so no one says anything
and they keep away from me.
Only Emmy and Jaxon try,
as if they have rehearsed a speech
for a school play.
‘Are you sad?’ they ask.
‘What do you do by yourself now?’ they ask.
Silly questions.
Of course I’m sad.
Of course I’m lonely.
Then Emmy brought me grapes
in her lunch box
and made an ‘I’m sorry’ card.
That helped a lot.
But there is so much
inside me that hurts,
so doing this map of goodbye
makes me feel
a bit more like the Toby
I was when I was a big brother.
I put all my gear into a trolley I’ve made.
Pull it along the dirt track
into the hayshed paddock,
over to the old rusted truck.
The truck was red once.
Still has Pa’s farm name on the side
and a cool lever you can lift as an indicator
like a rod with a hand on the end.
I climb into the driver’s seat, even though
the leather is ripped and there are probably
mice or spiders.
Trigger jumps up wanting to see in,
wanting to be a cattle dog
on a ute tray.
The truck door groans and squeaks
as I push it open again.
I think about the big step out the door
onto the ground,
then look in the door pocket,
find pieces of paper
Leah wrote on for our last game here.
‘To’ and ‘From’ pieces of paper
to make bus tickets:
‘From our farm to market’
‘From our farm to town’
‘From our farm to the moon’.
Silly Leah,
as if our truck could fly!
It wouldn’t even go on a road now.
The tyres are worn out, ripped,
the tray is rusted and wild oats are growing
up through the wooden slats.
I push myself from the driver’s seat,
back down to the long grass,
close the truck door.
I squirt water from my water bottle
on the windscreen, write my name
on the muddy dust,
then crookedly write
‘To the moon’.
I find a clear, grassy area to pitch my tent.
I hammer in the pegs. Tie the ropes.
Set up my sleeping-bag,
make a little fire pit.
Now for exploring and saying goodbye.
Ha! Tilly and Shelley are here too,
wanting me to poke and prod around;
maybe I might disturb more mice, so the
cats get ready to hunt.
Trigger ignores them and goes sniffing,
digging, chasing.
There goes a hare!
There goes Trigger!
Will there be places for Trigger
to run on our next farm?
I look in my tent for my camera,
well, it’s Leah’s.
She loved taking photos.
I snap the truck from all angles.
It’s a mystery
and I make my own history for it.
But it feels too sad using Leah’s camera.
I’ll only use it for the truck.
I can draw the rest on the map.
Maybe the truck took Pa’s prize Jersey cows
to the Royal Show; I know he had prize cows.
Maybe it carted square bales
to another farm for hungry cattle,
maybe it took Grandma and my dad
along with Pa on market days
and Grandma went shopping, bought
a new dressing table, or a new bed for Dad.
Ha! Pa had better hurry and tell me the real history.
I’m hungry again.
I call, ‘Trigger!’
He’s a long way off.
‘TTTriGGGer,’ I yell.
Then I see someone walking down
the dirt track
and Trigger is jumping up,
wagging his tail furiously.
‘Pa!’ I shout.
‘Pa! Over here!’
And I can’t help it,
tears trickle down again.
I don’t wait but charge off
to meet him.
The cats aren’t interested;
they lie in the sun.
‘How’s my boy?’ yells Pa as we get closer.
And the tears become
a tiny waterfall.
I’m crying and running
and hiccuping
all mixed into one.
Trigger stops jumping and stands still.
It’s like he doesn’t know me;
how could he? All my sadness
for Leah is turning me into a stranger.
‘That’s it Toby, let it go,’ and Pa is hugging me tight.
And I’m sure Pa is crying too.
I know that crying gives me a headache
and the reddest eyes ever.
But it’s like a big lump in my chest
is free.
‘Why did Leah have to die, Pa?’ I ask.
Silly, stupid question.
‘Why Leah? Will I get cancer too?’
‘Ah! Come on over to the truck,
we’re nearly there,
we’ll have a seat on this old log.
Come on, here’s a handkerchief,
let’s mop up and then we can talk.’
Trigger recognises me again
and comes, tail wagging,
putting his head in my lap.
Pa doesn’t say anything for a while, not until
I’ve stopped hiccuping.
‘It’s good to let all that grief out,’ he says.
‘It’s going to take a long time to build a family again.’
I don’t really know what Pa means, but I nod.
‘And one way your mum and dad
have worked out their sadness
is to shift to a new farm.
