by Jodi Picoult
Owen: Get the fuck away from me, freak.
Jess has gone all red in the face. “The good news,” she says evenly, “is that you tried to initiate a conversation. That’s a really big step. The fact that you chose to discuss semen is unfortunate, but still.”
By now we have reached the table in the back where Mark is waiting for us. He is chewing gum with his mouth wide open, and wearing that stupid orange sweatshirt. “Hey, Chief,” he says.
I shake my head and take a step backward. That sweatshirt, he wasn’t wearing it when I first saw him. I bet he put it on on purpose, because he knows I don’t like it.
“Mark,” Jess says, after glancing at me, “the sweatshirt. Take it off.”
He grins at her. “But it’s more fun when you do it, baby,” he says, and he grabs Jess and tugs her into the booth, practically onto his lap.
Let me just come out and say I don’t get the sex thing. I don’t understand why someone like Mark, who seems completely hell-bent on exchanging bodily fluids with Jess, isn’t equally excited to talk about the fact that snot, bleach, and horseradish can all give you false positives for blood during presumptive tests. And I don’t understand why neurotypical guys are obsessed with girl breasts. I think it would be an enormous pain to have those sticking out in front of you all the time.
Fortunately, Mark does take off the orange sweatshirt, and Jess folds it up and puts it on the seat where I can’t see it. It’s bad enough just knowing it’s there, frankly. “You get me mushroom?” Mark asks.
“You know Jacob isn’t a fan of mushroom …”
There is a lot I’d do for Jess, but not mushrooms. Even if they’re touching the crust on the far side of the pizza, I might have to vomit.
She pulls her cell phone out of her pocket and sets it on the table. It is pink and has my name and number programmed into it. It might be the only cell phone that has my name in it. Even my mother’s cell phone lists our number as HOME.
I stare down at the table, still thinking about Mark’s sweatshirt.
“Mark,” Jess says, sliding his hand out of the back of her shirt. “Come on. We’re in public.” Then she addresses me. “Jacob, while we’re waiting for the food, let’s practice.”
Practice waiting? I don’t really need to. I’m fairly proficient at it.
“When there’s a lull in the conversation, you can toss out a topic that gets people talking again.”
“Yeah,” Mark says. “Like: Chicken nuggets are neither chicken nor nuggets. Discuss.”
“You’re not helping,” Jess mutters. “Are you looking forward to anything this week in school, Jacob?”
Sure. Rampant dismissal and abject humiliation. In other words, the usual.
“In physics I have to explain gravity to the rest of the class,” I say. “The grade’s half on content and half on creativity, and I think I’ve found the perfect solution.”
It took me a while to think of this, and then when I did I couldn’t believe I hadn’t thought of it before.
“I’m going to drop my pants,” I tell her.
Mark bursts out laughing, and for a second, I think maybe I’ve misjudged him.
“Jacob,” Jess says, “you will not drop your pants.”
“It completely explains Newton’s law—”
“I don’t care if it explains the meaning of life! Think about how inappropriate that would be. Not only would you embarrass your teacher and make him angry but you’d be teased by other students for doing it.”
“I don’t know, Jess … you know what they say about guys with long IEPs …,” Mark says.
“Well, you don’t have an IEP,” Jess answers, smiling. “So there goes that theory.”
“You know it, baby.”
I have no idea what they’re talking about.
When Jess is my girlfriend, we will eat pizza without mushrooms every Sunday. I’ll show her how to enhance the contrast of fingerprints on packing tape, and I will let her read my CrimeBusters journals. She’ll confide that she has quirks, too, like the fact that she has a tail that she keeps hidden under her jeans.
Okay, maybe not a tail. No one really wants a girlfriend with a tail.
“I have something to talk about,” I say. My heart starts pounding, and my palms are sweaty. I analyze this the way Dr. Henry Lee would analyze any other piece of forensic evidence and store it away for the future: Asking girls out can cause changes to the cardiovascular system. “I would like to know, Jess, if you would like to accompany me to a movie this Friday night.”
