “I lowest step on evolution ladder! I Early Manning!”
Aiden starts giggling hysterically, the way he does only for Gabriel.
“Omigod, Gabriel!” Scarlett bops him on the head. “You’re such a jerk! I can’t believe we’re even related!”
Mom frowns. “Guys, we can do this all day, if we have to,” she warns. But her eyes are smiling. Even when Gabriel is clowning, wasting time, she’s never mad at him, really.
A few seconds later, Dad snaps the photo. It’s our best Annual Kid Photo ever, the four of us lined up again on the stairs, leaning into one another and laughing.
And, just a few months later, it’s like the bottom step falls out.
No Month, No Date, No Time
Sometimes I think we should have different systems for telling time. I mean like one system for when you go to school, hang out with your friends, play soccer on weekends, blahblahblah. We could call it something like Normal Standard Time.
But there would also be another system, another calendar completely, for when things get weird, or when bad things happen.
Because one thing you notice, when those bad things happen, is that calendars and clocks stop making any sense. Even if they still work perfectly okay, even if the batteries are good, and the cords are plugged in, and all you need to do is turn the page on the cute Rescue Dog of the Month calendar that’s hanging on the fridge, they don’t communicate anything useful. Or even anything your brain can understand.
At least that’s how it seemed in our house.
It was like, after it happened, we were in a different time zone from everybody else.
A parallel universe.
And we needed some kind of new, not-yet-invented time measurement. Abnormal Standard Time.
Also a compass and a map.
Late November. The Day It Happened.
It was strange how when it happened, we all sort of knew beforehand. Something about the way the phone rang that morning screamed bad news.
For one thing, it was the hour: five a.m. Who calls someone’s house that early in the morning?
Unless it’s an emergency.
So when the call came that Monday before Thanksgiving, we all jumped out of our beds. I mean that literally: we jumped. The whole family ran to the kitchen when Dad answered the phone, and we watched him nod and make small coughing sounds as he took out a pencil and pad from the phone shelf. “Yes,” he kept saying. “When? I understand. Thank you.”
He hung up and stared at us with hollow eyes. What had he been thanking the caller for? What did he understand?
“Tell us,” Mom said breathlessly.
“It’s Gabriel,” Dad answered. “There’s been an accident on campus.”
Not: He had an accident.
There’s been.
Mom’s hand flew to her mouth.
“Is he okay?” I asked. “Where is he?”
“At the hospital, Zinny. Gabe wrecked his roommate’s car, and he’s a little banged up right now. He broke his collarbone, but they’re saying he doesn’t need surgery, and he’ll just wear a sling for a while. He’s lucky; sounds like from the condition of the car, it could have been much worse.”
“Rudy wore a sling when he sprained his wrist,” Aiden commented.
I gave my little brother a look that meant Not now.
“So they’ll be releasing Gabriel from the hospital?” Mom asked. She was so pale it was hard to look at her.
I could see Dad working hard to breathe. “It’s not completely clear what the schedule is,” he said, choosing his words one by one. “Apparently there were some concerns about Gabe’s behavior in the emergency room.”
“His behavior? What does that mean?” Scarlett demanded.
“I’m not sure. They just said he seemed a little off. We need more information.” Dad took a second. “I have to drive up to campus now. Get Gabe’s things from his dorm room and bring them to the hospital. I’m sure I’ll know more when I’m there.”
“I’m coming with you!” Mom cried out.
“Please, sweetheart,” Dad begged. “Let me go by myself just now, sort things out a bit, and then you’ll come.”
Of everything he’d said, maybe this was the scariest. Dad doesn’t want Mom to come. Why not?
But of course Mom insisted. And when she was set on something, there was no point arguing.
Ten minutes later they were in Dad’s car, Mom shouting instructions out the window as they pulled out of the driveway. For dinner we could thaw the lasagna that was in the freezer. There was money in the cookie jar, in case we needed anything. Laundry in the dryer. Oh, and we should all have a good breakfast, watch the clock, and not be late for school.
“If she thinks I’m going to school today, she’s crazy,” Scarlett announced.
“Yeah, crazy,” Aiden agreed. I didn’t have the energy to argue with him, especially because I couldn’t imagine going to school myself.
And before we knew it, the house started humming with people Mom must have called from the road. First it was her friends Carrie and Sondra, then assorted neighbors, some I’d met maybe once or twice in my whole life. Then Aiden’s friend-turned-enemy Rudy, with his nosy mom, Mrs. Halloran. Then Kailani and Maisie, on their way to school.
They rang the doorbell, like always. As soon as they saw my face, they could tell it was something bad.
“What’s going on?” Kailani asked in a scared voice.
“Gabriel,” I answered, bursting into tears. And thinking how weird it was that I’d waited all this time to start crying.
My friends hugged me. Somehow they knew not to ask questions. I guess they weren’t sure which questions to ask. Maybe they were afraid to hear my answers.
And Maisie always jumped at the chance to organize. “We’ll tell the teachers you’re going to be absent today,” she said. “And we’ll get all your assignments. Don’t worry about school, Zinny.”
“I’m not,” I said, wiping my face with my hand.
Because why would I be thinking about my social studies homework, or today’s math quiz, or any other school-related trivia, when in the all-important world of my family, my big brother, was—what was the expression Dad had used? “A little off.”
Not just “a little banged up” from a car accident. Something else. Something worse.
Like he’d clicked a button and switched himself from the on setting—but just “a little.” And really, the word “little” made no sense. Like in baseball: Either you were on base or off. Safe or out. Nothing in between.
Unless it
was Dad’s way of making it sound less serious. Although, from the way that phone call had sounded, he didn’t know a whole lot anyway.
* * *
“Shouldn’t we call them?” I asked Scarlett. By three o’clock our house had gone quiet; the grown-ups had all left to meet kids coming home from school. “Don’t you think Mom and Dad know something by now?”
“When they have something to tell us, they’ll call, Zinnia,” Scarlett replied. “They know we’re here waiting.” She pressed her lips at me like I was being a selfish baby.
So I went to my desk and opened my laptop. Looking stuff up, especially science things, had a way of calming me sometimes. Because even if I didn’t understand about black holes or why there’s gravity, it was comforting to know that scientists did.
I typed “collarbone.”
The collarbone, or clavicle, is the only bone that lies horizontally. It is the most commonly fractured bone in the human anatomy. Often the fractures are due to the force from a direct hit.
There were lots of skeleton drawings, but I couldn’t look. It made me feel better, though, to read that collarbone fractures were common. The most common.
I waited all day for Mom and Dad to call with details.
The next time the kitchen phone rang, it was ten o’clock that night, Dad saying he and Mom were leaving the hospital and were on the way home.
Last Day of School, the June Before
“Hey, Zinny? You up for a little celebration?” Gabriel is standing in my doorway, dressed in a faded Lakeland High School tee, tropical-flower shorts, and sunglasses. It’s the last day of the school year, but he’s dressed for mid-July, as if he’s fast-forwarded a few weeks ahead of the rest of us.
I’m still typing. “What for?” I ask.
“What for? You survived sixth grade! Don’t you think that’s a big deal?”
“I guess.”
“Oh, come on, Monkeygirl! Sixth grade is a really long year! Let’s go out for a little spin, just you and me. It’s summer out, remember?”