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by Staci Haines

(The C. Henry Kempe Center for the

  Prevention and Treatment of Child Abuse

  and Neglect)

  Nationally known institute. Offers model programs for treatment of children, offenders and families. Resource library. Offers professional training.

  1205 Oneida Street

  Denver, CO 80220

  (303) 321-3963

  National Child Abuse Hotline

  A 24-hour child abuse hotline. Trained crisis counselors provide crisis intervention, information and referrals. (800) 4-A-CHILD

  National Children’s Advocacy Center

  Presents national conferences on child sexual assault.

  200 Westside Square, Suite 700

  Huntsville, AL 35801

  (205) 534-1328

  Fax: (205) 534-6883

  National Committee to Prevent Child Abuse

  Good prevention resources, conferences, and newsletter.

  332 S. Michigan Avenue, Suite 1600

  Chicago, IL 60604

  web: http//www.childabuse.org

  Norma J. Morris Center

  A center for accessible healing for survivors of any form of child abuse. Their motto is prevention through healing.

  PO Box 14038

  San Francisco, CA 94114-0038

  (415) 452-1939

  Fax: (415) 452-6253

  www.ascasupport.org

  Parents United International

  The treatment program includes individual and group therapy as well as a guided self-help component. Treatment is available for survivors, non-offending parents, and offenders.

  232 Gish Road

  San Jose, CA 95112

  (408) 453-7616, ext. 124

  RAINN

  Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network

  Started by songwriter Tori Amos. National hotline linked to rape crisis centers; refers callers to survivor resources for support.

  252 10th Street, N.E.

  Washington, DC 20002

  (800) 656-HOPE

  Fax: (202) 544-1404

  Sage Publications, Inc.

  Numerous publications on child abuse and prevention.

  2455 Teller Road

  Thousand Oaks, CA 91320-2218

  (805) 499-9774

  Fax: (805) 499-0871

  Santa Cruz Ritual Abuse Task Force

  Resources for survivors and education for the public.

  PO Box 1640

  Santa Cruz, CA 95060-1640

  (408) 429-2322

  members.cruzio.com/~ratf

  Survivor Connections

  An activist organization for survivors of clergy abuse and those who support them.

  Frank and Sara Fitzpatrick

  52 Lyndon Road

  Cranston, RI 02905-1121

  (401) 941-2548

  VOICES in Action, Inc.

  A national network of incest survivors and supporters. Includes over a hundred special interest support groups.

  P.O. Box 14830

  Chicago, IL 60614

  (312) 327-1500

  (800) 786-4238

  Survivors Healing Center

  Founded by Ellen Bass and Amy Pine, this center provides resources, classes, and healing support for survivors of childhood sexual abuse.

  2301 Mission Street, Suite C-1

  Santa Cruz, CA 95060

  (831) 423-7601

  Women’s Center Incest Resources

  The center provides resource materials and referrals for survivors and professionals. Also available are consultation, training, and therapy.

  c/o Women’s Center

  46 Pleasant Street

  Cambridge, MA 02139

  RELATIONSHIPS

  Books

  Conscious Loving:

  The Journey to Co-Commitment by Gay Hendricks, Ph.D. and Kathlyn Hendricks, Ph.D. (Bantam Books, 1990).

  Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. (Henry Holt andCompany, 1988).

  Lesbian Couples: Creating Healthy Relationships for the 90s by D. Merilee Clunis (Seal Press, 1993).

  The Lesbian and Gay Book of Love and Marriage: Creating the Stories of Our Lives by Paula Martinac (Broadway Books, 1998).

  The Passionate Marriage: Sex, Love and Intimacy in Emotionally Committed Relationships by David Schnarch, Ph.D. (W.W. Norton and Co., 1997).

  ADDICTION AND RECOVERY

  Recovery Resources, Organizations, and Hotlines

  Alcoholics Anonymous

  The original Twelve-Step program which has helped millions of alcoholics.

  Box 459, Grand Central Station

  New York, NY 10163

  (212) 647-1680

  www.alcoholics-anonymous.org/

  Al-Anon Family Groups

  Support groups for family members of alcoholics.

  P.O. Box 862, Midtown Station

  New York, NY 10018

  (800) 356-9996

  [email protected]

  www.al-anon.org/

  Center for Sexual Abuse Treatment

  National Drug Abuse Hotline

  Information line with referrals to treatment programs.

  (800) 662-HELP

  Debtors Anonymous

  Twelve-Step program for people with problems with debting and spending. Write for meetings in your area or look in your local phone book.

  General Service Office

  PO Box 920888

  Needham, MA 02492-0009

  (781) 453-2743

  Fax: (781) 453-2745

  [email protected]

  www.debtorsanonymous.org/

  Narcotics Anonymous

  Twelve-Step program for people in recovery from drug addiction.

  World Service Office, Inc.

