I went back in and flopped down in bed. Real hard, to cause sparks.
There’s no way for me to know whether I’m imagining it or not when I smell gas. It always smells strong. And it happens pretty often.
It’s actually a pleasant smell.
Fear makes you tired. Painkillers, too. I lie down in the hospital bed and fall asleep.
I sleep through the rest of the night. Only two tablets. Not bad. I convince myself that’s a small amount of pain medication. To be honest, yesterday evening I had pictured a more difficult night ahead. In a shotglass-sized plastic cup on the nightstand is a pill. Another one. Very generous, Peter. Pain medication, I assume. I slurp it down. Today I’ll try to stand up. I also need to go to the bathroom. Bad. It doesn’t smell good in here. It’s not gas this time. It can only be my ass. What else?
I feel around in back and find it wet. Blood? I look at my fingers. Not red. A hint of light brown. I smell them. Definitely crap. How did that get there, inspector Helen?
From the container on the windowsill I pull out gauze bandages and wipe myself up. It’s brown water that smells like crap. In the photo yesterday my butthole was wide open and I think everything must just be running out because the hole is still not tightly closed the way it normally would be. The seal isn’t watertight. I christen the stuff coming out “ass piss” and I’m already used to it. I figure out a folding technique for the bandages: I hold my ass cheeks apart and shove my folded masterpiece up as close to the wound as possible so it stems the flow of ass piss. When I touch the wound itself with the bandages or my fingertips, it hurts bad. I gingerly let go of my ass cheeks. They hold the bandages in place. All set. Problem solved.
It really doesn’t smell too good in this room. I’m afraid my ass is definitely air-incontinent. A constant flow of warm air is coming without warning out of my intestines. You can’t even call them farts. My ass is just wide open. Farts have a beginning and an end. They noisily find their way out, sometimes with a lot of pressure. That’s not the case here. It just billows out. And fills the room with all the smells that should stay inside me until I decide to let them out. It smells like warm pus mixed with diarrhea and something acidic that I can’t seem to identify. Maybe it’s from the medication.
Now when somebody enters the room they know as much about me as if under normal circumstances they had shoved their head up my ass and taken a big whiff.
I’m in a good mood because I slept so well, I think. The next problem: going to the bathroom. I lie on my stomach and drop my legs slowly toward the floor. It’s a long way down. These tall beds. Bad. My feet touch the ground. I brace myself with my forearms and lift my upper body upright. I stand up. Ha! Turn around and slowly shuffle with tiny steps—otherwise it hurts my butt too much—what seems like a long way to the bathroom. Three yards. Plenty of time to think of something nice. The smell of this watery ass piss seems familiar to me.
When I know I’m going to have sex with someone who likes anal, I ask: with or without a chocolate dip? Which means: some guys like it when the tip of their cock has a little crap on it when they pull it out after butt fucking—the smell of the crap their cock’s pulled out turns them on. Others want the tightness of the asshole without the filth. To each his own. For those who would rather have it clean, I ordered something from an online gay sex shop. It looks like a dildo with holes in the tip. It’s made out of surgical steel. I don’t know what that is, but it sounds good—and looks good.
First I unscrew my friendly showerhead so I can attach the threaded base of this device. It’s handy that everything is standardized. Then it’s time to clean the rectum. I smear the tip of the steel thing with Pjur lube. Then I work the thing past my cauliflower and shove it in as far as I can. At least that’s the way I used to do it—the cauliflower’s gone now. Should make it easier. Pushing it in turns me on—usually when something goes up my ass like that it’s a cock. Is that Pavlovian conditioning?
The device is colder and harder than a cock. I turn on the shower full blast, but not too hot because I don’t want to boil my innards. This is the best part of my internal cleansing. It feels like you’re being pumped up like a balloon. We’re more used to the feeling of being filled up from flatulence than from having water in our intestines. So you tend to picture gas, not water. Soon you feel like you’re going to burst, like there are liters of water inside you. I get a strong urge to crap.
