by Mingmei Yip
“Why do you sound unhappy?” Michael looked surprised. “You’ve been acting strange ever since I got home. Is something wrong?” He paused, then asked tentatively, “Are you still upset about my past with Lisa?”
“No, Michael, I’m fine.” I tried to appear calm, but my cheeks felt hot.
Right then Master Hidden Virtue came up to us and proudly asked, “Dr. Fuller and Miss Du, how did you like our kung fu?”
Michael said, “We loved it. It’s wonderful.”
The Master said, “This way, please, Doctor Fuller and Miss Du, meditation is about to begin.”
The meditation session was led by an octogenarian monk whose emaciated body and hollow-cheeked, coppery face made me think of a pile of dry sticks.
We sat down on meditation cushions amidst the other participants, and Michael, seemingly having forgotten our bickering earlier, leaned close to me. “Meng Ning, this is Master Silent Thunder. Don’t let his decrepit look deceive you; he has the sharpest mind I’ve ever known.”
I didn’t care whether Silent Thunder’s mind was sharp or blunt; I only knew that mine was now a killing field where all the monkeys were let loose-fighting against each other, slashing stomachs, spearing throats, burning tongues. My head ached, my legs cramped, my body fidgeted on the cushion as if it were a bed of nails. I could hardly breathe, let alone concentrate. I peeked at Michael, but he looked as stable as a rock. Then I peered at Silent Thunder. With legs locked in the full lotus position like the roots of a heavily gnarled ancient tree, he looked as light and detached as a cloud. A tide of envy rose inside me.
I was still fidgeting until I felt my elbow poked. Michael cast me a chiding glance, then he said in a heated whisper, “Meng Ning, you should stop that and concentrate on your breathing.”
The session seemed to last forever. Finally when it ended, Silent Thunder started to “open a revelation”-lecture on Zen.
The old monk’s eyes swept across the room like a peal of silent thunder. When they fell on me, I felt as if my body were being brushed by the cool blade of a sharp knife. I shuddered.
He spoke. “One time, the great Song dynasty poet Su Dongpo went to visit his monk friend Buddhist Seal. After they’d finished meditating, Su Dongpo asked his friend, ‘What did I look like during meditation?’
“The monk said, ‘A statue of Buddha.’
“Then the monk asked Su Dongpo, ‘Then what do you think I looked like?’
“Deciding to tease his friend as well as to test his cultivation, Su Dongpo said, ‘A piece of shit,’ expecting the monk to be boiling with anger.
“‘Ah, what a pity!’ Buddhist Seal said, smiling gently. ‘In Buddha’s eyes everyone is pure and possesses Buddha’s nature. But if one’s eyes are smeared by shit then he can see nothing but shit.’”
Barely had Silent Thunder finished when the participants burst into laughter, breaking up the solemn atmosphere. The octogenarian’s deeply tanned face remained as dry as a stick.
I was still chewing on Silent Thunder’s “shitty” revelation when Michael and I stepped outside the Zen center and started walking toward the subway station. It was five in the afternoon and the street was crowded. Ahead of us, a young Chinese couple held hands and talked intimately between giggles. Michael and I held hands, but we neither talked nor laughed. Our minds seemed to be on opposite sides of the Pacific Ocean.
When we were waiting for the light to change, he said, sounding upset, “What is it, Meng Ning? I don’t understand.”
“Understand what?” My voice was as sharp as the monks’ knives.
His eyes looked wounded. “I’ve tried to be nice, but you’re acting like a stranger. You haven’t shown any affection since I came back last night. I can’t read your mind. Won’t you tell me what this is all about?”
“It’s because my mind is full of shit!”
The light turned green and we started to walk. When the crowd thinned, I pulled forward. Michael let go of my hand. He had to be really angry now. Afraid, I hurried back to him and took his hand. “Michael…I’m sorry.”
He looked at me, his gaze intent but wary. “Please, tell me what’s bothering you.”