“Oh, Jacob—well done! We haven’t practiced that in a whole month!”
“On Thursday I’ll know what’s playing. I can look it up on Moviefone.com.” I fold my napkin into eighths. “I could go out on Saturday instead if it’s better for you.” There is a CrimeBusters marathon, but I am willing to make a sacrifice. Surely that will show her how serious I am about this relationship.
“Holy shit,” Mark says, grinning. I can feel his eyes on me. (That’s the other thing about eyes; they can be hot as lasers, and how would you ever know when they’re about to be turned on full force? Better not to risk it, and to avoid eye contact.) “He isn’t showing you some communication skill, Jess. The retard is actually asking you out.”
“Mark! For God’s sake, don’t call him—”
“I’m not a retard,” I interrupt.
“You’re wrong. Jacob knows we’re just friends,” Jess says.
Mark snorts. “You fucking get paid to be his friend!”
I stand up abruptly. “Is that true?”
I guess I have never thought about it. My mother arranged for me to meet with Jess. I assumed Jess wanted to do it because she (a) is writing that paper and (b) likes my company. But now I can picture my mother ripping another check out of the checkbook and complaining like always that we don’t have enough to cover our expenses. I can picture Jess opening the envelope in her dorm room and tucking that check into the back pocket of her jeans.
I can picture her taking Mark out for pizza, using cash that came from my mother’s bank account.
Gluten-rich mushroom pizza.
“It’s not true,” Jess says. “I am your friend, Jacob—”
“But you wouldn’t be hanging out with Forrest Gump if you didn’t get that sweet check every month,” Mark says.
She turns on him. “Mark, go away.”
“Did you say what I think you said? Are you taking his side?”
I start rocking back and forth. “Nobody puts Baby in a corner,” I quote under my breath.
“This isn’t about sides,” Jess says.
“Right,” Mark snaps. “It’s about priorities. I want to take you skiing for the afternoon and you blow me off—”
“I didn’t blow you off. I invited you along to a standing appointment I had, one that I couldn’t just change at the last minute. I already explained to you how important plans are to someone with Asperger’s.”
Jess grabs Mark’s arm, but he shakes her off. “This is bullshit. I might as well be fucking Mother Teresa.”
He storms out of the pizza place. I don’t understand what Jess likes about him. He is in the graduate school of business and he plays a lot of hockey. But whenever he’s around, the conversation always has to be about him, and I don’t know why that’s okay if it’s Mark talking but not if it’s me.
Jess rests her head on her folded arms. Her hair is spread out over her shoulders like a cape. From the way her shoulders are moving, she is probably crying.
“Annie Sullivan,” I say.
“What?” Jess looks up. Her eyes are red.
“Mother Teresa saved the poor and the sick, and I’m not poor or sick. Annie Sullivan would have been a better example to use, because she’s a famous teacher.”
“Oh, God.” Jess buries her face in her hands. “I can’t handle this.”
There is a lull in the conversation, so I fill it. “Are you free on Friday now?”
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I consider this. Actually, I am serious all the time. Usually I get accused of not having a sense of humor, although I am capable of that, too.
“Does it matter to you that Mark is the first guy who’s ever told me I’m pretty? Or that I actually love him?” Her voice is climbing, each word another step on a ladder. “Do you even care if I’m happy?”
“No … no … and yes.” I am getting flustered. Why is she asking me all these things? Mark’s gone now; and we can get back to business. “So I made a list of the things people sometimes say that really mean they’re tired of listening to you, but I don’t know if they’re right. Can you check it?”
“Jesus Christ, Jacob!” Jess cries. “Just get lost!”
Her words are huge and fill the entire pizza place. Everyone is watching.
“I have to go talk to him.” She stands up.
“But what about my lesson?”
“Why don’t you think about what you’ve learned,” Jess says, “and get back to me?”