I turn the water off and crouch down as if I’m going to piss in the shower. I push all the water out of my intestines. It’s like pissing out of your ass. Like having severe diarrhea. You need to take out the hair strainer and the tub stopper because a lot of crap comes out, in big and small chunks. I repeat this process three times until there are no more mini-chunks of crap visible. No cock, no matter how big or long, is going to unearth anything in my rectum now. I’m perfectly prepared for clean butt sex, like a blow-up doll.
If somebody does like a chocolate dip, I’ll only do it if I’ve already had good sex with him a few times. It’s a real sign of affection. Anal sex without cleaning my ass out in advance. It takes a lot of trust to let someone decorate his cock with my crap. If I haven’t emptied my insides right before sex—either with the anal flushing device or on the toilet—there’s crap ready to be found just a few centimeters inside the entrance. It doesn’t get any more intimate than that as far as I’m concerned. Everything smells like my innards during sex like that, too. I have to smell my own innards the whole time. He only has to have stuck it in for a second and come in contact with the crap. Then when he pulls it back out and we try out another position, his cock functions like a fluttering crap-scented air freshener.
Right now, though, I can’t imagine ever doing it again. Either thing. Ass cleansing or ass fucking. Which would be a shame.
I’ve made it. I’ve arrived in the bathroom. I don’t need to pull my underwear down because I don’t have any on. I just gather my tree-top angel outfit together on my stomach and tie it in a knot so it doesn’t dangle into the toilet. I carefully try to sit down, but as I start to squat I realize it won’t work. I can feel the wound straining. I’ll have to stand upright and straddle the toilet bowl. That works. This is how French women piss, right? On the wall to my left is a grandma grab-bar to hold onto. Probably designed more to help lift yourself up if you’ve sat down and can’t get back up. I’m misusing it to keep my balance while pissing standing up. I brace myself on the right against the plastic wall of the shower stall. I get most of the piss in the toilet. Am I supposed to take a crap like this? Can’t possibly imagine that. Though I can’t imagine taking a crap in any position. I’m not ready to try. Naturally, I don’t wash my hands after pissing.
If I were able to sit down on the toilet seat I’d do what I usually do at home: read the labels of the various soaps and shampoos on the rim of the tub. Apparently mom has put a few things around the sink here for me. But I can’t reach them right now. At home I know a lot of the label information by heart. My favorite is a bubble bath: “Toning and Invigorating.” No idea what that’s supposed to mean. Invigorating I understand, I guess. But toning? I’ve tried to picture mom toned. It’s not a pretty picture. And ever since this word entered my vocabulary, I’ve been calling my brother Toning instead of Tony. He doesn’t find it amusing. But I do.
Quickly—but slowly—back to bed.
It’s going to take an extremely long time to get there. I never would have thought the butthole was so integral to the process of walking. During this turtle-speed walk I have plenty of time to think about all the things I want to do today. I’m sure my father and mother will visit. I’ll get them back together. I also need to set up my avocado pits and fill the glasses with water. I’ll have to find a hiding place for them or they’ll be taken away. I’ve made it as far as the Jesus poster. I take it off the wall and carry it with me toward the bed. It’ll fit perfectly between the metal nightstand and the wall, where no one can see it. Beautiful. An atheist hospital room. I cr
awl up onto my bed like a cripple and I’ve made it. What’s this? There are drops of liquid on the floor. A long trail. From the bathroom to the bed, with a detour to the wall. It’s drops of pee. I didn’t wipe. Never do. But usually it goes into my underwear or whatever I’m wearing. Here I’m not wearing anything down below so it all drips onto the floor. Funny. There’s no way I can go back and wipe it up—I can’t walk that far again much less squat down to wipe something at floor level. It’ll have to stay there. I count the drops I can see, as far as the bathroom door. Twelve. The sun streaming in the window reflects off drops nine and ten so they look like little circles cut out of aluminum foil or something else shiny. My father is a scientist and he taught me that some beams of light are broken and diffuse in a drop of liquid. That’s why it looks as if light has been trapped inside a droplet. The rest of the light is reflected by the surface of the liquid. That’s why it shines.
