by Loung Ung
FIRST THEY KILLED MY FATHER
Loung Ung’s First They Killed My Father is an unforgettable narrative of war crimes and desperate actions, the remarkable strength of a small girl and her family, and a triumph of human spirit over oppression. Loung Ung, one of seven children of a high-ranking government official, lived in Phnom Penh until the age of five. She was a precocious child who loved the open city markets, fried crickets, chicken fights, and sassing her parents. When Pol Pot’s Khmer Rouge army stormed into Phnom Penh in April 1975, Ung’s family fled their home and moved from village to village—hiding their identity, their education, and their former life of privilege. Eventually the family dispersed in order to survive. Loung was trained as a child soldier in a work camp for orphans, while other siblings were sent to labor camps. As the Vietnamese penetrated Cambodia and destroyed the Khmer Rouge, Loung and her surviving siblings were slowly reunited. Bolstered by the bravery of one brother, the vision of the others, and the gentle kindness of her sister, Loung forged on to create for herself a courageous new life.
“There can be absolutely no question about the innate power of [Ung’s] story, the passion with which she tells it, or its enduring importance.”
—Washington Post Book World
PRAISE FOR
Lucky Child
“Both stories—Loung’s, told in her own voice, and Chou’s, narrated in the third person—are inherently fascinating and are recounted with a vividness and immediacy that make them even more so…. Written with an engaging vigor and directness, Lucky Child is an unforgettable portrait of resilience and largeness of spirit.”
—Los Angeles Times
“Deeply stirring… heartbreaking, and not less than brilliant.”
—Miami Herald
“[Ung] captured my heart…. Lucky Child is captivating, deep, and delightful.”
—Chicago Tribune
“At once elegiac and clear-eyed, this moving volume is a tribute to the path not taken.”
—Vogue
“Ung is a masterful storyteller whose fresh, clear prose shimmers with light and sorrow. Her stories are of the heroism and resilience of ordinary people beset by extraordinary tragedies. Lucky Child not only shares the stories of two sisters but also resonates to all of our stories in a world that, like Ung’s family, is divided between the lucky and the unlucky.”
—Mary Pipher, Ph.D., author of Reviving Ophelia:
Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls
“Lucky Child is a tender, searing journey of two sisters, two worlds, two destinies. It is about the long-term consequences of war—how it changes everything, annihilates, uproots, and separates families. And it is about how humans triumph—building lives wherever they land and finding their way back to each other.” —Eve Ensler, author of The Vagina Monologues
“Heartrending and eloquent…. A moving reminder of human resiliency and the power of family bonds.”
—Newsweek
“The genocide and subjugation of millions of Cambodians under the Khmer Rouge have been well documented…. Lucky Child is a reminder that each of those terrible losses was suffered individually…. While [Ung] writes convincingly of terror, death, and loss—her account of the death of a young cousin in Cambodia is heartbreaking—even more fresh and perceptive are her observations of everyday life. When she looks in the mirror, she craves to see her family members, dead and alive, but ‘we do not have a single picture of them and my face is now the only image I have to remember them by’ [A] fiercely honest and affecting memoir.”
—Seattle Times
“Remarkable…. Lucky Child is part adventure, part history, and, in large, part love story about family. The Ungs’ tenacity and enduring kindness testify to the very best of human nature. After surviving ‘the worst kind of inhumanity,’ the Ungs remain human.”
—Cleveland Plain Dealer
“Ung brings third and first world disparities into discomforting focus and gracefully dramatizes the metaphorical joining together of her haunted past and her current identity as a privileged Cambodian American. When the narratives fuse at the sisters’ long-awaited reunion, their clasping of hands throws wide the floodgates to tamped-down memories—a cathartic release that readers will tearfully, gratefully share.”
—Booklist (starred review)
“This book is alternately heart-wrenching and heartwarming, as it follows the parallel lives of Loung Ung and her closest sister, Chou, during the fifteen years it took for them to reunite.”
—Publishers Weekly (starred review)
“Many recent books have told the tale of genocide and survival, but, in Lucky Child, Loung Ung has given us a book as unusual as it is heartbreaking—the story of a family torn in two after genocide…. Loung has managed to follow First They Killed My Father with a book every bit as gripping and important, and she has given us a unique glimpse into America’s melting pot—a melting pot born of indescribable suffering but brimming with irrepressible life.”
—Samantha Power, author of “A Problem from Hell”:
America and the Age of Genocide
“Vivid prose…. Ung imparts freshness to a fairly familiar immigrant’s tale…. A moving story of transition, transformation, and reunion.”
—Kirkus Reviews
“Lucky Child is a painful yet lyrical story of the lengths to which one family will go to protect its own. Ung offers a devastating look at the enormous global effects of political oppression. Yet for all the sadness in her personal story, Lucky Child is also a soaring tale of human spirit.”
—BookPage
“Loung Ung’s Lucky Child is a rich narrative that explores the ravages of war and the strength of family bonds…. Powerful and moving… Lucky Child is far too relevant to our own time.”
—Amnesty International
“As piercing and poignant as its title, Lucky Child is the remarkable account of two sisters divided by history and riven by tragedy, and the journey which made one an American who would not forget her homeland, or the kin she left behind. It is we who are lucky that Loung Ung is such a gifted writer, and that she has chosen to share her story.”
—Richard North Patterson, author of Balance of Power
“I encourage everyone to read this deeply moving and very important book. Equal to the strength of the book is the woman who wrote it. She is a voice for her people and they are lucky to have her.”
—Angelina Jolie, Goodwill Ambassador for the United
Nations High Commission for Refugees
“This is a strong story, simply told. Ung helps us understand what happens when a family is torn apart by politics, adversity, and war. Change the names of the characters, give them another country of origin, and this story of dislocation becomes a tragedy millions of immigrants have lived through but seldom talk about…. Ung’s story is a compelling and inspirational one that touches universal chords. Americans would do well to read it, no matter where they were born.”
—Washington Post Book World
Books by Loung Ung
Lulu in the Sky
Lucky Child
First They Killed My Father
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Ung, Loung.
Lucky child: a daughter of Cambodia reunites with the sister she left behind / Loung
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Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 0-06-073394-2 (alk. paper)
1. Ung, Chou. 2. Ung, Chou—Family. 3. Cambodian Americans—
Biography. 4. Refugees—United States—Biography. 5. Sisters—United States—
Biography. 6. Sisters—Cambodia—Biography. 7. Cambodia—Biography.
8. Political atrocities—Cambodia—History—20th century. I. Title.
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