by Field, Mark
As I said in my post on Bargaining, Season 6 was easily the most controversial season of the show. It wasn’t just that some (many?) viewers didn’t like it; that was true for S4 and S7 as well. No, it was the issues raised and the way they were handled which generated the passionate internet debates at the time. In rough order, my personal impression was that the controversial aspects ranked as follows: T1. Spike (was he evil, good, or in-between?) and the magic/drugs metaphor; 3. Buffy’s season-long depression and relationship with Spike; BIG GAP 4. The overall quality of the season and whether the characters had developed organically; and 5. The endings of Hell’s Bells and Normal Again.
All of that controversy pales in comparison with Seeing Red. SR was by far, indisputably, without any shadow of a doubt the most controversial episode in the show’s history. It possibly was more controversial than ALL the show’s history. It was perhaps the most controversial episode of any TV show ever. If you weren’t on line at the time, it’s hard to convey the depth and passion of the arguments. When SR aired, it was as if the internet had exploded. Buffy boards were getting maybe 10 times the usual traffic and the arguments were screaming. You’d have to compare political controversies like race or abortion in order to get a similar reaction.
So what was the fuss all about? Bathroom and bedroom, of course. Let’s take Spike first, because SR threw oil on the fire of the Spike debates which were already intense. Spuffies were infuriated that Spike would attempt to rape Buffy. They said this was Out of Character, an issue I’m not going to address, but I think there was a more fundamental concern. Many Spuffies knew that rape – even attempted rape – occupies a special place in crimes where women are concerned. It’s one of the few unforgivable offenses, like child molestation. As one commenter put it at AtPO, “They have given us an extremely interesting and likeable character and had him do not an unlikable thing, but an unforgivable thing.”
Most viewers understood that Spike’s actions would change the character and his relationship with Buffy irrevocably. Indeed, I know some viewers who had been Spuffies (or sympathetic) who switched on a dime to seething hatred of Spike, a hatred they never lost. Spike was in human face during the attack and that seemed to encourage this reaction. Joss very intentionally put Angelus in vamp face when Angelus murdered Jenny Calendar for exactly this reason, and it served as an important visual clue about whether it was the demon or the man who was committing the crime. While I personally was able to put this aside for the later story, a lot of viewers weren’t, and I think this had a big impact on later episodes.
Many of those who remained Spike fans blamed Marti Noxon for this scene – she didn’t write the episode, but the scene was her idea – and accused her of misanthropy and numerous other faults. I think this is very unfair, even though I do have criticisms of the scene. The fact is, all the writers went along with her idea, including Joss. Blaming her alone, even assuming blame is justified, makes no sense.
Then there was Tara. When she first appeared on the show, some viewers were very critical of her. They didn’t like the fact that Willow was gay, they wanted Oz back. They even criticized Amber Benson as “fat”.
Over time, I think most viewers came to like Tara a lot. In particular, segments of the gay community were absolutely thrilled that a gay relationship was being portrayed so sympathetically over such a long period of time. Indeed, it was the only gay relationship on network TV for many years, and the show was the cutting edge for the acceptance of gays on television. The writers were creative in using metaphor to show gay sex (Who Are You) at a time when the WB wouldn’t even allow a kiss. They pushed the envelope in S6 with scenes such as that in OMWF.
In order to describe the uproar which followed Tara’s murder, I need to explain some details about Buffy fandom at the time. There was, and for that matter still is, a posting board called The Kitten, The Witches and the Bad Wardrobe dedicated to Willow and Tara. Popularly known as the Kitten Board, the name was a play on Willow’s book report in Restless on The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe (see the essay on Restless). The posters there were enthusiastic fans of the show and thrilled that a gay couple was, for the first time ever on American TV, shown having a long-term, successful relationship.
