“Wentworth is fighting the good fight with us, he’s on our board at the clinic and he’s done fantastic advocacy work for us, I’ve never known anyone make better use of their retirement, I can’t even tell you. He campaigned and wrote letters for us when it looked like our local admissions privileges were under threat—he’ll tell you all about it and I’ll make some drinks. Gwen,” Pamela called, “would you like a G&T?”
“I’m sixteen,” Gwen replied rather frostily, and then seeing a way to avoid Nathan at the buffet table added with marginally more warmth, “I’ll make them though, if you want.”
“Thank you, lovely girl, that would be marvelous. Limes in the Minton.”
• • •
THOUGH PAMELA HAD not grown up with Thanksgiving, as a hostess she had nonetheless managed to capture its essence: a day on which hardworking Americans are required to spend upward of five hours on a freeway (one way) in order to eat turkey, very late, in the twilit company of family members avoided the rest of the year. With no nearby relatives of her own, Pamela ensured a little friction by populating her parties with ill-assorted friends, colleagues, and acquaintances from yoga who had in common only that each could think of nowhere better to go. Julia and James’s journey from the hotel had been nothing compared to those of a recently divorced speech and language therapist who had driven from Amherst past three accidents and a two-mile lane closure, and a professor of pediatric oncology who’d been on an unsuccessful date with Pamela several months earlier, who had been on I-95 since eight a.m. and now, slightly sickened by a large Dunkin’ Donuts pumpkin latte and a bag of powdered donut holes, was mutely nursing a Calvados and wishing he’d stayed at home. The most cheerful guests were twin toddlers currently chasing one another with peacock feathers, overdue for a collapse into sticky, corn syrup tears.
Julia did as expected. She ate dry, lukewarm slices of turkey breast—cruelty-free, Pamela assured her. She tasted sweet potatoes topped with blackened marshmallows, as cloying as imagined, and far more delicious. She compared gelatinous tinned cranberry sauce to Pamela’s glossy homemade rendering and dutifully admired the latter (the recipe handed down through James’s family). She sipped lukewarm too-sweet apple cider in which sharp shards of cinnamon bark bobbed, and in which there was regrettably no alcohol. She met midwives and doulas, a hypnobirthing expert and a drunken, florid acupuncturist. She listened while Pamela described to a widening circle of listeners the day that James, as a young resident, had stitched up a new mother with such assiduity that he had closed off her urethra and had then had to call her back into the operating room to confess and remove three stitches. Julia saw that this anecdote was intended to make James look foolish and that it succeeded, noting its effect upon James himself: a rigid tension in his jaw. “Who really needs to pee, right?” He shrugged, as if telling a deprecating story himself, but it was clear he was not happy.
Though this visit had been his own initiative, James had seemed frantic to leave almost as soon as they arrived. Julia now understood that he and Pamela were friends only on the telephone or by text message, and in the reassuring narrative he told himself about the end of his marriage. They were amicable when the Atlantic lay hugely between them, but in person were irritable and competitive. James evidently found his ex-wife aggravating, but was too much a gentleman to say it. What he did say, coming up behind Julia, slipping his hands around her waist and speaking low and urgently was, “I need to leave ten minutes ago.” She squeezed his forearm and promised to find Gwen. The visit had been instructive, and Julia was now glad they’d come.
She was scanning the room when she felt her phone vibrating and glanced down to see that it was Philip. It was, Julia calculated, quarter past one in the morning in London. Philip had never called her after half past nine.
“Are you okay?”
“Yes, maidele, please don’t worry, I’m fine. Have you got a minute, though?”
“Of course.” She went up the winding staircase and closed herself in a spare bedroom, next door to Pamela’s own boudoir where earlier, among gauzy scarves and crumpled piles of silky garments, she had been forced into Pamela’s socks. Here hung the guests’ damp coats on a cloakroom rail, and behind it various items necessary for attending home births. Three cylinders of oxygen were aligned against one wall, and beside these was a tower of loose plastic packets of absorbent pads. A stack of bedpans stood on the bedside table. The large bed was made up with a crocheted blanket in shades of sage and umber and orange. Julia sat down, only to roll sideways. A waterbed, she realized, righting herself and feeling a liquid, undulating wave lift and fall beneath her. She stood up again feeling tricked, and slightly foolish.
