The doctor couldn’t tell me exactly how long this process of healing would take though. Every body is different, she said. Our estimates only exist because people ask for them.
To fear my own child: a ridiculous thought. But in this case, not without its reasons, its precedent.
John woke up when he heard me and the doctor whispering, and he said, “Oh, Lu.” I thought he was just happy to see me, happy I had opened my eyes. But then I blinked and saw him afresh—there was something fragile in my husband that hadn’t been there before. John tells stories, is sarcastic. He makes the world what he wants it to be. It troubled me to see him that way, unable to hide his pain.
He ran a hand over his face, heavily. As if to pull it off and replace it. His smile was strained. Why not? I thought. He had every reason to be uncomfortable—the discs of his spine crushed by the awkward chair he’d slept in, the plain dumb fact of where we were, and why.
Still, I couldn’t help but worry that maybe the doctor had been waiting to share something with me. Some terrible news.
“She?” My lips trembled as I spoke. I was tired, I realized. Still so tired. “Did you see her?”
John looked at the doctor, his head cocked to the side, in a way I didn’t like. He came over and crouched beside my bed, lay his chin down on my arm so he had to speak through his teeth, with the weight of his skull bearing down on his jaw. I held my breath.
“Every piece just where it should be. She’s a trouper.”
“Oh.” I closed my eyes in relief. I wanted her there in my arms, but I wasn’t sure I could hold her. My head was so light on my shoulders. So heavy on the pillow. Kara was barely real to me yet, but I knew that first I wanted her safe.
“Sleep would be a good idea.” John took my hand, kissed it. “And sweet dreams.”
I was already halfway gone, the swell of my exhaustion rising up and drawing me towards a black slumber. But a thought flashed into view then, just briefly.
“Is Ada here?” I asked.
If John hesitated, I couldn’t tell.
“She was,” he said. It was a sensible reply. And with sleep there to take me, I had no time to mull over its vagueness, or the guilty sound that hung, hangdog, under it.
Oh, Lu. I should have known there was something more; should have heard it in the long woe of the Oh, the who inside my name, Lu. But I fell asleep and didn’t wake up again until the next morning, when I found a face hovering inches from my own under the hospital lights.
“Just checking, sweetie.” The nurse, I realized, was holding my wrist, measuring my racing pulse. I’m not certain if it was her touch that jarred me out of sleep, or something in my deep unconscious. After all, there was nothing between them—the tension of incomprehension and the tension of awareness.
When she was sure my heart could withstand the rate at which it was pumping my blood and had satisfied herself that I was not about to swallow my tongue, the nurse brought me a cup of water and instructed me to sip, to cool me down and to help the saline drip in rinsing the anesthesia from my system.
“People fight the drugs,” she told me. “That’s what gets your pulse up so high; you’re reacting against it like a virus. Except”—she paused in thought—“sort of psychologically.”
It didn’t feel psychological. My limbs grew lighter and heavier of their own accord, and my stomach churned what little water I’d been able to swallow. John was gone, though he’d left his jacket balled up on a bedside chair.
“My husband,” I said. “Is he with the baby?”
“Oh.” The nurse wrote something down on a clipboard. “No. Well, I’m not sure. But I think I saw him somewhere with a phone book. The funeral home, you know.” She pinched her mouth up. “You poor thing.”
The room was so pale, the light so white-green, that for a nauseous second I wondered, Am I dead? I lifted one hand to my cheek and ran my fingertips over the surface of it. Tiny prickles, the heat of skin responding to skin.
So I was alive. But then why did John need to plan a funeral?
“Where is the baby?” I asked, my voice small.
“Still in the pediatric ICU.” The nurse picked the cup of water up off the tray beside my bed and stuck the straw between my lips. “Drink. Yes. One more sip. All right.” She set the cup back down and sighed. “Honey, do you remember anything that happened?”
I shook my head.
