by James Wood
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Also by James Wood
Copyright Page
For my parents, and for C.D.M.
1
I DENIED MY FATHER THREE TIMES, twice before he died, once afterwards.
The obituaries editor of The Times was responsible for my first denial. That was almost two years ago. I was still living with my wife, Jane Sheridan, but we were constantly arguing. At University College, where I was teaching philosophy, I had become one of those figures whom students romanticize and sometimes even pity. I didn’t have the proper qualifications, and the classes I gave were printed on the curriculum brochure—grudgingly, I felt—in a different coloured ink from the main lectures. Insultingly, the university paid me by the hour! The faculty was beginning to look at me as if I were dead, the students as if I were somewhat grotesquely alive, but it amounted to the same thing.
We were in debt, and my childhood friend Max Thurlow offered to help. He is now a successful, what you might call intellectually deluxe columnist at The Times—the type who mentions Tacitus or Mill every other week—and knew that the newspaper prepared its major obituaries in advance of the subjects’ deaths, and that most of them were written by freelance contributors. So Max proposed my name to the appropriate editor, Ralph Hegley, and said that I could write obituaries of philosophers and intellectuals. And Hegley asked to have lunch with me. We met at a restaurant in Covent Garden—expensive Italian, snowy tablecloths, steam room hush, Pompeian ruins of cheese on a silent trolley—and sat at a window table. On the street, where the cars were parked in convoy, a traffic warden was going from car to car, pen in hand, like the waiters inside the restaurant soliciting orders. Hegley had a huge head, was middle-aged, sickly lugubrious, pale. He was dressed in a double-breasted suit as thick as a straitjacket, and a rich silk tie plaited in a fat junction. But he wore oddly childish shoes—they seemed as soft and rubbery as slippers. “I have bad feet,” he explained, when he caught me looking down.
“I’ll order for you if you don’t mind,” he said. “There are certain do’s and don’t’s at this restaurant. It takes years to acquaint yourself with this little civilization.” As he said this, he looked around with a strange contempt on his face.
Hegley explained that freelancers wrote advance obituaries of selected “candidates.” He was especially interested in philosophers who were known to be unwell, or rapidly declining with age. He became impatient, and irritably coaxed the keys in his trouser pocket as he put names to me.
“How’s Althusser? He’s the killer, right? Maybe his number’s up now. And that other chap in Paris, the Romanian, Cioran. I hear he’s not too well, it’s the Romanian genes. Any Americans? We tend to miss ’em, then we have to do a rush job once they’ve gone. I don’t like rush jobs. That is for other papers, all right? Oh, and we need someone to update our Popper piece, pep it up a bit. I’ve heard he’s a wee bit poorly.”
Catching on, and knowing nothing about the apparently welcome illnesses of various world philosophers, I invented several ailments.
“I’m told,” I said, “by various colleagues at UCL, that Gadamer is not very well.”
“Jolly good. Add him to the list.” As usual when lying, I felt warm, light-headed.
“And Derrida has never had tremendously good health. That’s well known.”
“Is it? Right, let’s snatch him before he … self-deconstructs—isn’t that his word?”
I left lunch with four commissions—Cioran, Popper, Derrida, and Gadamer—each paying £200.
But I never wrote one of those obituaries. Other things got in the way. Look, I have been trying to finish my Ph.D. thesis for seven years, and I seem to have a distaste for finishing things. Recently, I have been neglecting the Ph.D. for a private project which I call the “Book Against God” (I think of it now as the BAG). In it I copy out apposite religious and antireligious quotations, and develop arguments of my own about theological and philosophical matters. It has swelled to four large notebooks. It has really become my life’s work, as far as I am concerned. And whenever I was about to begin one of those damned obituaries, I found myself drawn to some crucial novelty in my BAG, and the day would disappear into theology and antitheology.
Eventually Hegley got tired of waiting, sent me an irritable letter. It had been three months, he complained, and he had received nothing. Should he still consider me the writer of the proposed obituaries? I don’t cope well with pressure. I was keen to stay on Hegley’s order form, and suddenly I realized that the most decisive way both to explain my tardiness and to appeal for sympathy would be to tell him that I had been lately dealing with my own rather more proximate obituary: I told Hegley that my father had died a month ago, and that I had not had an ungrieving minute to deal with the work in hand. Hegley wrote back with his condolences. Of course I should take as much time as I wanted.
This worked so well that I told a similar lie a month later, after I received a letter from the Inland Revenue about outstanding taxes payable on various part-time jobs I had had over the years. Usually I ignore these kinds of communications, but this one had an imperious glower and for some reason my name was printed in bold capitals: THOMAS BUNTING. I opened it to find myself summoned to attend a “hearing” in Wembley. There I would be “assessed” by government auditors. If there were any extenuating circumstances, any good reason for the tardiness of my payments, I should explain myself in writing, and at the hearing this letter would be read out in my defence.
