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by Moira Weigel

Daily Mail

  Daily Princetonian

  Daly, Maureen

  dancing; controversial; in the street

  Danson, Ted

  Dateline NBC (TV show)

  dating: advice literature on; AIDS impact on; as allegedly dead; anonymity in; and automobiles; and breaking up; as cause of moral harm; changing sexual mores of; in cities; cohabiting while; in college; competing definitions of; early practices of; economic underpinnings of; as exclusionary; film portrayals of; as foundation of community; “going steady” while; in high school; interracial; leading to marriage; as liberating; likened to prostitution; and looking for The One; metaphorical language of; middle-class; origins of; as recreation; as romantic; selection patterns in; services; as “shopping around”; sitcom portrayals of; sources of advice on; speed; “sugar”; taste as driver of; as theater; time pressures of; as transaction; video; as work; working-class; in the workplace; see also calling; going steady; hooking up; monogamy; online dating; polyamory

  Davis, Angela

  Davis, Bette

  DeBartolo, Joseph

  Definitions fitness studios

  deindustrialization

  DeLillo, Don

  Delta Airlines

  desire; communicating; female; fetish; as liability; see also wanting

  desirability; as driver of work ethic

  Detroit

  Dewey, John

  Deyo, Rabbi Yaacov

  Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)-III

  Didion, Joan

  Diggers

  disco music

  divorce

  Dix, Dorothy

  Dodson, Betty

  Donnelly, Antoinette, see Blake, Doris

  DonorMatchMe

  Donovan, Frances

  Douglas, Michael

  drag

  Drag, The (West)

  drugs

  Earl, Harley

  Easton, Dossie

  Ebony

  Edwards, Richard

  Eisenhower, Dwight D.

  Elders, Jocelyn

  Elle

  Ellis, Bret Easton

  Ellis, Havelock

  emotional labor

  End of Men, The (Rosin)

  England, Paula

  Eros and Civilization (Marcuse)

  Erotic Revolution, The (Lipton)

  Essence (magazine)

  Ethical Slut, The (Easton and Hardy)

  Etiquette (Post)

  eugenics

  Exercise for Men Only (magazine)

  Extra (TV show)

  Facebook

  Fairfax Cryobank

  family planning; see also pregnancy; reproduction; teenagers

  Faris, Anna

  FarmersOnly

  Fatal Attraction (film)

  Father Knows Best (TV show)

  Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI)

  Fein, Ellen

  Feldstein, Howard

  Female Brain, The (Brizendine)

  Feminine Mystique, The (Friedan)

  feminism; as past; Fun Fearless; hooking up and

  feminists; black; working-class

  Feminist Theory (hooks)

  Fenway Health Community Center

  Ferber, Edna

  Ferlinghetti, Lawrence

  fertility: commodified; egg freezing; female; male; sterilization; see also pregnancy; reproduction

  Find a Husband After 35 (Greenwald)

  “findoms”

  Fitzgerald, F. Scott

  500 Days of Summer (film)

  Flappers

  flirting; among lesbians; online; uncertainties of

  Food and Drug Administration

  Fonda, Jane

  Ford, Harrison

  Ford Motor Company

  Forget-Me-Not (magazine)

  Four Tops

  Frankenstein (1931 film)

  Franklin, Benjamin

  fraternities

  free love; inequality of; as rejection of parents’ world

  Free-Thinker, The (periodical)

  French Revolution

  Freud, Sigmund

  Friedan, Betty

  Friedman, Milton

  Friends (TV show)

  Fussers

  Gallup polls

  Game, The (Strauss)

  Garden State (film)

  Gay Men’s Health Collective at Fenway

  Gay Men’s Health Crisis (GMHC)

  Gay-Related Immuno Deficiency (GRID), see AIDS

  gay rights; coming out

  General Motors

  Genius Bank, see Repository for Germinal Choice

  gentrification

  Georgetown Connection

  Gere, Richard

  GI Bill

  Gilmore, Elizabeth Meriwether, see Dix, Dorothy

  Gilmore Girls

  Ginsberg, Allen

  Girls Club of Santa Barbara

  Girls Gone Wild

  Girl’s Guide to Dating and Going Steady, A (McGinnis)