  P.O. Box 9999

  Van Nuys, CA 91409

  (818) 780-3951

  Fax: (818) 785-0923

  www.na.org/

  Overeaters Anonymous

  Twelve-Step program for people in recovery from compulsive overeating.

  World Service Office

  6075 Zenith Court N.E.

  Rio Rancho, NM 87124

  (505) 891-2664

  Fax: (505) 891-4320

  www.overeatersanonymous.org/

  Recovery Systems, Inc.

  Offers a nutritional approach to recovery from addiction and healing the body from drug or alcohol abuse, the impact of nicotine or refined sugars, and the results of trauma on the health of the body. The founder Julia Ross is the author of The Diet Cure (Viking, 1999).

  147 Lomita Drive, Suite D

  Mill Valley, CA 94941

  (415) 458-8446

  (800) 458-8446

  www.dietcure.com

  Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous

  Twelve-Step program for people in recovery from sex and love addiction.

  The Augustine Fellowship

  P.O. Box 338

  Norwood, MA 02062-0338

  (781) 255-8825

  [email protected]

  www.slaafws.org/

  Women for Sobriety

  Provides referrals to self-help groups for women with addictions.

  P.O. Box 618

  Quakertown, PA 18951

  (215) 536-8026

  (800) 333-1606

  www.womenforsobriety.org/

  SOMATIC HEALING

  Books

  The Anatomy of Change: A Way to Move Through Life’s Transitions by Richard Strozzi Heckler. (North Atlantic Books, 1984, 1993).

  Anatomy of the Spirit: The Seven Stages of Power and Healing by Caroline Myss, Ph.D. (Three Rivers Press, 1996).

  At the Speed of Life: A New Approach to Personal Change Through Body-Centered Therapy by Gay Hendricks (Bantam Books, 1993).

  The Body Has Its Reasons by Therese Bertherat and Carol Bernstein (Healing Arts Press, 1989).

  The Body in Recovery: Somatic Psychotherapy and the Self by John Conger (Frog, Ltd., 1994).

  Body Voices: Using the Power of Breath, Sound and Movement to Heal and Create by Carolyn Braddock
(Page Mill Press, 1995).

  Body-Centered Psychotherapy: The Hakomi Method by Ron Kurtz (LifeRhythm, 1990).

  Dreambody: The Body’s Role in Revealing the Self by Arnold Mindell (Routledge and Kegan Paul, 1983).

  Embodying Experience: Forming a Personal Life by Stanley Keleman (Center Press, 1987).

  Emotional Anatomy by Stanley Keleman (Center Press, 1985).

  Getting in Touch: A Guide to New Body-Centered Therapies by Christine Caldwell, Ph.D. (Quest Books, 1997).

  Getting Our Bodies Back by Christine Caldwell (Shambhala, 1996).

  The Intuitive Body: Aikido as a Clairsentient Practice by Wendy Palmer (North Atlantic Books, 1994)

  The Life We Are Given: A Long-Term Program for Realizing the Potential of Body, Mind, Heart and Soul by George Leonard and Michael Murphy (G.P. Putnam’s Sons, 1995).

  Transforming Body Image by Marcia Germaine Hutchinson (Crossing Press, 1985).

  Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma by Peter A. Levine. (North Atlantic Books, 1997).

  Your Body Never Lies by Carmen R. Berry (Page Mill Press, 1993).

  Somatics Training Institutes

  Alive and Well! Institute of Conscious Bodywork

  Somatic education including bodywork, synergy and movement.

  100 Shaw Drive

  San Anselmo, CA 94960

  (888) 259-5961

  www.alivewell.com

  The Body Esteem Workshop

  Created by Rita Hovakimian, this workshop is designed to assist women and teen girls in healing their relationships with their bodies and being fully expressed in their lives.

  (415) 661-5037

  [email protected]

  Continuum

  Founded by Emilie Conrad, Continuum focuses on primary movement common to all life, enhancing and augmenting fluid movement for health and healing.

  1629 18th Street #7

  Santa Monica, CA 90404

  (310) 453-4402

  [email protected]

  www.home.earthlink.net/~contimuummove

  Foundation of Human Enrichment

  Somatic Experiencing training in somatics and trauma. Based on the work of Peter Levine.

  P.O. Box 1872

  Lyons, CO 80540

  (303) 823-9524

  www.traumahealing.com

  The Hakomi Institute

  P.O. Box 1873

  Boulder, CO 80306

  (303) 443-6209

  The Hendricks Institute

  Based upon the work of Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks. Body oriented personal and relationship transformation work.

  1187 Coast Village Road, Suite 109

  Santa Barbara, CA 93108-2794

  (805) 565-1870 or 800/688-0772

  The Institute for Embodiment Training

  Meditation based somatic workshops and training.

