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by Wendy Moore


  wedding, 164–165

  See also Sneyd, Honora

  Edgeworth, Lovell, 266

  Edgeworth, Margaret

  brother and, 28, 222, 266

  Day relationship, 1–6, 47, 49, 51, 52, 115

  Day’s views on, 5–6, 49–50, 77, 161

  description/background, 2, 3, 47, 49–50

  engagement to Day, 1, 4–6, 51, 52, 115

  marriage, 52

  Edgeworth, Maria

  childhood, 45, 142, 159, 163, 164, 191–192, 224, 225–226, 244, 252

  Day and, 224, 252–254, 269

  description, 268

  father’s death, 266

  father’s memoirs, 267, 268–271

  revenge on Day, 253–254

  as writer, 225–226, 252–254, 267, 268–271

  Edgeworth, Richard Lovell

  adopting child and, 228

  Anna Maria marriage/children, 29–30, 33, 34, 40, 45, 91, 131, 132, 139, 141–142, 145, 151, 162, 163

  Anna Maria’s death, 163–164

  apprenticeship of orphans and, 53, 57–58, 60, 63, 76, 77–78, 83, 95, 101

  archery contest/party, 145–147

  background, 28–30

  Bicknell and, 233, 234–235

  childhood, 28–29

  on Day, 2, 83, 95, 96, 98, 100, 110, 130

  Day friendship beginnings, 28, 32–34, 244

  Day’s biography and, 245–246

  Day’s death and, 243–244

  Day’s summer visit (1768), 1, 3–5, 46–47

  Day’s wife-training plan and, 33, 34, 110–111, 191, 192–193, 195, 196–197, 214, 215, 216, 237, 238

  education experiment, 40–46, 91, 93, 114, 120, 142, 151, 152–155, 225

  education of, 28, 29, 30–31

  education writings, 225–226

  Elizabeth marriage/children, 221–222, 225, 263

  engineering work in France, 153, 154, 155, 159, 162–163

  Esther Milnes and, 203

  Francis Anne marriage/children, 263, 266

  illness/death, 265–266

  inventions/Lunar Society, 30, 31–3 2, 33, 43, 51, 52

  Lichfield, 110–111, 131, 141–143, 145–146

  memoirs, 267, 268–271

  number of children, 263, 266

  personality/description, 28, 32, 33, 34, 139–140, 145, 266

  plans for school, 266

  Sabrina relationship, 95, 240, 251, 263, 264, 265–266, 267

  Edgeworth, Richard Lovell and Honora

  before marriage, 131–133, 137, 139–140, 141–143, 144, 151, 153

  Honora’s death, 220, 221, 226

  marriage/children, 164–165, 191–192, 219–220, 226

  Edgeworth, Richard, Sr.

  children and, 28–29, 46, 91, 106

  Day and, 2–3, 4

  health problems/death, 91, 106

  Edgeworthstown, 46–47, 266

  Elers, Anna Maria. See Edgeworth, Anna Maria

  Elers, Paul, 29

  Émile, or on Education (Rousseau)

  Day’s wife-training plan and, 49, 83, 85–86, 93, 94, 109, 119–120, 121–122, 127, 137, 189, 190, 191

  description/education of Émile, 37–40, 83

  Dick Edgeworth’s education and, 40–46, 91, 93, 114, 120, 142, 151, 152–155, 225

  followers of, 39–40, 44, 114, 120, 126, 175, 253–254

  France banning, 35, 86, 15 1

  religion and, 38, 39

  Rousseau on, 44, 152

  sequel, 217

  Sophie and, 38, 47–48, 94

  Sophie’s education, 48, 94

  Emilius and Sophia (Rousseau), 217

  Epictetus, 12

  Evelina (Burney), 109–110, 182

  Falconet, Étienne Maurice, 98

  Farington, Joseph, 249

  Fielding, Henry, 19

  Flexney, William, 177, 182

  Foundling Hospital

  Bicknell/Day opposing music lessons, 182–184, 241

  Day’s donation/as governor, 60, 76

  Dorcas Car and, 76, 100–101

  General Reception, 65–66

  life at, 55–56, 63–75

  location/history 54–56, 63–66

  naming babies, 64–66, 69

  opening country hospitals, 71–73

  records on orphans, 63, 64, 73

  Sabrina and, 56–58, 59, 60, 66–69, 71–72, 73–75, 101

  Shrewsbury Hospital beginnings, 72–73

  tokens left with babies, 63, 64, 67, 68–69

  wet nurses, 69–70, 71, 72

  France

  British visitors, 85

  conflict with Britain, 256, 257, 261

  Day’s makeover in, 151, 153, 155–160

  See also Day, Thomas and wife-training plan/France

  Franklin, Benjamin

  Boston Tea Party and, 176

  Club of Thirteen, 174–175, 184, 206–208

  group of friends, 174, 175, 176, 184, 206

  French Revolution, 37

  Gainsborough, Thomas, 39

  Galatea, 62, 98, 156, 196, 205, 275

  Galton, Emma, 208, 209

  Galton, Galton, 232

  Galton, Samuel, 123, 126–127, 232

  Gason, Caroline, 263

  Gentleman’s Magazine, 136, 247

  George III, 206

  Georgian culture. See British culture and social history (eighteenth century)

