And I glossed over the moments just after the sex, when the affection evaporated as quickly as the sweat on our skin. He jumped out of bed and sat down on his couch to roll himself a cigarette. I sat up, the sheet pulled to my waist.
“Sarah, you have to leave.”
“You don’t respect me. You don’t like me because I’m smart.”
“I like you because you’re smart. And you have great tits.”
I laughed. It was so stupid, and yet, I felt complimented. Again, I preferred to only hear the positive and ignore any harshness. He lit his cigarette and lay down on his rug, smoking, staring up at the ceiling, looking drunk and exhausted and done with me. Something snapped inside of me: in that moment, I wasn’t a twenty-seven-year-old woman with a successful freelance journalism career and a life lived on my own terms, but a woman hungry for the great love it felt that life had cost me.
“Please, let me stay,” I said, beyond pride, beyond everything. “I want to stay.”
In the primal, childish way of temper tantrums and doomed love affairs, all my pride and obstinacy kicked in, but instead of that carrying me out into the night with a vow to start a new year in which I only allowed myself to be treated with kindness and respect, I focused on getting what I wanted in that moment: to sleep beside him. I had a lover, and to have passionate sex and then sleep beside each other was what lovers did.
And I got what I wanted. I spent the next two nights with him, smoking pot, drinking, and hanging out with our friends. His house had become a magical place, like the Island of Misfit Toys, where a small group clung together against the treacherous rapids of adulthood. He ripped my shirt over my head. I kissed his skinny chest, tugged off his jeans, already ready, always ready, for him. He was moaning and talking. He liked to talk dirty to me, and I liked to talk back. But this time, his words were different, and I tried to block them out. “We have to stop this,” he said. “It’s starting to feel too good. We know what to do for each other.”
We didn’t stop. In the morning, I dressed and got ready to leave without having to be told. When I stepped into the bright sparkle of the winter sun, the cold air slapped me awake. I’d spent nearly three straight days and nights with him, and he was thick and syrupy in my system. But even as I felt triumphant that I’d been allowed to stay, I knew it was a temporary communion. He would soon be going away again, and leaving me far behind, geographically if not creatively. I wanted more for myself: I wanted the whole big world.
chapter thirteen
I LIKE YOUR BRAIN
In mid-January, I traveled to Los Angeles. A good friend had been trying to convince me to visit since she’d moved there the previous year, and now, full of the possibility of my rock crush, Judah, I made it happen. As soon as I arrived, I was smitten with the city.
The night I worked up the courage to call Judah and leave a message: my friend was having a party at her bungalow. I stayed mostly sober in case he called back. At five in the morning he did, and when we realized I was staying just a few blocks away from his house, he sent someone over on foot to get me. I didn’t find this at all strange. I walked out of my friend’s bungalow and stood in front of the Silver Lake Lounge, enjoying the secret feeling of being awake when no one else was, loving the palm trees and vast sky, and wondering what would happen next. After about ten minutes, a short Asian woman, Alyssa, strutted toward me across the street. She was pretty, with long, flowing hair, and she was dressed casual-sexy in low-slung jeans, high-heeled sandals, and a halter top with no bra.
It had never occurred to me that he’d send a girl. As she led me up into the hills where he lived, I darted sideways looks at her, trying to figure out who she was and what she was to Judah. I scattered bright, happy chatter around us, wanting her on my side.
Alyssa knocked quickly as we entered. I stopped just inside the threshold, suddenly nervous. It was a space with gravitas, low lit, the end of a fire burning in a tiled fireplace to my right. Judah sat on the couch, facing a low coffee table covered in clusters of lit candles, ashtrays, packs of cigarettes, lighters, pill canisters, a bottle of baby oil.
“Welcome,” he said. “Come on in.”
I smiled and bowed my head toward him, the master of the house.
“Good morning,” I said. “Thanks for having me. My friend couldn’t live any closer to you. I think her apartment may actually be inside your house.”