“There’s nothing for you to worry about, but I just wanted to let you know that Mole hasn’t been very well, he’s with the vet now and they’re taking good care of him.”
“Now? It’s late, how did you get him there? What happened?”
“I took him in a little while ago but I wanted to stay and see what they said. He’s dehydrated, primarily, so they’ve put him on fluids and they’ll see what’s what overnight.”
“Poor Mole. Poor you, I’m sorry.”
“By the time I left him just now he was wagging his tail; dehydration does make one miserable. He looked better in half an hour. I wouldn’t have bothered you, only I thought you might have spoken to Iris and worried.”
“Thank you. I’m so sorry it’s kept you up. Are you okay? You must be exhausted.”
“Right as rain. How is it?”
Julia stepped out into the hallway and peered over the banister to judge, swiftly, whether anyone could hear. Closed in the spare room once again she said, “Pamela is quite a big personality, shall we say. I don’t really think she’s your cup of tea; she’s written a book about orgasm in childbirth.”
“God help us,” said Philip, with a chuckle that turned, almost instantly, into a cough. “As if birthing mothers don’t have enough to worry about.”
“She’s signed a copy for you.”
“I look forward to it. How’s my granddaughter?”
“Good, I think. The girls get on so well.” This was her own favorite reassurance. She sat down again, gingerly, on the waterbed. “I should probably go back, I’m lurking in a spare room with all her medical equipment.” She peered into a bag that lay open by her feet and saw a package of empty syringes and pink-tipped needles in sachets; glass bottles; and tubes. She picked up a tiny vial that contained a coarse white powder and shook it, speculatively, and then returned it. “I’d much rather hide in here talking to you, it’s so lovely to hear your voice. Are you really not worried? Should I say something to Gwen? She’d be devastated if something happened to him.”
There was a long pause. “He is twelve, you know.” Philip said this very gently. “But don’t think about it now. Iris and I will go and see old Mole in the morning.”
Julia waited a moment before descending. Gwen had been very little when Daniel had come home with a puppy, and his decision had taken Julia by surprise as in those days they had still been trying for another baby. Perhaps he’d guessed it might take longer than they’d hoped; at that stage he could not have imagined that it would never happen. With hindsight, she thought, tiredly, he had probably been trying to force to a close that fraught and unlovely chapter of their marriage. In the early years Gwen had fawned over Mole, dressing him in hats and outfits and trying to draw him into her games, with mixed success. Later her enthusiasm had waned; for years he had seemed part of the furniture and had been, in truth, Daniel’s dog, for it had been Daniel who’d walked and fed him, groomed him and planned their weekends for his amusement, choosing pubs that were dog-friendly and walks that Mole might favor. He took after his father (Philip had almost become a vet, before choosing medical school). But after Daniel had died, Gwen had turned back to Mole. They both had, Julia realized, and had each focused deliberate love and energy
upon him as a proxy for Daniel himself. The warmth of the dog’s rough fur had soothed her; at night when he lay next to her on the sofa Julia sought out the quick, steady gallop of his heart beneath her hand. She and Gwen had often agreed about Mole’s wisdom, an impression that had deepened since the coarse fur around his eyes had turned from black to ashy gray. Mole’s mortality, like Philip’s, like Iris’s, like her own, in fact, was just one more item on an extensive list of impossible, uncontrollable anxieties. They would all have to go on living because they simply had to, for Gwen.