Smaller, a new district,
but it will help.
A new baby coming will help too.
‘None of us want to forget Leah,
and wish she was here
every single moment
of every day.
We can’t bring her back,
but we can live for her.’
I’m warm with Pa’s arms still around me
and his words are like
a bedtime story:
they sound right, feel right,
but I still don’t understand them
and I’m still angry.
Angry that Leah died.
‘Why couldn’t they give her more chemo?’ I ask.
‘Because her little body had had enough.
Oh Toby, she is at peace now. Truly.’
We sit for a while longer
then the cats come close,
chasing each other,
too close to Trigger.
He likes his personal space,
as Mum calls it. So he snaps at Shelley
and Shelley spits back.
Then there are growls, wailings,
and Pa and I jump up.
‘Enough!’ shouts Pa, and the animals stop immediately.
‘Just a bit of fun,’ I say.
‘The cats do like Trigger,
not sure Trigger likes them though.’
Pa is looking inside my tent.
‘Looks snug.
I like your cooking pit too.
Will I fill the billy for a cup of tea?
I have our lunch here.’
And Pa pulls a big brown bag
out of his coat pock
et.
‘Chops, some bananas to fry, tomatoes
and a potato to cut up for chips.’
‘Yum,’ I say.
‘I’ll just get some more sticks and leaves.’
And together Pa and I find offcuts
and branches
of old wood to build our fire.
There are always handy things lying around
on a farm.
The smoke smells like eucalyptus
and the fire begins to bank into some coals.
‘Where’s that hotplate?’ asks Pa.
We rub it down with a little container of oil
that Pa has in his parcel.
Then we begin peeling the potato,
slicing it into small flat chips and setting
them cooking,
next frying the chops,
and while all that is sizzling away,
putting tea and gumleaves
into the billy of water.
Trigger is watching us, sniffing the air,
making little growls of joy. The cats have
gone back to exploring the hay bales.
They are poking in the small gaps between the
ends of bales, using their paws to prod.
‘Like dry fishing for mice,’ laughs Pa
as he watches them.
‘Help me pull that log closer to the fire.
I know you want to find out some more
about the old red truck, and we have time
before lunch.’
Pa stirs the fire a bit, moves the hotplate a bit
and he starts talking.
‘That truck was second-hand
when I bought it.
We needed a truck to cart bales
from the paddock to the hayshed.
The bales were small in those days.
It also had a crate we could put on
the back of the tray
to take pigs and calves to market.’
‘Pigs!’ I say.
‘Yes, all the milk was separated into cream
for the factory and the leftover milk fed the pigs.
Look behind us,
there are some of the old pig sties
I built with my father, your great-grandfather.
No need for pigs now. The milk tanker takes
whole milk, all the day’s milk.’
I’m thinking. ‘Will you miss this farm then,
when the O’Briens take it on?’
‘Yes and no. I have memories,
good memories that no farm sale
can take away.
It’s time to let someone else have a go.
And that’s tricky Toby,
knowing when to leave.
It’s very hard. But afterwards you know it’s right.
I’m sure the sale of the farm and the shift will feel right sooner than you think.
But back to my story …
‘You know once upon a time this truck,
before I bought it,
carted fish from the city market
to our town,
so it’s had lots of adventures.
But eventually
it needed too much repair work
and I needed a bigger truck.
That was just before your dad
came back to work the farm with your mum.
Before you and Leah were born.
We left it here near the hayshed,
thinking we’d get it fixed up,
use it again,
but we never did.
‘Oh! I think our lunch is cooked. Plates?’ asks Pa.
And I look in my backpack.
I find plates, mugs, knives, forks.
‘And I have salt, a little bit of homemade sauce,
a towel and some milk,’ says Pa.
Pa lifts the hotplate and settles it on some grass.
He dishes out the meal.
Sets aside a small chop for Trigger.
‘It has to cool first.
Patience Trigger,’ he says.
Then the blue wrens flitter nearby.
Pa throws a tiny scrap.
A magpie comes, then its mate.
‘If we’re not careful
we’ll have all sorts of wildlife around us,
and we don’t want the unwelcome visitor
you had yesterday.’
Pa gives me a wink.
‘Ah! Trigger, your lunch is cool enough to eat now
and the cats can have my scraps. Do you want
to take these pieces to Shelley and Tilly?’ asks Pa.
I like how my pa knows the cats’ names.
Leah would have liked it too.
