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by Bill Eddy


  Nixon proved lawless and paranoid. He illegally wiretapped and spied on

  his perceived enemies and hired a group of thugs to break into Democratic

  National Headquarters in the Watergate complex in Washington.

  In 1973, when federal investigators began looking into his crimes, he

  fired independent special prosecutor Archibald Cox. Nine months later, the

  US House of Representatives filed articles of impeachment against Nixon

  who resigned from office less than two weeks afterward.

  High- Emotion Media

  Nixon had an adversarial relationship with the news media before he even

  ran for the office of president. He blamed the media for his loss to John F.

  Kennedy in his run for president in 1960.

  However, in January 1968, before his comeback presidential election

  campaign got going, he met Roger Ailes when he appeared on The Mike

  Douglas Show, a television variety show, which was watched by seven

  million housewives. Ailes was the show’s producer and Nixon soon

  hired Ailes to teach him how to appear warmer and more human on

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  screen. But that was not enough for Nixon. His battle with the media

  continued.

  Nixon, like Lyndon Johnson before him, realized the political value of

  prime- time speeches carried free by the networks. Faced with an increas-

  ing number of presidential addresses, the networks started to seek balance

  to this powerful White House platform by following them with commen-

  tary. So while the networks carried the speech, to Nixon’s great chagrin,

  they followed it with analysis and criticism.

  Nixon would not stand for this. Within two weeks, the administration dis-

  patched Vice President Spiro Agnew to deliver a withering assault on the

  networks in front of a Republican audience in Des Moines. The networks

  dutifully carried the speech live after the White House instructed them

  that it was in their best interest to do so.212

  Nixon went on to look into ways that he could attack the networks by

  using the Federal Communications Commission, the Internal Revenue Ser-

  vice, and the Department of Justice. He did succeed in winning some con-

  cessions from them, for instance, CBS agreed to drop its immediate analysis

  after presidential and vice- presidential speeches.213

  Nixon used the media to get his emotionally repetitive message out about

  law and order. But he also tried to get his message out in isolation, by blocking

  any responses to his speeches (and those of his vice president) by the media.

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  Donald Trump

  At the time of this writing (January 2019), Donald J. Trump is president of

  the United States. It’s unknown how long he will stay in office as there are

  many investigations going on about his possible election collusion with the

  Russian government in 2016 and other possibly fraudulent financial matters.

  Yet his political base sticks with him, he has a Republican majority in the

  Senate, and the Supreme Court is majority conservative, including two of

  his own appointees. And he has already filed for his re- election bid in 2020.

  Regardless of the outcome of these investigations, his election stirred up

  a heated national debate over whether he is dangerous or good for America;

  whether he is a pathological liar or authentic; and whether democracy has

  been harmed or strengthened by his presidency.

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  Trump’s Early Years

  Donald Trump was born into a wealthy real estate family in New York City.

  Apparently, he was brash and difficult to manage, even from an early age. He

  was known as a bully who wanted to overpower people. If he made a false

  statement, he would simply defend it and repeat it several times to make

  others believe it was true.

  In elementary school, Donny impressed classmates with his athleticism,

  shenanigans and refusal to acknowledge mistakes, even one so trivial as

  misidentifying a popular professional wrestler. . . .

  “When I look at myself in the first grade and I look at myself now, I’m basi-

  cally the same,” the 70-year- old presumptive Republican nominee once

  told a biographer. “The temperament is not that different. ”214

  Trump’s father taught him that there were winners and losers in life, and

  that Trumps had to be winners. “Be a killer,” his father told his sons, as if

  training them to develop narcissistic traits.215

  High- Conflict Personality

  Trump appears to have numerous Targets of Blame, a lot of all- or- nothing

  thinking and solutions, frequent unmanaged emotions and extreme behav-

  ior, and threats of extreme behavior.

  When the younger Trump became a Manhattan real estate developer, he

  was extremely demanding and inconsistent with his employees. He blamed

  them for his own decisions.

  “Who said to make this ceiling so low?”

  “You knew about this, Donald,” Hyde replied. “We talked about it, if you

  remember, and the plans—”

  Abruptly Donald leaped up and punched his fist through the tile. Then

  he turned on Hyde in a rage. . . . The tirade went on at great length as

  Trump “humiliated [Hyde] in front of twenty people, colleagues and

  professionals. ”216

  Over the course of the first two years of his presidency, it was common for

  me to hear people of both political parties discussing his narcissistic traits.