But I remained stubbornly uncommunicative, bottling up all my feelings.
24. Men Are Nothing but Trouble
Back home, Michael led me to sit down on the sofa. “Meng Ning”-he looked concerned-“what is it? Please tell me.”
I surprised myself by uttering a bitterness I’d never known, nor experienced. “Maybe I should. But I don’t know whether I can trust you, Michael, or your professor, or…your monks.” I knew I was venting the anger caused by my encounters with Lisa and Philip on Michael. I knew I was being absurd. But I couldn’t help it.
Michael looked startled. “Have I been doing something wrong? I thought you enjoyed the martial arts at the Zen center, so now why suddenly bitter? That’s not like you.”
“Maybe from now on it is,” I snapped, then blurted out in spite of myself, “and I should have known it’s dangerous to be too close to the heart of a man, for it spurts nothing but trouble.”
But Michael didn’t get angry; he looked worried instead. “Why are you suddenly angry with men? I’ve never heard you talk like that before. What’s bothering you?”
“I think I should have entered the empty gate to be a nun…”
“What are you talking about? Can you shake yourself out of this?”
“No,” I said bitterly, blaming all my recent disillusionments and confusion and guilt on him. “Michael, I always wanted to be a nun. I never intended to love men, but to avoid them. Then you come along and toss my world upside down…”
He remained silent while staring at me, looking puzzled.
Though feeling powerless and knowing I was being unfair, I couldn’t stop my bitter talk. “Michael, it was never my intention to fall in love with you. I’ve always thought I’d be a nun like Yi Kong, or maybe a single career woman, instead of ending up being a jobless and penniless thirty-year-old spinster.”
Now Michael seemed really stung by my words. “Meng Ning, would you stop all this nonsense?!”
I hugged my knees and buried my face between them, ashamed of my attachment to Michael, my weakness, my meanness to him, my childish attack on men. And, of course, my near-betrayal of him with his ex-fiancée and his best friend.
But then when I looked up and met Michael’s penetrating eyes, my irrationality was fueled anew. “Michael, you have your professor and your meditation and the rich and famous in the art world.”
He swallowed hard, willing himself to calm down. “Why are you talking like this? You know I care about you. Besides, I don’t know why you hold a grudge against Professor Fulton.”
I retorted, “Because he acted cold to me. He hardly even glanced in my direction. He’s a snob.”
“Maybe he’s a bit of a snob, but he helped me through my difficult years after my parents’ deaths. It was he who introduced me to Buddhism and Chinese art, which is what brought us together.
“Whatever his faults, Professor Fulton has done a lot for me. Be honest, Meng Ning. Who wouldn’t jump at the chance to go to a VIP reception at the Met and get a glimpse of a Kennedy and the mayor of New York?”
I held my tongue, realizing what Michael had said was true.
He went on. “I’m not a social climber, if that’s what you think. But I do want to be a part of this art world. Because it gives meaning to my life. Not to mention the privilege of getting close to objects that outsiders wouldn’t even dream of having the chance to see. Meng Ning, it wasn’t easy for me to get myself accepted into this world.” He cast me a meaningful glance. “Professor Fulton has just met you twice. I’m sure he’ll like you; just give him a chance, OK?”
I nodded.
“Now tell me what you don’t like about the monks.”
Because Master Hidden Virtue was bulge-eyed and bucktoothed and his English was heavily accented. I wanted to say this aloud but knew how it would
sound.
“Because they are boring.” That was all I could mutter.
Michael dismissed my opinion with a laugh.
Before he could say anything, I blurted out, “Besides, that Zen center is an eyesore. And it’s a bad influence on you-too much meditation.”
“Meng Ning, meditation is the core of Buddhism. It is what really trains your mind. How can you dismiss it like this?”
“You know what? I think you overwork your intellect with those monks. That’s why you’re so guarded and serious.” I was repeating what Lisa and Philip had told me.