“Well,” she said, “from what I hear it was kind of a mess. Your husband thought the baby was coming early, and the doctors thought she was coming late”—I cringed, since I was the one who’d lied about my due date to John—“and he called your grandmother, and that’s when things got all helter-skelter.”
Ada had blown in faster than seemed possible—“Like she was waiting right outside the door,” the nurse told me—and she and John got into a shouting match. The nurse didn’t say what about, and I didn’t ask. I breathed up towards the ceiling of my room, where a water stain bloomed out from the corner. Rusty orange with hints of green.
The pitch of the argument had risen, apparently, until Ada tried to push her way into the area where the doctors were attending me. She was surprisingly strong for, as the nurse put it, a woman of a certain age.
Then it all happened at once. Perhaps she caught sight of my body, torn open, blood red. Perhaps she saw Kara and mistook the tubes and monitors for more than just precautions. There were shouts. She fell down. And though they tried to revive her, it was too late. No hand, no voice, could call her back.
My great-grandmother Greta made it a tradition in our family for the women to sing each new girl into life. Ada always said we were lending them our voices, which gave me a shiver, since my voice is everything. After all, it’s also been the tradition in our family for the singer, the mother, to lose something.
When I was a child, Ada was the one who steered me to sleep, past fear of oblivion, around monsters in the dark. Baba Ada with her pinned-back hair, Ada with her careful clothing. I remember how her hands seemed infallible to me, psychic: they knew where I would be the most ticklish, knew in which pocket I’d hidden an illicit treat. Ada studied opera from books so she could teach me. Pulled threads of knowledge out of the air just so she could stay one step ahead of the precocious girl in her charge.
And every night while my mother, Sara, robed herself in silk and went out to sing and sip whiskey in bars, or practiced jazz standards with a crackling record player in her bedroom—even after the day she went out and failed to come back again—Ada would tuck me soundly into bed and tell me stories of her own matka, Greta, the fierce Polish mother of us all.
Greta, Ada, Sara, Lulu. My lullaby, my lineage.
The Greta I heard about then was a young woman, ferociously proud of the fact that she never shrank from work. With her brown arms she rolled bread loaves, hauled lumber, spanked naughty children. She was equal to the challenge, so common in her time, of a woman’s double burden: family and field. She was formidable, tobacco-spitting, knuckle-handed, and when she kneaded bread in her kitchen she hummed. With a baby dandling, she hummed. And when called upon, she could sling a whole calf over her shoulder and bring it, puling, to the slaughterhouse with a song so low in her throat she might be mistaken for a growling bear, dragging her prey to its bloody end.
But there was also something uneasy about the Greta of my childhood, a hint of tragedy and lack. That was what made her so compelling: she had true love, she had power, and she traded it all for the prize of a daughter. Like the rusalka, poor wraith in the trees, Greta drained the life force from all that she loved in order to fill a yawning, indefinable need. According to my baba Ada, she made a deal with the devil. According to my mother, Greta’s crime was betrayal.
Whomever you listened to, though, it was clear: Greta brought us gifts, at a cost for which there’s no accounting. We were destined to daughters, and to giving something up. Ahead of time, we can’t know what.
Ada wanted me to sing to Kara and bring her in, bind her
to our family’s stories. She believed in it quite sincerely, that act. That it tied us together, all the way back to Greta.
Picture the scene: a mother, flushed, serenading her infant. The girl, swaddled, drinking it in. Something passes between them like a bit of fire. You can’t see it, but you can feel the heat. They are both connected to something now, to the give and take of history. And it’s the mother’s singing that has done the job.
Did I believe? Certainly I thought it was a lovely tradition. Like a little religion we could hold in our throats. I agreed that Kara’s christening was the natural time to make an official show of the thing. That much I would give to Ada happily.
But now Ada is gone, and I think, Still just one step ahead of me? I look at Kara, sweet one, and I wonder. To bring her into the world I lost my grandmother. If I lend her my voice, can I trust her to give it back? Perhaps not. She might take it, and my life too, in the bargain. Without wanting them or knowing what to do with either.
