Woman Hating: A Radical Look at Sexuality

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by Andrea Dworkin


  revelations o f the harmony o f being, o f which the rose,

  for initiates, was the living floral symbol. 9

  T h e rose became for Christian mystics “a rose o f light

  in the center o f which a human figure is extending its

  arms in the form o f a cross. ” 10 However, the official

  Church, in its unending struggle against carnality and

  nature, posited the rose as a symbol o f both in opposition to the lily, which represented purity o f mind and body. The Image takes a stand on the side o f official

  Christianity by using the rose as an instrument o f pain

  and blood-letting.

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  The photographs which Claire shows to Jean

  de Berg are also overflowing with symbolic importance.

  The photographs are a series of conventional sadomasochistic poses. They chart the torture and mutilation o f a victim, in this case Anne, and culminate in what is apparently the brutal stabbing, the actual death, of

  the victim. Together they reveal a woman’s preoccupation with her own body, a narcissism which is concretized in the last photograph, which is of Claire herself, faceless, caressing her own cunt. This narcissism is a

  flaw which defines woman, and to atone for it a woman

  must, in the glorious tradition of O, consent to and

  participate in her own annihilation. Such is the scenario

  which permits her a Christian salvation, which redeems

  her o f the sin of Eve and the subsequent sin of her own

  self-love. The photographs are “really nothing more

  than religious pictures, steps along the way of a new

  road to the cross. ” 11 The road, however, is an old one,

  well traveled, and if the cross is difficult to reach via

  this particular road, it is only because the bodies of

  martyrs other than Anne and Claire lie piled so deep.

  It is only too obvious that the tortured, mutilated

  woman who appears first as Anne, then as the more

  impersonal victim of the photographs, and finally

  in a dream of Jean de Berg’s as a dead body “pierced by

  many triangular stab wounds in the most propitious

  areas” 12 is the secular Christ of cunt and breast, Eve’s

  fallen, lustful, carnal descendant, the victim who, unlike

  Jesus, is suffering for her own sins, the criminal whose

  punishment scarcely equals the horror o f her crime.

  That crime, of course, is biological womanhood. Jesus

  died for us once, the crucifixion he suffered sufficed, we

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  are told, for all time. Anne, Claire, O, all will be forced

  spread-eagle on the cross until death releases them, and

  then again. No cruelty will ever be proper atonement

  for their crime, and thus set the rest o f us free.

  Christianity has one other image o f woman, Mary,

  the Madonna, the Virgin Mother. Jean de Berg dreams

  o f Claire as the Madonna shortly before he beats and

  fucks her. Surely that demonstrates the psychic significance, in a sexist culture, o f the Madonna figure.

  Just as Anne on the cross was a profanation o f the

  sacred nature o f women, so is the concept, the Lie,

  o f a virgin mother, separate from her cunt, separate

  from nature, innocent by virtue o f the abandonment

  o f her real, and most honorable, sexuality.

  T he worship o f virginity must be posited as a real

  sexual perversion, crueler and more insidious than

  those sex models condemned by the culture as perverse.

  T h e Christian institutionalization o f that worship,

  its cultivation and refinement, have aborted women in

  the development and expression o f natural sexuality by

  giving credence to that other: woman as whore. T h e

  dualism o f good and evil, virgin and whore, lily and

  rose, spirit and nature is inherent in Christianity and

  finds its logical expression in the rituals o f sadomasochism. The Christian emphasis on pain and suffering as the path to transcendence and salvation is the very

  meat o f most sadomasochistic pornography, just as the

  Christian definition o f woman is its justification. Lenny

  Bruce expressed it very simply when he said this:

  I understand that intellectually — that a woman

  who sleeps with a different guy every week is a better

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  Christian than the virgin. Because she has the capacity

  to kiss and hug fifty guys a year. And that's what that

  act is —kissing and hugging. You can’t do it to anyone

  you’re mad at. If you’re just a bit bugged with them,

  you can’t make it.

  So that chick who's got that much love for all her

  fellowmen that she can make it with fifty guys a year—

  that’s intellectually; but emotionally, I don’t want to

  be the fifty-first guy. Cause I learned my lesson early,

  man. The people told me, “This is the way it is, Virgin

  is Good, Virgin is Good. ” Yeah, that’s really weird. 13

  As the most obvious male Christ figure of our time, he

  should know.

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  Suck

  We move from the straight literary pornography o f our

  forebears, represented by Story of O and The Image, into

  another realm, that o f the sex newspaper, born o f the

  hip culture (or, as we like to think, counter-culture),

  post sex revolution (Freudian, Reichian, Mailerian,

  Brucean, Ginsbergian), post pot, post acid, post pill:

  post Them and into the world o f Us. We move into the

  realm o f here and now, our own turned-on, liberated

  time and space, into the social world for which we are

  responsible. Since we seek in that world freedom as

  women, defined in radical terms, achieved through a

  concretely lived lifestyle, newspapers like Suck, Oz, and

  Screw are important. Playboy is Them —no doubt Kissinger and Sinatra sleep with it tucked under the pillow.

