by Cathy Kelly
Nothing was too much trouble. They dragged an armchair out for Dara, with a footstool and an armload of cushions during the sherry reception in the small bar so she could sit in comfort. Most people were standing, so Dara was at a lower level to them all, giving her the opportunity to sit back and watch. She saw her new sister-in-law swirling around the guests in her pretty cream silk gown, the baby roses in her hair drooping prettily in her fair curls. She watched Des talking kindly to Ruth’s elderly great aunt who’d been anxious about not knowing anybody outside of the wedding party, ‘and they’ll all be too busy to have time for me.’
She watched Greg’s eyes following Ruth round the room, and saw how he’d held a glass of beer at the start, but put it down without drinking more than a sip. And she saw her father talking to Ruth’s dad, standing beside the bar with pints in front of them. Bernard had one foot balanced on the rail at the base of the bar, a position he adopted so frequently that Dara wondered whether the muscles in one leg were shorter than the other. One pint became two, followed by whiskey chasers. She couldn’t hear from where she was sitting, but she knew the script.
‘Ah sure, it’ll be a long time till the dinner and the wine. Let’s have a couple of short ones to keep us going.’
She and Des drank mushroom soup, ate wild Irish salmon, devoured a beautiful meringue confection topped with raspberries, and occasionally held each other’s gaze during the speeches. As father of the groom, Bernard Murphy wasn’t due to give one, but that had never stopped him before.
Yet he sat happily beside Ruth’s mother, without any visible sign that he’d drunk enough to flatten any normal human being.
‘It’s been a beautiful day, hasn’t it?’ Ruth’s father said to her, as they sat at the side of the room while the tables were reorganised for dancing. ‘We were lucky with the weather, although I’m sure you would have been happy if it hadn’t been so warm.’
Dara smiled at him. ‘We were lucky in every way,’ she said.
In the end, it was the dancing that got to her. The band played cover music and the first dance was Ruth’s favourite song: Billy Joel’s ‘Just the Way You Are’. The singer had a good voice, Dara thought absently, as she watched her big brother holding on to his beautiful bride and moving gently around the dance floor.
Ruth’s mother and Dara’s father began to shuffle round the floor and then everybody else was up too, and all the formal bits of the wedding were finally over. The band wove the end of one song into another and Louis Armstrong’s ‘What a Wonderful World’ began.
‘Come on, pet, let’s shake a rug.’
Dara refocused to see her father standing beside her. ‘I’m not dancing, Da,’ she said. ‘Ruth’s dad asked me if I wanted to give the whole family dance a miss, and I said yes. I’m too pregnant.’
‘Nonsense.’
He had a firm grip on her arm and pulled her to her feet. Strange how he could look so gentle and yet be so strong. Deceitful. ‘A little dance will do you good.’
He put one arm around her and held her other hand in his, looking down to concentrate on his waltz. He always prided himself on his dancing: he could even do the foxtrot, he said, although Dara had never seen a sober rendition of it.
She set her face and let him manhandle her round the floor. She refused to let him see how it hurt.
‘You’ll come and see me when the baby’s born, won’t you, pet?’ her father said.
He stumbled a little but she was holding him, so she kept them both upright. He was still a tall man, although the muscles he’d once had were run to fat and his belly was as swollen as hers from years of drinking beer after beer. Followed by whiskey chasers, of course.
Dara wanted to say, Of course, we’ll visit you, but she couldn’t. She couldn’t lie, not now, not with her baby inside listening. There had been enough lies in the Murphy household and there would be no more.
‘It’s a great day,’ he went on, ‘a great day indeed. Not many a man can see his son and daughter married within a year of each other and think he did it all himself. I wasn’t a bad old father, now, was I?’
He was waiting for her to agree. Waiting for her to say, Yes, Da, you were the best. You never screamed at us till we hid, or threatened us with the strap, or drank your wages till we had no food and had to run to Ruth’s mother for sugar sandwiches or…She stumbled on the ‘or’. It was so big, bigger than ever now that she was pregnant.
