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by David D Burns


  87-90

  Disapproval, 266-71

  Daily Record of Dysfunc-

  fear of, 85,256-58

  tional Thoughts, 92-95

  self-respect and, 266-71

  disarming technique, 106-

  recovering from, 271-

  108

  72

  motivation without coer-

  Disarming critics, 124-28

  cion, 105-107

  Disarming technique, 106-

  Pleasure-Predicting

  108

  Sheet, 95-98

  Disattribution, 202

  testing your "can'ts,"

  Disqualifying the positive,

  112-13

  33-.34,40

  TIC-TOC Technique,

  Do-nothingism, 74-118

  101-103

  coercion, 85

  visualizing success, 108-

  examples of, 76-77

  10

  1

  fear of disapproval or crit-

  self-blame, 86

  icism, 85

  self-labeling, 83

  fear of failure, 83-84

  undervaluing the rewards,

  fear of success, 84-85

  83

  407

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  Dopamine, 376n

  Doxepin, 379

  Dyer, Dr. Wayne, 147

  Dysfunctional Attitude Scale (

  Facts, feelings and, 45-46

  DAS), 241-55,262

  Failure, fear of, 83-84

  interpreting your score,

  Fairness, relativity of, 145-

  251-55

  47

  achievement, 251-52

  Fear of criticism, 85

  approval, 251

  overcoming, 119-23

  autonomy, 254-55

  disarming the critic,

  entitlement, 252-53

  124-28

  love, 251

  empathy, 123-24

  omnipotence, 253

  feedback, 128-31

  perfectionism, 252

  negotiation, 128-31

  scoring, 247-50

  right criticism versus

  Dysfunctional Thoughts,

  wrong, 122

  Daily Record of, 63-64,

  Fear of disapproval, 85,

  92-95,97,154,186-87

  256-58

  Fear of failure, 83-84

  E

  Fear of success, 84-85

  Feedback, 128-31

  Feelings, facts and, 45-46

  Einstein, Albert, 145,147

  Fernstorm, Dr. Ronald, 390

  Elavil, 379

  Electroconvulsive therapy

  Fortune teller error, 35-36,

  (ECT), 3

  40

  Ellis, Dr. Albert, 11n, 105

  Freud, Sigmund, 52-54,130,

  Emotional reasoning, 37,40,

  138,178

  73

  Frustration, 176-77

  Empathy, 123-24,185-86

  accurate, 166-67

  G

  Empathy method, 269-70

  Endep, 379

  Goldstein, Dr. Mark K., 161

  Endorsing yourself, 97-100

  Gratification, 279-80 "

  Enlightened manipulation,

  Grieving" method, 272

  160-64

  Guilt, 86-87,178-204

  Entitlement, DAS test score

  cycle of, 182-83

  and, 251-52

  defeating, 186-204

  andwhiner technique,

  199-200

  Daily Record of Dys-

  408

  FEELING GOOD

  functional Thoughts,

  I

  186-87

  developing perspective,

  Illusions, 30-31

  201-203

  Imaging techniques, 153-56

  learn to stick to your

  Imanate, 379

  guns, 195-99

  Imipramine, 379,383

  Moorey moaner meth-

  Imipramine hydrochloride

  od, 200-201

  (Tofranil), 13,379

  "should" removal tech-

  Independence, 261-72

  niques, 187-95

  cost-benefit analysis, 261-

  distortions causing, 179-

  64

  80

  disapproval and, 266-72

  inappropriate "should"