‘Time for a mug of tea.’ Pa stirs
the gumleaves with a twig,
puts the lid back on and swings the whole
billy around and around.
‘Takes practice, that does,’ he laughs.
‘Let me show you some of the features
of the truck,’
suggests Pa,
as we wipe the plates on the grass
and pour the rest of the billy tea over them.
‘You know about the signals?’
I nod and work them.
Then Pa explains all the different knobs.
‘No computer programming in this.
Made it easier for us to do repairs
so far out from town.
Guess this will go in the clearing
sale too?’
I nod.
‘Good. Someone might love doing up
this old truck.’
‘I’m going back to the house now Toby.
Leave you to your goodbyes.’
Funny, even Pa knows about my secret plan.
‘What about you?’ I blurt out,
suddenly sad again.
‘Oh, I said my goodbyes
to this place years ago
when your grandma and I left for retirement.
It’s your turn now.’
I wave as Pa turns back once more
before the track curves
and the shelter trees we planted
hide him from sight.
I climb into the truck cabin again and try
to remember the purpose of the knobs
and the meaning
of the dials on the dashboard.
Then I climb back out and say,
‘Goodbye red truck.’
Tonight it will be special to sleep nearby
and think about pigs grunting
and fish, silver as ice,
packed on the back of the old red truck.
On Memorial Hill
The days are running out before the clearing sale,
before the bonfire
and before all our family and friends
come to say goodbye.
I have one last place I want to pitch my tent.
Leah and I made up a name for it:
Memorial Hill.
On a flatland farm, a little hill is exciting,
means we can run up, slide down
on old, squashed cardboard boxes.
Memorial Hill is right at the back of our house,
near the old outside toilet,
where the bantams are now.
And over the fence is the dam
that used to provide water for the garden.
So Dad reckons that the dirt
was dumped there to make a hill
when the earth was scooped out
for the dam.
The hill is where Leah and I made little graves
for our pets or for a small parrot or kingfisher
we found dead on the farm.
We made little circles of stones and put up crosses.
Here is where Dad’s old dog Streak is buried
and his last dog White Tail
and the mother cat
of our kittens.
Here are the sugar gums
planted by Pa’
s grandmother.
So they are very old.
Galahs nest here
around Christmas time
and the ground is covered
in old gumnuts and leaves.
This place is quiet, special.
Maybe Leah would have liked
to have been buried here.
But she has her own place near our grandma.
The hill is where I feel close to Leah.
How can I say goodbye to this place?
How?
Leah was just a toddler when Grandma died
and Pa came to live with us for a while.
But I remember Grandma well.
She was always drawing and singing;
maybe that’s where Leah got her talents.
Trigger is already snuffling in the leaves.
He ignores, for once, the chooks
scratching nearby.
They love this place too.
Lots of beetles
and grubs and worms to eat.
I walk around the little pet graves,
work out where I can pitch my tent.
Wonder where Pa buried
his pets,
when he was a boy.
I can hardly remember the mother cat
and suddenly
I have a terrible thought:
Will I remember Leah?
I have photographs,
I have her handmade birthday cards,
our games together.
I will remember.
I find a spot right at the highest point
of the little hill
and begin hammering in the pegs.
It’s hard work.
The hill is dry; all the tree roots underneath
have taken all the moisture and spread thickly
like an underground web,
searching for even more moisture.
But I get there.
I’m sweaty.
I finish putting up the tent.
Straight away, a gumnut lands plonk
on the plastic roof.
Oh well, it might be a noisy night.
I look out as far as I can see,
say goodbye to the paddocks,
the dam, Memorial Hill itself.
But never goodbye to Leah;
what we remember and know will
come with us.
I decide to collect some of the gumnuts.
I know if I put them in a paper bag
like Mum does, then tiny pepper-like seeds
will fall out and maybe Mum will show me
how to grow sugar gums on our new farm.
I’m hungry again,
and I’m certain Mum will be baking,
getting ready for the big bonfire night,
ready for the clearing sale.
I love smelling biscuits
or muffins cooking, and Mum
cooks a lot.
Not Leah’s favourite of lemon
meringue pie anymore,
but Dad’s favourites and mine.
‘Need help?’ I ask. What I really mean is:
Are there any spare crumbs or bowls to lick?
Mum nods, hands me
an Anzac biscuit and a jam drop biscuit.
Feast!
‘How are the goodbyes going?’ she asks
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