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by Andrea Dworkin


  life, do my work, use my body? how, then, do I want to

  be, in all my particulars?

  standard form s are imposed in dress, behavior,

  sexual relation, punctuation. standard form s are imposed on consciousness and b eh avior— on know ing and exp ressin g— so that we will not presum e freedom , so

  that freedom will appear — in all its particulars — impossible and unworkable, so that we will not know what telling the truth is, so that we will not feel com pelled

  to tell it, so that we will spend ou r time and our holy

  hum an energy telling the necessary lies.

  standard form s are sometimes called conventions,

  conventions are m ightier than armies, police, and prisons. each citizen becomes the enforcer, the doorkeeper, an instrum ent o f the Law, an u nfeeling guard pun ching his fellow man hard in the belly.

  I am an anarchist. I dont sue, I dont get injunctions, I

  advocate revolution, and when people ask me what

  can we do that’s practical, I say, weakly, weaken the

  fabric of the system wherever you can, make possible

  the increase of freedom, all kinds. When I write I

  try to extend the possibilities of expression.

  . . . I had tried to speak to you honestly, in my own

  way, undisguised, trying to get rid, it’s part o f my obligation to the muse, of the ancien regime o f grammar.

  . . . the revisions in typography and punctuation

  have taken from the voice the difference that distin­

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  guishes passion from affection and me speaking to

  you from me writing an essay.

  Julian Beck, 1965, in a foreword

  to an edition of The Brig

  BELIEVE THE PUNCTUATION.

  Muriel Rukeyser

  there is a great deal at stake here, many writers

  fight this battle and most lose it. what is at stake for

  the writer? freedom o f invention, freedom to tell the

  truth, in all its particulars, freedom to imagine new

  structures.

  (the burden o f proof is not on those who presume

  freedom, the burden o f p roof is on those who would

  in any way diminish it. )

  what is at stake for the enforcers, the doorkeepers,

  the guardians o f the L aw —the publishing corporations,

  the book reviewers who do not like lower case letters,

  the librarians who will not stack books without standard

  punctuation (that was the reason given Muriel Rukeyser

  when her work was violated)—what is at stake for them?

  why do they continue to enforce?

  while this book may meet much resistance— anger,

  fear, dislike—law? police? courts? —at this moment I

  must write: Ive attacked the fundaments o f culture,

  thats ok. Ive attacked male dominance, thats ok. Ive

  attacked every heterosexual notion o f relation, thats

  ok. Ive in effect advocated the use o f drugs, thats ok.

  Ive in effect advocated fucking animals, thats ok. here

  and now, New York City, spring 1974, among a handful

  o f people, publisher and editor included, thats ok. lower

  case letters are not. it does make one wonder.

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  so Ive wondered and this is what I think right now.

  there are well-developed, effective mechanisms for

  dealing with ideas, no matter how powerful the ideas

  are. very few ideas are more powerful than the mechanisms for defusing them, standard form —punctuation, typography, then on to academic organization, the

  rigid ritualistic formulation of ideas, etc. —is the actual

  distance between the individual (certainly the intellectual individual) and the ideas in a book.

  standard form is the distance.

  one can be excited about ideas without changing at

  all. one can think about ideas, talk about ideas, without

  changing at all. people are willing to think about many

  things, what people refuse to do, or are not permitted to

  do, or resist doing, is to change the way they think.

  reading a text which violates standard form forces

  one to change mental sets in order to read. there is no

  distance. the new form, which is in some ways unfamiliar, forces one to read differendy—not to read about different things, but to read in different ways.

  to permit writers to use forms which violate convention just might permit writers to develop forms which would teach people to think differently: not to think

  about different things, but to think in different ways.

  that work is not permitted.

  If it had been possible to build the Tower o f Babel

  without ascending it, the work would have been permitted.

