“Loki’s about,” Mother would say, referring to the little god of mischief featured in the stories she read to us. “We’ll catch him at it one of these days.”
Now Gloria finishes stirring something in a pan and moves away from the Aga. She makes a space amid her mess and places the clinic’s report on the kitchen table. I’d like to sweep her mess away, sweep her away, claim what should be mine. Be gone, unloved sister.
For the moment, though, I must play the waiting game. She touches her hand elegantly to her temple. She has that helpful look on her face, a combination of optimism and sympathy common to her profession. How do they manage that? She’s trained to be something called a psychodynamic psychotherapist. Such names!
She is like those clinic doctors, wanting to label, to tick a box, but because I am her big sister, have always been brighter than her, and know her weaknesses, she can’t.
If you ask me, no one is truly like anyone else. People hide their true natures, fearing to expose their shadowy side and be found unlovable. Originality, though, lies in those shadows, the traits that make us who we are, the deep-set ones that people choose not to recognize. Gloria may think otherwise, but I believe that there is a spider in all of us weaving a selfish web; it is simply a question of survival. Ego takes precedence. No matter how my sister and her kind show off their sweetness, their so-called goodness, they are made of more than honey; we are all only half-known.
I guess Gloria secretly agrees with the report, that she’s noted enough of the indicators listed there to confirm the diagnosis. It’s a long list, and apart from the “possible objectophile” reference, it includes “intentionally misunderstands things,” “feels put-upon and left out,” “gives compliments with a sting in the tail,” “is secretive”—I could go on.
I’m amused that the doctor who wrote all of this down was able to summon such nonsense with what little I gave him to work with. That morning when he turned up with his clipboard, biting on the end of his cheap ballpoint pen, I wasn’t in the mood to engage. Nor did I care to fill his long silences with anything other than polite platitudes. I watched as he scribbled down his thoughts, noted the nervous blinking of his beetle eyes, saw the satisfaction in the stretch of his thin smile.
Maybe I showed Gloria the report to distress her, to see her smooth forehead crease in concern. I wish now that I hadn’t. It should have been for my eyes only. Well, if the medics had their way, not even for my eyes, really. I took the report from the drawer my interrogator put it in when he left the room for a moment to mumble something to his office girl. It was careless of him, very unprofessional.
I’m sure that he thought me the big sister screwup. Not that he said as much, but references were made in the document to sibling rivalry, to something he refers to as the “narcissistic wound.”
“I can’t imagine how they got to this,” Gloria says. “So hurtful that you have read such things about yourself. They’ve got it all wrong, though. Most probably because you’re unique, a one-off.”
It’s as though she’s been reading my mind.
“Isn’t everyone?”
“Well, yes, but you’re particularly special.”
I want to slap her, to wipe the sympathetic smile off her beautiful face. Instead, I raise my eyebrows and give a shrug, as though the report doesn’t matter. I never let the hurt show. Well, mostly never. I hid it well enough when they forcibly sectioned me for a week—such a ridiculous thing to do and quite unnecessary.
I wasn’t mad, just anxious. Who wouldn’t be, locked up in Ward Eight of Parade House? Why they don’t call it what it is, a mental asylum, just makes you think they are ashamed of the place. Parade House sounds like somewhere Jane Austen might be staying while she takes the waters.
I decided while there to take the waters myself, not to let my anger show, to act as though I were a guest at their dreary watering hole. It mostly worked, they didn’t patronize me, but they have a way of pushing you with their questions until something of yourself leaks out. You can’t help but give away little bits of information that they string together to fabricate a story that satisfies their need to diagnose.
So, that’s why I am here at Pipits now with Gloria and her husband, Henry, occupying my treasured childhood bedroom, communing with the dear house. Time off work, time off marriage, time to heal under my sister’s caring eye.
“You must stay as long as you want,” Gloria says, as though it is up to her. “We love having you, and you mustn’t rush things.”