There’s a knock at the door and someone in white medical clogs walks along the pee path. The socks are gleaming white. Nothing in our house ever stays white. Anything white takes on a different shade after the first washing. A dirty pink or grayish brown. More people walk in. The drops get all trampled. All these people have my pee on the bottoms of their shoes. That’s my kind of humor. I imagine how all day long they’ll be walking around their various stations and marking my territory for me. What are they doing here other than ruining my pee path?
Aha. It must be doctors and residents, or whatever you call them. They’re doing rounds. Why is it called that anyway? They’ve already introduced themselves. Asked me questions. And I’ve been thinking about other things. I can continue now. The best spot for the avocados would be the windowsill. Because of the light. I’ll just have to screen it off so that nobody standing in the room can see them.
I hear the sentence, “She’ll be discharged once she has a successful bowel movement.”
Of course. They’re talking about me. The bowel movement lady. It’s Notz. I hadn’t noticed him among all the other doctors. Can I ask someone to fill the avocado glasses with water? I can’t possibly go back and forth filling them all. Given the speed I’m walking right now, it could take days. I have glasses for the pits and another one for mineral water. Someone will have to use that one to fill the others, going back and forth between the windowsill and sink. Wait, I’ve got it. I can use the mineral water for the pits. The nurses always refill my glass. So I don’t need to ask anyone to do it for me. I can take care of it myself. Beautiful. Nothing but the finest mineral water for my avocado-pit babies. Rich in calcium and magnesium and iron and who knows what else. They’ll grow well in that.
They all walk out again, my pee emissaries. Finally I can start working on my project.
I grab the little box my mom used to transport the pits. First I need to unwrap the newspaper from around the glasses. Packed way too safely. Same way mom drives. Crawling along, coming to a full stop at every speed bump.
To avoid damage to the axles, she says. Maybe in the old days. Modern cars can take such a beating that you could drive over a speed bump at highway speed without anything happening. Says my father.
I put the eight glasses at the farthest end of the sill. Each of the eight pits I stick with three toothpicks and suspend in a glass. I start to pour in mineral water so two-thirds of each pit is submerged. But I need more liguid.
We’ll see how they fare after being moved and left out of water for a day and a night. It’s the first time I’ve taken pits on a journey. Now I need something to screen them from the view of all the people who come in and out of the room. Wasn’t there a book in the drawer of the nightstand? I open the drawer. A Bible. Of course. These Christians. Always trying to get you. Not going to get me. But as a screen it’ll do. I prop it up in front of the pits, open, but upside down so the cross is on its head. That’ll piss them off, right? It’s a sign of something bad to them. But what? Who cares.
On top of my little greenhouse I put the menu of the week’s food choices. That way nobody can see my little secret from above. I’ll only be getting whole-grain bread and granola anyway.
My family’s all set up. The pit collection makes it feel a bit more like home. As long as I can take care of my avocados I’ll have something to do. Filling them up with water or replacing the water. Documenting their progress with the camera. Once in a while scraping off the slime. Pinching off dead or blighted leaves so healthy ones can grow. That kind of thing.
The phone rings. Who had it connected? Is that something the candy stripers do? With what money? Do you have to pay for it? I’ll have to look into that. I pick it up.
“Hello?”
“It’s me.” Mom.
Mom and dad want to visit today. They both want to avoid being there at the same time as the other.
I want so bad for my parents to be in a room together. I want them to visit me here in the hospital at the same time. I have a plan.
Mom asks, “When is your father coming?”
“You mean your ex-husband? The one you used to love so much? At four.”
“Then I’ll come at five. Will you make sure he’s gone by then?”
I say yes but think no. As soon as I’ve hung up with mom, I call dad and tell him it would be good for me if he came at five.