  Franz Kafka

  The Immovable Structure is the villain. Whether

  that structure calls itself a prison or a school or a fac­

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  tory or a family or a government or The World As It

  Is. That structure asks each man what he can do for it,

  not what it can do for him, and for those who do not do

  for it, there is the pain of death or imprisonment, or

  social degradation, or the loss of animal rights.

  Judith Malina

  this book is about the Immovable Sexual Structure,

  in the process o f having it published, Ive encountered

  the Immovable Punctuation Typography Structure,

  and I now testify, as so many have before me, that the

  Immovable Structure aborts freedom, prohibits invention, and does us verifiable harm: it uses our holy human energy to sustain itself; it turns us into enforcers, or outlaws; to survive, we must learn to lie.

  T h e Revolution, as we live it and as we imagine it,

  means destroying the Immovable Structure to create

  a world in which we can use our holy human energy to

  sustain our holy human lives;

  to create a world without enforcers, doorkeepers,

  guards, and arbitrary Law;

  to create a world —a community on this planet—

  where instead o f lying to survive, we can tell the truth

  and flourish.

  N O T E S

  Chapter 1. Onceuponatime: The Roles

  1 The Brothers G rim m , Household Stories (New York: Dover

  Publications, 1963), p. 213.

  2 Ibid., p. 213.

  3 Ibid., p. 214.

  4 Ibid.

  5Ibid.

  6 Ibid.

  7Ibid., p. 216.

  8 Ibid., p. 221.

  9 Ibid.

  10 Ibid.

  II Ibid., p. 124.

  12 Ibid., p. 72.

  13 Ibid., p. 73.

  14 Ibid.

  15 Ibid., p. 74.

  16 Ibid., p. 85

  17 Ibid., p. 220.

  18 Ibid., p. 85.

  19 Ibid., p. 92.

  Chapter 3. Woman as Victim: Story of O

  1 Newsweek, March 21, 1966, p. 108, unsigned.

  - Pauline Reage, Story o f O (New York: Grove Press, 1965), p. xxi.

  3 Ibid., p. 80.

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  4 Ibid., p. 93.

  5 Ibid., p. 187.

  6Ibid., p. 32.

  7 Ibid., p. 106.

  8 R obert S. d e R opp, Sex Energy: The Sexual Force in M an and

  Animals (New York: Dell Publishing C om pany, 1969), p. 134.

  Chapter 4. Woman at Victim: The Image

  ‘J e a n d e B erg, The Image (New York: G rove Press, 1966), p.

  137-

  2 Ibid., p. 19.


  3 Ibid., p. 47.

  4 Ibid.

  5 Ibid., p. 10.

  6 Ibid., p. 11.

  7 Ibid., p. 9.

  8 Ibid., p. 42.

  9Eliphas Levi, The History o f Magic (London: R ider a n d C om pany, 1969), p. 263.

  10 Ibid., p. 265.

  " J e a n d e B erg, op. cit., p. 11.

  11 Ibid., p. 135.

  13

  The Essential Lenny Bruce, ed. J o h n C ohen (New York: Ballan-

  tine Books, 1967), pp. 296-97.

  Chapter 5. Woman at Victim: Suck

  1 The Essential Lenny Bruce, ed. John Cohen (New York: Ballan-

  tine Books, 1967), p. 245.

  2 Anne Severson and Shelby Kennedy, I Change I Am the Same

  (n. d. ).

  3 Suck 6.

  4 Ibid.

  5 Suck 4.

  6

  Ibid.

  7 Ibid.

  8 Ibid.

  " 7 Ibid.

  19 Suck 2 .

  11 Ibid.

  11 Ibid.

  13 Ibid.

  14 Ibid.

  15 Suck 3.

  Chapter 6. Gynoclde: Chinese Footbinding

  I Howard S. Levy, Chinese Footbinding: The History o f a Curious

  Erotic Custom (New York: W. Rawls, 1966), p. 39. Mr. Levy’s book is

  the primary source for all the factual, historical information in this

  chapter.

