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by D J Wiseman


  Lydia’s Report for Dorothy

  For Dorothy Joslin.

  This is the information regarding your family history. These things can be quite difficult to follow if you are not familiar with the terminology that is often used and it is easy to get lost in the different generations, so I have set this out in what I hope are easy to follow sections which correspond to a particular family. The first one covers ‘Papa’ and ‘Mama’s’ family, which are your great grandparents and their children, including your grandfather Joseph.

  All the birth, marriage and death certificates are in a section at the back, plus copies of a few other records like the census sheets. The census information has been included in the report where it concerns your own ancestors but I have not completed all the details for everyone else. The census details are noted with the year and the word ‘cen’ after it, so where you see ‘1881cen’ that means the 1881 census and so on. Also at the back is a diagram showing all the family that have been found. It is too big to fit on a single sheet so I have taped them together so that you can fold it out to have a view of them all.

  You will see that there are a few other notes included about some of the people mentioned, and these are where I have drawn on some other sources, or where there are still some questions unanswered. You will be able to work out who most of the people are in the albums, but just as a marker for you I have noted a few of the photographs against the people in the report, especially the one which started the whole process, the 1911 Longlands family. I thought it was the best one to go on the front of this so I hope you like it.

  Albert Joslin (your great grandfather) and his family

  * * *

  Birth Date: 17 Mar 1851

  Birth Place: Bocking End

  Death Date: 29 May 1923

  Death Place: Bocking End

  Occupation: Wine Trader/Dealer

  This is ‘Papa’ in the 1911 Longlands photo, your great grandfather. The old house still stands, but has been much changed and added to. It is currently a care home for the elderly.

  1871cen Chelmsford, age 20, where he lives with his uncle Joseph. 1881cen Bocking end age 30 with his wife Pitternelle(23) and son Albert (2). 1891cen Bocking End, age 38, a wine dealer, with wife Pitternel (33) born London, son Albert(12) born Coggeshall, daughter Isabella(9), son Joseph(7) both born Bocking. Also resident Albert’s mother Loveday Joslin (64) and Adelle Speen, domestic servant.

  1901cen Bocking End, age 48, a wine and spirit merchant, with wife Pitternel(43), son Joseph(17) and daughters Isabella(19), Alice(8) and Aletha(8). Also resident Alice Speen 16 yo domestic servant. Note that son Albert has left home.

  Spouse: Pitternell White

  Birth Date: Mar 1858

  Birth Place: Holborn, London

  Death Date: 4 Jun 1931

  Death Place: Bocking

  This is ‘Mama’ in the 1911 Longlands Photo, your great grandmother. In various records she is shown as Pitternel, Pitternell and Pitternelle.

  Marriage Date: 2 May 1878

  Marriage Place: Coggeshall

  Other wife: Isabella Dix

  Children:

  1 Albert Joslin

  * * *

  Birth Date: 3 Mar 1879

  Birth Place: Coggeshall

  Death Date: 3 Jan 1961

  Death Place: Bocking

  Occupation: Ag. Dealer

  1901cen Lodging in Colchester, unmarried age 22, an agricultural dealer. (Note - recorded as Jocelyn).

  This is the Albert, your great uncle, sitting next to ‘Mama’ in the Longlands 1911 photo.

  Spouse: Beatrice Pelham

  Birth Date: 1882

  Birth Place: Saffron Walden

  Death Date: 9 Jun 1963

  Death Place: Braintree

  Beatrice is seated on the left of the middle row of figures in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

  Marriage Date: 3 Feb 1902

  Marriage Place: Bocking, Essex

  Children: Beatrice Pelham

  Albert Pelham

  Harriet Pelham

  2 Isabella Joslin

  * * *

  Birth Date: 14 Sep 1881

  Birth Place: Bocking

  Death Date: 9 Nov 1948

  Death Place: Colchester

  Isabella, your great aunt, is seated next to her father in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

  Spouse: Francis Marshall

  Birth Date: 1876

  Birth Place: Coggeshall

  Death Date: 1916

  Death Place: France

  Occupation: 1902-4 Insurance Agent (from children’s birth certificates)

  Marriage Date: 1901

  Marriage Place: Bocking

  Children: Phoebe ‘Bee’ Isabella

  Albert William Francis

  3 Joseph Joslin

  * * *

  Birth Date: 2 Mar 1883

  Birth Place: Bocking

  Death Date: 9 May 1915

  Death Place: Near Ypres, France

  Your grandfather Joseph died without having ever seen his daughter Fanny (your mother), possibly without even knowing that he was a father. In the 1911 Longlands photograph he is seated and on the far right of the row.

  Spouse: Fanny Holland

  Birth Date: 1886

  Birth Place: Colchester

  Death Date: 9 Oct 1922

  Death Place: Bocking

  Marriage Date: 15 Aug 1914

  Marriage Place: Colchester

  Children: Fanny

  4 Alice Joslin

  * * *

  Birth Date: 2 Sep 1892

  Birth Place: Bocking

  Death Date: 31 Oct 1914

  Death Place: At sea off Whitby

  Burial Place: Never recovered

  Occupation: Volunteer nurse

  Recorded as killed when the hospital ship Rohilla was wrecked 1914. She was serving as a nurse. In the 1911 Longlands photograph she is standing next to her sister Alethia, third from the left in the back row.