Michael frowned. “What do you mean? I’m not withdrawn. Have I been neglecting you? Don’t I show my affection for you?”
“It’s not that, it’s…” Suddenly I remembered the fortune-teller’s saying:
Your friend also needs to build his yin energy, which he let run down. Although he’s orderly and well organized on the surface, his spirit underneath is restless. He needs more earth and water in his life to balance his fire and metal.
“You’re losing touch with your feminine side.”
“My feminine side?” He looked completely puzzled.
“Michael, you’re always in control.” Seeing that he didn’t respond, I ventured on. “Your life is arranged so perfectly that I don’t see any place for me.”
Michael seemed to be thinking deeply, then he said, his voice pained, “Why are you telling me these things? That’s not like you.”
He’d never sounded like this before and it made me worry. I knew I was being mean and unfair to him to cover my guilt. I’d never talked like this to anyone, but then I’d never even had a boyfriend. “Michael, I’m sorry. I don’t mean to hurt your feelings.”
“But you just did.”
“I’m so sorry.”
“Art has been my great solace in life. That is, until I met you. So how can you say that you don’t see a place for you in my life? You realize how that hurts me?”
“Oh, Michael…”
“Please understand.” Michael’s voice turned gentle. “Besides Professor Fulton, I’m also very grateful for the monks in the Vegetable Root Zen Center. Their meditation teaching helped me through a lot of the stresses in my life.”
“Like what?”
“Problems at work, when I broke up with Lisa, after she’d aborted our son, the car accident…” As if realizing something, he suddenly stopped in midsentence.
“What car accident?”
“I don’t want to talk about it now.”
“Now is the only time, Michael. What car accident?”
His face looked pained. “The one that caused Lisa’s limp.”
Before I had time to absorb the shock, Michael said, “I was driving.”
“Oh heavens, what happened?”
“We were on the way to a gallery opening, quarrelling over her abortion. Then I missed a red light and the car crashed. Miraculously I was not even scratched, but poor Lisa…”
Jealousy swelled inside me like a dam about to burst. “Michael, do you still love her?”
“No! What kind of a question is this? I’m in love with you!” He paused to smooth back his hair. “Do you know how it feels to make someone-someone you care about-a cripple? You have no idea!” He paused, then said, “Anyway, I do feel I owe her because of the accident.”
“Was that the reason you stayed with her for so long?”
“Yes, partly, and maybe to pacify Professor Fulton.”
“Did he blame you for that?”
“Yes and no. But of course he was heartbroken.”
“But the whole thing is not entirely your fault!”
“This is not a question of whose fault it was, Meng Ning. The result is that it cost Lisa her leg.”
“Then what made you finally decide to leave?”
“Enough is enough. After that, she went back to Philip Noble.”
“What?” I could hear my voice, sharp like a thrusting Zen knife.
“Philip and Lisa were high school sweethearts. The most handsome couple, they were chosen by the school’s drama club to play Romeo and Juliet over and over. But she only went back to him for a short time. After that, she started sleeping with lots of people, both men and women, so I hear.”
My ears felt on fire while I remained silent, completely shocked and drained by this unexpected and unwelcome revelation.
Michael changed the subject. “Meng Ning, I believe it’s good karma that Lisa finally left. Otherwise I would never have met you. Now you know my past, and please, let’s just leave it at that. Will you?”
I nodded, still too shocked to say anything.
Michael looked more relaxed now. “And you’re not going to be a nun, Meng Ning. Sorry, but I just don’t see a nun in you, except in your head. Time now to wake up from this nun dream. Besides, just as you think that the monks are not a very good influence on me, I’d tell you neither is Yi Kong an entirely good influence on you.”
“Why?”
“All these prejudices against men.”
“But she’s guided me since I was thirteen.”
“I’m just telling you things you’ve been choosing to ignore. Yi Kong may be a good nun, but her calling is completely different from yours. You could have become a nun years ago, but you didn’t. Besides, being a nun won’t get rid of men, if that’s what you think.”