  Giuliani, Rudolph

  Glimpse (app)

  Glyn, Elinor

  going steady; consumerism shapes; controversy over; leading to marriage; as reputation protection

  Going Steady (film)

  Goldberg, Whoopi

  Goldman, Emma

  Google

  Gottlieb, Lori

  Grant, Cary

  Grateful Dead

  Gray, John

  Great Depression

  Great Expectations

  Great Recession

  Greene, Bob

  Greenwald, Rachel

  Griffith, Melanie

  Grindr (app)

  Griscom, Rufus

  Gwinnell, Esther

  Haight-Ashbury Free Clinic

  Halberstam, David

  Hall, G. Stanley

  Hamilton Lodge (Odd Fellows)

  happiness

  hangouts

  Hardy, Janet W.

  Harlem River Casino

  Harvard Business School

  Harvard University

  Harvey Milk Foundation

  Harvey, Steve

  health care

  Hefner, Hugh

  Heigl, Katherine

  Hendrickson, Joan

  Henry, O.

  Herbal Essences hair products

  Heldman, Caroline

  Herman, Robert

  He’s Just Not That Into You (Behrendt)

  High Fidelity (film)

  Hill, Napoleon

  Hinge (app.)

  hip-hop

  hippies

  Hirschfeld, Magnus

  Hochschild, Arlie

  Hoffman, Abbie

  Holleran, Andrew

  Hollywood

  Homeland (TV show)

  Homosexual in America, The (Cory)

  Homosexuals; and AIDS; in gay clubs; Lavender Scare; hookup culture among; in military; “pansy parades”; public space for

  Hook, Theodore Edward

  hooking up; apps for; demographics of; investigated by social scientists; media interest in; as preparation for navigating the new economy

  Hooking Up (Wolfe)

  hooks, bell

  Hotel Koenig (bar)

  Hot Shoppe

  House of Cards (American TV show)

  House of Cards (British TV show)

  How about we … (dating website)

  How to Win Friends & Influence People (Carnegie)

  Howard Brown Health Center

  How to Have Sex in an Epidemic (Callen and Berkowitz)

  Hudson, Rock

  Hughes, John

  Hughes, Langston

  Human Be-In

  human immunodeficiency virus (HIV); see also AIDS

  Hϋsker Dϋ

  IBM

  Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy (Braswell)

  Illinois, University of

  immigrants

  income; declining wages; inequality

  Indiana, University of

  Industrial Revolution

  inequa
lity, : gender; racial; sexual; see also income

  in loco parentis

  Instagram (app)

  International Species Information System

  IntroLens

  in vitro fertilization (IVF), see fertility; pregnancy; reproduction

  Is Sex Necessary? (Thurber and White)

  It Girl

  It’s Not Him, It’s You (Hartman)

  jazz

  JDate

  Jeffreys, Sheila

  Jimmy Kelly’s (speakeasy)

  Jobs, Steve

  Joe Boxer

  Jones, Billy

  Jones, Stephen, see Lust, Nurse Wanda

  Journal of Marketing

  Joy of Cybersex, The (Levine)

  Kant, Immanuel

  Kaplan, Helen Singer

  Kaposi’s sarcoma

  Kardashian, Kim

  Keese, Susan

  Kellogg Company

  Kelly, Gene

  Kelly Longitudinal Study

  Kerouac, Jack

  Kinsey, Alfred

  Kipnis, Laura

  Kirchheimer, Anne

  Knocked Up (film)

  Kominers, Scott

  Koop, C. Everett

  Kramer, Larry

  Kupferberg, Tuli

  labor, see work

  Ladies’ Home Journal (magazine)

  Lean In (Sandberg)

  Leary, Timothy

  LeClair, Linda

  leisure

  LeMasters, E. E.