Despite its limited focus, the Kitten Board was widely read. That’s not just because fans of the relationship hung out there, but also because one of the posters there, Robert Black (like Riley in Something Blue, not a lesbian), had the best spoiler sources on the net. Those who wanted to be spoiled (not me) and to debate the show before episodes even aired read the Kitten Board. Black knew what was coming in Seeing Red, of course, and he made sure that the whole Kitten Board knew too. The spoilers on this event were so widespread (not all of them coming from Black) that they even became known to people like me who were spoiler-phobic, with the personally annoying result that the episode didn’t have its intended impact on me.
Anyway, Black and the other Kitten Board posters were absolutely infuriated that Joss would kill Tara. They were angry because her death destroyed the one gay couple on TV, but also because they felt that having her killed in the bedroom after a day of sexual romping reinforced a cliché that gay couples would be punished for being gay and having gay sex. (There’s a book called The Celluloid Closet which details this practice of movies and TV and the Kitten Board has a FAQ explaining their position here.) For an example of the reaction, see the essay by Todd Ramlow at PopMatters: http://www.popmatters.com/pm/review/buffy-the-vampire-slayer2/ I should add that I have very strong disagreements with many of his points, but I’m linking to it as an example of the depth of reaction Seeing Red generated. For important counterpoints see Andrew Gilstrap at http://www.popmatters.com/pm/review/buffy-the-vampire-slayer3/ [Major Spoilers for the rest of S6 at this link]
Thus, while many internet posters were screaming at each other about Spike and Marti, the Kitten Board was screaming at the other writers and at Joss, with everyone else eventually dragged in. You can read more about it here (warning: Major Spoilers for the rest of S6 at the link): http://slayageonline.com/essays/slayage13_14/Tabron.htm and in the Alissa Wilts essay in Buffy Goes Dark.
I can’t say much more because that would involve really significant spoilers, but suffice to say that the ramifications of both of these controversies would remain for the rest of S6 and all of S7.
With all this as background, let me get to the details of Seeing Red. The fact that I was spoiled for Tara’s death meant that Seeing Red never had the dramatic emotional impact on me that was intended. Perhaps for that reason, or maybe the furious debates afterward, I’ve never been able to consider it a top quality episode, though it’s the turning point of the season. I want to emphasize that I don’t think it’s a bad episode, it’s just not the great one it perhaps could have been. I’ll try to cover at least the basics of the two major scenes plus some of the others.
Seeing Red reveals the ultimate goal of the Trio (“everything we ever wanted”, as Warren promised Jonathan in Entropy): manliness. Theirs was a false, immature form of manliness, of course, emphasized by the phallic stakes on their ATVs in the teaser to Entropy and by the rather anvilicious “orbs” and their effect on Warren here in Seeing Red: “WARREN: What's the matter baby? You never fight a real man before?” All season long they’ve been trying to prove their own self-worth by attacking Buffy, tearing her down. Now their efforts are shown for what they really are: brutal and creepily sexist. Buffy emasculated Warren, figuratively and emotionally, when she smashed his “orbs”, and that’s his most sensitive issue (see Katrina).
Seeing Red also reveals the reason why Andrew ended up siding with Warren, rather than his putative best friend, Jonathan. This was developed subtly, starting with this dialogue in Life Serial:
Warren holds out his hand to Andrew, who recoils.
ANDREW: With each other?
WARREN: Well, you know what homophobia really means about you, don't you?
Then, in Entropy, Andrew let sli
p his true feelings while they were watching Spike have sex with Anya:
ANDREW: (riveted) He is so cool. (glances at the others, self-consciously) And, I mean, the girl is hot too.
And here in SR we find out that Warren, unsurprisingly, exploited Andrew’s nascent feelings:
ANDREW: (crying) How could he do this to me? He promised we'd be together, but ... he was just using me. He never really loved- (catching himself) ...hanging out with us.
All along there’s been a ménage a Trio.