She knew that Iris and Philip thought she’d coddled Gwen, that Julia failed to admonish small rudenesses, that she reflexively lifted responsibilities off Gwen’s shoulders. But why deny any wish so easy to grant? Julia had never minded what they had for supper; so easy to let the little girl decide. Why care about report cards, or place emphasis on schoolwork that frustrated or upset her when to build her own miniature refuge in clay brought a smile to her face, and connected her to an online world when she had been so lonely in the real one? All adult life lay ahead in which to do laundry and pick up crumpled jeans, to learn—as Julia’s own mother had never allowed her to forget—about the Sisyphean battle against entropy and chaos that was maintaining a household. What innocent liberty it was, to believe that a water glass left empty on a bedside table would appear, clean, back in the kitchen cupboard. So little magic remained for her. And so Mole could not be ill because Gwen would be unhappy, and Julia could not bear for her daughter to be unhappy again. Committed pessimism was supposed to offer this single, ultimate benefit—that one could never be sideswiped by sadness. It was only now that she realized her vigilance had slipped. She had stopped—so foolish!—she had entirely ceased worrying about the dog. And now look.
5.
Nathan was staying with Saskia and their mother; back at the hotel Gwen announced with greedy satisfaction that she was going to watch sitcoms and eat candy in the bath. James took Julia toward the river. It was still very cold but the sky was clear and he needed, more than anything, for Julia to see and understand the beauty in this fine, proud city. He had grown up in a spare, rented apartment on the top floor of a Dorchester triple-decker. Later a scholarship spirited him across the river, and he spent four years at Harvard as an undergraduate, followed by many more at the Medical School and then a residency and fellowship at Beth Israel. The deep, turgid black of the Charles River stirred his soul; in the words of the anthem bawled in the happy heat of Fenway Park, he loved that dirty water. He would play her the song, he thought, when they got back to the hotel. Holding her hand, he felt like a boy, making a gift to her of every place he’d been happy. He wanted each site blessed by her gaze. He wanted her to see that he would always give her all he had.
“I understand why Pamela wanted to come back,” Julia said, leaning on the railings. They had walked to Harvard Bridge and stood looking down into blackness, halfway between the boathouses and jewel-bright polished cupolas of Cambridge and, on their other side, solid, honest Boston. There was a sharp wind coming in off the water and Julia pulled her collar up higher until only her eyes were visible. She had been quiet for some time and he had been waiting, patiently, to discover what it was she had on her mind. After a moment she added, “You didn’t want to move back when she did?”
He pulled her to him. In his arms she felt slight, even beneath the insulating layers of her winter coat. They had had similar conversations before, but it felt different in Boston. Here he heard the unspoken questions and understood her earlier silence. Will you leave London? Will you leave me?
“You look cold,” he said, gently. “Are you?”
“A bit.”
He began to lead her back toward Storrow Drive. “Here, take my scarf. Let’s go and have Manhattans in the lobby. Or something warm, maybe Irish coffee. You know, I do really love this town. But I love London also, and now London has you, which makes it the only place I’d ever want to be. I’m not going anywhere. You’re my home,” he added, and smiled to himself at his unconscious appropriation of another lyric from Boston’s defiant punk theme song. But he meant it.
“Thank you. I know, I think. Sorry. I suddenly saw just a glimpse into your life here, before we met, and I got jealous. Of a city. You had a whole life before I knew you, and I missed it.” Their gloved fingers were interlaced and she squeezed his hand.
“Truly, the only life I want is what’s ahead, with you. It was all practice, before.” After a moment he added, “Pamela is . . . an experience.” He felt that Julia had been graceful in the face of Pamela’s assault. Once that theatricality and confidence had captivated him but this weekend, seeing the two women side by side, he had found his ex-wife more than usually enervating.
He had been a fourth-year medical student when they met and Pamela had intrigued him, British and bosomy, full of sexual and intellectual confidence. They had taken Urogynecology together and she had challenged a famously irascible surgeon day after day, asking questions that infuriated him, immune to his loathing while better-liked students were regularly reduced to tears. James had found himself in her busy and unmade bed, where he stayed for the rest of medical school. They had been, in that way at least, a good match.
