by Bob Nelson
I requested a meeting with the hospital director the following morning, and to my surprise my call was transferred to him immediately. I didn’t have my presentation prepared in that instant but quickly gained my bearings and jumped into the speech I had given in Canada. I wished I could meet with the director in person though; he’d be able to read my character, see my passion and integrity, and feel more comfortable with this girl’s unorthodox path. I had to convince him—Genevieve and her parents needed me to succeed.
I explained that I was president of the Cryonics Society of California and that we intended to accept Genevieve as a medical donor, which was her father’s wish. Therefore, we needed to pack her body in ice and administer a shot of heparin immediately upon clinical death.
After a brief pause the director asked, “You’re the organization that freezes people, right?”
My stomach jumped. I had no choice but to be honest. “Well, I suppose you could put it that way.”
He told me to hold for a moment . . . about twenty minutes clicked by in total silence.
“I’m sorry that took so long.” The director stopped to clear his throat. “I just spoke with the hospital supervisor. She’ll provide you with anything you need and cooperate in every way possible.”
My heart quickened and I bounced in the chair, nearly speechless with this change in fortune.
“Furthermore, if you have any problems or need anything else, just call me back.”
He gave me his personal pager number, and I thanked him countless times. What a difference from my experience in Montreal! I couldn’t wait to tell Genevieve’s family. God knew they needed some good news.
Still elated, I had to switch my mind back to the logistics, such as finding a place near the hospital where Genevieve’s parents could stay. Their plan was for each of them to stay one week, rotating so that one of them would be home to care for their other two children. The cost for a small, one-bedroom apartment near the hospital was astronomical. On the third day of searching, we found one that they could reasonably afford.
The first week Guy stayed and his wife went home. I met with him almost every day. He was elated when I told him about the hospital’s enthusiastic offer of cooperation.
He couldn’t get the ten thousand dollars from his family, so I found myself accepting another cryonic suspension without being paid for it. But saying no to that beautiful child was simply not an option.
Each morning when I arrived at the hospital, I’d stand in the doorway of Genevieve’s room, watching her play nurse to her dolls. After all her time in hospital beds, she knew the job description quite well. She pretended taking their temperature, withdrawing blood from the squishy doll arms with a tiny straw, and placing cold compresses on their little foreheads. The big nurses would constantly come in with big needles—needles for injecting something into the little girl or taking fluids out. Brave Genevieve scrunched up her face and steeled herself, but she never cried or jerked her arm, not even making a soft whimper. The nurses acted sweet but spoke in this high-pitched affected tone that adults often take with children.
Pierrette returned to relieve Guy the following week for the next rotation. I watched Pierrette tend to her daughter, endlessly smoothing her hair, arranging her blankets, and soothing her with stories, trying to fit a lifetime of mothering into the next few short days. I caught the names of Genevieve’s brother and sister, but since they were speaking in French, I couldn’t understand much else. As a mother, Pierrette was in agony, but with Genevieve she was always cheerful and smiling.
I was struck again by how strongly this family was committed to the hope that cryonics provided. These parents, by alternating weeks, were forfeiting precious days and memories so that Genevieve could be here in California—with me. One of them probably wouldn’t be here at the end. Watching their sacrifice of a parent’s most precious commodity—time—strengthened my resolve that their efforts would not be in vain.
After her brief reunion with Genevieve, Pierrette turned to me and said, “Mr. Robert, my daughter has a question.”
“Of course,” I replied. “I’m here and at her service.”
She looked pleased as her mom translated for me, though she didn’t smile. Pierrette, combing her fingers through her daughter’s hair, looked at me. “Genevieve wants to know if you know where Disneyland is.”
“Well, of course,” I responded, nodding. “That’s where my old friends Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck live.”
After the translation, exhilaration filled her face until she glowed. The excited girl asked, “You really know them?”
“Oh, yeah. We go back a long way.” I turned to Pierrette and asked, “Is there any chance we can go?”
