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Table of Contents
PREFACE
WHAT WE TALK ABOUT WHEN WE TALK ABOUT FABIO
THE ROMANCE REVOLUTION
PROOF OF SNARK
TRASHY BOOKS
HOW LADY AUTHORS DRIVE INNOVATION IN PUBLISHING
FOR LOVE AND MONEY
ROMANCE VERSUS REALISM
WHAT WE TALK ABOUT WHEN WE TALK ABOUT BODICE RIPPERS
PURE HEROINE
LADY PORN
THE REAL APPEAL OF THE ALPHA
BRA BURNERS AND BODICE RIPPERS
THE COVERS
FROM LEAN IN TO BEND OVER
BECAUSE SHE’S WORTH IT
REFORMED RAKES
HAPPY EVER AFTER
WHY IT MATTERS HOW WE TALK ABOUT ROMANCE NOVELS
THANK YOU!
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
ROMANCE NOVELS BY MAYA RODALE
WORKS CITED