  Gibbon, Edward, 14, 15, 19

  Graham, John, 262

  Grand Tour, 23, 157

  Greenwich, 249, 250–251, 252, 257, 258, 261, 264, 268, 269, 272, 273

  Greville, Frances, 48

  Grig, Ann, 77

  See also Car, Dorcas

  Guy, Pierre, 86

  Haliburton, James, 262

  Hall, Elizabeth, 208–209

  Hampstead, 213–214, 268

  Handel, George Frideric, 65

  Hardinge, George, 242–243, 260

  Hare Hatch, 29, 32, 33, 42, 140

  Harvey, Susannah, 180, 189

  Hawkesworth, Elizabeth, 200

  History of Sandford and Merton, The (Day), 226–228, 232, 243, 254–255, 261

  Hogarth, William, 65

  Holland, 181–182

  Hume, David, 18, 19, 36

  Hunter, John, Reverend, 103

  Hunter, John (surgeon), 120

  Illegitimacy, 68, 258–259

  James, Henry, 130–131, 255

  Jefferson, Thomas, 52, 176

  Johnson, Samuel

  background/ideas, 22, 85, 248, 249–250

  on Day, 126

  Lichfield and, 103, 119, 121

  Jones, William (Oriental), 33, 174

  Julie, or The New Héloïse (Rousseau), 3 7, 114, 217

  Kauffman, Angelica, 21–22

  Keir, James

  background/business, 52, 125, 126, 127, 180, 189

  Day’s biography and, 245–247, 252, 254, 267, 270

  Day’s publisher and, 243, 247

  Day’s wife-training plan and, 126, 127, 128, 130, 131, 174, 180, 188, 189, 194, 195, 209, 210, 212, 213, 228, 237, 270

  Day’s will and, 230

  family, 180, 189

  Lunar Society, 52, 125, 132, 184, 186

  Sabrina’s wedding, 238

  Kerr, Hugh, 70–71

  Kildare, Emily, Duchess of Leinster, 40

  Kingston, Ann. See Sidney, Sabrina Knights Templar, 27

  Ladies of Llangollen, 105

  Lane, Richard James, 272

  “Laura” and Petrarch/poetry, 24–25, 87

  Laurens, Henry, 184–185, 223

  Laurens, John, 184–185

  Leigh Hunt, Henry, 227

  Leonora, 23, 25, 77

  Levasseur, Thérèse, 36, 37, 86, 151, 207

  Lichfield

  Sabrina in, 105–106, 107–112, 114, 115, 116, 118–125, 126–130, 131, 133

  See also specific individuals; Stowe House, Lichfield

  Locke, John, 19, 37, 39

  Lowndes, Milnes
, 201–202, 216

  Lowndes, Robert, 200, 201–202

  Lowndes, Thomas, 201–202, 213, 216

  Lucretia. See Car, Dorcas (Lucretia)

  Lunar Society of Birmingham, 31, 46, 51–52, 123, 125–127, 166, 173, 180, 184, 186, 231–232, 268