That was how I found myself three weeks later sitting at an unnatural table—that caramel-municipal sheen found in so many offices—opposite four men in suits, one of whom was reading out my letter. It explained that due to the recent death of my father, and the heavy business related to the tidying up of his estate, I had fallen behind in the paying of my taxes. I was truly sorry to have found myself in this position but the last three months had been a period of grief and shock as well as distraction, and might I presume on the leniency and compassion (this word underlined) of the assessors to grant me another six months to get my taxes in order? This was read out in a flat, bored voice so that, if one closed one’s eyes, one would swear that the reader—a terribly thin man—was simultaneously doing something else. I kept my eyes down and strove to appear slumped in grief.
The stay of execution was granted. Of course, my father was alive then. I had calculated that an extreme measure would work. I would not have written those letters had I known that my father would be dead within a year of my writing them.
But we can’t schedule the consequences of our lies.
The third of these “denials” took place after my father’s death, and was not a lie, but by then it felt like one. When I recently told Jimmy Madeiros, the manager of the underground porter-packer division at Harrods, where I worked this summer, that my father had just died, and that therefore I couldn’t continue with the job, I was telling the truth. But it seemed like a lie, because I saw at once that he didn’t really believe me. So I felt cheated. When I’m not lying I think I should almost get credit for it; it is like that wise saying in the Talmud—“The thief who lacks an opportunity to steal feels like an honest man.”
2
IT IS SEPTEMBE
R NOW, September 12th, 1991, to be exact, four months since my father died; and it is longer since things began to sour between Jane and me. And now—what a mess I’m in, really. I’m reminded of my old history teacher in Durham, Mr. Duffy. One day he came into the classroom and upturned the wastepaper basket on the table. Then he took off his gown, pleated in the corners like a napkin, and threw it onto the pile of papers and dust. He walked over to the timid little boy whose parents were divorcing and took the contents of his desk and added them to the pile of rubbish. Then standing behind the table, and putting one leg before the other, he declaimed: “In 1381, England was in a mess!” All these years later, I know what he meant.
At the moment I’m living in an unpleasant little room, a bedsit I suppose, in Swiss Cottage, in a 1930s building on the Finchley Road pounded by traffic. I moved here in May, just after my father’s funeral, and after my estranged wife put me “on probation.” At the service, with Father’s body barely cold, Jane told me that she would have me back only if I could prove to her that I was no longer a liar, an operation which, I see now, has more than a touch about it of the famous Cretan paradox. In four months nothing has happened yet on that front, so here I am on the Finchley Road, alone. The landlord asks for the rent in cash every Saturday morning. My bed is next to the bathroom door, which can’t close all the way, and I hear the lavatory dribbling day and night. It makes me think of a little boy with an eternally running nose. I am on the first floor, above a karate studio, of all things. During the day, yelps of triumph and pain can be heard. I miss the flat Jane and I lived in when we were together. It was in the hilly area of Islington, on the top floor of a gabled Victorian house. From the high window you could see a piece of the policeman’s helmet of St. Paul’s dome, and further on a glimpse of Parliament, and its loyal river, obeying the crowded banks, selflessly flowing. At dusk, holding a drink by the window and feeling luxurious and waiting for Jane to return from work, I loved to see the city streetlights going on all over town in amber hesitations.
Jane was always frustrated by my extravagance and by my inability to earn any money. I don’t blame her for getting angry. What did her husband amount to? I was barely tolerated at UCL; I moped and bunted (yes, I invented the word) about the house all day in a dirty paisley dressing gown (but made of very good silk); and instead of finishing my Ph.D., I fiddled in ecstasies—and they are ecstasies—with my BAG. Jane teaches the piano at Trinity College of Music, and she used to get occasional lump sums when she played recitals. I had my shillings from UCL; in those days, they still felt like employing me. But London, and my expensive ways, swallowed everything we earned. I can’t help blaming my late father, Peter Bunting, for my extravagant tastes. In 1959, Father, who had been teaching theology at Durham University, resigned his job and became a priest. He was bored of teaching and keen to have a parish. He took command of a little church in the village of Sundershall, about ten miles west of the town. No doubt he reckoned that the difference between a university lecturer’s salary and a vicar’s stipend was small enough that no sudden impoverishment would consume his family. But my parents’ finances were sickly; in my memory, Father seems to be continually driving in to Durham to meet “the bank manager,” to arrange for “another lease of life.” Though my parents weren’t ascetic, indeed quite worldly by instinct, our life was materially thin. All our textures were strained through the sieve of their finances.
That necessary rationing has produced extravagant tastes in me, and an avoidance of the ordinary wherever possible. For instance, I never blow my nose into a handkerchief because the nasal trumpeting has always sounded plebeian to me. (I clean my nose quietly and secretly.) I like beautiful objects, rich foods, rare atmospheres. It sometimes seems to me that I’m on a quest to naturalize and enhance all the materials and substances with which I grew up: where my parents had a reproduction of a Russian icon, I yearn for the real thing; where they wore nylon, I will wear cotton; their wool must become my cashmere, and their méthode champenoise only ever my Veuve Clicquot. The upright piano must become a grand. The secularist, as I certainly consider myself, has a duty to be worldly, to take the pagan waters at spas of his own choosing. Don’t I have Nietzsche, one of my favourite philosophers, to support me? And Camus, the Algerian bather-seducer. Now, it’s true that in my present circumstances—all day that blasted traffic races past my window, up the awful Finchley Road—I do not have much opportunity for extravagance; I have very little income, and whatever I earn (or am given) I have to send off to Philip Zealy, a crook and usurer in Durham. Zealy has taken nearly all the money I earned this summer at Harrods. But my day will come.
