Chapter Sixteen
Ashton
To say I was pissed at Artimus for bringing in a shrink as he held me captive in his office would be an understatement. But as mad as I was, I didn’t take it out on him. He was doing what he thought a friend should do.
But I also wasn’t promising to give this Jasmine Patel woman more than one session with me. As soon as the words came out of her mouth, telling me that I had to put Natalia behind me, I was going to let her know that I did not need her services.
“I will leave you to it then, Dr. Patel,” Artimus said as soon as she arrived.
Sitting in one of the chairs, I almost didn’t bother to get up. But then I knew that would be rude of me, and I went to her with my hand extended. “Ashton Lange, Dr. Patel. It’s nice to meet you.”
“It’s so nice to meet you too, Mr. Lange.” She gestured to the chairs. “Please, sit, and let’s get comfortable while you tell me all about this fiancée of yours.”
Taking a seat, I began, “Natalia Reddy stole my heart from the moment I laid eyes on her. And getting to know her only cemented in my heart the love I had for her. And that is where I plan to keep her.”
She had a pad of paper and a pen in hand, but she didn’t write down anything that I’d just said. Instead, she smiled at me. “Of course you want to keep her in your heart. She belongs there. Her body is no more, but she is still with you in many ways. She always will be, Mr. Lange.” Adjusting herself in the chair to get more comfortable, she crossed her legs at the ankles and took a more laidback stance. “I am not here to erase your fiancée. I don’t want you to worry about that, or get defensive with me. I am only here to help you.”
That did make me feel more comfortable with her, though I was still a little on edge. She’d been a bit too on the nose with that, and it made me wonder if Artimus had somehow had a chance to talk to her beforehand and tell her my fears. “Thank you. I was deeply afraid that anyone in your profession would think I needed to get Natalia out of my head and heart in order to move on with my life.”
“You must learn to absorb her better.” A wide smile moved across her face. She wasn’t old, but she wasn’t young either. Maybe in her late thirties. Maybe she could help me after all. “I need to let you know a bit about what you may be dealing with here. A number of research studies have proven that spousal bereavement is a major source of life stress that often leaves people vulnerable to later problems, including depression, chronic stress, and even reduced life expectancy.”
That was news to me. “I could have a shortened life expectancy?”
“You could if you don’t get help, Mr. Lange.” With a brief nod, she went on. “The grief process commonly takes months, sometimes years, to subside. There are a small number of people who experience symptoms for a much longer period of time. In some cases, these symptoms resemble other psychiatric conditions such as Major Depressive Disorder, also called MDD. At times it can be impossible to tell if a person is suffering from the disorder or just suffering from grief.”
It was hard to believe that I had a disorder. “I have Major Depressive Disorder? I’ve always considered myself a happy guy.”
“I didn’t say you have MDD,” she clarified herself. “I said the symptoms of that disorder are the same as the grieving process. Now tell me, and answer honestly, please, did you cry after her death?”
“I cried a lot. And I do mean a lot.” In the beginning, it was almost nonstop. “And at times I still do.”
Now her pen went to the pad of paper on her lap. “Can you tell me when the last time you cried over her was?”
“A little over two weeks ago.” I recalled the last time I’d dreamt about her. “I woke up from a dream about her that ended with the crash that took her away from me. I’ve had that dream about once a week for the past four years, and every time I wake up screaming and crying for her to wake up. But I’m okay with that.”
Shaking her head, she wrote something down about that. “You shouldn’t be okay with that.”
“I’m not here to lose Natalia, Dr. Patel.” It was time to be truthful with the woman. “I’m here to get this other woman off my mind so my fiancée can come back into it.”
“No,” came her quick response as she kept writing things down about me.
No? “What do you mean, no?”
She looked up from the paper to look me in the eyes with a stern expression. “I will not help you to live an unhealthy life, Mr. Lange. I am here to help you. Now, please tell me how often you’ve expressed your grief to anyone else?”