‘Wasn’t I, Dara?’
Dara could no longer bear it.
She realised she had been waiting for something, some connection that would make the past a safe place again, some moment when her father would transform into the mythical Daddy he’d never been. Like a distant dream when she woke up, she could almost touch the vision of this past. She reached out and it was beyond her grasp.
Nothing could change the past, not her wishing with all her heart, and not this day of happiness where she watched a really happy family together, seeing them smile at each other and not set their faces into the tight masks of people doing their best not to remember.
Dara was sitting in Star’s conservatory watching Star sort out skeins of dyed silk when the contractions started.
‘Oh,’ she said in shock, hands rushing to hold her belly as the pain ripped through her.
‘Is it the baby?’ asked Star, concerned.
Through the pain, Dara nodded. When it had receded, she leaned back in her chair gasping.
‘Ouch!’ she said, and laughed with relief. ‘It must be Braxton Hicks contractions,’ she added.
She and Des had spent hours poring over their pregnancy guidebook.
Star didn’t look convinced. ‘That’s not the feeling I’m getting.’
‘No, really, your waters need to break first,’ Dara began, and stopped as a flush of liquid spilled out of her. ‘Then again–Sorry about the floor.’
It was Star’s turn to laugh. ‘This floor has seen plenty of waters breaking, I can tell you. My mother delivered eight babies in her time.’
‘And you?’
‘None–yet.’
Des was at his uncle’s farm down the road, and came speeding over to Star’s house.
‘Relax, the contractions are twenty minutes apart,’ said Dara, who was now lying on a couch in a sea of cushions. ‘We’ve ages to go, and remember what they told us in the antenatal classes? If we come in early, we’ll just be sent home again. Better to stay here where we’re comfortable.’
‘OK,’ Des said dubiously.
An hour later, Dara suddenly howled in absolute pain.
‘Des, it’s more than a contraction, don’t know what it is, but help. Help–’
‘Let’s get her to hospital, quickly,’ said Star. ‘I’ll drive.’
Dara’s labour was long and intense, and the midwife suggested pethidine.
‘No,’ gasped Dara. ‘No drugs.’ She squeezed Des’s hand even tighter. No drugs, not now.
And then there was Natalie, with her head of silky dark hair and her outraged screaming at having been hauled out into this freezing, very bright world.
‘Send me back inside! she’s saying,’ crooned Des, as he held her, screaming, in his arms.
And Natalie, worn out and yet full up with joy, smiled at them both.
Star had cried when she held little Natalie in her arms. Dara didn’t think she’d ever seen Star cry before.
‘Sorry,’ wept Star. ‘It’s just that she’s so beautiful, so precious.’
Her father came to the hospital the day after Natalie was born. Des had been with her almost all day and now he’d gone; visiting time was nearly over and along came her father. He was drunk. Dara didn’t care. She was happy, insulated in a bubble of happiness. Her father was never aggressive or abusive when there were other people around and here, in the six-bed hospital ward, with Natalie snug in her little crib beside the bed and other mothers on either side and nurses and doctors walking up and down, Dara knew she was perfectly safe from him. Besides, he couldn�
��t touch her in any way, not physically, not psychologically, any more.
‘Look at the baby,’ he said, clumsily banging into the crib, reaching in as if to pick Natalie up.
‘No,’ said Dara quickly, ‘you can’t–she’s asleep.’
Miraculously, Natalie stayed asleep, even though her grandfather had made so much noise and barged into her cot. Perhaps she knew her mother was willing her to keep her eyes closed, so that her grandfather would not pick her up and hold her to his drunken face. She slept deeply, those long lashes dark and heavenly on her soft cheeks.
‘Ah, she’s beautiful,’ said Bernard. ‘A beautiful baby. I had a few with the lads, just to wet the baby’s head.’
‘Yeah,’ Dara said. Any excuse: drinking to wet the baby’s head, drinking because somebody had died, drinking because the sun had shone, drinking because the sun hadn’t shone. She understood it, all right. Her father stayed at the end of the bed, as if he could sense the armour-plating Dara had put around herself and the baby.