  recovering from, 272

  statements, 180-82

  need for love and, 275-76,

  irresponsibility of, 184-86

  277,286-87

  thoughts leading to, 178-

  rejection and, 266-72

  79

  recovering from, 272

  self-respect blueprint, 262-

  65

  H

  verbal techniques, 265-66

  Habit management, 109-10

  Ingratitude, coping with,

  365-66,367

  Haidol, 392

  Internal dialogue, 30

  Happiness, success and, 290

  Internalized anger, 138-39

  Healthy sadness, 227

  Irrational statements, 144-45

  Helplessness, 82

  Irritability Quotient, 135

  coping with, 368-71

  Heroin, 290

  calculating, 137-38

  High blood pressure, 376

  Isocarboxazld, 380,386

  Hippocrates, 375

  Hitler, Adolf, 257,291

  Hopelessness, 81-82

  depression and, 341,355

  Janitnine, 379

  suicidal individuals and,

  340-41,351,355-56

  Jews, 257

  Homey, Karen, 11

  Job, loss of, 215-24

  Hostility, coping with, 36165 Jumping to conclusions, 35, 40,82

  Human worth scale, 211

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  L

  presumed "advantages" of

  being a, 277-78

  Labeling, 38-39, 41, 142

  Loved one, loss of, 224-27

  Lazarus, Arnold, 11

  Low frustration tolerance, 85

  Learning to expect craziness,

  158-60

  M

  Lethargy Cycle, 79-80

  Life, loss of, 208-12

  M.A.O. Inhibitors, 378-81,

  malignant attitudes toward,

  384, 385-86, 393

  209

  dosage ranges for, 386

  Limb, loss of, 212-14

  foods and medications to

  distorted attitudes toward,

  avoid when taking, 386

  212-13

  Lithium, 26, 380, 387-89,

  side effects of, 386

  393

  toxic effects of, 386-87

  dosage prescribed, 388

  in treatment of atypical

  effectiveness of, 388

  depression, 385

  major uses of, 387

  tricyclic compounds and,

  side effects of, 389

  385, 386

  Loneliness, being alone and,

  Magnification, 37, 40, 143

  376-80

  Maintenance therapy, 385

  Loss of job, 215-24

  Maladaptive anger, 148

  Loss of life, 209-12

  Mania, 25-26 Manic-

  malignant attitude toward,

  depressive illness, bi-

  209

  polar form of, 387-88

  Loss of limb, 212-15

  Manipulative rejection, 268

  distorted attitudes toward,

  Manson, Charles, 257-58

  212-14

  Marplan, 378, 386

  Loss of a loved one, 224-27

  Marshall, E., 18n

  Love

  Massachusetts Institute of

  DAS test score and, 251

  Technology (M.I.T.), 390

  need for, 274-8
7

  Medical science approaches

  attitude modification,

  to

  depressive illness,

  284-87

  354-55

  dependency and, 274,

  Megavitamins, 389

  275-78, 286-87

  Mellaril, 392

  independence and, 275-

  Mental filter, 33, 40

  77, 286-87

  Mid-life crisis, 351-54

  Pleasure-Predicting

  Mind reading, 35, 40,

  Sheet, 280-84

  142-43

  Love junkie, analysis of the

  Minimization, 37, 40

  410

  FEELING GOOD

  Mislabeling, 38-39, 41

  Negotiation, 128-31, 163-67

  Monroe, Marilyn, 54

  Nervous system, the brain

  Mood Clinic (University of

  and, 377-78

  Pennsylvania), 2, 4, 10,

  Neurochemistry, 375

  11, 11n, 13, 361, 362, 394 Nihilism, 346

  Mood swings, 234, 338, 349, Nondirective therapy, 57

  387-88

  Norepinephrine, 376n

  Mood-control techniques of

  Norpramin, 379

  cognitive therapy, 11

  Nortriptyline, 379

  Moorey, Stirling, 200

  Novaco, Dr. Raymond W.,

  Moorey moaner method,

  136n

  200-201

  Novaco anger scale, 136-38

  Motivation

  action and, 113-14

  coercion and, 85, 105-107

  0

  Motivational paralysis, 79 "

  Mourning and Melancholia"