  Levan, Larry

  Levine, Deborah

  Lewinsky, Monica

  Licata, Sal

  Life (magazine)

  Lifton, Robert Jay

  Limp Bizkit

  Lindsey, Benjamin

  Lipton, Lawrence

  Loft, the (discotheque)

  Lord & Taylor

  Los Angeles

  Los Angeles Sentinel

  Los Angeles Times

  Louis XIV, King of France

  Louvre

  love; American attitudes toward; as chance event; as emotional labor; greed for; labor of; as “Love™”; marketplace of; as a process; right to; true; see also free love

  LSD

  Lust, Nurse Wanda

  Mackay, Ellin

  Macy’s

  Made in America (film)

  Mad Men

  Madonna

  Maidenform bras

  Male Brain, The (Brizendine)

  Management Review (journal)

  Mancuso, David

  Manley, Audrey F.

  manufacturing

  Marcuse, Herbert

  Mario Kart (video game)

  marketing; market segmentation

  Marks, Percy

  marriage; ambivalence about; common-law; declining rates of; and economic considerations; gay; postponing; pregnancy leading to; as privilege of middle class; as “settling”; as sexual slavery; teen

  Marry Him (Gottlieb)

  Marry Smart (Patton)

  Marx, Karl

  Marxists

  masculinity

  masturbation

  Match.com

  matchmaking services

  maternity leave

  Max, Tucker

  Maxwell’s Plum

  Mazel Dating

  McCarthy, Sen. Joseph

  McGinnis, Tom

  McKaughan, Molly

  McSorely’s Old Ale House

  Mead, Margaret

  Men Are from Mars, Women are from Venus (Gray)

  Meridian (sex network)

  Merrill, James

  Michigan, University of

  Mills, C. Wright

  Miracle of Life, The (film)

  Miss Lonelyhearts (West)

  Modern Courtship and Marriage (LeMasters)

  monogamy; serial; as response to AIDS; as social control tool

  Monroe, Marilyn

  Moore, Doris Langley

  Moranis, Rick

  Morbidity and Mortality Weekly (CDC report)

  Moss, Kate

  motherhood

  Motherhood, Rescheduled (Richards)

  Motown Records

  Mount Holyoke College

  MTV

  Munro, Alice

  music: see disco music; jazz; popular music

  Mutual Arrangements

  Nation, The

  National Bureau of Economic Research

  National Institutes of Health

  National Marriage Project

  National Parent Teacher Association (PTA)

  National Survey of Family Growth

  Nerve.com

  New Haven

  New Left

  New Orleans

  New Republic, The (magazine)

  Newsday

  Newsweek

  New York (magazine)

  New York City; AIDS crisis in; Bowery; Coney Island; East Village; gay experience in; Greenwich Village; Harlem; Human Resources Administration, of; sex education in; singles bars in; Staten Island; Times Square; Upper East Side

  New Yorker (magazine)

  New York Native (newspaper)

  New York Review of Books (periodical)

  New York Times

  New York University

  New York World Sunday Magazine

  nickelodeons

  Norris, Bob

  Northwestern University

  Occidental College

  Office, The (TV show)

  Old School (film)

  OkCupid; niche signaling on

  online dating; debates over; economic underpinnings of; niche signaling on; polarization on; pooling equilibrium effect on; predators; skewing effect on

  Online Seductions (Gwinnell)

  On the Road (Kerouac)

  Open Hearts Project

  Operation Match

  Oxford English Dictionary

  Ozzie and Harriet (TV show)

  Packard, Esther

  Paradise Garage (discotheque)

  parenting; helicopter; sex education through; supervision of courtship in

  parietal rules

  Parker, Dorothy

  Partners

  Patton, Susan

  Peacock, Thomas Love

  Peale, Norman Vincent

  peer pressure

  Penn State University

  Pennsylvania, University of

  Penny, Laurie

  People Network

  Perrier sparkling water

  Perverted Justice

  Peterson, Martha

  petting; parties

  Philosophy of Love, The (Glyn)

  Pickup Artists (PUA)

