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  262 As John Graham told his mother: John Graham to his mother, Mrs. Graham, September 22 and August 29, 1805, Lambeth Archives, IV/4/50 and IV/4/48.

  263 “If your sons marry to please you”: RLE to Sabrina Bicknell, August 28, 1808, BL Add. MS 70949 f 280.

  263 Grandchildren followed swiftly: I am indebted to Jacky Worthington for her help in tracing John and Henry Bicknell’s descendants and to the Bicknell family descendants for their interest in my book.

  264 A portrait of Henry in later life: Portrait of Henry Edgeworth Bicknell by Charles Baugniet, 1853, NPG D31757. Portrait of John Laurens Bicknell by Charles Baugniet, 1845, Wellcome Library.

  264 leasing a house for himself and his new wife in Grooms Hill: Hughes New Law List, 1809, p. 47; Rates Books, Greenwich West, from 1814, at GHC.

  264 Worried they wouldreturn to Ireland before: Sabrina Bicknell to Frances Edgeworth, June, 9, 1813, Edgeworth Papers, MS 22470/9.

  264 Maria smuggled him a furtive letter from Greenwich: Maria Bicknell to John Constable, February 24, 1816, in Constable, vol. 2, p. 178. For the full story of Constable’s relationship with Maria Bicknell see Gayford, Martin, Constable in Love: love, landscape, money and the making of a great painter (London, 2009), pp. 295–302.

  265 Constable, at one point, told Maria: John Constable to Maria Constable (née Bicknell), January 21, 1825, in Constable, vol. 2, pp. 372–73.

  265 her son Henry lost three children; John was severely ill again: Sabrina Bicknell to RLE, April 21, Edgeworth Papers, MS 22470/10.

  265 The following month, she thanked Edgeworth: Sabrina Bicknell to RLE, May 13, 1817, Edgeworth Papers, MS 22470/12.

  266 Throughout his long and grueling illness: Edgeworth, RL and M, vol. 2, pp. 445–53.

  267 “By this loss I am deprived of my oldest friend”: Sabrina Bicknell to ME, June 30, 1817, Edgeworth Papers, MS 22470/13.

  267 Maria began the task of sorting through his letters: ME to Sabrina Bicknell, August 17, 1817, BL Add. MS 70949 f. 271.

  268 the housekeeper she called Bicky: Wood, p. 123.

  268 Sabrina was asked to become godmother: Susan Sabrina Burney was born on February 25, 1818, and baptized December 21, 1818: St. Alfege baptism register, LMA. Sabrina described her as her goddaughter in her will.

  268 and the draft manuscript of her father’s memoirs carfully stowed in a sturdy boxfile: Edgeworth (1971), pp. 75–99. On her way to London ME stayed with various friends to whom she showed the manuscript of her father’s memoirs. Étienne Dumont, a Geneva-born writer and editor who was an old friend of RLE, “hates Mr. Day in spite of all his good qualities,” according to ME. She wrote: “He says he knows and cannot bear that sort of man ‘who has such pride and misanthropies about trifles and who raises a great theory of morals upon an amour propre blessé.’” Lady Louisa Lansdowne, her hostess in Wiltshire, took an opposite view. “She admires and loves Mr. Day as much as Dumont dislikes him,” Maria wrote but added shrewdly: “Had she seen him she would not have endured his manners however 24 hours.”

  268 “a little, dark, bearded, sharp, withered, active”: Butler, M, p. 3.

  268 she wrote to Sabrina in Greenwich with a request to meet: ME to Frances Edgeworth, October 13 and 15, 1818, in Edgeworth (1971), pp. 109–11 and 121–22. Sabrina’s reply is related by ME to her stepmother. ME stayed in Hampstead with the poet Joanna Baillie and her sister Agnes, who were nieces of the surgeon John Hunter. Her visits to Essex and to Greenwich are described in her letters home.

  270 “enraged” again when a magazine retold the story: The offending article may have been a column in the journal La Belle Assemblée, or Bell’s Court and Fashionable Magazine, published the previous month and headed “Curious particulars of Mr. Day, the author of ‘Sandford and Merton,’” which replayed the details from Seward’s Life of Erasmus Darwin at length. La Belle Assemblée, or Bell’s Court and Fashionable Magazine, September 1818, pp. 105–6.