Then she stomps out of the restaurant, leaving me alone at the table.
The pizza lady brings out the pie, which I will have to eat by myself now. “Hope you’re hungry,” she says.
I’m not. But I lift up a slice anyway and take a bite and swallow. It tastes like cardboard.
Something pink winks at me from the other side of the napkin dispenser. Jess has left behind her cell phone. I would call her to tell her I have it, but obviously, that won’t work.
I tuck it into my pocket and make a mental note. I will just bring it to her when we meet on Tuesday, when I have figured out what it is that I am supposed to have learned.
For over a decade now, we have received a Christmas card from a family I do not know. They address it to the Jenningses, who lived in the house before we did. There is usually a snowy scene on the front, and then inside there is printed gold lettering: HAPPY HOLIDAYS. FONDLY, THE STEINBERGS.
The Steinbergs also include a photocopied note that chronicles everything they have been doing over the years. I’ve read about their daughter, Sarah, who went from taking gymnastics lessons to being accepted at Vassar to joining a consulting firm to moving to an ashram in India and adopting a baby. I’ve come to know Marty Steinberg’s big career breaks at Lehman Brothers and his shock at being out of a job in 2008, when the company folded; and how he went on to teach business at a community college in upstate New York. I’ve seen Vicky, his wife, go from being a stay-at-home mom to an entrepreneur selling cookies with the faces of pedigreed dogs on them. (One year there were samples!) This year, Marty took a leave of absence, and he and Vicky went on a cruise to Antarctica—apparently a lifelong dream that was now possible since Eukanuba had bought out Vicky’s company. Sarah and her partner, Inez, got married in California, and there was a picture of Raita, now three, as the flower girl.
Each Christmas season, I try to get to the Steinbergs’ letter before my mother does. She tosses them into the trash, saying things like Don’t these people ever get the message when the Jenningses don’t send a card back? I fish the card out and put it in a shoe box I have reserved specially for the Steinbergs in my closet.
I don’t know why reading their holiday cards makes me feel good, the same way a warm load of laundry does when I’m lying underneath it, or when I take the thesaurus and read through an entire letter’s words in one sitting. But today, after I come home from my meeting with Jess, I suffer through the obligatory conversation with my mother (Mom: How did it go? Me: Fine.) and then go straight up to my room. Like an addict who needs a fix, I go right for the Steinberg letters and I reread them, from the oldest to the most recent.
It gets a little easier to breathe again, and when I close my eyes I don’t see Jess’s face on the backs of my lids, grainy like a drawing on an Etch A Sketch. It’s like some kind of cryptogram, and A really means Q and Z really means S and so on, so the twist of her mouth and the funny note that jumped in her voice are what she really wanted to say, instead of the words she used.
I lie down and imagine showing up on the doorstep of Sarah and Inez.
It is so good to see you, I’d say. You look exactly like I thought you would.
I pretend that Vicky and Marty are sitting on the deck of their ship. Marty is sipping a martini while Vicky writes out a postcard with a picture of Valletta, Malta, on the front.
She scrawls, Wish you were here. And this time, she addresses it directly to me.
Emma
Nobody dreams of being an agony aunt when they grow up.
Secretly, we all read advice columns—who hasn’t scanned Dear Abby? But sifting through the problems of other people for a living? No thanks.
I thought that, by now, I’d be a real writer. I’d have books on the New York Times list and I’d be feted by the literati for my ability to combine important issues with books that the masses could relate to. Like many other writer wannabes, I’d gone the back route through editing—textbooks, in my case. I liked editing. There was always a right and a wrong answer. And I had assumed that I’d go back to work when Jacob was in school full-time—but that was before I learned that being an advocate for your autistic child’s education is a forty-hour-a-week profession in and of itself. All sorts of adaptations had to be argued for and vigilantly monitored: a cool-off pass that would allow Jacob to leave a classroom that got too overwhelming for him; a sensory break room; a paraprofessional who could help him, as an elementary school student, put his thoughts into writing; an individualized education plan; a school counselor who didn’t roll her eyes every time Jacob had a meltdown.
