4.Redd shares an experience with Dave that he had at the Vietnam Memorial when he heard the voice of Leslie Harris, his friend who was killed in the war. Have you (or someone you know) ever had an experience when you saw, heard, or felt the presence of someone who had passed? If so, how did it impact your life? Researchers in a University of Milan study suggest the phenomenon is common, reporting a “very high prevalence” of what they call “post-bereavement hallucinatory experiences.” Are these experiences simply a way people deal with grief, or do they represent something more?
5.Katie enjoyed creating “people-watching games.” Have you ever done the same? Have you ever caught someone watching you in a people-watching game?
6.Were you disappointed that when Dave and Katie met on the bridge, neither realized there was a deeper connection between them? Do you believe these types of encounters happen often in our lives? How would we know?
7.There appear to be endless quotes posted on social media about bridges—building bridges, crossing bridges, burning bridges. What is it about bridges that makes them so prevalent as metaphors in our lives?
8.Early in the story Katie ponders the role of chance, particularly something as trivial as the timing of a sneeze and its potential to dramatically alter the course of one’s life. Is her worry valid? Did Katie’s sneeze near Dave at the bridge happen by chance? Should we worry about the timing of sneezes in our own lives (for either good or bad)?
9.The reality of Dave’s ride across the bridge played out differently than his vision. Instead of the day being warm, sunny, and uplifting, it was dark, rainy, and emotionally draining, an experience that easily could have ended in tragedy. Have you been in a similar situation, when reality dashed your expectations? In the end, after some time had passed, did everything work out for you?
10.When Glen, Jared, and Gracie brought Dave home, their mother, Crystal, was horrified—and perhaps rightly so. If a smelly, long-haired biker came to your door asking to use the phone, would you let him in? How do you draw the line between kindness and caution? When you see a tattooed biker with a ponytail and a leather jacket, what is your first impression? If you could wave the person down and chat for a few minutes, do you think your impression might change?
11.Did you know much about the building of the Golden Gate Bridge before reading this book? What did you learn that surprised you?
about the author
CAMRON WRIGHT has a master’s degree in writing and public relations. His books have received numerous awards and have been published in countries around the world. In addition to The Other Side of the Bridge, his works include Letters for Emily, The Rent Collector, and The Orphan Keeper. He and his wife, Alicyn, are the parents of four children. Learn more about Camron and his books at AuthorCamronWright.com.
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