Juliette was dumbfounded. She had believed that Priscilla liked and respected her. Priscilla had never written Juliette up, never called her into her office, never told her she was performing poorly at any aspect of her job; rather, she had frequently encouraged Juliette to be charge nurse. How was Juliette supposed to become a better nurse if her supervisor wouldn’t tell her what she was doing right or wrong? “Why would she do that to me? If Priscilla really felt that way, why wouldn’t she have told me during my evaluation? Why would she tell someone else?” Juliette wondered. “Priscilla was totally unprofessional, and it makes me angry and upset. The number of times I have been in Priscilla’s office and shared various confidences, felt that she was on my side, believed in me, thought I was a good nurse. To find out she said this to another employee is hurtful and a betrayal. And I didn’t even want the job! All I wanted was clin 4. She’s gossiping and trying to create fights. It’s staff-splitting. It’s wrong, it’s damaging, and I can’t possibly respect her after this.”
Priscilla’s slight was not only a personal betrayal from the one person left at Pines who Juliette had considered a confidante, but also a reflection of a toxic environment where cliques, gossip, and vendettas affected both staff morale and patient care. Good nurses were underappreciated and Juliette was a good nurse. “Priscilla is an ineffectual manager on so many levels. Her duplicity is too glaring to ignore, and Charlene’s poor managerial skills combine to make a miserable work environment. The emotional drain isn’t worth it anymore,” Juliette said.
During her next shift at Pines, Juliette found Bethany in the med room looking for supplies. “Bethany,” Juliette said, “I heard from Molly that Priscilla told you she would never give me the senior charge nurse job.”
“She did!” said Bethany, looking relieved. “I told Molly because I knew she’d tell you and I didn’t feel comfortable telling you that directly. Priscilla said she wanted to make sure I knew she’d never give you the job. But you didn’t even apply!”
“I’m just astonished she would say something like that,” Juliette said, disappointed that the gossip was true.
“It’s so completely unprofessional,” Bethany said, shaking her head. “What are you going to do?”
“I don’t know. I’ve been done with this place for so long anyway.” Juliette thanked Bethany and went on with her workday.
That evening, Juliette called Erica, the senior charge nurse who had resigned in November. She explained what had happened. “Can you believe she said that?” Juliette asked.
“I can absolutely believe she said that,” Erica replied. “I heard things that she said about me in that office. There’s an endless cesspool of information flowing from that back office to the ER. She fosters a sorority girl atmosphere with the gossip and the backstabbing, which is why I couldn’t wait to leave.”
“If I go agency, would you write me a letter so that I can update my recommendations?” Juliette asked.
“Of course I will.”
The next day, Juliette came to a decision. Molly had been trying to persuade her for months that she would be happier if she went back to the agency they had worked for previously. It was finally time to give up on Pines. Like many talented nurses continually defeated by poor working conditions, Juliette quit.
Juliette found Priscilla in her office. “I’m resigning and this is my two weeks’ notice. I’m going agency so I can look for work closer to home,” Juliette lied. She saw no reason to tell Priscilla the truth. As Molly would say, how would you get that horse back in the barn? Juliette was proud of her work, doctors and nurses complimented her on it, and it had been good enough to make her one of the few Pines ER nurses to achieve clinical level 4. If the nursing director couldn’t respect that but wouldn’t tell her to her face, then it was simply time to move on.
“Okay,” Priscilla replied. She said nothing further. She resumed her paperwork and Juliette never saw her again.
The doctors had a different reaction. “I’m sorry to see you go,” Dr. Kazumi told her.
“That’s really bad news,” another doctor said.
On her way out of the building, she told Dr. Preston that she was leaving Pines. “Well, you’ve finally done it, Clark. You’ve driven me off.”
“I knew it wouldn’t take long,” he joked back.
Juliette smiled. There were some people she would miss at Pines. Her eyes watered.
“They’re jackasses if they don’t treat you right,” he said, squeezing Juliette’s shoulder.
“I love you; that was really nice,” she said.
“I’m not such an asshole.”
Juliette hugged him. Then she unfriended the clique on Facebook.
MOLLY July
The Fertility Clinic
On a warm summer morning, Molly wearily listened to Jennifer, her fertility clinic nurse, list the names and prices of the medications she needed for IVF.
“Man, it’s expensive to buy a baby,” Molly half-joked. “We need all of those?”
“Yes. But I can give you some,” Jennifer said. “We have some leftover medications from people who had more than they needed, and I can also put together some samples from the drug companies for you. That should save you about four thousand dollars.”
“Are you serious?” Molly exclaimed. “Thank you, thank you, oh my God, thank you.” She hugged Jennifer.
Jennifer smiled. “We nurses need to stick together!” she said.