I had talked to Nina and Duke, and even Artimus about Natalia. But I had never cried with them or anything like that. Nor anyone else for that matter. I kept it all to myself. “Um, I don’t share it.”
I had earned another shake of her head. “Ah, but you need to share it.”
“I’ve shared more about Natalia with the woman I’m currently trying to get off my mind than I have with anyone else,” I confided in her. “But I definitely don’t want to talk to her about it anymore. It made me feel close to her. It made me start fantasizing about her. It made me dream about her instead of Natalia.”
After jotting down more notes, she looked at me with concern, her voice echoing that same emotion, “What do you think is wrong with feeling close to someone?”
I thought about that for a long moment before answering, “It wouldn’t be so bad, but it’s pushing Natalia out. I don’t want her pushed out.”
“She’s no longer here, Mr. Lange,” she felt the need to point out.
“She was,” I said. “At least in my dreams. That is until I went and shared her memory with Nina. Now she’s gone.”
More scribbling on the paper. So much that she had to turn to a new page to keep on writing. I knew it was pretty bad if she was doing all that writing. “Where are Natalia’s things, Mr. Lange?”
“All I have of her now is a picture of her that I keep in my wallet.” I pulled my wallet out to get the picture and show it to her. Leaning forward, I let her see it, and she nodded before I put it away. “Her family came and took all of her things away. They said it would help me heal faster.”
“Ah!” She pointed a finger in the air as if she’d found the solution. Which I’d hoped she had. “I do believe we’ve stumbled upon something here, Mr. Lange. You see, it’s important for the spouse who’s left behind to be able to hold onto the personal possessions that the deceased left behind. It should’ve been left up to you to decide when and what you would get rid of that belonged to Natalia. I am sure they didn’t mean to harm you in any way, but they did harm you. That is a critical step in the grieving process.”
“I did feel way more out of it after they came and took everything away,” I recalled. “It had only been five days since her death when they did that. It was her father who thought it would help me. I couldn’t get out of bed after the accident. I did manage to pull my ass out of bed long enough to attend her funeral, which was only 36 hours after she’d passed away. I felt it was all happening way too fast. The only other funeral I had ever attended was that of my grandfather, and it was held three days after his death. They did everything so damn fast. I felt lost.”
Her eyes became soft and caring. “I believe your fiancée was Hindu? That is the Hindu way, Mr. Lange. Were you unaware of that aspect of her and her family’s religious beliefs?”
“Very unaware, I guess. It all hit me so hard. Everything just moved so fast, and everyone seemed in such a hurry to get things done. It never made sense to me,” I finally admitted it. I had never even thought about how I felt back then. “It was like I was watching a movie or something. Things happened that I wasn’t a part of. It was all so disconcerting.”
“While we cannot go back in time to change everything that happened, we can do it mentally,” she let me know. “We have our starting point, Mr. Lange. Your healing can now begin. Natalia doesn’t belong in your dreams all the time, or even once a week the way you think she does. She has a
place in your memory though, and in your heart, always. And it’s my opinion, as your therapist, that you should nurture any friendship with someone who you feel you’re able to share this part of your past with—even the woman you spoke of earlier.”
She had no idea how afraid I was of Nina, and of what might happen between us. “But what if I fall in love with her in the process?”
“Then good for you both.” She threw her hands up in the air. “Love is wonderful. And if you do get the chance to fall in love not once, but twice, you are doubly blessed.”
“If that’s so, then why do I feel so afraid when I think of love?” I had to ask her that, because I couldn’t quite figure it out myself.
“Because you have healing left to do over the loss you’ve suffered.” With a nod, she came to a conclusion, “In my opinion, you do not suffer from MDD at all. But you are suffering from grief. Healing and grief, they’re both processes, and there’s no telling when they start and when they end. But you’re doing a very good thing by sitting here and talking with me, and we’ll be able to help you move forward with your life.”
She had already helped me more than I’d expected. But I hadn’t been completely honest with her. “Dr. Patel, there’s more. Before you go and count out the MDD thing.”