“No, Michael, Yi Kong doesn’t care about men!”
“You really believe that?”
“Of course!”
“Maybe she doesn’t,” Michael said matter-of-factly, “but I’m sure that won’t stop her from wanting their money. If Yi Kong is as successful as you say, I’m sure she has to deal with men all the time, helping her with her projects or donating to her temple-”
“Michael, you don’t know her, so don’t criticize her!”
“You really believe she got all her donations to build a school, an orphanage, a nursing home, a museum, and to reconstruct the whole nunnery only from women?”
I was speechless.
Michael went on. “Instead of just letting you worship Guan Yin and recite the Heart Sutra, I think your mentor should have encouraged you to meditate more.”
“She did. But I don’t care about it.”
“But that’s the only way to free yourself from your prejudices. I don’t say your devotional feelings are bad, Meng Ning. But, after all, Guan Yin is just a symbol.”
A long pause. Then Michael’s voice turned gentler. “Meng Ning, you don’t know what Yi Kong really had gone through before she entered the empty gate. If she has no idea what it’s like to be loved by a man, then how can she be so sure that that kind of love is illusory?
“We’re all going to die someday, whether inside or outside the empty gate. We cannot avoid death, but no one should die filled with regret over denying one’s heart. And don’t judge all men by your experience with your father. Nobody has two Buddhas as parents.”
Suddenly I felt mortified and eager for physical intimacy. Yet Michael, sitting easily beside me, didn’t seem to have any idea what to do.
Finally he asked, “What do you want me to do, Meng Ning?”
I remained silent.
He reached toward me, pulling me to him, and kissed me. Then, as if suddenly thinking of something, he stood up, walked to his briefcase, took something out, and returned to hand me an embroidered Chinese pouch. “I bought this for you in Boston.”
“What is it?” I asked, unzipping the pouch.
It was a jade bracelet.
I felt tears stinging my eyes and a pebble stuck in my throat so I couldn’t talk.
Michael looked at me tenderly. “You like it?” His eyes were green, translucent, and flawless like my grandmother’s jade bracelet.
I nodded.
“I’m sorry you lost your jade bracelet. I hope this can cheer you up a bit.” He cupped my face; my heart pounded at his soft breaths.
“You break my heart when you look so sad,” he said, then kissed me aga
in.
He went on: “I know your father gambled away the bracelet you meant to inherit. I’d love you to have another one.” Lovingly, Michael slipped the bracelet onto my hand. But it hung pathetically loose on my wrist.
“Can we size it?” he asked, now looking extremely dejected.
“I’m sorry, but I don’t think so, Michael.”
“I feel so bad. What…are we going to do with it?”
Silence, then I said, “Why don’t we give it to my mother as a gift?”
Michael’s face seemed shrunk, his voice sad. “If that’s what you want-”
“Michael, I’m sorry…”
He looked completely crushed.
My heart, like a knocked-over shelf of condiments, spilled a hundred different feelings and flavors.
25. The Funeral
The next morning, the air between Michael and me was still tense. We ate our breakfast quietly, without much talking. After that, he planted a kiss on my forehead. “Meng Ning, I’ll be coming home a little early tonight, around six.” Then he left like a breeze.
Toward four in the afternoon, I suddenly realized I needed to go grocery shopping to replenish the almost empty fridge. By the time I arrived home, it was five. After I’d closed the door behind me I saw, to my surprise, Michael. He was sitting on the sofa and looking very pale. My heart started to pound. Something must have gone wrong; otherwise he wouldn’t be home so early. Had he found out what happened between me and Philip, or me and Lisa?
I put down the groceries by the door, then hurried to sit next to him on the sofa, feigning calm. “Michael, you all right?”
“Some very bad news,” he said, looking pained and on the verge of tears.
My heart flipped. “What is it?”
“Professor Fulton died this afternoon. I tried to call you, but there was no answer.”