Exactly thirty-six hours before the egg retrieval operation, Molly had to give herself an ovulation trigger shot. While her previous injections had been subcutaneous shots with small needles, this was a large needle that she was supposed to inject into her thigh muscle. She had only one chance to get it right. Because Trey had to work that night, Juliette had offered to do the injection, but Molly didn’t want her to have to get up at 2:30 a.m. Molly sat on the toilet seat, her hand shaking. Schoolchildren can do their own insulin injections but the almost 40-year-old broad who gave countless shots to other people today is a huge wuss. Needles didn’t bother her; she worried she would hesitate, flub the injection, and lose that expensive dose. As a nurse, she knew what to expect, but as a patient she felt vulnerable.
Molly counted to three, exhaled forcibly, and jabbed the needle into her thigh. Success. She was so amped with relief that she couldn’t get back to sleep. She toyed with the idea of calling Trey, who was at the station, but he was trying not to emotionally invest too much in the process in case it didn’t work. His self-preservation was probably wise. Nonetheless, for a few minutes, she let tendrils of daydreams hazily curl into the image of a baby.
The next week, Molly and Trey were in a surgical room with an ultrasound and video monitor. The screen displayed a picture of two embryos, one with eight cells and one with four. Those could be our babies! Molly thought, mesmerized. She turned to look at Trey, who was silent as usual, but noticeably wide-eyed, staring at the picture, too.
The embryologist presented her with a photo of the embryos in a small paper frame. Molly didn’t want to get her hopes up, not with her low chance of success. But she couldn’t stop staring at the picture.
Citycenter Medical
At Citycenter, a woman came into the ER with a severe allergic reaction to nuts. Molly was in the medication room when another nurse, who was new to the ER, came in to get the epinephrine that a resident ordered. The nurse stared at the vial. “Can I ask you something?” she said to Molly. “The new resident ordered point-three milligrams of one to ten thousand epi. That doesn’t seem right.”
“It’s not. It’s one to one thousand given subcutaneously,” Molly said. She showed the nurse the dosage in the hospital’s drug guide and pulled out the proper vial. Molly was swamped with her own patients but accompanied the nurse to the allergic patient’s room. This was a high-risk situation with a high-risk drug and she didn’t want to put the new nurse
on the spot in front of the resident.
“I’m giving one to one thousand,” the nurse told the resident, who was in the patient’s room.
“No, you’ve pulled the wrong vial,” the resident insisted.
Molly spoke up. “If I were giving one to ten thousand, I would have to give three milliliters instead of point-three and you don’t give that volume subcutaneously.”
Molly glanced at the patient, whose lips had swollen practically to the size of Twinkies. Epinepherine was risky because too high a concentration could put the patient in cardiac arrest; too low wouldn’t reverse the allergic reaction. This patient didn’t have time for the doctor to make the wrong call. Molly drew up the dose from the correct vial and injected the medication while the resident argued with the other nurse.
Once the resident saw what Molly was doing, she stalked out of the room.
“Go get the attending physician,” Molly told the other nurse.
The attending confirmed that Molly had been correct and the resident’s order had been wrong. Nobody thanked the nurses.
This was typical. If a nurse made the wrong call, she could get fired. If a resident made the wrong call, the nurse could get fired simply for carrying out her orders. And when the nurse made the right call, residents often took the credit. One afternoon, a Citycenter patient came in with an obviously broken leg. Because Molly couldn’t feel a pulse, she used a Dopplar machine to check for blood flow. When the brand-new resident came in, she told him what she had done.
A moment later, the attending physician entered the room. “What’s going on?” he asked.
The resident’s chest puffed. “Obvious fracture. I got the Doppler and found a pulse,” he said.
“Good job!” the attending said.
“How can they take credit for my work right in front of me?” Molly wondered later. “They want so desperately to look smart in front of the attendings. How hard would it be to use the word ‘we’ rather than ‘I’?”
Residents weren’t the only doctors who made medical errors, of course. At Avenue Hospital one day, an ER doctor had prescribed a clot-busting medication used for heart attack or stroke patients. Molly had never given this medication before, but the dose seemed high. When she asked the doctor to double-check, he pulled out his calculator, re-entered the patient’s weight, and said, “It’s right.”
Molly sent the order to the pharmacy. When the medication was ready, she started the medication pump, which began working extremely quickly. That doesn’t seem right, Molly thought, and stopped the pump. She opened the drug book the hospital kept in every room, but the medication wasn’t listed. Molly returned to the doctor and told him she didn’t think the dose was correct.
“It’s right,” he said again. Molly verified the dose with the doctor a total of six times.
By the time Molly brought the patient to the ICU, the entire dose had been administered.
“When did you start this?” the ICU nurse asked.
“Twenty minutes ago,” Molly said.
The nurse’s eyes widened in alarm.
The next day, the ER nurse manager called Molly into her office. The ICU nurse had written an incident report about the dose, which had been wrong. The patient could have died. “I have to write you up because it was a medication error,” the nurse manager said.
“Y’all can ask the doctor, the pharmacy, all of the people I asked for information on this medication that I tried to confirm the dose,” Molly said.
“Yes, but you were the one who gave the medicine,” the nurse manager said.
Molly didn’t confront the doctor because she learned that the doctor told the patient what had happened and had accepted responsibility (which didn’t change the fact that the incident was documented in Molly’s file).