“What brings you to LA? Business or pleasure.”
“A little of both.”
“Good answer.”
I was still trying not to do anything to make Alyssa turn against me, so I let her slide onto the couch next to Judah and chose an armchair across from them. He picked up his phone and looked at it. He had us wait in the bedroom while a man came with a delivery, and then he offered us one of the cans of Tecate beer the man had brought.
Judah was wearing sunglasses, and he and I were circling each other slowly. This was what I had always dreamed of—time at home with an artist I admired—still, nerves rattled me. I was trying to soak it all in, not just the smell of incense and the silky black cat rubbing himself against my ankles, but also the gilded glisten of the air as it soaked into my pores.
Judah suddenly looked at me head-on. With a well-practiced motion, he pulled out a small baggie, dumped out a pile of white powder, and began to rack up lines. I had done some coke but had always felt like I was doing it wrong.
Judah cut a plastic straw and nodded me over, holding it out. “Come do a line.”
“Thanks but not yet,” I said.
“Come do a line, or how do I know you’re not a narc?”
“I will, in a minute,” I said.
He stood and looked at me with force. Alyssa sat on the couch, watching as we went back and forth like this a few times. Judah and I faced off against each other for a long moment, and then we smiled, both satisfied we’d made our point. It was six in the morning.
I took the straw from him, kneeled on the floor in front of the table, and snaked the coke up into my nose, then closed my nostril with a finger and inhaled deeply. My skin glittered, my thoughts glistened, and I smiled at him. Judah moved with the concentrated nonchalance of someone who’d spent more than two decades onstage. As he cut lines, he spun stories of life on the road. I pushed back from the table and looked up.
“I’m good for now, or you’re about to have a very fucked-up girl on your hands.”
He smiled at me and nodded. Somehow I had propelled myself out of my regular, small life to sit with this man I admired. Judah brought out a bottle of Maker’s Mark and ordered Alyssa to the kitchen for ice. I watched them closely, still unsure about their relationship and what it meant for me, determined to talk with the men, not serve with the women. And yet, I wasn’t silky and well put together like she was, and it seemed possible he was going to send me away when the drugs ran out, with the promise of tickets to his next Boston show. The light around us was Southern California gold. I was very, very high.
“Maybe you girls should take your tops off,” Judah said.
“Okay,” Alyssa said, giggling, instantly topless.
Her skin was caramel, and her breasts were pretty, and she had a little potbelly that made her look younger than she was. I looked at Judah for a long moment.
“I’m going to keep my bra on,” I said.
He laughed. “Okay,” he said.
Slowly, embarrassed, I opened my shirt, button by button. Judah watched.
“Now go stand over there together,” he said, pointing. “Let’s take a picture.”
I handed him the disposable camera from my purse.
“Hug each other,” he said.
Alyssa knew exactly what to do and wrapped her satiny skin around me. She was much shorter than I was and her face nestled near my breasts, bound in their black bra. We were both still wearing our sunglasses. I smoked my cigarette, unable to contain the wolfish grin roaring up inside of me. So he wasn’t going to send me home after all. But I didn’t
want to share him. After he snapped photos, I kneeled at the table again. Judah seemed to accept this. Around three in the afternoon, Alyssa went to sleep in his room.
“Why don’t you slip into something more comfortable?” he said.
I smiled at him and followed him toward the kitchen. He reached into the dryer and handed me a pair of black boxer briefs. I held his eyes with mine as I unsnapped my button and slowly slid down my fly. He stepped close to me and helped me tug down the stiff fabric of my jeans. My skin was instantly hot. I leaned into him. He didn’t touch me anywhere except where his arm circled my hips, which made it even hotter.
“Now put these on,” he said, his voice low and raspy.
I felt like I could get off, just standing there by his dryer with him.