The Trio weren’t the only ones attacking Buffy in Seeing Red. Even today when I re-watch the episode, I still get annoyed with Xander’s statements in his first conversation with Buffy. As so often, he’s judgmental that Buffy failed to live up to his expectations: “All those times I told Spike to get lost ... that he didn't have a chance with a girl like you.” And now, even now, he doesn’t want to know how hard it was for her to be pulled out of heaven.
His criticisms of Buffy are not even remotely plausible. It simply was false for him to say that Buffy “used to” keep him involved in her personal life. In fact, the opposite was true – Buffy excluded him precisely because his reaction to Angel was so harsh (e.g., Passion, Becoming 1, Dead Man’s Party, Revelations), because he violated her confidence by telling Riley about Angel in The Yoko Factor (h/t State of Siege), and because Xander’s Lie in Becoming 2 meant that she could never trust him on that score again. We see her lack of trust vindicated when he berates her with the same holier than thou attitude towards Spike that he always showed with Angel. Xander had no involvement whatsoever in her brief relationship with Parker, at least not until afterwards. She never once talked to him about Riley before Into the Woods.
What was really at issue here was not that Buffy had closed him off regarding Spike, though that was true in part, but that Xander felt like Willow did in Innocence: “It just means that you'd rather be with someone you hate than be with me.” That’s the theme which would have made a better scene – it would have been true to both characters and would have then allowed him to follow that up with the “you shut me out” accusation.
Spike’s attack on Buffy was the hardest in many ways, though one could argue that she took more of a physical beating from Warren and more of an emotional one from Xander. Hardest on her and hardest to watch. There’s a lot to consider with that scene, so I’m going to break it down in several different ways.
Having Buffy be “injured” in the fight with the vampire immediately before the scene was IMO not well-considered. For one thing, the injury wasn’t all that plausible – a nearly identical scene occurred in Doomed and Buffy was fine afterwards.
The reason for the “injury” was that the standard fact in real life rape cases is that the man is stronger. The problem in the narrative within the show is that Buffy is stronger than Spike; in fact, the resolution of the scene depends on that very fact. Her “injury” beforehand obscures this point in an effort to make the scene work with the strength issue reversed from what we see in real life. I think this comes across as a contrivance and that it confused the viewers about a very serious social issue. Actor James Marsters had very perceptive comments on this aspect (very slight edit):
Al Norton: I ran a whole bunch of Buffy polls on our website and Facebook page and the one things the readers wanted me to ask you about, other than your favorite episode, was Seeing Red, the episode where Spike tries to force himself on Buffy. There's been some distance now between you and the episode; do you think it worked and did you understand the story they were trying to tell?
James Marsters: I do understand why they did it but I still think it was a mistake. The truth is the writers on Buffy were being incredibly brave. Joss was asking each of them to come up with their most painful day, their most humiliating day, the day that they made the biggest fools of themselves or the day they hurt someone else the most, and then put a patina of fangs and blood over that. Basically that's why I think the series is so delightful, because of the bravery of the writers on that score.
One of the writers, a female writer [Marti Noxon], had a situation in her life where she and her boyfriend were breaking up and she decided if she just made love to him one more time, that they wouldn't break up. She ended up trying to force herself on him and decided to write about that. The thing is, if you flip it and make it a man forcing himself on a woman, I believe it becomes a whole different thing.
Even though Buffy is super strong, even though she kicks him through a wall at the end of it, how it plays to the audience changes when you change the sex that way. It worked out and everything but I'm not really sure it expressed what the author was intending and on that score it was not successful. I think it was a big risk for everybody but I think if she could have found a female character to express that with it would have gotten closer to what she was trying to say, and I'm not really sure that we got there with that episode.
http://www.411mania.com/movies/columns/228484/411mania-Interviews:-James-Marsters-(Buffy-the-Vampire-Slayer,-Angel).htm
IMO, it would have been much more plausible to place Buffy’s first conversation with Xander immediately before her confrontation with Spike. That would have transitioned nicely from a discussion about Spike in which Buffy was emotionally distraught. While there’s little previous evidence in the show that being physically battered affects her fighting, there’s a great deal which shows that her emotional state does.