A smile dawned, erasing all traces of Pierrette’s exhaustion. “The doctor agreed. He said it would be far preferable than sitting here all day.” Pierrette glanced at all the machines, one constantly drawing a red line on a strip chart. “I think she’s strong enough if we use a wheelchair and carry her whenever possible.”
I asked Genevieve if we could go to Disneyland tomorrow to meet Mickey and Donald. I watched, delighted, as the little girl’s eyes grew wider and wider. Sadly though, she did not smile, just clapped her hands.
When I arrived home that night, I wrapped my nine-year-old daughter, Susan, in a big hug. “Can you do a big favor for daddy?” I asked.
“Of course,” she answered, placing her hand on my cheek.
“I want you to skip school tomorrow.”
She leaned back, giving me a skeptical look. “Skip school?” she asked, surprised that would be an option, let alone a favor. “You’d let me skip school?”
I smiled. “This is something super special for a very special little girl. She doesn’t have too many chances for fun times. So can you help me make sure she has lots of fun tomorrow?”
Nodding, Susan realized this was important grown-up business.
“We’re going to Disneyland tomorrow.”
Thrilled, she jumped up and spun around and round. “Wow, best favor ever!”
The drive to Disneyland was enchanting. Genevieve and her mom never stopped talking. She pressed her face against the car window and squealed “Maman, Maman!” when she first glimpsed the Sleeping Beauty Castle from the freeway. It was tough for me to drive; I kept wanting to look in the rearview mirror and watch her excitement grow as she spoke faster and faster. When we arrived we picked up a wheelchair and a special pass for Genevieve’s condition.
We went straight to It’s a Small World, my personal favorite, and since it’s a boat ride, I knew it wouldn’t be too taxing on Genevieve. She loved it so much she insisted we go around three times, pointing out the Eiffel Tower each time. I realized something deeply poignant while sharing the Small World ride with her. Whether American, Canadian, French, or Japanese, children all over the world have the same innocence and bestow dreams and possibility on a weary world. Just as cryonics brings hope to an individual, children—the next generation—provide hope for all humanity.
For the next couple of hours, we strolled through Fantasyland, a medieval fair with gentle rides. Genevieve seemed free of her life-and-death drama. When we came to the teacups, she asked her mom to ride with her. Before that, Susan had accompanied her on the rides. Her mom flashed me a funny look as she boarded. I think the ride made her a little nervous. Wrapped in the blanket, Genevieve appeared as small as Alice after she drank from the bottle in Wonderland. As the teacups spun around, I watched the blurry girl gripping the teacup rim; a few stray hairs blew wildly. When the ride ended, I scooped her up and placed her back in the wheelchair. She was breathless but had excited eyes and rosy cheeks.
“Mr. Robert,” Pierrette said. “Genevieve wants me to ask you a question.”
“Please, go right ahead and ask.”
“Genevieve wants to know if you would learn French so that she can t
alk with you.”
I knelt down and looked into those beautiful brown eyes and said, “Genevieve, I will learn French just for you.”
As her mother translated, Genevieve enchanted me with a big precious smile, the only smile I ever saw on her face during the time I knew her. When her mom told me that was also the first smile she had seen since Genevieve had become ill, I had an idea. Genevieve needed to meet two individuals who had no shortage of smiles—Mickey and Donald.
I slipped away while the children rode the charming horses on the King Arthur Carrousel. I went on a hunt for someone who could send Mickey and Donald our way. I was eventually guided toward the park director, a young lady with black hair, a lovely smile, and compassionate eyes, reminding me of Snow White.
I explained Genevieve’s situation, and she grabbed my hand. “Anything Genevieve wants to see is hers for the asking.”
“Could Mickey and Donald sort of bump into us?”
Patting me on the back, she called on her walkie-talkie; in five minutes everything was prepared.
She flashed a smile and leaned in close, as if delivering a top-secret mission. “Stroll over to the Casey Jones train ride close to the water fountain at noon. Mickey and Donald will run up to you like you’re long-lost brothers.”