In adulthood they were not well suited. He had felt perpetually unsettled; she, increasingly defensive and competitive as he relied less and less on bolstering infusions of her own self-belief. She had exhausted him, and they had irritated one another. The divorce, they agreed—sometimes amicably, at other times in the throes of an accidental, old, appalling fight—had been the best choice they’d made together.
Now he was fifty-five and truly in love, deeply in love, for the first time in his life. Tonight, above all, he was grateful Julia had trusted him and come to Boston. She had the generosity to see that to keep his family on civil terms was so very important to him. He pulled her closer to him as they walked. He felt expansive with love for her.
“She’s very attractive. I was a bit intimidated.”
“You’re so beautiful, Julia; that’s crazy. Please don’t be intimidated by anything at all; she’s a friend now but we got divorced for a reason.” He tried not to speak ill of his children’s mother but this statement was not disloyal to anyone, and was true.
“Why did you get married?”
He considered. He had told Julia a great deal about the separation, but had talked little about what had come before. In general he did not spend a great deal of time in retrospection. “I was . . .” he considered “overpowered” and then said, “overwhelmed by her. She was—is—brimming with confidence and social ease, and I wanted both of those things. She sort of . . . kicked me up the ass, I think. I wasn’t superyoung but I was still pretty immature. I’d never really known anyone like that before. She was kind of the British equivalent of the Waspy girls who would never look at me. Except she looked at me.”
“And then?”
“And then I grew up, a little slowly I guess, and once I was more mature or self-assured, we began to fight. We outgrew each other.” He had talked enough, and so returned to the far happier present. “And now I’m with you, which is exactly where I should be.”
They had turned into the pedestrian mall at the heart of Commonwealth Avenue and walked in silence for a while beneath the canopy of yellow elms looming black in the darkness. Before them drifts of fallen leaves lifted and skittered in the sharp wind.
“What did Philip say about the dog?”
“It’s so hard to tell; he wouldn’t want to worry me but it didn’t sound good. I feel so awful he has to deal with it.”
James stopped and faced her, and took both her hands. He had been thinking for some time about how he could help. He watched her struggle with her guilt for distressing him, and for introducing a note of sadness into this first, small vacation. He could see she was anxious.
“Listen to me,” he said, gently. “When we get back to the hotel I’ll
look online for the best vet in London. I’ll find the guy who looks after the corgis, just tell me how to help. Your people will be my people. And your dog, my dog.”
6.
The night before they had not seen Boston at her best, but early the next day she welcomed them, awash with pale yellow sunshine beneath a blue sky, the air crisp, the light dazzling. On the broad black silence of the Charles the rowers rowed; along the esplanade the runners ran, in hats and earmuffs, in fleece and gloves and clouds of their own quick breath. The greedy stasis of Thanksgiving was behind them; busy Bostonians had returned to river life.
“Oh em gee”—Gwen bounded off the bus, scarf flying, and calling backward to Saskia—“this is unbelievable.” James had taken Julia and the girls to Cambridge to lead them through the leaf-strewn paths beneath the ivy-clad red brick of his glorious alma mater, but Gwen’s praise was in fact for a fire hydrant. She fell upon it with a cry of joy, a delightful reunion with this old friend known only from the quaint, unreal America she inhabited on television. She photographed it, and then crouched down beside it for Saskia to capture her looking at it. She measured its solid contours with her gloved hands. She would make one for the blog, she told them all. She giggled at the sign that offered instruction in case of SNOW EMERGENCY and asked her mother to take another picture of her with Saskia beneath it.
“Nathan’s just getting off the T, he’ll be here shortly. I’m not sure the Widener can compete after a hydrant and a sign. But there may be other signs in Harvard Yard. ‘No Smoking. Fire Exit.’ That sort of thing.”
Julia watched Gwen with anxious interest but Gwen merely grinned. “Fire hydrants are cool. I like Americana.”
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