Gloria thinks that she knows me. She does not. Because she loves the world, loves me, she thinks that I love her. I do not. She thinks that I loved Mother. I did not. She thinks that I love my husband, Bert. I do not. As sisters go, we are a poor match, cobbled together.
Gloria doesn’t get it that it is not her I need, but the house. It is only when I am with Pipits that the tightness in my chest relaxes, that I breathe easily.
People think me slow to anger. It has been said, under the guise of a compliment, that I am always in control, so being gathered up by do-gooders as I swayed on the edge of Beachy Head that day, then breaking down at the doctor’s, kicking her desk and swearing, was, as far as they were concerned, out of character.
It’s true that I have learned how to appear calm when I am angry. But that doesn’t mean I don’t feel things. To have my way, I practice charm, keep my true nature hidden. People find it hard to deal with a person who doesn’t emote in the way they expect. They want you to empathize with their trivial problems. They shy away from superior intellects, so I find it easier to act the part of loving sister, forgiving sister-in-law, accepting friend. I’m a good actress.
Don’t ask me why things didn’t hold together that day, why they leached out on that gusty cliff top. A sudden kink in the mind, maybe. I have been suffering episodes like that one lately, times when I’ve needed to give vent to my emotions. If it weren’t for Gloria and Henry squatting at Pipits, changing things, upsetting me, I could have run to its embrace, taken comfort and gathered myself.
On that chilly morning a couple of weeks ago, as I stood at the cliff’s edge with the wind pushing at me, my fury rose to a boil, so hot that I could hardly bear it, so extreme that I hardly knew myself.
It was not my intention to jump off that cliff; of course I wasn’t going to jump. I wanted merely to hover on the edge, to feel something different than what I suffered every day. A psychiatrist at the clinic, a woman not unlike my sister, suggested that I had been teasing death. She thought it the equivalent to being a “cutter.” It was just a different sort of bloodletting, apparently.
“No, I don’t believe that you are mad,” she had answered when I suggested that she was hinting at it. “I would like to know, though, what has brought about this heightened emotional state.”
“Nothing I can think of,” I said.
But I did wonder the same thing myself. There’s been a hold up in the reading of Mother’s will, something to do with tax, and her overseas assets, but I don’t think it was that. The least you could say of Mother was that she was dutiful, and a proper little traditionalist to boot. She always favored Gloria, of course, but in this most important thing, I know she will have done her duty. I am the eldest, and Pipits is mine by right. Mother knows that.
I had received a photograph on my phone from Gloria the day before the Beachy Head incident. She wanted me to see the “brilliant space” they had created by knocking down the wall between the kitchen and the sitting room in our family home. Apparently Mother had agreed to it before her death.
What a pity she won’t see how well it has worked out, Gloria texted.
What had once been our delightful country kitchen, and separately Mother’s cozy dayroom, was now, without my consent, merged into a huge arena-like space. I was heartbroken at the destruction. Gloria’s text, accompanied by the nasty image of gaping hole and rubble, ruined my day. She signed off with her usual smiley face. I find those smiley faces vulgar, like the circ
les in place of dots that were all the rage in handwriting a few years ago. Minds with little heft find such things amusing.
Our wonderful new kitchen. Can’t wait for you to see it.
I hate the way Mother allowed Henry and Gloria a free hand to change things at Pipits. Under her weak rule they have demolished walls, painted rooms in the childish, rainbow colors of their natures. They must color and primp and smooth. They like things smooth.
Gloria had no right to go ahead with knocking the wall down. Whatever Mother had agreed to in life, it counted for little after her death. When Pipits is mine, I will stop their surgery, see them off. I will let the walls crumble, hear only the echo of my footfall on its floors. I will give up everything: husband, the London life I share with him, the art gallery we jointly own, everything. House and I will shut out the world, grow old together.
Our wonderful new kitchen.
I remember throwing the phone down when I read that, listening to it thud on the rug, remember the hot rage that leapt in me and the poisonous taste in my mouth.