A fire lit inside me. Genevieve was going to be thrilled!
I didn’t say anything to Pierrette or my Susan. I just meandered our group over to the train station at eleven forty-five.
Genevieve had asked her mom twice that morning about Mickey and Donald. It was one minute before noon, and my heart was racing. Genevieve looked at me, about to ask something, when the magic happened. Genevieve’s face lit up; she bounced in her wheelchair, waving and yelling in French.
Of course I knew exactly what was happening but pretended I didn’t see anything. She gestured wildly at our approaching guests. “Monsieur Robert, look! Look!”
When I turned around, Donald tackled me, capturing me in a big hug as I accidentally stepped on his big duck feet. Mickey joined him about two seconds later. It was perfect; my smile was as wide and permanent as Mickey’s. Genevieve was so excited she was close to tears. I settled my two long-lost buddies down and introduced them to the girls. My daughter had figured out the charade, but she played along flawlessly.
We settled down on a grassy knoll with a bench far from the crowds. Susan and I stepped away, allowing Genevieve and her mom to enjoy those two characters, so adept at providing a magical spark to a child’s life. As Genevieve’s mom interpreted what the Disney characters were saying, the girl’s imagination took her far away from the hospitals, doctors, and needles. I was happy that Pierrette had allowed me to bring along a movie camera to capture it all on film. I knew that all too soon, the footage of this extraordinary day would be precious to Genevieve’s family. After visiting for about thirty minutes, Donald and Mickey indicated it was time to go. Genevieve hugged them for a long moment, scrunching up her face, trying not to cry. The characters shook my hand as they went off, continuing the pretense. However, I was so grateful for Genevieve’s happiness and for their gentle compassion that they really were now my best buddies. Genevieve chirped happily with her mom, reliving the experience and rides.
I adopted her in my heart in that moment. I could not let her or her family down. I swore to myself that she would somehow be placed in cryonic suspension, even if I had to do it all myself. I closed my eyes, pained by all the heartache that fate had brought to this beloved, gentle girl. I could deny her nothing.
As I drove back to the hospital that afternoon, with the fading sun streaming through my side window, I knew that day would live in my memory forever, pristine and golden. I looked back and saw Genevieve in her mother’s arms, soft mews coming from her as she slept.
When I visited her in the hospital several days later, she still chatted excitedly about her time at Disneyland, but she looked quite pale and lethargic. I felt the stale hospital air and ghostly white walls and cabinets close around her; the setting was so different from the vibrant colors and squealing voices surrounding her just a few days earlier.
Guy was back, and Pierrette had returned to Canada. Whispering with a hitch in his voice, he told me he had just met with the doctors and decided not to put her on dialysis when her remaining kidney failed. The cancer had returned from its brief remission, and Guy reasoned that within a week she would experience severe pain; it would soon become unbearable and ultimately dialysis would be pointless. The alternative was uremic poisoning; Genevieve would simply go to sleep.
The next three weeks were depressing beyond description. This sweet angel was slipping away, and we could do nothing except comfort her and watch her fade. It was so unfair that I’d outlive that little girl. I just couldn’t stop thinking about it. Is she scared? She doesn’t act scared, but how can she not be? Does she truly realize everything this cancer is taking from her—her first dance with a boy, getting to grow up, seeing the actual Eiffel Tower?
I hoped that cryonics would give her those opportunities—all those experiences would still be hers, just delayed for a little while. If she must go to sleep and be placed in those cold liquids, then please let her wake up later. Heaven can wait—it’ll still be there for her after she’s had a long, full life.
At night I would go home exhausted and emotionally spent. All I could do was gather my own children into my arms, kiss their hair, and give long hugs until they pulled away.
The doctors told us Genevieve had been in total kidney failure for nine or ten days. The longest they had seen a person survive in that condition was eight days. She had a remarkably strong will to live. By this time Guy had become reclusive, speaking only to Genevieve.