I want to sing, more than anything. But. I am getting a new sense of the sacrifices required of me.
So I keep our apartment in a state of hospital silence even though John says it’s unsettling. Normally he allows me my privacies—if I want to wear green every day for a month, or develop a sudden aversion to dairy, he doesn’t make a fuss about it. Just cleans out the refrigerator, trashes the yogurt. After all, he has his own proclivities, which I allow in turn. But this, he claims, is different. I refuse to sing Kara lullabies. I don’t hum in the shower.
“I know what the doctor said.” Last night, before the storm rolled in, he leaned across the bed where we sprawled with Kara between us. “But she doesn’t understand you like I do. As long as we’ve known each other, you’ve never gone a week without singing. Maybe not a day. You’re going to blow some kind of gasket if you can’t rehearse.”
I let him stroke my tense jaw for a moment, then pulled away.
“Technically, I’m going to blow a gasket if I do.”
“You know what I mean, Lu.” John took his hand back. He looked annoyed, suspicious. I closed my eyes and rearranged my head on the pillow, unsure whether I was collecting my thoughts or feigning sleep.
“Yes,” I said. “I know what you mean.”
I thought about Kara’s baptism. The date chosen, the ceremony and the singing planned.
After a few minutes I peeked out at John from between my eyelashes and found him running the back of his fingers over Kara’s belly. His love for her is so strong that if I squint I can see it issuing off him in ultraviolet rays, a beatific suffusion of light. Part of me wants to take that love away from him right now to make things easier for all involved. He would be a good father. He is, in general, a good man. But it terrifies me to see that he’s ready to give her everything, when he doesn’t really owe her anything at all.
And it leaves me wondering: am I?
2
Until my mother disappeared when I was nine, the three of us—Ada, Sara, and I—shared an apartment in Ukrainian Village, a neighborhood of Chicago that has since been taken over by the young and the chic, walking their dogs. Then as now there was a Polish grocery store where Ada picked up items she found essential: spiced sausage, pickled herring, water carbonated by a spring in her hometown in Poznań. But in my memory, the differences between past and present are stronger than the similarities. Instead of twenty-three-year-olds with razor-cut hair, I remember the neighborhood porches populated by old men with piercing eyes, smoking cigarettes that they held, pinched, half an inch away from their mouths. The scraps of conversation that whipped by in the breeze were as likely to be in Polish or Russian as English, and the air smelled like wood varnish, and pickles, and wool.
This is where Ada chose to raise my mother, and then me. In an old world, hidden within the new.
I didn’t mind. What child minds a home when they know no other? My bedroom in the apartment was small, but it faced the yard. We didn’t have a remarkable garden, since it takes a special sort of madness to do much planting in Chicago, where the winter cold is obliterating and the ground can be covered in snow through April. But on summer nights I could look out the window and see lightning bugs skimming over the lawn. If I sat still, I could hear the murmuration of neighborhood cats as they stalked through the bushes, calling out to prey.
That window was also instrumental in one of my first conscious realizations about sound—that it changes depending on its environment. I must have been very young, maybe four years old, not yet in any formal training for my voice. But I was big enough to reach the window latch and raise the sash, and proud enough of my independence that I didn’t mind struggling a little bit to do so. I was singing something silly—a little do-re-me, a trill, a scale. I had to shove the weight of my shoulder underneath the sash to get the right height, and when I did I was thrilled with myself: I stuck my head outside and bellowed my song into the open air.
Immediately I knew: something was different. I was so surprised that I hit my head as I pulled it back in and felt my tongue gulp up against the roof of my mouth. In the safety of my room’s four walls, I turned and sang the same few notes, feeling the air rush up from my lungs and strum through my throat. My eyes widened as I listened. Inside, the notes ricocheted like pinballs, without room to open up and spread out. But outside, the sound had space to flex. A C might waver and become a D as it hit a patch of wind and lifted into the sky. A high note, instead of sounding slightly bossy, was clear: it cut like a knife through the traffic and barking dogs.