  Lycurgus, 12

  “Macaronis,” 150

  Mackenzie, Henry, 150

  Magee, Samuel, 57, 58

  Mandeville, Bernard, 19

  Mansfield, Lord/ruling, 172

  Mantua-making (dressmaking), 178

  Marquis de Sade, 79, 121

  Marriage

  legal age, 54

  See also Women’s status

  Marriage Act (1753), 68

  Memoirs of the Life of Dr. Darwin (Seward), 257–260, 261

  Middle Temple Inn, 13, 18, 27, 5 1, 53, 170–171, 174, 176, 184, 206, 232, 239

  Milnes, Esther

  background, 199–200

  brother-in-law and, 199, 201–202

  Day examining, 209–211

  description/personality, 200–201, 202–205

  friends and, 200–201

  inheritance and, 199–200, 204, 211, 216

  meeting Day/early relationship, 203–206

  sister (Elizabeth), 200, 201

  suitors, 199, 201, 202–203, 217–218

  See also Day, Esther

  Milnes, Richard, 199–200

  Milton, John, 75, 103 “Monimia” name, 67

  Montagu, Elizabeth, 185

  Montagu, Mary Wortley, 21

  Musical Travels Through England (Bicknell and Day), 183, 239

  My Fair Lady, 62

  Napoleon Bonaparte, 257

  Nelson, Admiral, 261

  Nollekens, Joseph, 249

  Ode for the New Year (Day), 206

  Orley Farm (Trollope), 255–256

  Orphan Hospital at Shrewsbury. See Foundling Hospital

  Ovid and Pygmalion story, 61, 62, 275

  Oxford University

  decline in standards, 14–15

  See also Day, Thomas/Oxford University

  Palterton Hall, 200, 201

  Panckoucke, Charles-Joseph, 161

  Paris

  burning books, 17

  Day/Edgeworths and, 15 1–153

  Day’s/orphans’ visit, 81, 82–85

  fashion, 89, 190

  Rousseau and, 37, 86, 151–153, 207

  Parker, Mary, 118–119, 129, 180

  Parkinsons

  background, 178, 187

  Sabrina and, 178, 179, 181, 186–187

  Penfold, Mary/family, 69, 70, 71, 72

  Petrarca (Petrarch), Francesco, 24, 87

  Phillips, Jane. See Day, Jane

  Phillips, Thomas

  background, 11

  as Day’s stepfather, 10–11, 53, 84, 106

  Piozzi, Hester. see Thrale, Hester

  Ponsonby, Sarah, 105

  Pritchard, Thomas Farnolls,

  Prostitution, 53–54

  Pygmalion myth, 61–62, 97–98, 107, 131, 156, 196, 256, 274, 275

  Pygmalion (Rousseau), 62

  Pygmalion (Shaw), 61–62, 107, 131, 256, 275

  Reynolds, Joshua, 39

  Richardson, Samuel, 19

  Robinson, Richard George, Reverend, 122–123, 124

  Rousseau, Jean-Jacques

  background/ideas, 4, 35, 37–40, 83, 150, 162, 171, 243

  Day/Edgeworths visit, 152–153

  death, 217

  Dying Negro, The (Day and Bicknell) and, 177, 182, 206, 207–208

  Galatea and, 62, 98

  in hiding, 35–36, 40, 86

  his children, 3 7

  ideas on education, 37–40

  personality, 36

  return to France, 150–15 1

  views on women, 48–49

  See also specific writings

  Roussel, Guillaume-François, 39, 120, 152

  Ruxton, John/Margaret, 52, 266

  Sabrina. See Sidney, Sabrina; Bicknell,

  Sabrina Saint-Pierre, Jacques Henri Bernardin de, 253–254

  Sandford and Merton (Day), 226–228, 232, 243, 254–255, 261

  Saville, Elizabeth (Eliza)

  marriage/children, 230, 242

  Sabrina and, 118, 129, 179, 180, 230, 242

  Saville, John

  Anna Seward and, 117–118, 129, 147, 158–159, 161, 165, 259

  background/music, 116–117, 145, 147, 180, 242

  death, 259

  grandson, 230

  wife (Mary), 117, 158, 165, 259

  Schimmelpenninck, Mary Anne, 123, 126–127

  Sentimental Journey Through France and Italy, A (Sterne), 82, 150

  Seward, Anna

  attacks on Day, 245

  Day’s letters from France, 155–158, 161

  Day’s makeover and, 159–160, 166

  Day’s wife-training plan and, 105–106, 111–112, 113–115, 122, 124, 128–129, 137, 173, 179–180, 189, 213, 216, 230

  description/background, 103–106

  Dying Negro, The and, 171

  Honora and, 104–105, 107, 112, 114, 131–132, 133, 137, 138–139, 140–141, 144–145, 146, 165–166, 220–221, 245

  John Saville and, 117–118, 129, 147, 158–159, 161, 165, 259

  Memoirs of the Life of Dr. Darwin, 257–260, 261

  Sabrina (after Day’s rejection), 230, 234, 242, 245

  Seward, Elizabeth, 103, 111

  Seward, Sarah, 103, 104–105

  Seward, Thomas, Reverend, 103, 110

  Seward, William, 13, 16, 17, 238, 240, 241

  Shakespeare, William, 103

  Sharp, Granville, 171–172

  Shaw, George Bernard, 61–62, 107, 131, 256, 275

  Shelley, Mary, 275

  Shrewsbury, 54

  Shrewsbury orphanage. See Foundling Hospital

  Sidney, Sabrina

  apprenticeship plan, 56, 57–58, 60, 74–75

  background, 56–58, 59, 60, 63, 66–69, 70, 71–75, 79, 101

  Bicknell explaining Day’s plans, 235

  Bicknell’s marriage proposal, 234–235

  boarding house outside Birmingham, 196, 206

  on Day’s abuse, 232

  Day’s decision between orphans, 99–100

  Day’s decision to marry, 187–191, 193–196, 203

  Day’s dismissal, 133–134

  Day’s “justification,” 235–237

  Day’s marriage proposal and, 193–196, 197, 237

  Day’s will and, 229–230, 234

  description/personality, 5 6, 76, 99

  dressmaking (mantua-making) apprenticeship, Lichfield, 178–181, 186–187

  Foundling Hospital records, 63, 67, 68–69, 73

  France and, 81–84, 85–87, 88–89, 92–97, 98–100

  knowledge of Day’s plan and, 62–63, 74, 75, 78, 79, 107, 116, 129–130, 188–189, 235