I did some freelance editing at night—texts referred to me by a sympathetic former boss—but it wasn’t enough to support us. So when the Burlington Free Press ran a contest for a new column, I wrote one. I didn’t know about photography or chess or gardening, so I picked something I knew: parenting. My first column asked why, no matter how hard we were trying as moms, we always felt like we weren’t doing enough.
The paper got over three hundred letters in response to that test column, and suddenly, I was the parenting advice expert. This blossomed into advice for those without kids, for those who wanted kids, for those who didn’t. Subscriptions increased when my column bumped from once a week to twice a week. And here’s the really remarkable thing: all these people who trust me to sort out their own sorry lives assume that I have a clue when it comes to sorting out my own.
Today’s question comes from Warren, Vermont.
Help! My wonderful, polite, sweet twelve-year-old boy has turned into a monster. I’ve tried punishing him, but nothing works. Why is he acting up?
I lean over my keyboard and start to type.
Whenever a child misbehaves, there’s some deeper issue driving the action. Sure, you can take away privileges, but that’s putting a Band-Aid over a gaping wound. You need to be a detective and figure out what’s really upsetting him.
I reread what I’ve written, then delete the whole paragraph. Who am I kidding?
Well, the greater Burlington area, apparently.
My son sneaks out at night to crime scenes, and do I heed my own advice? No.
I am saved from my hypocrisy by the sound of the telephone ringing. It’s Monday night, just after eight, so I assume it’s for Theo. He picks up on an extension upstairs and a moment later appears in the kitchen. “It’s for you,” Theo says. He waits till I pick up and disappears into the sanctuary of his bedroom again.
“This is Emma,” I say into the receiver.
“Ms. Hunt? This is Jack Thornton … Jacob’s math teacher?”
Inwardly, I cringe. There are some teachers who see the greater good in Jacob, in spite of all his quirks—and there are others who just don’t get him and don’t bother to try. Jack Thornton expected Jacob to be a math savant when that’s not always part of Asperger’s—in spite of what Hollywood seems to think. Instead, he’s been frustrated by a student whose handwriting is messy, who transposes numbers when doing calculatio
ns, and who is far too literal to understand some of the theoretical concepts of math, like imaginary numbers and matrices.
If Jack Thornton is calling me, it can’t be good news.
“Did Jacob tell you what happened today?”
Had Jacob mentioned anything? No, I would remember. But then again, he probably wouldn’t confess unless he was directly asked. More likely, I would have read the clues through his behavior, which would have seemed a little off. Usually when Jacob’s even more withdrawn, or stimming, or conversely too talkative or manic, I know something’s wrong. In this way, I am a better forensic scientist than Jacob would ever guess.
“I asked Jacob to come up to the board to write out his homework answer,” Thornton explains, “and when I told him that his work was sloppy, he shoved me.”
“Shoved you?”
“Yes,” the teacher says. “You can imagine the reaction of the rest of the class.”
Well, that explains why I didn’t see a deterioration in Jacob’s behavior. When the class started laughing, he would have assumed he’d done something good.
“I’m sorry,” I say. “I’ll talk to him.”
No sooner have I hung up the phone than Jacob appears in the kitchen and takes the carton of milk out of the fridge.
“Did something happen in math class today?” I ask.
Jacob’s eyes widen. “You can’t handle the truth,” he says, in a dead-on imitation of Jack Nicholson, as sure a sign as any that he’s squirming.
“I already talked to Mr. Thornton. Jacob, you cannot go around shoving teachers.”
“He started it.”
“He did not shove you!”
“No, but he said, ‘Jacob, my three-year-old could write more neatly than that.’ And you’re always saying that when someone makes fun of me I should stick up for myself.”