  5 Alethia Joslin

  * * *

  Birth Date: 2 Sep 1892

  Birth Place: Bocking

  Death Date: 10 Jul 1970

  Death Place: Braintree

  Alethia is also variously recorded as Aletha and Alethea.

  Alethia is the original elusive ‘self’ of the 1911 Longlands photograph. She is standing second from the left, next to a visitor, Mr Melville. She and Alice are your great aunts.

  Spouse: James Dix Myers

  Birth Date: 4 Jul 1892

  Birth Place: Braintree

  Death Date: 2 May 1968

  Death Place: Braintree

  Spouse Father: Henry Myers (1856-1928)

  Spouse Mother: Martha Dix (1858-1929)

  James is standing in the back row, second from the right next to his brother Henry in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

  According to the postcard sent by their son Henry from training camp in October 1942, James and Alethia were living at 27 Grenville Road, Braintree, Essex.

  Marriage Date: 8 Mar 1922

  Marriage Place: Chelmsford

  Children: Henry Dix

  Verity Dix

  Albert Joslin (your great uncle) and his family

  * * *

  Birth Date: 3 Mar 1879

  Birth Place: Coggeshall

  Death Date: 3 Jan 1961

  Death Place: Bocking

  Occupation: Ag. Dealer

  Notes: 1901cen Lodging in Colchester, unmarried age 22, an agricultural dealer. (Note - recorded as Jocelyn).

  This is the Albert sitting to the right of ‘Mama’ as you look at the Longlands 1911 photo.

  Spouse: Beatrice Pelham

  Birth Date: 1882

  Birth Place: Saffron Walden

  Death Date: 9 Jun 1963

  Death Place: Braintree

  Beatrice is seated on the left of the middle row of figures in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

  Marriage Date: 3 Feb 1902

  Marriage Place: Bocking, Essex
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  Children:

  1 Beatrice Pelham Joslin

  * * *

  Birth Date: 2 Dec 1902

  Birth Place: Bocking End

  Christen Date: 8 Jan 1903

  Christen Place: Bocking

  Death Date: 10 Jan 1903

  Death Place: Bocking End

  2 Albert Pelham Joslin

  * * *

  Birth Date: 6 Aug 1903

  Birth Place: Braintree, Essex

  Death Date: 1944

  Death Place: Tooting, London

  Occupation: Commodities Dealer

  1942 Telephone directory gives address of Joslin A P as 16 Ansell Road SW17.

  Note, died as a result of a VI bomb, one of the first to land on London.

  This is the Albert who is sitting cross legged on the grass second from the right in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

  Spouse: Hannah Brightside

  Birth Date: 18 Sep 1902

  Birth Place: St Marylebone

  Death Date: Sep 1949

  Death Place: London

  Marriage Date: 19 Jun 1928

  Marriage Place: Westminster

  Children: Ethel Beatrice

  Violet Hannah

  Rose Elizabeth

  3 Harriet Pelham Joslin

  * * *

  Birth Date: 7 Jul 1905

  Birth Place: Bocking

  Death Date: 4 Apr 1997

  Death Place: Maldon, Essex

  Dorothy, this is the Harriet in the 1911 Longlands photograph. The only record I can find that fits the facts is a death record for Harriet Joslin in 1997. She died a spinster in a care home in Maldon.

  Francis Marshall (who married your great aunt Isabella) and their family

  * * *

  Birth Date: 1876

  Birth Place: Coggeshall

  Death Date: 1916

  Death Place: France

  Occupation: 1902-4 Insurance Agent (from children’s birth certificates)

  Spouse: Isabella Joslin (your great aunt)

  Birth Date: 14 Sep 1881

  Birth Place: Bocking

  Death Date: 9 Nov 1948

  Death Place: Colchester

  Spouse Father: Albert Joslin (1851-1923)

  Spouse Mother: Pitternell White (1858-1931)

  Isabella is seated next to her father in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

  Marriage Date: 1901

  Marriage Place: Bocking

  Children:

  1 Phoebe ‘Bee’ Isabella Marshall

  * * *

  Birth Date: 29 May 1902

  Birth Place: Coggershall

  Death Date: About 17 Jul 1983

  Death Place: Bride’s Cottage, Bridekirk Cockermouth

  Burial Date: Jul 1983

  Burial Place: Bridekirk, Cumbria

  Phoebe was the first of the family that I was able to identify with any certainty. It was Phoebe’s grave that I found in Bridekirk churchyard. Phoebe visited your mother together with Ethel Ingleby (Joslin) and Ethel’s children Susan and Paul.