  in Lichfield, 105–106, 107–112, 114, 115, 116, 118–125, 126–130, 131, 133

  London visit, 59–60

  physical/psychological abuse, 119–125, 130, 232, 236

  rebellion, 128–130, 133–134

  story in print, 130–131, 253–25 6, 257–261, 267, 268–271

  Sutton Coldfield boarding school, 135–137, 162, 172–173

  Wardley’s marriage proposal, 230–231

  See also Bicknell, Sabrina; Day, Thomas and wife-training plan

  Sidney, Sir Philip, 75

  Slavery. See Antislavery movement

  Small, William

  background/description, 52, 127–128

  Day’s wife-training plan and, 52, 83, 127, 128, 131, 180, 186, 203–204

  death, 186, 187

  Lunar Society, 52, 125, 126, 132, 166, 186

  Smallpox inoculations, 21, 100–101

  Smith, Charlotte, 19

  Smith, Eliza, 230, 242

  See also Saville, Elizabeth (Eliza)

  Smollett, Tobias, 89, 211–212

  Sneyd, Charlotte, 138, 144

  Sneyd, Edwar
d (Major)

  family, 104, 144, 146, 164, 221–222

  wealth, 144

  Sneyd, Elizabeth (Bessy)

  background/family, 104, 144, 147, 164

  breaking engagement, 160–161, 162

  Day’s makeover and, 148, 151, 159–160

  description/personality, 146, 147

  Edgeworth marriage, 221–222

  education, 146, 147

  meeting Day/engagement, 146–148

  Sneyd, Honora

  background/family, 104, 138, 146, 164

  Day and, 137, 140–144

  Day’s proposal and, 142–144

  Edgeworth and, 131–133, 137, 139–140, 141–143, 144, 151, 153

  fiancée, 138–139

  Seward family, 104–106, 107, 112, 114, 131”132, 133, 137, 138–139, 140–141

  See also Edgeworth, Honora

  Sneyd, Lucy, 138, 164

  Sneyd, Mary, 138, 164

  Sneyd, Susanna, 138

  Soane, Sir John, 264

  Social Contract, The (Rousseau), 35, 37, 151, 152, 177

  Society for the Encouragement of Arts, Manufactures and Commerce, 30, 43

  Somerset, James, 171–172

  Southey, Robert, 227, 247

  Spenser, Edmund, 75

  Sterne, Laurence, 82, 88, 150

  Stockdale, John, 243, 247

  Stoics, 4, 12

  Stourbridge, 127, 180, 188

  Stowe House, Lichfield

  Day/Sabrina and, 105–112, 113–115, 116, 118–130, 131–133

  description, 106–107

  Suard, Amélie/Jean-Baptiste, 161–162

  Sutton Coldfield, 135–136

  Thrale, Hester, 85, 248, 249–250

  Trollope, Anthony, 255–256

  Vaughton, Roger, 209

  Verner, Deborah, 72

  Victoria, Queen, 271

  “Virtue” definitions, 18–19

  Voltaire, 17–18, 98

  Wainewright, Thomas Griffiths, 262

  Warburton-Lytton, Elizabeth, 120, 224

  Warburton-Lytton, Richard

  Day and, 17, 33

  description/background, 17, 120

  Wardley, Jarvis, 230–231

  Washington, George, 139, 176

  Watch and Ward (James), 130–131, 255

  Watt, James, 43, 52, 125, 186, 189, 212

  Wedgwood, Josiah

  background/business, 52, 125–126, 174, 176

  Day’s wedding, 212

  education of children, 126

  Lunar Society, 52, 125, 126, 184

  Wharton, Robert, 85

  Whitehurst, John, 46

  Widowhood, 240

  Wilde, Oscar, 227

  Wilkinson, Ann/Richard, 201, 210, 211

  Williams, David

  background, 175

  Franklin club, 175, 176, 207–208

  multi-denominational services, 175, 207

  Williams, Helen Maria, 238–239

  Willmott, Jane, 263

  Wollstonecraft, Mary, 7, 48–49

  Women’s status

  in eighteenth-century Britain, 6, 21–22, 79, 97–98

  husband-wife relationship, 21

  marriage age, 54

 

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