  2Ibid., p. 112.

  3 Ibid., pp. 25-26.

  4 Ibid., p. 26.

  5 Ibid., pp. 26-28.

  6 Ibid., p. 141.

  7 Ibid.

  8 Ibid., p. 182.

  " 9

  Ibid., p. 89.

  10 Ibid., p. 144.

  II Ibid., pp. 144- 4 5 -

  Chapter 7. Gynoclde: The Witches

  1 Jules Michelet, Satanism and Witchcraft (London: Tandem,

  1969 ). P- 66.

  2 H. R. Hays, The Dangerous Sex: The Myth o f Feminine E vil (London: Methuen and Co., 1966), p. 111.

  3Pennethorne Hughes, Witchcraft (Harmondsworth: Penguin

  Books, 1971), p. 63.

  4 Ibid., p. 65.

  5 Ibid., pp. 66-67.

  6 Hays, op. cit., p. 147.

  7 Heinrich Kramer and James Sprenger, Malleus Maleficarum,

  trans. by M. Summers (London: Arrow Books, 1971), pp. 29-30.

  8 Ibid., Table of Contents.

  9

  Ibid.

  10 Ibid., Preface.

  11 Hughes, op. cit., pp. 183-84.

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  12 K ram er an d S p ren g er, op. cit., p. 123.

  13 Ibid., pp. 114-15.

  14 Ibid., pp. 115-16.

  15 Ibid.

  16 Ibid., p. 117.

  17 Ibid., p. 118.

  18 Ibid., pp. 119-21.

  19 Ibid., p. 112.

  20 Ibid., pp. 122-23.

  21 Hays, op. cit., p. 151.

  22 Ibid., p. 153.

  23 Ibid.

  24 Ibid., p. 89.

  25 T h e Holy Bible (Philadelphia: N ational Bible Press, 1954), p. 8.

  26 M ichelet, op. cit., p. 68.

  27 K ram er an d S p ren g er, op. cit., p. 161.

  28 H ughes, op. cit., pp. 9 7 -9 8 .

  29 Gillian T indall, A Handbook on Witches (New York: A theneum ,

  1966), p. 99.

  30 H ughes, op. cit., p. 156.

  31 Ibid., p. 130.

  Chapter 8. Androgyny: The Mythological Model

  1 M. E sther H ard in g , Woman's Mysteries: Ancient and Modem

  (L ondon: R ider an d C om pany, 1971), pp. 35-36.

  2 Ibid., p. 36.

  3 Mircea Eliade, Myths, Dreams, and Mysteries: The Encounter between Contemporary Faiths and Archaic Realities (New York: H a rp e r Sc Row, i960), p. 23.

  4 The Secret o f the Golden Flower, in tro d u ctio n by R ichard W ilhelm

  (L ondon: R outledge, 1962), p. 12.

  5A g eh an an d a B harati, The Tantric Tradition (G arden City:

  D oubleday an d C om pany, 1970), pp. 18-19.

  6 Ibid., p. 200.

  7Jo se p h C am pbell, The Masks o f God: Primitive Mythology (New

  York: Viking, 1969), p. 109.

  8 Ibid., p. 105.

  9Jo sep h C am pbell, The Hero with a Thousand Faces (Princeton:

  Princeton U niversity Press, 1968), p. 154.

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  10 Midrash, Rabbah, 8: 1.

  11 Harding, op. cit., pp. 282-83.

  Chapter 9. Androgyny: Androgyny, Fucking, and Community

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  2 Ann Oakley, Sexf Gender and Society (New York: Harper Sc Row,

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  3 Sherfey, op. cit., pp. 50-51.

  4 Oakley, op. cit., p. 30.

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  6 Sherfey, op. cit., p. 50.

  7 Ibid., p. 173.

  8 Francoeur, op. cit., p. 139.

  9 Ibid., p. 140.

  10 Ibid.

  11 Ibid.

  11 Ibid., p. 197.

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