  But the counter-culture sex papers are created by

  people who inhabit our world (freaks, drug users, radicals, longhairs, whatever the appropriate term might be), people who share our values, our concerns — people

  who talk o f liberation. The counter-culture sex papers

  would be a part o f our community and so we are

  obliged, if we are a community, to approach them critically and seriously, to ask what they bring to us and what they take from us.

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  “Us” —who are we? Jerry Rubin says that we are the

  Children of Amerika. Eldridge Cleaver calls us the

  Children of BLOOD. It is our parents, Amerika,

  BLOOD, who through their moral bankruptcy and

  genocidal ways have forced us from the womb onto the

  streets of the nation. It is our parents, Amerika,

  BLOOD, whom we refuse to be, whose work we refuse

  to do. We are the survivors of Flower Power, now adult,

  with our own children. We are the tribes of Woodstock

  Nation, now in Diaspora, roaming the whole earth. We

  are the New Left, wounded, in disarray. We are not

  yet extinct, and we are not nearly finished. Our past

  is only prologue.

  Generally we are between 24 and 35 years old; have

  used acid, mescaline
, psilocibin, etc., with some frequency; use grass and hashish often with no mystification; have probably used cocaine, amphetamines, or barbiturates at some time; have frequent sexual relations, many of which are absolutely casual; reject the nuclear family and seek forms of community antagonistic to it. We are the people who listened to Leary, Ginsberg, Bruce. Politically we are radicals. Some of

  us seek to develop radical forms of community, to live

  good, simple, natural lives. Some of us engage in explicitly political actions —opposing illegitimate wars, resisting the uses of illegitimate authority —we wonder

  how to kill pigs without becoming pigs, we are immersed in the process of revolution, we learn the skills of revolution, we resist all forms of current authority

  and we simultaneously seek to develop alternatives to

  those forms. There are diminishing numbers of peace

  freaks among us (totally committed to nonviolent revo-

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  lution) and quite a few roaring anarchists. We are, at

  least in our Amerikan manifestation, white, children

  o f privilege, children o f liberals and reformists. We

  were brought up in pretty, clean homes, had lots o f

  privacy, friends, companionship from family and peers.

  We are unbelievably well educated —we went to fine

  suburban schools (mostly public) where we experienced

  physical and intellectual regimentation which we found

  unbearable; we went to the best colleges and universities (mostly private) where we studied anthropology, Freud, Marx, Norman O. Brown, and Marcuse too,

  with the finest minds who, it turned out, were chicken

  shit when it came to applying egalitarian principles in

  the classroom or outside o f it. T h e universities where

  we studied all o f these disembodied ideas continued

  doing defense work for the Amerikan government. We

  have had our share o f disaster and despair: the acid

  tragedies, the Weatherman tragedies, the needle tragedies. Many o f us have known jail, and we have all seen friends die. We are older than we ever thought we

  would be.

  What it comes down to is this: through the use o f

  drugs, through sexual living out, through radical political action, we broke through the bourgeois mental sets which were our inheritance but retained the humanism crucial to the liberalism o f our parents. O ur goals are simple enough to understand: we want to

  humanize the planet, to break down the national structures which separate us as people, the corporate structures which separate us into distinct classes, the racist structures which separate us according to skin color;

  to conserve air, water, life in its many forms; to create

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  communities which are more than habitable—communities in which people are free, in which people have what they need, in which groups of people do not accumulate power, or money, or goods, through the exploitation of other people. So when we look at a sex newspaper, made by people like us, we demand that

  it take some positive step in the direction we want to

  go: we demand that it incorporate our radical attitudes,

  the knowledge that acid and other parts of our lifestyle

  have given us. And, most importantly, we refuse to

  permit it to reinforce the dual-role sexist patterns and

  consciousness of this culture, the very patterns and consciousness which oppress us as women, which enslave us as human beings.

  Suck is a typical counter-culture sex paper. Any

  analysis of it reveals that the sexism is all-pervasive,

  expressed primarily as sadomasochism, absolutely the

  same as, and not counter to, the parent cultural values.

  Suck claims to be an ally. It is crucial to demonstrate that

  it is not.