In a different house I might have been encouraged to take on a wide range of activities. Maybe, seeing my interest in the urban wildlife in our yard, the kind caretaker in my alternate universe would have bought me books on anatomy and helped me articulate the skeleton of a vole from an owl pellet cleaned in ammonia. I could have attended ballet lessons and enrolled in the Girl Scouts, extending my toes into a perfect pointe and earning merit badges for insect identification and a facility for starting fires.
Idly speaking, it sounds nice. But it would have been the wrong approach with me. I’m not the sort of person who benefits from having her excess enthusiasm drained, and I was never the sort of child who got bored easily. It’s true that I had a lot of energy. But it wanted focus, not dispersion. If I’d been taught wilderness survival skills, I might be a feral arsonist by now.
Ada knew just what to do with me because she anticipated my love of music before I was ever born. When my mother, Sara, was pregnant and woozy with size, Ada sat her down next to a record player and let Chopin’s nocturnes rumble through her. She played Polish composers first—Paderewski minuets, Lutosławski concertos—but soon realized that I moved around more to vocals.
“It gives me heartburn,” Sara complained. Apparently I had a special fondness for Mozart and Dvořák and expressed this affinity through acrobatics. I know now what it feels like to be stretched to capacity—a drum skin, a bulging bag—and have your passenger decide to start kicking, so I can imagine my mother’s troubled expression as she readjusted to move her ribs out of the line of fire. She would’ve been reclining on pillows, sipping tea. At some point, when Ada wasn’t looking, I’m sure she reached down and gave me a few sharp flicks.
With or without my mother’s explicit approval, my cells were coaxed together in arpeggios and crescendos. I was born, much to Sara’s dismay, with a large head and a strong jaw, giving my very first scream a breadth and tonality that stopped my doctor in his tracks.
So I’m told. My baba Ada was always big on stories. And her chronicles leaked into my life before I was even conceived, even considered, by way of the people who lived them.
A da recounted her stories with the unwavering faith of a missionary, and so as a child I never questioned how she came to know so much about what her mother thought and said and did in her absence. The stories about Greta and Ada just existed, they just were, like Baba Yaga and the Dragon of Krakow and Peter Rabbit. I cried at night for more Greta, just one more Gre
ta, in the small purple bedroom where I discovered my voice, where poster versions of Lucia Popp smiled her pristine soprano smile down at me under a bouffant hairdo.
Greta’s story followed a path that wound and split like a road on a map. It diverted into variations, forded streams, ducked through trees. You could step off it and run any number of directions, but eventually, no matter how far you wandered, it ended up in the same place.
A woodland clearing marked with a dark cross.
A blue girl, unbreathing, wrapped up in a shawl.
And here’s where the story always started.
“There was a party.” Ada perched on the edge of my bed, one knee balanced neatly on the other. I settled beneath the covers and could see the threads of the narrative occurring to her: inspiration weaving together with myth, the certainty of the tale mingling with surprise. “The fabryka Łozina, the factory of pianos, invited all the young people by to hear the voice of their instruments and to dance.”
She repeated herself often, looking for just the right word. Drifted between English and Polish so that from her mouth I heard them both as the same language.
“A large room. A hall. A loft.”
Her tongue tripped from the l of loft to the f in a broad arc, as though saying lolly or lopped, halfway to loop. I was thirsty, but I didn’t want to ask for water. If Ada got up, she’d fuss around about something. Find that all the glasses in the kitchen were dirty and tie an apron on with a sigh. Or she’d come back with the water but lose the thread of the story and maddeningly embark on something different. The spit in my mouth was heavy and thick, and every time I swallowed I felt my throat getting drier. But I wrapped myself around Ada’s arm and leaned my weight into her. Listening.
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