‘I meant to bring you flowers or something, but I forgot,’ he said.
‘That’s fine,’ Dara said calmly. She had the gifts she wanted, a card and roses from Des. She’d told him he shouldn’t have bought her anything, they needed to keep the money for the mortgage, and then he’d come in with beautiful white roses, twelve of them, and she’d loved him for it.
Bernard sat on the end of the bed and Dara instantly pulled her feet away. Even though she had stitches and it was uncomfortable, she sat up straight; she wanted to be formal with him, move away from him, not lie there and relax. Worse, Natalie would wake up soon and need to be fed, and there was absolutely no way Dara was going to breast-feed her baby with her father watching.
‘She’s the image of your mother,’ Bernard went on, peering mistily at the baby in the little crib. ‘The image of her. And what a great head of hair she has. It’ll be lovely to have a baby around the house again.’
Dara felt a wave of absolute revulsion hit her. It would be lovely to have a baby around the house? A baby who would grow into a child, a little girl, to be touched and used in the same way she’d been used? Was he crazy? Did he not remember what he’d done to her? Had he managed to put it out of his mind so easily, or had alcohol sodden his memory so much that it was as if the abuse never happened?
A bell rang, the warning that only fifteen minutes of visiting time remained.
‘That’s it, Da,’ she said. ‘You’d better head off, they’re very firm here.’
He didn’t need any more urging. ‘I said I’d go back to the pub and meet the lads–they want to buy me a few rounds for the baby. What are you going to call her, anyway?’
‘I haven’t decided,’ Dara said, which was a lie, but giving her father the baby’s name was like giving him a bit of her soul, and she didn’t want to do that, not just yet. He lurched forward for a kiss and Dara felt her stomach curdle. She moved her head so his unshaven cheek cracked against hers. ‘Bye,’ she said and he staggered off, no doubt happy with himself. Everything was fine in Bernard’s world.
Her grandfather had no sooner gone than Natalie woke up with an adorable mewling noise, like a kitten, waking and stretching.
‘How are you, my darling?’ Dara said, picking her up, wincing only slightly at the pain from her stitches. Natalie’s rosebud mouth settled around her mother’s nipple and she began to suck. Breast-feeding was incredible, Dara thought; nobody had told her it would be like this. She knew it could be difficult and that some people couldn’t manage it and that other people shuddered at the thought, thinking their boobs would end up around their knees. She’d been lucky: Natalie had latched on instantly and even though her breasts could be sore and the baby’s little gums hurt sometimes as she squirmed around trying to get a good hold, there was something primeval and amazing about it. It was like this was what her body was made for. This sense of an animal minding her young was the most powerful, intense feeling she’d ever had in her whole life. She cradled Natalie’s dark head, closed her eyes and let the sense of rightness ripple through her body. But her father’s visit kept rattling back into her brain. He had to come in, he had to come and ruin every feeling of goodness and happiness.
No matter what she did, he’d always be there. She hated him sometimes. Even though she was supposed to let go of the past, not blame anyone, she did blame him. She couldn’t put the light of forgiveness around him because what he’d done to her was so appalling. When you had a child, it was your duty to love them and protect them. That was her instinct with her beautiful little Natalie in her arms. Her father had betrayed all that parental love and had done the most un-parental thing there was. How could he come in here and talk about how wonderful it was to have a baby around the place again and not remember what he’d done to his baby when she’d grown up to be a little girl?
Dara stroked Natalie and vowed that she’d never let that happen to her darling baby. She’d never forgive her father for what he’d done.
Natalie was the most amazing baby in the whole world; Des and Dara told everyone so. She slept through the night at five months and moved on to solids with absolutely no problem. Puréed carrots were her favourite and she squealed with delight when she got the first spoonful of puréed apple.