At another hospital, Molly remembered when a doctor ordered the wrong medication for a patient. As per protocol at that hospital, the patient’s nurse acknowledged the order on the computer and clicked a button when she had given the medicine. Later, when the nurse returned to the computer to update the patient’s chart, she saw that the medication order, which she had already administered, was gone.
In the fallout, the doctor claimed he had never ordered the medication. The hospital fired the nurse. The nurse responded by filing a lawsuit, forcing the hospital to research the records. After four months, the hospital admitted that the doctor had lied, and agreed to rehire the nurse. “But the doctor is still there! He wasn’t fired!” Molly said. “They blindly trusted the doctor over the nurse. That kind of thing happens all the time.”
Chapter 9
What Makes a Hero:
Why Nurses Do What They Do
“Nursing is a calling, a lifestyle, a way of living.”
—The Nightingale Tribute, developed by the Kansas State Nurses Association to honor deceased nurses
“Nurses are the glue that holds healthcare together. They live to assess, treat, coordinate care, and advocate for patients, and they do it all under the most direct of pressures with the littlest of concern for their own health or well-being. There is no one less self-concerned than a nurse. They are the implementation masters of coordinated care.”
—a Virginia women’s health nurse
“It’s incredibly fulfilling. As a nurse, you have the opportunity to provide hope and comfort to people on what is often one of the worst days of their lives. I feel whole when I am caring for others, teaching them to care for themselves, and helping them heal.”
—a Washington, DC, cardiothoracic surgery nurse
“I’m Right There Wearing a Dress”: Why Murses Are Nurses
At six feet two inches, with 230 pounds of muscle and a 32-inch waist, WWE wrestler Dean Visk was enjoying a successful second career when he decided to leave professional wrestling because he missed nursing so dearly. “I thought to myself, ‘I’m a healthcare professional.’ The WWE is wonderful, but I felt like nursing was my calling,” he said.
Visk originally got into nursing because, as an amateur bodybuilder, he was interested in the prerequisite anatomy, chemistry, and biology classes. He was a full-time behavioral health nurse for five years before moving to Cincinnati to work part-time as a nurse while training for the WWE. He trained for four more years before the WWE offered him a contract. The other wrestlers didn’t mock him for working in a predominantly female field; instead, he said, they were impressed that he had such a stable career to fall back on.
Now Visk is an outpatient facility nursing director who continues to wrestle on the side for charity functions (and tells patients who recognize him, “I don’t fight anymore; I heal”). “I’ve had nothing but positive experiences in nursing,” he said. “If it’s a sisterhood, then I’m right there wearing a dress with all the other nurses. I’ve always been taken into the sisterhood without any issues.”
Out of 3.5 million nurses in the United States, approximately 330,000 are male. The highest percentage is concentrated in anesthesia: 41 percent of CRNAs are male, while 9.6 percent of registered nurses are male.
Because murses are so dramatically in the minority, some of them have had to deal with lingering public stereotypes that they are gay or effeminate, which both devalues gay nurses and contradicts an American Journal of Men’s Health study finding that male nurses “hold a high degree of masculinity.”
“You know what’s not fun in your early twenties? Being well-dressed, walking up to a girl at a bar, sparking a conversation, and then telling her you’re a nurse,” said a Virginia murse who has contended with these stereotypes. “I had to work backward to prove my heterosexuality. Now that I’m older, in a long-term relationship with a woman, and generally more confident, I don’t really care what people think. But those first few post-graduation years were rough.”
An Oregon critical care nurse said that his favorite jibe about his job is “So, you’re a male nurse
, huh?” He likes to reply, “Yep, I tried to be a female nurse, but couldn’t afford the operation.” (He added, “I am not effeminate. I am a dude.”)
Comments about being gay, feminine, or “not man enough” helped push one nurse to join the U.S. Army, which deployed him to Afghanistan with an active combat unit, at his request. The guys in his unit good-naturedly referred to his medical supply bag as “the murse’s murse,” for the male nurse’s man-purse. “I got to apply and test my skill-set and medical knowledge, at times in the most adverse of conditions, producing some of the most powerful memories I will ever experience,” he said. “On a few occasions, I was the first person on the scene for people who were critically wounded in battle. The opportunity to create my own valuable experiences is something that nursing offers that most other career fields don’t. Nursing puts you in the driver’s seat.”
Most murses said that these stereotypes don’t bother them, and that their sexuality, gay or straight, is nobody’s business but theirs. What bothers them is when (typically older) patients assume that because they are men, they must be aspiring doctors. A Canadian ICU murse said that while he had originally planned to be a surgeon, he changed his mind during the month he spent at his father’s hospital bedside before he passed away. “I realized, after seeing the effect that the nurses had on me and my family, that I could have a much bigger impact on patients by being at the bedside all the time, instead of simply writing out orders and operating on someone, but never really being there for them,” the murse said. “I get offended when patients don’t understand why I wouldn’t want to be a doctor, or they keep asking about my ‘real aspirations’ in life. When that happens, I have to explain that my goal is to be a nurse, I love what I do, and I get to do more as a nurse.”
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