  Phoebe is in the Longlands 1911 photograph as ‘Bee’

  1.2 Albert William Francis Marshall

  * * *

  Birth Date: 11 Nov 1904

  Birth Place: Braintree

  Death Date: 1939

  Death Place: France

  Albert is in the Longlands 1911 photograph and is captioned as ‘Albert M’.

  Joseph Joslin (your grandfather) and his family

  * * *

  Birth Date: 2 Mar 1883

  Birth Place: Bocking

  Death Date: 9 May 1915

  Death Place: Near Ypres, France

  Joseph died without having ever seen his daughter Fanny, possibly without even knowing that he was a father. In the 1911 Longlands photograph he is seated and on the far right of the row.

  Spouse: Fanny Holland

  Birth Date: 1886

  Birth Place: Colchester

  Death Date: 9 Oct 1922

  Death Place: Bocking

  The photo of Fanny in Longlands album matches your photo from your mother’s papers. The rest of the information you already have so I have not repeated anything but the bare facts here.

  Marriage Date: 15 Aug 1914

  Marriage Place: Colchester

  Children: Fanny

  1 Fanny Joslin (your mother)

  * * *

  Birth Date: 19 Apr 1915

  Birth Place: Colchester

  Death Date: 1963

  Death Place: Brighton

  Spouse: Byron Weston

  Occupation: RN

  Reported to have died at sea.

  Children: Dorothy

  James Dix Myers (who married your great aunt Alethia) and their family

  * * *

  Birth Date: 4 Jul 1892

  Birth Place: Braintree

  Death Date: 2 May 1968

  Death Place: Braintree

  James is standing in the back row, second from the right next to his brother Henry in the Longlands 1911 photograph. According to the postcard sent by their son Henry from training camp in October 1942, James and Alethia were living at 27 Grenville Road, Braintree, Essex.

  Spouse: Alethia Joslin (your great aunt)

  Birth Date: 2 Sep 1892

  Birth Place: Bocking

  Death Date: 10 Jul 1970

  Death Place: Braintree

  Spouse Father: Albert Joslin (1851-1923)

  Spouse Mother: Pitternell White (1858-1931)

  Other Spouse: Barbara Vaughan

  Note. Alethia is also variously recorded as Aletha and Alethea. Alethia is the original elusive ‘self ’ of the 1911 Longlands photograph. She is standing second from the left, next to a visitor, Mr. Melville.

  Marriage Date: 8 Mar 1922

  Marriage Place: Chelmsford

  Children:

  1 Henry Dix Myers

  * * *

  Birth Date: 16 Oct 1922

  Birth Place: Braintree

  Death Date: 18 Sep 1943

  Death Place: over Germany

  Burial Date: 1945

  Burial Place: Reichswald Forest War Cemetery

  Occupation: RAF

  Other information discovered: October 1942 at RAF training camp; 1943 at RAF Waterbeach; Died when shot down navigating a bomber over Germany in 1943. He was removed from his original burial place in 1945 and re-interred at Reichswald.

  Spouse: Kathleen Farrow

  Birth Date: 1923

  Birth Place: Dover

  Marriage Date: 22 May 1943

  Marriage Place: Cambridge

  2 Verity Dix Myers

  * * *

  Birth Date: 16 Oct 1922

  Birth Place: Braintree

  Apart from her birth record and the reference to her on the postcard to her parents, no other record has been found under Myers or Dix Myers or variants of these. She may have emigrated or she may yet still be alive and living in the UK.

  Albert Pelham Joslin (your great uncle Albert’s son, which makes him your 1st Cousin ‘once removed’) and his family

  * * *

  Birth Date: 6 Aug 1903

  Birth Place: Braintree, Essex

  Death Date: 1944

  Death Place: Tooting, London

  Occupation: Commodities Dealer

  1942 Telephone directory gives address of Joslin A P as 16 Ansell Road SW17. He died as a result of a VI bomb, one of the first to land on London. This is the Albert who is sitting cross legged on the grass second from the right in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

  Spouse: Hannah Brightside

  Birth Date: 18 Sep 1902

  Birth Place: St Marylebone

  Death Date: Sep 1949

  Death Place: London

  Marriage Date: 19 Jun 1928

  Marriage Place: Westminster

  Children:

  1 Ethel Beatrice Joslin

  * * *

  Birth Date: 10 Oct 1929

  Birth Place: Tooting

  Death Date: 7 Oct 1972<
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  Death Place: Oxford

  Ethel is the third woman in the picture from your kitchen drawer, together with your mother and Phoebe Marshall. Ethel is your ‘second cousin’, as are her sisters Violet and Rose. Ethel and her family are the once most often featured in the album with the seaside holiday pictures. When she added to the album Ethel wrote herself as ‘self ’.

  Spouse: Frederick Ingleby

  Birth Date: 3 Jan 1924

  Birth Place: Hemel Hempstead

  Death Date: 6 Feb 1975

  Death Place: Oxford

  Occupation: Electrical Engineer

  Marriage Date: 3 Dec 1951

  Marriage Place: Chelsea

  Children: Susan Dorcas

 

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