Anyway, to return to our marriage. My lavish habits, not to mention the requests of the Inland Revenue, had indebted us pretty badly, and this was one of the reasons for the frequent arguments that Jane and I had. We had decided to try to have a child (or rather, Jane had made the decision), and this momentous choice had made her even less tolerant of my lies. “Our child cannot have an untruthful father, Tom. What example would that be?” Well, I dislike my lies, too. Morality aside, lies add to the general confusion of my life, a confusion I sincerely want to reduce. Quite often, I might be happily minding my own business, and then suddenly a mental irritation reaches me, and I remember some little deceit I have committed, and I realize that I still have to extricate myself from the confusion it has left in its wake. This happens less now, because I see so few people in my present life; but when Jane and I were still living together my lies were always getting in the way of harmonious relations. I might, for instance, have declined a supper invitation with the Impeys by quickly inventing a prior engagement with the Davidsons; but then the Impeys happened to know the Davidsons and might discover my untruth; so, as an alibi—and this happened on one occasion—I had then to phone the Davidsons and fix up supper for the same night on which I had originally declined to see the Impeys.
Not long after the incident with the Inland Revenue, Jane and I quarreled about a foolish situation. Catrine Hillier, apparently one of Jane’s “enemies”—in our four years together I never properly ascertained who was an enemy and who an ally, since there were weekly demotions and promotions—phoned to ask us to a small drinks party two weeks hence. Jane was out at Trinity; I was in the middle of writing a long entry in my BAG about Kierkegaard. I was fathoms deep in his repulsive brand of Christian masochism, wrestling with assertions such as this: “Did Job win his case? Yes, eternally, for the fact that he lost his case before God.” No one else in the world resists these vile paradoxes! The task has fallen to me alone to fight the Danish knight of faith, and I was knee deep in the necessary struggle when Catrine rang. Caught off guard, and not forthright enough to refuse, I said that we would go, making a mental note to phone her nearer the time with an invented excuse. Then I went back to the BAG, and didn’t look up from it until midafternoon. When I came up for air, I noticed with dismay that the flat was untidy, that chores Jane had asked me to do—to vacuum the carpets and wash the breakfast dishes—were mysteriously untouched. I couldn’t really face domestic work, so I went into town to get a book and also bought, on impulse, a rather pretty necklace for my beloved, who loves jewels of all kinds.
Jane returned late that evening, with her usual emphatic bang of the front door, and the sound I knew well, of her music case—with a loose metal buckle that rings—being stored away in the front hall cupboard. Vivid with the city world she had come from, and carrying a little urban ghost of cold air behind her, she entered our warm sitting room. She was wearing a short brown leather skirt (my suggestion) and a white silk blouse. Looking at her, I thought that her male piano students were very lucky, and had probably never had it so good.
I was excited about the necklace, but before presenting it I told her that Catrine and Danny Hillier had invited us to drinks and that I had mistakenly agreed to the invitation.
“All right, Tommy. I know we’ve agreed that there won’t be any more lying.” She reached forward
, gently subtracted my cigarette from my hand, took a drag herself, smiled, and shone her very dark eyes at me. She kissed me, and then nipped the cigarette out. “Sorry,” she said, as I watched the pinched foam filter in the ashtray, “I can’t stand it in the house in the evening. Now, although we’ve agreed, you’re now going to have to pull out one of your lies again to get us out of Catrine and Danny’s party. I can’t possibly go!”
“Tell me again why Catrine is now in the enemy camp?” I asked, amused. “And do you want a drink?” I asked, noticing Jane’s eye on my large scotch and soda. “Alcohol is permitted, I assume?”
“Well, it’s perfectly clear,” she replied, rather haughtily, and with great emphasis, as if I were testing her.
“Yes, my love, but not to me,” I said.
“Catrine has been horribly mean to Roger about his choir. She said hurtful things about their last concert.”
“I see.”
“You’re teasing me.”
“Well, because you move your friends—”
“They’re your friends, too—”
“You move your friends from one camp to the other for only two reasons: it’s either something murkily musical, or something elusively ethical. In Catrine you’ve managed to fuse the reasons into one.” I could hear my voice sounding like my father’s—clever, too buoyant.
“Tom, not everything can be put into words, something that probably comes as a shock to the Bunting family. I don’t like her at the moment and that is that. We can’t possibly go to Catrine’s. So pull one of your stunts for me, will you, darling?” She wandered into the kitchen and I suddenly remembered that I had neglected the domestic chores.
“Oh, darling, it is a bit grim to come home and find the place a complete tip. Didn’t I ask you to do the dishes?”
“Yes, you did, and I forgot, and I’m sorry, but I had to be out this afternoon, in town, where I bought … this!” I handed her the plush little box. She tilted open the flimsy sprung lid.