  270 Day had “made her miserable—a slave &c!”: Edgeworth, RL and M, vol. 2, p. 114.

  270 There was nothing in the document: Sabrina Bicknell to ME, October 29, 1818, Edgeworth Papers, MS 22470/15.

  271 “from a number of orphans, one of remarkably promising appearance”: Edgeworth, RL and M, vol. 1, p. 209.

  271 “crack-brained absurdities,” which shocked nineteenth-century sensibilities: Quarterly Review, July 1810, p. 523.

  271 a fine new house around the corner from the school: Greenwich Rates Books at GHC. The terrace is now called Gloucester Circus and the house is numbered 29. For information on building Gloucester Circus see Bonwitt, W., Michael Searles: a Georgian architect and surveyor (London, 1987), pp. 20–22; Bonwitt, W., “Gloucester Circus,” in Transactions of the Greenwich and Lewisham Antiquarian Society, vol. 10, pp. 21–30.

  271 “as fully competent as Mrs. Bicknell was”: John Constable to Maria Constable, January 21, 1825, in Constable, vol. 2, p. 373.

  271 Denning, who painted Sabrina’s picture in 1832: “Mrs Bicknell,” by Richard James Lane, after Stephen Poyntz Denning, lithograph, 1833 (1832), NPG D22174; Richard James Lane, account books, NPG MS 56, vol. 1, pp. 34 and 36; S. P. Denning to Richard James Lane, April 1, 1833, in RJL, correspondence, NPG MS 61, vol. 1, p. 22. My thanks to Alexandra Aault, assistant curator at the NPG, for helping me to verify the sitter of the portrait as Sabrina Bicknell.

  272 “so strong a likeness I should have recognized it”: FB to Charles Parr Burney, May 3, 1836, in Burney, vol. 12, p. 890.

  272 “She is, alas! much changed”: Wood, p. 123. The sale of the contents and fittings is described in the auction catalog of the Burney School, May 14, 1839, in Miscellaneous papers relating to Greenwich, BL (Rare Books).

  273 “I see grey hairs upon brows”: Wood, pp. 306 and 326–27.

  273 Sabrina died at her home in The Circus: Death certificate of Sabrina Bicknell, September 9, 1843, GRO, 1231703–1; Will of Sabrina Bicknell, Prob 11/1986. Sabrina’s grave is plot no. 4371 in square 108. Her son John Laurens Bicknell is buried on the right of her grave and her granddaughter Mary Grant Bicknell is to the right of her father.

  274 John Laurens Bicknell survived his mother by only two years: Death certificate of John Laurens Bicknell, August 9, 1845, GRO 1408910–1.

  BIBLIOGRAPHY

  ABBREVIATIONS

  AS

  Anna Seward

  CB

  Charles Burney Jr. (1757–1817)

  ED

  Erasmus Darwin

  EM

  Esther Milnes

  ERO

  Essex Record Office

  FB

  Fanny Burney

  FHA

  Foundling Hospital Archives

  LRO

  Lichfield Record Office

  GHC

  Greenwich Heritage Centre

  JB

  John Bicknell

  JJR

  Jean-Jacques Rousseau

  JK

  James Keir

  LMA

  London Metropolitan Archives

  LRO

  Lichfield Record Office

  MB

  Matthew Boulton

  ME

  Maria Edgeworth

  MT

  Middle Temple

  NPG

  National Portrait Gallery

  RLE

  Richard Lovell Edgeworth

  SJBM

  Samuel Johnson Birthplace Museum

  SOG

  Society of Genealogists

  SS

  Sabrina Sidney (later Bicknell)

  TD

  Thomas Day

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  Burney, Fanny, Fanny Burney Notebooks, in the Berg Collection (Henry W. and Albert A. Berg) of English and American Literature, New York Public Library, Astor, Lenox and Tilden Foun
dations

  British Library Add. MSS

  Darwin Papers, Cambridge University Library

  Edgeworth Papers, National Library of Ireland

  Egerton Papers, British Library

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  TD, The Devoted Legions (London, 1776)

  TD, Ode for the New Year 1776 (London, 1776)

  TD, The Desolation of America (London, 1776)

  TD, Fragment of an Original Letter on the Slavery of the Negroes, written in the year 1776 (London, 1784)

  TD, The History of Sandford and Merton, A Work Intended for the Use of Children (3 vols., London, 1783, 1786 and 1789)

  TD and Esther Day, Select Miscellaneous Productions, of Mrs Day, and Thomas Day, Esq in verse and prose . . . , ed. Lowndes, Thomas (London, 1805)

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