  Little was said about sociopathic traits; however, this too started becoming

  a topic of discussion after several of his cohorts were convicted of crimes

  committed while working for him. Does he have a personality disorder? I

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  won’t answer that question because it is a mental health diagnosis. You will

  have to decide for yourself.

  Fantasy Crisis

  There are so many examples of Trump’s use of Fantasy Crisis Triads to gain

  power that I will only focus on one in detail here, Mexican immigrants. I

  will mention several others briefly, but how he has handled the immigration

  issue is a good example of how he has promoted and handled all the rest.

  In 2010, after years of donating to both Democratic and Republican political

  candidates (80 percent to Democrats at that time), he spoke with consultants

  and consciously decided to run for President as a conservative Republican. 217

  In 2011, perhaps as a campaign warm- up , he widely promoted the

  extreme view of some Republicans that President Barack Obama (an

  African- American elected president in 2008) was born in Africa and there-

  fore not allowed to be president. This apparently resonated with a majority

  of Republicans. In 2016, he admitted that Obama was born in the US (in

  Hawaii), but he was so successful with his repetition of this fantasy crisis

  about Obama that even a year later 51 percent of Republicans still believed

  Obama was born in Africa. 218

  Trump then focused
on Mexican immigration:

  In preparation for his presidential bid, he instructed his aides to listen

  to thousands of hours of conservative talk radio. They reported back to

  Trump that “the GOP base was frothing over a handful of issues,” one of

  which was immigration.219

  For this crisis, Trump claimed that Mexicans were illegally pouring

  across the southern United States border, hurting unemployed citizens’ job

  prospects and creating terrible danger for US citizens. He didn’t mention

  that the number of Mexicans coming north into the United States was the

  lowest it had been since 2009.

  There are more Mexicans leaving the United States than coming in.

  According to the Pew Research Center, there was a net outflow of 140,000

  from 2009 to 2014. If Trump builds his wall, he’ll lock more Mexican

  immigrants in than he’ll keep out. . . .

  One study of 103 cities between 1994 and 2004 found that violent crime

  rates decreased as the concentration of immigrants increased. Numerous

  studies have shown that a big share of the drop in crime rates in the 1990s

  is a result of the surge in immigration.220

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  Fantasy Villains

  Despite these facts, Trump went ahead and made Mexican immigrants into

  his fantasy villains. In his very first speech when he announced his candi-

  dacy, he said this:

  When Mexico sends its people, they’re not sending their best. They’re not

  sending you. They’re not sending you. They’re sending people that have

  lots of problems, and they’re bringing those problems with us. They’re

  bringing drugs. They’re bringing crime. They’re rapists. And some, I

  assume, are good people.221

  Fantasy Hero

  In the same speech, he went on to say that he would be the incredible hero,

  saving America and making it great again.

  I will be the greatest jobs president that God ever created. I tell you that.

  I’ll bring back our jobs from China, from Mexico, from Japan, from so

  many places. I’ll bring back our jobs, and I’ll bring back our money.222

  And of course, at his presidential inauguration he famously said: “I alone

  can fix it. ”223 The fantasy hero.

  Looking back on his “Mexican rapists” announcement speech, we realize

  that it’s very similar to the speeches he has continued to make throughout

  his time in office. He is brilliant at using emotional repetition, even repeat-

  ing his own phrases on a regular basis.

  And his solution to the fantasy crisis of Mexicans pouring in?

  I would build a great wall, and nobody builds walls better than me, believe

  me, and I’ll build them very inexpensively, I will build a great, great wall on

  our southern border. And I will have Mexico pay for that wall.224

  Of course, this too was a fantasy and Mexico was never going to pay for

  it. By January 2019, almost two years into his presidency, his overwhelm-

  ingly Republican congress had still refused to provide the funding for his

  great wall. Putting up this wall would be humiliating for Mexico, but making

  them pay for it would be doubly so, and totally unrealistic.

  This statement fits with a personality that is into dominating and

  humiliating others without empathy or remorse, with a bit of paranoia and

  a touch of sadism thrown in. These are the characteristics of a malignant

  narcissist. Could his first speech indicate that Trump is one? He certainly

  has Targets of Blame. From the first day of his presidential campaign, the

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  signs of an extreme Wannabe King were already there for those who knew

  what to look for.

  More Fantasy Crises

  Trump has had many other fantasy crises. He put a lot of energy into trying to

  eliminate Obamacare, also known as the Affordable Care Act, the healthcare

  expansion that was promoted by his predecessor, President Barack Obama.