Her brows lifted. “More?”
“Yes, more.” I swallowed hard because I knew this was big. “You see, I was driving that day. It had begun to rain, and the car slipped on the road. I lost control and ended up in the median, hitting a tree. That’s when Natalia was killed. It was my fault.”
Her eyes went to the floor. She made a long, deep sigh before saying. “That is indeed a tragic accident.” Then she looked right into my eyes. “Do you understand the meaning of the word accident, Mr. Lange?”
“I do. But I also know there were a number of things I could’ve done to prevent that accident from occurring.” And here I was again, trying to explain to someone who had no clue what it felt like to have the blood of someone you love on your hands.
It just didn’t wash away that damn easily.
When she stood up, I thought she was going to leave. Instead, she pulled up the sleeve of her shirt, and I saw a long, jagged scar on the inside of her arm. “This is from an injury I sustained when I was nineteen. It was the middle of the night. Everyone was asleep in my home. My parents, my grandparents, my six sisters, and my brothers too. I woke to the smell of smoke.” Her eyes were glued to mine. “The curtain in my bedroom was on fire. Flames shot up the wall, and in no time, they traveled to the ceiling. I didn’t tell anyone what was happening.”
“Why not?” I asked.
“Because I had been smoking marijuana in my bedroom earlier that night. When I fell asleep, the joint fell out of my fingers, down to the floor beside my bed, and lit the curtain on fire.” Her lips formed one straight line as she let that sink in before she went on, “That fire engulfed our entire home. Thankfully, my father had installed smoke alarms in the home, and they all got out before anyone was hurt.”
I pointed at her arm. “That doesn’t explain the scar.”
Shaking her head, she said, “No, it doesn’t. Because this is the rest of that story. I couldn’t get out of my bedroom. The fire trapped me in. And there’s more. I had my six-month-old baby in the room with me. I finally managed to break the glass in one of my windows, and I cut my arm when I pulled it back in after passing my baby through the window to my mother, who had come to find us.”
“Oh. So, you felt guilt about burning down the family home.” It wasn’t quite the same as my guilt, but I understood where she was coming from.
“Yes, I felt guilt over that. But what nearly killed me was the death of my baby girl, Mr. Lange. She died of smoke inhalation that night. And that was entirely my fault.” She took her seat again, still holding her head high and looking at me. “That was my firstborn child. I loved her more than life itself. I cried for weeks, then months, then an entire year went by, and finally, the tears began to subside. But my love for her has never stopped. It never will. I now have a husband and four children. Do you think I am wrong for moving on, Mr. Lange?”
Hell, no!
Chapter Seventeen
Nina
Saturday morning, I woke up with a hangover and decided to go right back to sleep. I slept that day away, and then later that night, Sandy tried in vain to get me to go out again. I wasn’t about to do a repeat of Friday night. “No way.”
“Come on, Nina. You had fun last night. Admit it, already.” She tossed a glossy black pump onto my bed, which I was still lying in. “You can borrow these, if you want to.”
“Why would I do that? My feet still hurt from the pair of heels I borrowed from you last night.” I sat up to pull one of my feet up so that I could massage it. “Besides, Ty and I left on good terms at the end of the night. If I go out again and he’s there—”
“He will be. He’s coming with Sloan and me again,” she interrupted me. “And he said he really hoped you would come along too. He likes you, you know.”
“He’s a good guy.” I had to give him that. He hadn’t put any pressure on me at all. But I didn’t want to hang out with anyone or go out. I just didn’t feel up to it. “But I’m out for tonight. We’ll see what next weekend brings.”
Sandy gave me puppy dog eyes. “He’s going to be disappointed.”
“Well, he better get used to it where I’m concerned. He may as well get that out of the way now.” I knew Ty would take all the slack I gave him. I didn’t want to lead the man on, though.