She was crawling around the room at high speed about a month before the books said she’d be and both her parents hovered protectively as she crawled, making sure she didn’t bang into things or hurt her head on something. The only slow bit of her development was the fact that she loved sleeping in her parents’ bed and refused to move into her own cot.
‘We should have been tougher when she was little,’ Des said ruefully, when yet another attempt to get Natalie to sleep in her cot was met with outraged screams.
‘But she’s so little,’ said Dara, who felt almost physically sick when her baby cried. ‘She’ll learn, she will.’
‘You’re making a rod for your own back, letting that child sleep with you,’ said Mrs McGuinness, who lived in the flat downstairs and whom they often met in the morning when they went out for a walk. Mrs McGuinness was an Expert on Everything; the government, taxi drivers, the price of food, those noisy lads who lived next door and had wild parties…Des and Dara had discovered that asking her opinion on anything was a mistake as she would usually respond with a PhD-length lecture.
‘I know,’ said Dara hastily. ‘It’s just she’s so happy when she’s in with us and she goes back to sleep, and at least we get to go to sleep. If we put her back in the cot she screams for ages. Just like her dad, I say,’ Dara laughed, smiling down at her adorable daughter and tickling her under the chin. ‘When she decides she wants to do something, that’s it.’
Mrs McGuinness looked sagely at Dara. ‘I’d say she takes after her mother as well,’ she said. ‘Something tells me that when you make up your mind, Dara, you don’t like to change it.’
‘I used to be like that,’ Dara said softly. ‘But not any more.’
Saturday mornings were the best, when Des didn’t have to get up early for work and the two of them could lie snug in the double bed, with Natalie between them, squirming and wriggling, happy being adored by her parents.
When Natalie was seven months old, Dara’s breast milk dried up and she decided to get a tattoo. When she checked with the GP that it would be safe, the GP had said, amused:
‘What are you getting? A butterfly?’
‘Something like that,’ Dara agreed.
It was a tiny tattoo, at the inside of her wrist, and was actually made up of three dates written in a spiral. They were three of the most important dates in Dara’s life: the day she’d stopped drinking, the day she’d met Des properly, and the day Natalie had been born. Natalie was fascinated by the tattoo and rolled her fingers around the delicate tracery of the writing on her mother’s narrow wrist.
‘Where would I be without you, darling?’ Dara murmured to her daughter, stroking her, touching Natalie’s soft cheeks, holding her fat little han
ds, watching the light in her beautiful eyes. ‘You’re everything to me, my love, you and your dad.’
They were so happy, the three of them, it was a golden time. Dara had never known so much happiness.
Des hated working in the furniture shop. Dara knew he’d like nothing more than a bit of land somewhere, for he was never happier than when he was mucking around in the fields in Pinewood, the farm his uncle owned in Wicklow.
Whenever he visited Uncle Phillip, Dara brought Natalie to visit Star.
Natalie loved crawling around on the floor, reaching up to grab all the fascinating objects in Star’s house. Dara followed her anxiously, worried things would break.
‘Stop worrying,’ Star would say. ‘It’s all replaceable.’
Dara laughed. ‘Nothing in this house is replaceable; it’s all so special or old or priceless.’
They sat on the verandah, let Natalie sit on the grass and wriggle her bare feet, and talked.
Dara wanted Star’s opinion on how to convince Des to move to Wicklow.
‘He loves it here, but he says he knows I’m a city girl. I don’t care where I live, Star,’ she added. ‘As long as I’m with Des and Natalie, I could happily live in a box on the motorway.’ She rushed down to pick a fat juicy worm from Natalie’s grasp. Natalie, who’d been considering eating the worm, squealed with temper.
Star laughed. ‘Tell him that,’ she said.
Two short years later, Star knew there was somebody in the house before she unlocked the door. Everything looked the same, but she just knew.
She walked quietly into the kitchen and out on to the verandah before she found her visitor. It was Dara, sitting on the swing seat, wrapped in the old cream woollen blanket, holding a cup of tea loosely in one hand. A small teapot was on the table beside her.
In one glance, Star knew everything was very, very wrong.