  Planned Parenthood

  Plastic Age, The (Marks)

  Playboy (magazine)

  Plaza Hotel

  PlentyOfFish

  Poland, Jefferson

  Police, the (rock band)

  polyamory

  Popular Daughters

  puoular music

  pornography; online

  Post, Emily

  Power of Positive Thinking (Peale)

  POZ (magazine)

  pregnancy; and biological clock; discouraged among poor; film portrayals of; and in vitro fertilization (IVF); and sperm banks; teen; see also fertility; reproduction

  President’s Commission on Population Growth and the American Future

  Pretty Woman (film)

  Prodigy, Inc.

  Progressives

  Prohibition

  Project TACT

  prostitution; portrayed on film; see also sex workers

  Puerto Rico

  Puma shoes

  Putnam’s Handbook of Etiquette

  Pygmalion myth

  racial discrimination

  rape

  RCA-Victor

  Reagan, Ronald; AIDS policy of

  Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, The (TV show)

  Real Sex (TV show)

  Redbook (magazine)

  Reed, J. D.

  Reiss, Ira

  rent parties

  Repository f
or Germinal Choice

  reproduction; economic factors in; technological assistance in; see also fertility; pregnancy

  Republican Party

  Research Institute of America

  Revenge of the Nerds (film)

  Revolt of Modern Youth, The (Lindsey)

  Reyburn, Samuel

  Richards, Sarah Elizabeth

  Richman, Phyllis

  Risky Business (film)

  Roberts, Julia

  Robinson, Smokey

  Rockefeller, John D., Jr.

  Rockwell, Norman

  Rogan, Seth

  Rogers, Ginger

  Rosary College

  Rosett, Jane

  Rosin, Hanna

  Ross, Diana

  Rubin, Jerry

  Rules Girls

  Rules, The (Fein and Schneider)

  Saab

  Saleslady, The (Donovan)

  Salt-N-Pepa (hip-hop trio)

  Sandberg, Sheryl

  Sanders, Ed

  San Francisco; AIDS crisis in; the Castro; Mission District; Tenderloin; Haight-Ashbury; homosexual experience in

  San Francisco AIDS Foundation

  San Francisco Mime Troupe

  Sanger, Margaret

  Sarria, José

  Savage, Dan

  Savage Love (newspaper column)

  Sawyer, Diane

  Say Yes to the Dress (TV show)

  Schneider, Sherrie

  Schrader, Julie Ann

  Seale, Bobby

  Seattle

  SeekingArrangement

  segregation

  Seinfeld (TV show)

  Seinfeld, Jerry

  self-help industry

  7 Habits of Highly Effective People, The (Covey)

  Seventeenth Summer (Daly)

  sex; abstinence from; advice about; in age of AIDS; at college; group; and inhibited sexual desire (ISD); as leisure; as liberating force; premarital; pre-premarital; safe

  Sex and the City (TV show)

  Sex and the Office (Brown)

  Sex and the Single Girl (Brown)

  sex education; abstinence only; online

  Sex for One (Dodson)

  Sex in the Nineties (TV show)

  sex therapy

  Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man (Anderson and Berman)

  Sexual Dictionary (1916)

  Sexual Freedom League

  sexual health

  sexual revolution

  sexual violence

  sexually transmitted diseases (STDs); see also AIDS; human immunodeficiency virus (HIV)

  sex workers

  Shins, the (rock band)

  Shopgirls; as Charmers

  Silver, Cookie

  Single Girl; desirability of; financial independence of

  singles bars

  singles chat rooms

  Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence

  Skinny Girl Margaritas

  slavery; “white slavery”

  Sleeping Beauty (film)

  Sloan, Alfred P.

  Smith, Dr. David

  Smith, Lamar

  Smiths, the (rock band)

  Smith, Wendell

  Smylie, Catherine

  Sneak Previews, Inc.

  Social Register

  Sonnabend, Dr. Joseph

  Sonnichsen, Natalie

  Sopranos, The (TV show)

  sororities

 

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