Without thinking twice, I followed him outside in my bra and his underwear at three in the afternoon on a Saturday. It was a perfect Los Angeles day. I was dimly aware of at least one neighbor in a nearby yard, but everything outside our lovely, gauzy cocoon was distant from me. Until I glanced up and was immediately filled with delight: the mythic white letters of the Hollywood sign crowned the hillside in the distance. The love I’d felt for Los Angeles throughout my visit crested to a perfect blissful glow.
He held me on his lap and had me inhale nitrous, which washed me up into a remote part of myself where it felt like nothing bad had ever happened.
“Have you ever been fucked by a man on Viagra?” he said.
I shook my head no, not telling him I could nearly count all of the men I’d ever had sex with on two hands. We smoked and drank and kissed. His hands were heavy on the bare curves of my hips, his mouth on mine, the sun warm on my shoulders and back. Every time his fingertips grazed me, it was as if sparklers lit up along my skin.
He led me back inside, and I walked into the kitchen for a glass of water. He was touching me, leaning against me from behind, bending me over the counter, pulling down his underwear, and my underwear, and sliding himself inside of me. I pushed back into him, urgent with wanting. It felt like a perfect fit, which was something he sang about, and I heard his voice in my head, but no, it was just by my ear.
“Sarah,” he said. “Sarah.”
The sound of my name reminded me where I was, and who was fucking me, and the story he’d told me earlier in the day about a stripper/drug dealer he’d fucked under the stage when his band was opening for one of the great stadium rock bands of his youth. How he’d made his reputation on fucking almost as much as on music. I kicked my way up out of the undertow of pleasure in which I’d been swept out to sea.
“Do you have a condom?” I asked.
“No.”
“You can’t fuck me without a condom.”
“Don’t you want to get fucked?” he breathed into my ear, pushing into me.
“Yes,” I moaned. “Let’s find a condom.”
“No,” he said, and like smoke, he’d slid out of me.
I stood for a long moment, bereft, empty, abandoned, wanting to do whatever it took to make him fill me up again, now and forever, to be his good girl and make him like me. I turned to look at him, pulling up my underwear.
“Judah,” I said.
He was already walking back to the living room, lighting a cigarette. I followed behind him nervously, preparing to be cast out. As with my dad, and my kryptonite, I never thought about leaving. I would do anything to stay and have the experience, even when it didn’t go my way. But he simply cut new lines and handed me a fresh straw.
The afternoon unfolded like an extended game of Truth or Dare, with his telling me to do something, and my either saying yes or no. After a few rounds, I relaxed, realizing I’d finally found a man who was confident enough to withstand a no.
Time drifted to and fro. I looked up at his bookcase and saw my business card propped against a book, which made me happy. Next to it was a photo of a blond woman. It made me think of his most famous release, a breakup album.
I mentioned the title to him. “Who’d you write it for?” I asked.
“I wrote it about her,” he said, standing and retrieving the photo near my card.
I looked at her. She was pretty, but there was nothing in her face to indicate that she was going to end up on his bookshelf a decade after the release of the album she’d inspired, an album I’d listened to obsessively for years, whose lyrics had informed my thoughts on relationships and sex. I held on to the photo, not because I was jealous, but because I was learning something important about where art came from, and how I might turn Scott, my kryptonite, the shooting, and everything else into something, maybe as beautiful and raw and alchemic as his album had been for me and so many others.
As I handed the photo back to him, I saw his copy of A Book of Dreams.
“Peter Reich,” I said. “I’ve always wanted to read that. My dad took me to see Wilhelm Reich’s cloud buster when I was little.”
“I covered ‘Cloudbusting,’ and I read it to understand the song before I sang it.”
“That’s right,” I said. “We talked about it in our interview.”
I grew happy then, as if I had stumbled upon the true path of my life and was finally learning what I needed to know to become the artist and the woman I wanted to be.
“I’m writing a book,” I said.
“You are? Do tell.”
I told him the whole story of my novel, Because the Night. He listened intently, asking questions in the right places, but not trying to dominate the conversation or tell me how my book should be, which I appreciated.