On the tenth day, she was weak and pale, but her eyes were alert as she talked with her dad. On the eleventh day she began to dim rapidly. The end came on the twelfth day. She was holding her daddy’s hand when she asked him to hold her. Guy climbed onto the bed and cradled her in his arms. I had just arrived, and as I walked into the room, I stopped and quietly backed out. I couldn’t interrupt this moment. I watched through the small window in the door as this gentle father softly rocked his little girl back and forth and stroked her sweet face.
After about twenty minutes, he lay her back down, and I quietly reentered the room. Guy turned to me and said, “Please get a doctor; I believe she has just passed away.” He ran his large hand over her small face, closing her eyes.
Within two minutes Genevieve de la Poterie was pronounced legally dead. As we had asked, the nurses immediately covered her tiny body with ice and started the cardiac heart massage machine. Guy trudged down the hallway to a bank of pay phones. Pierrette needed to know.
Genevieve was transported to Joseph Klockgether’s mortuary, where we performed an excellent perfusion. We then placed her on dry ice in temporary storage until I could transfer her to a capsule. In her favorite dress and with her lips swollen from the perfusion, she didn’t look dead to me, only asleep . . . for now. The perfusion was filmed by a professional cameraman and later used in a documentary.
With my work completed and nothing left to do except keep her forever cold, the full weight of Genevieve’s death now came upon me. She had traveled to Hamlet’s undiscovered country, the place from which no one had returned—yet. I bowed my head and pressed my face against my fist, covering my eyes and nose. Trying not to make a sound, I gritted my teeth and felt the tightness in my throat. I had to be strong and steel myself against death; I had seen it many times before, but this one was the hardest and ripped at my heart. Today, as I write this, Wilms disease is no longer fatal. Within my own lifetime, medicine has found a cure for what killed that little girl.
My mind had to shift from the horrendous drama of watching Genevieve die to the physical labor of caring for her. Her parents’ work was done; they had loved her and cared for her completely. Now it was my turn. Genevieve remained in th
e temporary storage of a container filled with dry ice alongside Mildred for about a year.
Our fledgling cryonics facility was limping along but slowly gaining strength, and I was determined to make it succeed. Feeling confident about the CSC trajectory, I went back to educating the general public about cryonics. Genevieve and our other frozen heroes were counting on me.
Chapter 10
The East Coast Cryotorium
Cryonic societies were sprouting up in several cities, mostly on the East and West Coasts. After we had frozen the first man, several other groups, including the Cryonics Society of New York, had followed our lead and frozen some patients as well. I would learn over time that these cryonics societies experienced many of the same problems we did. In March 1971 I received a call from Pauline Mandell, who lived in the Bronx in New York. Her son, Steven, had died of cancer in his early twenties and had been in cryonic suspension at CSNY since 1968. She pleaded with me to come to New York to discuss moving her son to California for long-term storage. Like most other patients held by CSNY, her son’s capsule was on the verge of being evicted from Mount Washington Cemetery. She was battling Curtis Henderson, president of CSNY, and their dealings had turned ugly.
Since I was traveling to Boston to visit my ailing mother, I decided to make the side trip to see Pauline, arriving on a beautiful spring day. Since New York City seems to prefer to play at the extremes of temperature, this was one of the few visits when I actually enjoyed the weather. As I emerged from the plane, I saw Pauline waiting on the tarmac, wearing a tan leather jacket and brown jeans like she promised.
She was in her late thirties with a pretty and welcoming face, but her troubles showed in her tired eyes. She pulled out of our hug and began wringing her hands, saying, “Thank you so much for coming. Getting frozen was my son’s dying wish. I’ve tried, but I’m at my wits’ end with Mr. Henderson. He made all kinds of assurances and now we’re in a big mess. The management of the cemetery where the capsules are stored wants them out. They’ve threatened to block delivery of liquid nitrogen if they aren’t removed immediately. Mr. Henderson has nowhere to put them. Please, for the sake of my only son, help me fix this.”