  The first issue of Suck appeared in Amsterdam,

  Holland, in 1969. It continues to be printed in Amsterdam because Dutch police do not confiscate pornography or imprison pornographers. It was started by two Amerikan expatriates. Suck is entirely about sex,

  that is, its pages contain pornographic fiction, technical

  sexual advice (how to suck cock or cunt, for instance),

  letters from readers which reveal personal sexual histories (mostly celebrational), and photographs o f cunt, cock, fucking, sucking, and group orgying. The newspaper appears irregularly —when there is enough

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  money and material for publication. Suck is confiscated

  in England and France with some vigor.

  Suck has made positive contributions. Sucking is

  approached in a new way. Sucking cock, sucking cunt,

  how to, how good. Sperm tastes good, so does cunt. In

  particular, the emphasis on sucking cunt serves to

  demystify cunt in a spectacular way —cunt is not dirty,

  not terrifying, not smelly and foul; it is a source o f

  pleasure, a beautiful part o f female physiology, to be

  seen, touched, tasted.

  T he taboo against sucking goes very deep. Most of

  the actual laws against cocksucking and cuntsucking

  relate to prohibitions against any sexual activity that

  does not lead to, or is not performed for the purpose

  o f effecting, impregnation. Sucking as an act leading

  to orgasm places the nature o f sexual contact clearly —

  sex is the coming together o f people for pleasure. T he

  value is in the coming together. Marriage does not

  sanctify that coming together, procreation is not its

  goal. Suck treats sucking as an act o f the same magnitude as fucking. That attitude, pictures o f women sucking cock, men sucking cunt, and all the vice versas,

  discussions o f the techniques o f sucking, all break down

  barriers to the realization o f a full sexuality.

  Cunnilingus and fellatio (sucking by any other name

  . . . ) are still crimes. The antifellatio laws, in conjunction with sodomy laws, are sometimes used against male homosexuals (lesbians are not taken seriously enough

  to be prosecuted). Given the selective enforcement o f

  the laws, the shame that attaches to the forbidden acts,

  and the fact that acts o f oral lovemaking represented

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  in words or in pictures are generally deemed obscene,

  sucking must be seen in and of itself as an act of political

  significance (which is certainly wonderful news for depressed revolutionaries). In this instance Suck takes a relevant, respectable stand.

  (Important digression. As late as October 1961,

  Lenny Bruce was arrested because in one o f his routines

  he used the verb “to come" and talked about cock-

  sucking. He was arrested for the crime of obscenity.

  Bruce described the bust:

  I was arrested for obscenity in San Francisco for using

  a ten letter word which is sort of chic. I’m not going to

  repeat the word tonite. It starts with a “c. ” They said

  it was vernacular for a favorite homosexual practice —

  which is weird, cause I don't relate that word to homosexuals. It relates to any contemporary woman I know or would know or would love or would marry. 1

  Bruce was busted in San Francisco (obscenity), Philadelphia (possession), Los Angeles (possession), Hollywood (obscenity), Chicago (obscenity), and not permitted to enter England or Australia. As late as 1964

  Bruce was busted for obscenity in New York City, in

  1965 he was declared a legally bankrupt pauper, and

  on August 3, 1966, he died in Los Angeles. )

 
Suck also makes a contribution in printing pictures

  of cunt, though here the praise must be severely qualified. Photos o f cunt are rare. All the rest we have seen —

  siliconed tits, leering smiles, Playboy's version of pubic

  hair. But having seen a remarkable movie by Anne

  Severson and Shelby Kennedy2 in which a fixed camera

  catalogues the cunts of many different women, all ages,

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  races, with all sorts o f sexual experience, one gets a

  comprehension o f the superficiality o f the Suck cunt

  photos. Imagine a catalogue o f still photos o f people’s

  faces —the colors, textures, indentations, the unique

  character o f each. It is the same with cunts, and it would

  be fine if Suck would show us that. It does not.

  Germaine Greer once wrote for Suck — she was an

  editor—and her articles, the token women’s articles,

  were sometimes strong; her voice was always authentic.

  Her attempt was to bring women into closer touch with

  unaltered female sexuality and place that sexuality

  clearly, unapologetically, within the realm o f humanity:

  women, not as objects, but as human beings, truly a

  revolutionary concept.

  But Greer has another side which allies itself with

  the worst o f male chauvinism and it is that side which, I

  believe, made her articles acceptable to Suck's editors

  and Suck acceptable to her. In an interview in the Am erikan Screw, reprinted in Suck under the tide “Germaine:

  ‘I am a W hore, ’ ” she stated:

  Ideally, you’ve got to the stage where you really could

  ball everyone —the fat, the blind, the foolish, the impotent, the dishonest.

  We have to rescue people who are already dead.

  We have to make love to people who are dead, and

  that’s not easy. 3

  Here is the ever popular notion that women, extending our role as sex object, can humanize an atrophied world. T he notion is based on a false premise. Just as

  the pill was supposed to liberate women by liberating

  us sexually, i. e., we could fuck as freely as men, fucking

 

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