  Oedipal incestuous fantasies,

  (Freud), 53-54

  178

  Musterhation, 38, 105

  Omnipotence, DAS test score

  and, 253-54

  N

  Operationalization, 298

  Original sin, 178

  Overcoming perfectionism,

  Nardil, 380, 386

  309-34

  National Institute of Mental

  Health, 16

  absurdity of all-or-nothing

  Navane, 392

  thinking, 327

  Need for love, 274-87

  advantages and disad-

  attitude modification, 284-

  vantages, 310

  87

  Antiperfectionicrn, Sheet,

  312-15

  dependency and, 274, 275-

  benefiting from failure,

  78, 286-87

  317-22

  independence and, 275-

  77, 286-87 Pleasure-

  developing process orien-

  Predicting Sheet,

  tation, 322-24

  280-84

  focusing on happy memo-

  Negative self-evaluation, 52-

  ries, 331-32

  53

  focusing on positive side,

  Negative thinking, 218

  326-27

  depression and, 28-29,

  learning to make mistakes,

  45-47, 55-56

  325-26

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  learning from mistakes,

  learning to make mis-

  333-34

  takes, 325-26

  lowering one's standards,

  learning from mistakes,

  311-12,333

  333-34

  personal disclosure, 327-

  lowering one's stan-

  32

  dards, 311,312,333

  as a realistic goal, 314-15

  personal disclosure,

  Response-Prevention

  327-32

  Form, 317-18

  as a realistic goal, 314-

  the role of fear, 316

  15 Response-

  setting time limits on one's

  Prevention

  activities, 324-25

  Form, 316-17

  Overgeneralization, 32-33,

  the role of fear,315-18

  40

  setting time limits on

  Overwhelming yourself, 82

  one's activities, 324-

  25

  Personal inadequacy, 51-52

  P

  Personali7atian, 39-41,180

  Pertofrane, 379

  Parnate, 378,386

  Phenylyzine, 380,386

  Passive death wish, 340

  Philadelphia Veterans Ad-

  Passive-aggressive type, 78

  ministration Hospital, 2

  Pep pills, 391-92

  Physical handicaps, 212-15

  Perfectionism, 83

  Placebos, 383

  DAS test score and, 251-

  Pleasure-Predicting

  Sheet,

  52

  95-98,280-81,307,308

  overcoming, 309-34

  Polypharmacy, 393-94

  absurdity of all-or-noth-

  Positive, the, disqualifying,

  ing thinking, 327

  33-34,40

  advantages and disad-

  Pregnancy, antidepressant

  vantages, 310

  drugs and, 393

  Antiperfectionism Sheet,

  Presanaine, 379

  312-14

  Prinz, Freddie, 54

  benefiting from failure,

  Procrastination, 37, 77-78,

  318-22

  81

  developing process ori-

  Productive anger, 147-48

  entation, 322-24 Productivity scale, 211

  focusing on happy Prolixin, 392

  memories, 331-32

  Propranalol, 389

  focusing on positive

  Protriptyline, 379

  side, 327-28

  Psychotherapy, 11,354

  412

  FEELING GOOD

  "Psychotherapy Works, but

  Revenge, developing desire

  for Whom?" (Marshall),

  for, 149-52

  18n

  Rewriting the rules, 156-58

  Ritalin, 387,392

  Rothko, Mark, 54

  R

  Rational responses (self-de-

  S

  fense), 218

  Realistic depressions, 208

  Sadness

  Reasoning, emotional, 37,

  depression and, 207-208

  40,73

  without suffering, 227-28

  Reducing anger, methods of

  Schizophrenia, 392

  accurate empathy, 166-72

  depression and, 55

  anger hierarchy, 172-73

  Science, 18n

  cognitive rehearsal, 172-

  Self-approval, 273

  75

  Self-blame, 86

  cooling hot thoughts,

  Self-criticism, 59-64, 65,71,

  151-54

  121,218,233

  develop the desire, 149-51

  Self-defeating behavior, 77-

  enlightened manipulation,

  79

  160-63

  Self-defense, 59-64, 65, 71,

  imaging techniques, 153-

  121,218,222

  55

  Self-dislike, 51

  learn to expect craziness,

  Self-esteem, 211,233-34

  158-60

  accomplishments and,

  negotiating strategies, 163-

  288-91

  66

  advantages of, 288-89

  putting it all together,

  disadvantages of, 289

  172-75

  does work equal worth,

  rewrite the rules, 156-58

  291-98

  "should" reduction, 163

  the achievement trap,

  thought stoppage, 156

  303-308

  Rejection, 266-71

  boosting, 51-74

  recovering from, 271-72


  four paths to, 299-303

  Relativity of fairness, 145-47

  Pleasure-Predicting Sheet,

  Remorse, 178

  305-308

  Resentment, 85

  specific methods for, 59-

  Response prevention, 316

  74

  Response-Prevention Form,

  Self-evaluation, negative, 52-

  317

  53

  413

  David D. Burns, M.D.

  Self-labeling, 82-83

  visualizing, 108-109

  Self-respect, 261-72

  Suicidal impulses, assessing,

  blueprint for, 262-65

  339-41

  cost-benefit analysis, 261-

  Suicidal individual

  62

  antidepressant drugs in

  disapproval and, 266-71

  treatment of, 337-38

  recovering from, 271-

  assessing impulses of, 339-

  72

  41

  rejection and, 266-71

  bleak outlook of, 338-39

  recovering from, 271-

  cognitive distortions of,

  72

  345-46, 353

  verbal techniques, 265-66

  cognitive therapy treat-

  Sense of worthlessness, over-

  ment of, 337-38, 345-

  coming, 56-58

  51, 352-54

  Serotonin, 376n, 390

  conviction of insoluble di-

  Sexual drive, depression and,

  lemmas, 351

  56

  degree of hopelessness of,

  "Should" statements, 37-38,

  340-41, 351, 355-56

  40, 187-95

  desire for self-mutilation,

  Silent assumptions, 234

  342-43

  identifying

  illogic of suicide, 342-51

  downward-arrow tech-

  mid-life crisis and, 351-54

  nique, 237-41

  nihilistic theory of, 346-50

  Dysfunctional Attitude

  Suicide, 224-29

  Scale, 241-55, 261-

  depression and, 337

  62

  illogic of, 342-52

  vertical-arrow tech-

  rate among general popu-

  nique, 235-41

  lation, 337

  Sinequan, 379

  unrealistic sense of hope-

  Sk-Pramine, 379

  lessness and, 339

  Sleeping pills, 290, 391-92

  youngsters and, 337

  Slowness, compulsive, 315-

  Superachievers, 290

  17

  Synapses, 378

  Society of Biological Psychi-

  atry, 2

  Stanford University Medical

  T

  Center, 227

  Stelazine, 392

  Task-Interfering Cognitions (

  Success

  TICs), 101

  fear of, 84-85

  Task-Oriented Cognitions (

  happiness and, 290

  TOCs), 101

  414

  FEELING GOOD

  Ten Commandments, 145-46

  U.S. Food and Drug Admin-

  Testing your "can'ts," 112-

  istration, 390

  13

  University of California (Irv-

  Thorazine, 392

  ine), 136n

  Thought stoppage, 156

  University of Pennsylvania

  TIC-1'0C Technique, 101-

  School of Medicine, 2, 9,

  103

  10, 215, 343, 390

  Tofranil (imipramine hydro-

  chloride), 13, 379

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