I felt the pain of Pipits’ wounds in my own limbs, a horrible nervy sort of ache. In that moment I could have killed Gloria, with a bit of torture thrown in. I wasn’t going to tell that to the shrink at the clinic, of course. She would have fabricated some half-baked story about Gloria and me. No doubt she would have had me down as the one feeling like the cuckoo in the nest. That’s the easy sort of judgment these people make. It’s not me who is the cuckoo.
“No, nothing I can think of,” I repeated to the psychiatrist, squirming at her little mews of encouragement. She had zero to offer me. I imagined her a middle-class housewife, suffering from empty-nest syndrome, with an urge to mother, but no one available in her own household to satisfy the need. I told her what she wanted to hear and watched her puff up with the thought that she had brought about some magical change in me.
“I’m feeling so much better,” I assured her. “One week here and I already feel back to my old self. Of course I will take the pills religiously, I can promise you that. You’ve really helped me. How can I ever thank you?”
Gloria’s attempt to soften the fatuous report on my state of mind hasn’t worked. She likes to comfort, to be the one to make things right; white lies are one of her rare sins. Niceness waters her blood; it’s a worthless coin, in my opinion.
In order that I won’t feel crazy, she confides to me about her clients. The pitch of her voice lowers, takes on that caring social worker’s drone. She refers to them as client A or B, to protect their identities. Does she imagine I care to know who they are, or that I will ever give them another thought? She powders her descriptions of them with allusions as to what’s broken in them; they are obsessive, or infantilized. My own little episode is nothing in comparison. Back in charge of myself, I smile at her as though she is being helpful. She rushes over and hugs me.
Oh, the power of a smile.
After the anger on the cliff that day, when the lava in my blood had cooled, something had moved in me, created a fissure capable of spillage. I sensed it at my core, a sort of loose stitching. It’s an unpleasant feeling to have been caught out of control, no matter that the episode had lasted for barely an afternoon.
As far back as my memory goes, I have felt the unfairness of being in Gloria’s shadow. She has supped the juice out of each and every one of my successes. Neither marriage nor financial success has helped. Mother once said I should have married for love, but as I hadn’t, I couldn’t really expect to feel like someone in love.
Easy for her to say; her brief marriage was the romantic legend that our family promoted. Romeo and Juliet, complete with the tragedy.
There’s nothing to prove the great love now, though, so I haven’t swallowed the story whole. People like legends better than the truth, anyway. They indulge the idea of everlasting love, the fairy-tale made flesh and blood. Who is to say that if my father had lived, my parents’ union, like so many others, wouldn’t have slid into the mundane?
“Coffee?” Gloria offers.
“Mmm,” I say, “I’ll put my own milk in.”
I hear Henry’s step on the path outside the kitchen door, and the familiar twinge returns, as though I have scraped the surface of old scar tissue and must now press down hard to stop it bleeding.
It is taxing for me to even look at him, especially now as he enters the room with the light behind him, his body a silhouette of lean strength.
“Oh good, biscuits,” he says, scooping up a handful of Oreos. Henry’s voice, the familiar ring of it, stirs an ache.
“Careful, you’ll get fat,” I say, meanly.
“More to love eh, Glory?” he says, encircling Gloria’s waist as she pours him a coffee.
I feel disgust at their display of affection. It’s so childish. Look at us. I know that others find it charming, even sweet. But not me. Never me.
Seeing them together reminds me that I am not one of the Beloveds. You know those people with a star above their heads: loved and admired, lucky in love, lucky in everything. Beloveds are the planet’s dirty secret, the secret that keeps the hopeful battling on, swallowing whole that hoary old chestnut that hard work and perseverance bring success. Hope is luck’s cunning agent; it sugars the medicine, masks its true flavor.
Henry, in a hurry, gulps down his coffee and blows Gloria a kiss. I try not to look at his hands: such strong hands, the nails, despite his work, always clean. The drawing qualities of the clay, perhaps.