Eventually Sandy left me alone, and I started reading a book. It was a real page-turner about an ex-Marine who had found a lost love. One who had secretly had his baby a few years back. The poor guy had PTSD and it made for a really hard time in making his newly found family work.
I stayed up till three in the morning to finish the book, but it was worth it. When I put my Kindle away, I thought about the story I had read. Ashton kind of had the same kind of problem as the main character. He’d had a tragedy in his life that had altered him.
The anger he’d shown hadn’t made any sense to me before, but I thought I was coming to understand it a bit more.
He and I had gotten along great that weekend. It must have done something to trigger him in some way. I was sure something had to have sprung forward in his mind that had him wanting to stay away from me.
What I couldn’t understand was why he didn’t think he could talk to me about it. He and I had been friends too long for him to just turn away from me. First and foremost, I was his friend. He knew that.
When sleep finally found me, I dreamt about a car wreck. It wasn’t apparent who was involved. It was as if I was watching from above. Like in a helicopter or something.
People were rushing everywhere as a car burned. Sirens wailed, police cars and ambulances showed up. In the end, one lone figure slumped against a police car. The pain and anguish reached me through the dream, and I woke up crying.
The sun was shining through the window, letting me know it had only been a dream. But that pain and misery were still working on me. It felt terrible.
A hot shower helped me get rid of the lingering memory of the dream. I made some breakfast. Bagels and cream cheese with a glass of apple juice to start my day.
Grabbing my laundry, I got busy taking care of the mundane, typical Sunday chores. Cleaning my bedroom, washing the laundry, then sprucing up the living room and kitchen made the day go by fast.
With nothing else to do after dinner, I looked for a new book to read on my Kindle. A knock at the door stole my attention away from the device, however. “Now who could that be?”
It was about seven in the evening. I hadn’t expected anyone to be coming over. Both of my roommates were out too, so no one would be coming to see them.
Putting down the Kindle, I went to answer the door. Looking out the peephole, I saw a face that made me smile before I could stop myself and remember all the reasons why I should
n’t be smiling at him.
I opened the door, and a huge bouquet of red roses filled my sight. “It’s me. The jackass. I’ve come to beg for your forgiveness.” The flowers lowered, and there was Ashton’s handsome face. “Can you ever forgive me, Nina?”
I stepped back to allow him to come in. “Maybe. Care to plead your case?”
He came in and placed a kiss on my cheek as he passed me. “I will explain it all to you.” Putting the vase of flowers on the coffee table, he pulled a box of chocolates out of his jacket and placed them next to it. “I thought candy might help too.”
“It never hurts.” I took a seat and grabbed the box to see what kind of candy it had in it. “Yes, I love the kind with lots of nuts. You did good, Ashton.”
He took a seat on the chair across from me. “Glad to hear that. After a week of doing terribly, hearing that I’m doing well is a relief.”
As I unwrapped a peanut cluster, I eyed him. He looked a little different to me. “So, what happened to you?” I was pretty glad I’d read that book the night before. It had turned a lot of my anger into empathy, though I was still ready to hear him grovel a little for my forgiveness.
His blue eyes cut away from me. I knew he was kind of embarrassed by the way he’d acted. “Nina, I wanted to be away from you because I was blaming you for something.”
“Did I do something I wasn’t aware of?” I asked him, then popped the chocolate into my mouth.
He nodded, making me raise my eyebrow. I couldn’t think of what the heck I might’ve done. “You see, I really like you.”
“Okay. That’s not a bad thing.” I picked up my bottle of water off the table. “You want something to drink? I’ve got water, and I think I’ve got beer in there too.”
“No,” he said as he shook his head. “I’m okay. I just want to get this off my chest.”
“Sure. Go ahead.” I waited to hear what he had to say.
The way he hesitated told me he was finding it hard to start, but he finally did. “I had a lot of fun last weekend with you. And all that fun made me forget a day that’s been the most important day in my life for a few years now. I was reminded finally of what day it was when the guys and I went to the pub while you girls were shopping. Sunday was the anniversary of Natalia’s death.”
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