Dad shows up at five and brings me a book about slugs.
I think maybe it’s a reference to my butthole and ask about it. He says he thought I was interested in them because I asked him about them once. I’m sure I did—that’s the only sort of topic I can talk about with dad.
Not about real feelings or problems. He’s never figured that out. That’s why I talk to him a lot about plants, animals, and environmental pollution. He would never ask how my openly gaping wound is doing. I can’t think of much to talk about with him. The whole time he’s sitting there in the chair at the end of my bed, I keep expecting a knock at the door followed by mom entering the room. I hate awkward pauses. Though as a personal challenge, I try to keep them going. For that, dad is the perfect partner. He doesn’t talk. Unless I ask him something. He just doesn’t need to talk, I guess. I look at him and he at me. It’s horribly quiet. But he doesn’t look unfriendly or anything. Actually quite friendly and relaxed. I have no idea why. I guess I could ask. Perhaps I’m afraid of the answer. But that’s definitely not a reason to leave someone, just because he sits there, looks at you, and doesn’t say anything. There must be a better reason than that. Maybe their love faded. If you really want to promise something worthwhile, try this: I will stand by you even if I no longer love you. Now that’s a promise. That really means forever.
In good times and in bad. It’s certainly bad times when one person no longer loves the other. To stay only as long as there is love is not good enough if you have children.
Mom comes too late. She’s still not there at six. Dad leaves. Failed once again. They repel each other like two negative poles of magnets I’m trying to push together.
My goal is that they see each other and, years after separating, fall head over heels in love again. And get back together. Highly unlikely. But anything’s possible. At least that’s what I maintain. Though I’m not really so sure.
A lot of time elapses between dad’s departure and mom’s arrival. I speak even less with mom than I did with dad. She thinks I’m upset because she’s late. The perpetually guilty conscience of a working mother. She doesn’t know what I know. That she just missed her future husband. I don’t let on. She can go ahead and try to convince herself that my bad manners have to do with my pain.
Her visit was a lot shorter than dad’s. Your own fault, Helen.
They both plan to come back tomorrow. So I’ll try again. The longer I stay in the hospital, the more chances I’ll have to bring them together. At home I’m either at my mom’s, where dad will never go, or at my dad’s, where my mom will never go.
So it would be better not to have a bowel movement. For my own recovery, of course, the opposite is true—better to
have a bowel movement soon, if the doctors are to be believed. I can secretly have a bowel movement and not tell anyone. That way I’ll be able to stay in the hospital longer without having to worry about my bum.
That’s what I’ll do. Also, maybe by injuring myself again I can force another operation. Then I’d have many more days to work toward my goal.
Maybe something will occur to me. Definitely. I certainly have enough time here in my boring, atheist room to think up all sorts of possibilities. My parents were each here for only a short time. I’m not talking enough to people. I always realize I’m not when I fall into a state of brooding and start to have bad breath. When I don’t talk for a long time—don’t open my mouth and give it a chance to air out—the leftover bits of food and the warm saliva in my closed mouth begin to ferment. At night your mouth is the perfect, body-temperature petri dish—bacteria multiplies and the food between your teeth decays. That’s what’s starting to happen to me now. I need to talk to someone. I push the buzzer. Robin comes in. I have to think of a reason why I pushed the call button. Ah—a question.
“When am I getting the device from the anesthesiologist so I can self-administer pain medicine?”
“He was supposed to have been here a long time ago.”
“Good. So anytime, then. Otherwise I would ask for tablets now, as the pain is starting up again.”
That’s a lie. But it makes my use of the call button more believable. He reaches for the door handle.
“Are you okay, Robin?”
Typical of you, Helen. He’s a nurse. Yet I think I have to look after him and make sure he has a nice shift.
“Yes, I’m doing fine. I’ve been thinking a lot about your wound and about how cool you are about it. I even talked about it with a buddy. Don’t worry—nobody from here at the hospital. He thinks you’re an exhibitionist or whatever you call it.”
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