Even though I’d seen the light leak out of the sky through the windows as we’d talked and made out, when Judah led me outside at nine o’clock so he could go to the recording studio, the darkness surprised me. I was getting that Sunday night feeling, but I tried to fight it. He drove me in his new car into the hills, which were shadowed and lovely. We made out and did bumps of cocaine off his key, and he slid my red satin underwear off me to bring with him on tour in Europe. He pulled into the little alley near my friend’s bungalow.
“Thanks for having me over,” I said with a smile.
He laughed.
“You’ll always remember me because I was the first woman you made out with in this car,” I said, repeating words he’d spoken earlier, certain everything was about to disappear forever. I felt like I was always building everything from scratch.
“I’ll always remember you because you’re my friend, and sometimes lover, and the woman whose novel I’m going to write an introduction for.”
“Really?” I said, too happy to even play at cool.
“Really.”
“I guess I’d better finish writing it then.”
He laughed again and kissed me quickly on the lips.
“Ciao, bella,” he said, and he was gone.
Late that night, my phone rang. This was the big life I’d always dreamed of. But when he invited me over, his voice reminded me of those people on The X-Files with the black tar in their eyes, as if the cocaine and the sleeplessness had replaced his essence with something dark, and I refused him, even though I feared that would be it between us. I hoped he would forgive me for leaving him alone late at night, even hoped he had someone else to be with, because I knew well the kind of loneliness he was calling in reinforcements against.
I’d fallen hard for Los Angeles—it was like falling in love with a person—and I’d hated to return to Boston. It was the first year Scott hadn’t called to wish me a happy birthday, even though I’d called him eighteen days earlier on his. On my kryptonite’s birthday a month later, he left his ex-girlfriend asleep in his bed and took me downstairs to the basement, where we fucked on the washing machine and a chair in the low-ceilinged, dingy room.
During all of this, I’d sent Judah an e-mail. Taking inspiration from an erotic website he’d shown me during our night together, I wrote a short piece with one of the songs we’d listened to together as the soundtrack. In it, I wore red satin underwear, just like
the ones he had with him in Europe. He wrote back that he liked my story very much.
One day early that spring, he called me three times before I finished my day’s deadlines, and I gathered the nerve to answer his fourth call. I knew enough about cocaine to understand the drug was behind his focus and intensity, but still, I was fluttery with excitement when I heard his deep, hypnotic voice on the line.
“What are you wearing?” he asked.
“Nothing,” I said, catching on quickly, even as I heard a loud crush of voices behind him. “What’s all that noise?”
“I’m at a Lakers game at the Staples Center,” he said. “It’s halftime and my friends are inside while I’m outside smoking a cigarette.”
We both laughed at the naughtiness of this. He got me off with his voice and went inside to watch the second half of the game. After that, he called me several times a week, often several times a day. He’d call me after last call at his bar, or when he’d come in late from the studio, around six in the morning, in Boston, so often that I began sleeping with my cell phone on my chest, just above my breasts. We talked our way through elaborate fantasies, like one in which he played in Boston—as he would in six weeks—and he went backstage between songs, where I waited for him with an eight ball and got him off.
He wanted to know everything about my sexual history, and he was always just as transparent with me. Because he never got more romantic than a good-bye, “Ciao, bella,” I wasn’t jealous of the other women he mentioned. I knew he didn’t want a girlfriend and understood why. When we talked for hours, I knew there must be something in me that was clever and charming and sexy enough to interest him, and it made me feel a little more of those things in my daily life. He was eleven years older than I was, and he was giving me an education, exposing me to his sensual world, which thrilled me.
At that moment in my life, I was obsessed with figuring out what it was an artist “did”—reading Patti Smith’s journals, in which she described her songwriting process, talking about the craft over glasses of Maker’s Mark and soda with my writer friends Cathy and Erin.
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