  But a funny thing happened on the way to Obamacare (ACA) repeal. After

  the election, polls showed that the majority of Americans actually supported

  the ACA and didn’t want it repealed.225

  The Republican Congress did not fall in line with the new president on

  this issue after all, and Trump’s efforts to end it failed when the Senate gave

  the repeal thumbs down six months into his presidency in July 2017.

  Since Trump became president, his promise to repeal and replace

  the Affordable Care Act is nowhere close to being fulfilled, despite his

  repeated, confident assertions on the campaign trail that it could be done

  in just a day. The failure of health- care legislation in the Senate this week

  shows Trump still has not learned how to navigate Congress—and how

  much he is struggling to be the dealmaker, fighter and winner he por-

  trayed himself to be to voters.226

  Another fantasy crisis for Trump was his claim that scientific reports on

  climate change were a liberal plot against business and he did not believe in

  it. So early in his administration he cancelled the participation of the United

  States in the Paris Climate Accord, which had been painstakingly negotiated

  among many countries.227

  He decided that trade wars were “easy to win” and attacked Canada

  and European allies, along with China. Although some politicians and

  economists agree that the United States needed to address trade issues

  with China, Trump’s eager pursuit of wide- ranging trade wars was his

  idea and his alone—another demonstration of his all- or- nothing think-

  ing. He even lost his own appointed chief economic adviser, Gary Cohn,

  over it.228

  With Canada, he said there was a terrible trade deficit, but he only

  mentioned goods. When services were taken into account, the US actually

  had a positive balance in trade with Canada. Even though this was the case,

  Trump forced the renegotiation of the North American Free Trade Agree-

  ment (NAFTA) with Mexico and Canada. Although only minor changes

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  were made (to the relief of most politicians and economists), Trump claimed

  a huge victory.229

  This surprised almost no one, as his grandiose claims are growing quite

  familiar to most Americans. After the Democrats won back control of the

  House of Representatives in the November 2018 congressional elections,

  indications are that Trump is starting to lose his grip, even with his base of

  white working- class men. “[I]t is no surprise that more than half of white

  working class men now believe that Mr. Trump is ‘self- dealing’ and cor-

  rupt. ”230 Reality is beginning to set in.

  US Presidential Election 2016

  Donald Trump decided to base his campaign on Mexican immigrants, Mus-

  lims, journalists, China, and many other fantasy crises. Figure 5 is a sum-

  mary of how his Fantasy Crisis Triads worked in emotionally splitting the

  voters four ways, resulting i
n his election win in 2016. Although his percent-

  age of votes was slightly less than his opponent, Hillary Clinton, he won in

  the Electoral College, which gives states with smaller populations an advan-

  tage over more populous states.

  Trump won nearly 63 million votes, which is 28 percent of the total pos-

  sible votes. Hillary Clinton won nearly 66 million votes, which is 29 percent.

  Third parties won nearly 8 million votes, which is 4 percent.231 This leaves 39

  percent of eligible adults who didn’t vote at all in the 2016 election.232

  Most of the voter information I use here comes from a detailed analysis

  by three political science researchers published late in 2018 in a book titled

  Identity Crisis: The 2016 Presidential Campaign and the Battle for the Mean-

  ing of America. The 4-Way Voter Split group analysis is my own.

  LOYALISTS

  Trump’s support included Republicans who shared his negative views of his

  various Targets of Blame. For example, according to polls, “68 percent of

  Republican primary voters believed that Trump’s statements about Mexi-

  can immigrants being rapists who bring drugs and crime into the country

  was ‘basically right.’”233 But approximately one- third of Republicans did not

  agree with those statements and didn’t vote for him in the primary election.

  “Among Republicans who did not support Trump in the primary, nearly

  seven in ten (69%) voted for him in the general election.” They stayed loyal to

  the Republican Party candidate.

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  HCP

  (Fantasy Hero)

  Donald Trump

  Loyalists

  (For Trump)

  28%

  Targets of Blame

  (Fantasy Villains)

  Hillary Clinton

  Mexican Immigrants

  Journalists

  Muslims

  African-Americans

  Pres. Barack Obama

  China, EU, Canada

  Bill Clinton

  Etc.

  Moderates

  Resisters

  (For Hillary Clinton)

  (For 3rd Parties)

  29%

  4%

  Dropouts

  (Didn’t Vote)

  39%

  FIGURE 5 . US presidential election 2016—4-way voter split . Copyright © 2019 Bill Eddy, All Rights Reserved, Why We Elect Narcissists and Sociopaths—And How We Can Stop, Berrret -Koehler Publishers MODERATES

  Moderates are the emotionally mild group of voters, which includes many

 

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