Now I need to discuss Spike’s mindset in the bathroom. There’s a lot of room for interpretation about that, and the writers clearly intended the ambiguity. Again, I’m not sure this was a good dramatic choice. Let’s walk through it.
He began by trying to apologize for having sex with Anya. No problem there, of course. But he was clearly tormented by Dawn’s accusation that he broke his own code – “I don’t hurt you” – and that led him to try to recover what he thought he had. In doing so, he didn’t account for Tara’s words at the end of Entropy – things can’t go back to the way they were, and trust needs time to develop.
This is how writer Steven DeKnight explained Spike’s mental state in what followed:
“C: Why did you choose to use attempted rape as a means of bringing Spike and Buffy to this point in the relationship?
SDK: Ah. We had talked a lot about Spike trying to do good but ultimately he doesn't have a soul and it's a constant struggle. His love for Buffy and what she was giving him back, even though it was often abusive, really kind of kept him on that path. But once she absolutely cut him off... In the previous week's episode you really see him start to turn
there, when he tells her to get out.
C: Right, he has a little bit more self respect at that point.
SDK: Yeah, and you know, there's a lot of self-loathing too. I mean, on the one hand, he hates himself for what he did to Buffy by sleeping with Anya, and on the other hand he hates himself for feeling anything for her.
C: Well that's the thing that's gone through all of this, that he doesn't understand why he's feeling this way and he hates that he feels this way.
SDK: Right. So we were talking about how to really show this and push it in that direction, and it was Marti in the room who said, because we were talking about Spike going to Buffy to talk to her about this, and she said--
C: Right, cause it starts very tenderly. It starts as a very nice scene.
SDK: --and she said "you know he should go to talk to her, and it just gets out of hand. He starts to try, to start up the relationship, to say 'I know you felt it; I know you could feel it again' and he just won't stop."
C: Okay, so did this seem like a natural progression for Spike to you guys?
SDK: Yes.
C; To try and hurt her physically, to attempt...
SDK: Well you know to Spike, and this is not to lessen what he tried to do, which was wrong. In the moment, all he was thinking about is 'she loves me, and if she just lets herself feel this again, she'll feel it again.'”
As I interp
ret this, Spike’s attempt to force things stemmed from the message he got up through and including Dead Things: “But you like what I do to you?” He believed that if Buffy would just let herself experience “what I do to you” one more time, their “relationship” would be restored. Joss put it this way: “Although Spike could feel love, it was the possessive and selfish kind of love that most people feel. The concept of real altruism didn’t exist for him. And although he did love Buffy and was moved by her emotionally, ultimately his desire to possess her led him to try and rape her because he couldn’t make the connection —- the difference between their dominance games and actual rape.” [Spoilers at link: http://www.nytimes.com/2003/05/16/readersopinions/16WHED.html?pagewanted=all ]
Compounding the problem was that Spike interpreted Buffy’s reluctance about the relationship as implicitly telling him that “no means yes”, an interpretation for which there’s support in previous episodes:
“BUFFY: (sighs) Spike, I mean it. Come on.
SPIKE: I hear you're serious. So am I. I want you ... you want me...
Cut to a closer shot as Buffy has her back up against the tree and Spike is right in her face.
SPIKE: ...I can't go inside, so ... maybe the time is right ... for you to come outside.” (AYW)
The problem with the nuance – however true to life it may be in some cases – is that the uncertainty leaves room for doubt about what he did and who was to blame. That contrasts very strongly with the gritty, hyper-realism of the filming of the scene. The contrast caused some viewers, who focused on the filming, to hate Spike, while others sympathized with Spike and even blamed Buffy, because they found his conflicted state “understandable”.