by Joanna Walsh
Is there magic in words? Could I influence you subliminally by repeating these liminal words that do no more than trace your limits? If I keep on loving you, saying so, what will happen to us? Probably very little, as very little appears to happen in love, and the less love, the more there is to say about it.
Maybe one day we will see each other again, I mean not across a screen but face-to-face, for what that’s worth, and he might even ask me if I wrote this book about him, and I will have to say no. I would have to say no, I never loved you, not like the person in the book. Because of this book I will have to deny him In Real Life. People must be protected from words, or more words must be wrapped around to cushion them, until the truth, which words aim at, slips from between the pages, goes somewhere else altogether.
No, words cannot bring anything into being. What’s the use in going on? If I keep on writing… but you can’t say everything, not in one book. Writing’s medium is time, and love’s too – and reading! – but love is also the texture of its communication, not just virtual, I mean hair, skin, clothes, touch at close quarters. I dreamt about his coat in Nice, and there was someone else in it. But I could still feel that it was his. Those ghost exteriors were the last things to go. And I’d thought love was noumenal.
What I have learned is very simple. But learning it has been so very complicated. I have travelled this far only so I can say this: arriving early, I killed time, made myself up in a shop in the station, wiped it off again. It was important that I would not have been sitting for too long, although I knew that I would arrive first, and would be happy for him to find me waiting. Love like hope, though – no – nothing is so like anything else that I can use words to compare one thing to another. So there they were. She was sitting on stone steps outside a station, reading a book. She was in place. He arrived (late), we kissed. Look at us from the outside and we’re beautiful.
I refuse to finish this book.
There is no end to love.
Now, where were we?
Acknowledgements and permissions
Thanks to Stephen, for the maths, and everything else.
Early or abridged versions of some chapters have appeared in the following publications:
Ventimiglia and Athens: Granta, 2013 and 2014 Rome: The Night Museum Guidebook (Museum of London, 2016) Vol de Nuit: Airplane Reading (Zero Books, 2016) Amsterdam: E.R.O.S. (Eros Press, 2016)
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Nebraska Press/Bison Books for André Breton’s Mad Love, translated by Mary Ann Caws (1988).
Penguin Books for André Breton’s Nadja, translated by Richard Howard (1999).
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