  R.R. 2 Cobble Hill

  B.C., Canada VOR 1LO

  (250) 743-5971

  [email protected]

  The Institute for Women’s Leadership

  A global resource for empowering women leaders in all sectors of society led by Rayona Sharpnack. The Institute provides a comprehensive array of cutting-edge training and services to bring about the changes ranging from a new future for an organization to the creation and implementation of projects and initiatives for global transformation.

  PO Box 58

  Redwood City, CA 94064

  (800) 274-8449

  www.womensleadership.com

  [email protected]

  Lomi Applied Somatics

  Developed by Robert Hall and Richard Heckler in the Lomi School, this somatic approach combines Polarity Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, Vipasana meditation, and Aikido. Workshops and training for practitioners.

  Lomi Community Clinic

  600 B Street

  Santa Rosa, CA 95401

  (707) 579-0465

  Rancho Strozzi Institute

  Founded by Richard Heckler, RSI is a center for the study of somatics and leadership. They offer training, coaching, and long-term practices in building a “body” or the embodied self of a leader. RSI works with individuals, nonprofit organizations, corporations, and government agencies. This somatic discourse includes working with language as well.

  4101 Middle Two Rock Road

  Petaluma, CA 94952

  (707) 778-6505

  [email protected]

  Rosen Method Bodywork

  Based upon the work of Marion Rosen.

  www.mcn.org/b/rosen/default.html

  The Berkeley Center

  Berkeley, CA

  (510) 845-6606

  Fax: (510) 845-8114

  [email protected]

  Rosen Center East

  Westport, CT

  (203) 319-1090

  Fax: (203) 319-0032

  The Rubenfeld Synergy Center

  Teaching the work of Ilana Rubenfeld, this gentle somatic approach integrates the body, mind, emotions, and spirit.

  115 Waverly Place

  New York, NY 10011

  (800) 747-6897

  [email protected]

  Tamalpa Institute

  An integrative approach to movement, the expressive arts, and therapeutic models supporting personal, interpersonal, and social transformation. Founded by Anna Halprin.

  P.O. Box 794

  Kentfield, CA 94914

  (41) 457-8555

  [email protected]

  Tara Mandala Retreat Center

  Tsultrim Allione is the spiritual teacher and founder of Tara Mandala. Numerous courses and retreats available in Tibetan Buddhist and various Native American traditions.

  P.O. Box 3040

  Pagosa Springs, CO 81147

  (970) 264-6177

  SEX-POSITIVE SEX INFORMATION

  Books

  GENERAL INTEREST SEX GUIDES

  101 Nights of Great Sex by Laura Corn (Park Avenue Publishing, 1996). Tips on fantasy fulfillment and sexual technique in a book with “sealed pages” to enhance surprise.

  All About Birth Control: The Complete Guide by Planned Parenthood (Three Rivers Press/Crown, 1998). Information on all forms of contraception, from condoms to the morning after pill.

  Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin, Ph.D. (Down There Press, 1998). Advice for women and men interested in exploring anal eroticism.

  Ebony Erotica: A Lover’s Guide to Sexual Positions by Rodger Jacobs (California Exotic Novelties, 1996). A photo-illustrated guide specifically for African-American heterosexual couples.

  The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin, Ph.D. (HarperCollins, 1995). A guide to increasing and enhancing arousal.

  The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt (Greenery Press, 1998). Information and advice about responsible nonmonogamy and polyamory.

  Exhibitionism for the Shy by Carol Queen (Down There Press, 1995). Advice on communicating sexual desires.

  The Fine Art of Erotic Talk: How to Entice, Excite and Enchant Your Lover with Words by Bonnie Gabriel (Bantam Doubleday Dell, 1996). Tips on erotic talk and sexual communication.

  Good Vibrations: The Complete Guide to Vibrators by Joani Blank (Down There Press, 1989). Advice on buying and enjoying vibrators.

  The Good Vibrations Guide to Adult Videos by Cathy Winks (Down There Press, 1998). Reviews of X-rated videos, along with tips on viewing.

  The Great Sex Weekend by Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D. and Janet Lever, Ph.D. (Putnam, 1998). Aimed at partners suffering from demanding schedules or sexual boredom.

  The Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides (Goofy Foot Press, 1998). Humorous heterosexual guide with detailed advice about sexual technique and communication.

  Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking by Dr. Patricia Love and Jo Robinson (Plume/Penguin, 1994). Advice and information for monogamous couples.

  Hot, Sexy and Safer by Suzi Landolphi (Perig
ree Books/Berkley, 1994). Safer sex guide, geared toward people in their twenties.

  Intimate Resources for Persons with Disabilities by Susan D. Wheeler and Linda Crabtree (Sureen Publishing, 1998). Lists sexuality resources in North America.

  The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex by Cathy Winks and Anne Semans (Cleis Press, 1997). A comprehensive manual covering all aspects of female and male sexuality; extensive resource section.

 

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