“Back to work,” he says. “Those bowls won’t fire themselves, and the kiln is playing up again.”
Henry was a teacher at the Slade art college when I first met him, but he always wanted to be a potter. He jumped at the chance when Mother offered him the shed to install a wheel and kiln. When it comes to taking over things he has no right to, Henry is as bad as Gloria.
I watch him leave, duck his head as he goes through the door on his way to the shed that he now refers to as the pottery. Henry Bygone, the man who had once thrilled me, whose net I had confidently swum into, happy to be his catch. Foolish fish. I should have been wary, known that I might get eaten up.
Henry was the only person I have ever met who I thought Pipits would accept as it had me. Once we were sure of each other, I would teach him to listen to its voice, to live there with House and me and be part of its magic. I put my trust in Henry, until he chose to break it on that sunlit weekend when I took him home to meet the family.
I wanted to show him off, wanted Mother to see me as the chosen one for once. Before I knew it, though, I had been relegated to the audience in what became the Henry and Gloria show.
In that first brief glance between them, I became the other, watching them play out their attraction as we played croquet. I took pleasure in beating them at the game that day, but Gloria won out in the end. Graceful in her flowery dress, serenely beautiful, she cast her spell. And they say there is no such thing as magic.
Henry, his shyness dismissed, openly flirting with her, surrendered himself. I watched him slide away from me without a backward glance.
My sister was apologetic in a helpless sort of way.
“It just overtook us,” she said. “You didn’t want him for keeps, did you? We haven’t hurt you, have we?” Her words left bite marks on my heart.
Henry says now that we never really dated in the true sense of the word, that from our first meeting we were destined instead to be really good friends.
“And good friends we are, aren’t we?” he says with slithering eyes.
I guess that makes him feel better about dumping me. He forgets the way we spied each other across the room at my friend Alice’s party all those years ago, the way right from the first it was as if we had always known each other.
It came to me then that there must be something in Gloria’s kind of beauty that has the clout to wipe men’s memories, to make them rush toward it, not caring who gets trampled under their big feet.
I was late getting to Alice’s pa
rty that night. I didn’t have high hopes for it, but there he was, standing a golden head above the rest, empty glass in hand. The moment I saw him I knew he was my chance to put Gloria in her place. I knew it in the way that all of us do, sometimes, when the future beckons. On handsome Henry Bygone’s arm, no one would pity me, the less beautiful, less popular sister. I would be the envied one.
Henry seemed out of place in the small crowded room, a man made for open spaces, big horizons. It was obvious that he was shy, so I made the first approach. I sensed he was relieved that I had done so. He gave me a hapless smile and ran his hands through the mop of his hair.
“Let me get you a drink,” he offered. “I need a refill myself.”
Henry’s shyness made him a bit panicky about relationships, so I knew it would have to be me who made the first move. I sensed him to be the sort of man who likes to take his time, so I didn’t push too hard. At my invitation, an exhibition at the Tate, followed by his one to dinner, to thank me for mine, as he put it. Although, apart from a peck on the cheek, we had not yet kissed, Henry was beginning to thaw. That is, until Gloria carelessly snared him, and he went into free fall.
My once best friend Alice is Gloria’s now, too. They imagine that I’m happy about that: the three of us as one, not to mention Gloria’s making off with Henry. It was mean of Gloria, shallow of Alice, who despite that we were friends first has been serving in Gloria’s court for years. Damn them all for it.
I first met Alice at the Sunday school that Mother insisted we girls attend. She was a year or so younger than me, babyish, not very popular. I tolerated her following me around, taking on my style, even mimicking the way I spoke. It was a flattery I didn’t let go to my head. How could I feel flattered by plain, rabbit-toothed, easily led Alice? There were times when she had her uses, though, when she was a convenient scapegoat: an excuse for being late, or for not including Gloria in our play, or for swimming in the river when I had been explicitly told not to.
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