by Lord Byron
Consulting “the Society for Vice
Suppression,” Lady Pinchbeck was his choice.
XLIII
Olden she was — but had been very young;
Virtuous she was — and had been, I believe;
Although the world has such an evil tongue
That — but my chaster ear will not receive
An echo of a syllable that’s wrong:
In fact, there’s nothing makes me so much grieve,
As that abominable tittle-tattle,
Which is the cud eschew’d by human cattle.
XLIV
Moreover I’ve remark’d (and I was once
A slight observer in a modest way),
And so may every one except a dunce,
That ladies in their youth a little gay,
Besides their knowledge of the world, and sense
Of the sad consequence of going astray,
Are wiser in their warnings ‘gainst the woe
Which the mere passionless can never know.
XLV
While the harsh prude indemnifies her virtue
By railing at the unknown and envied passion,
Seeking far less to save you than to hurt you,
Or, what’s still worse, to put you out of fashion, —
The kinder veteran with calm words will court you,
Entreating you to pause before you dash on;
Expounding and illustrating the riddle
Of epic Love’s beginning, end, and middle.
XLVI
Now whether it be thus, or that they are stricter,
As better knowing why they should be so,
I think you’ll find from many a family picture,
That daughters of such mothers as may know
The world by experience rather than by lecture,
Turn out much better for the Smithfield Show
Of vestals brought into the marriage mart,
Than those bred up by prudes without a heart.
XLVII
I said that Lady Pinchbeck had been talk’d about —
As who has not, if female, young, and pretty?
But now no more the ghost of Scandal stalk’d about;
She merely was deem’d amiable and witty,
And several of her best bons-mots were hawk’d about:
Then she was given to charity and pity,
And pass’d (at least the latter years of life)
For being a most exemplary wife.
XLVIII
High in high circles, gentle in her own,
She was the mild reprover of the young,
Whenever — which means every day — they’d shown
An awkward inclination to go wrong.
The quantity of good she did’s unknown,
Or at the least would lengthen out my song:
In brief, the little orphan of the East
Had raised an interest in her, which increased.
XLIX
Juan, too, was a sort of favourite with her,
Because she thought him a good heart at bottom,
A little spoil’d, but not so altogether;
Which was a wonder, if you think who got him,
And how he had been toss’d, he scarce knew whither:
Though this might ruin others, it did not him,
At least entirely — for he had seen too many
Changes in youth, to be surprised at any.
L
And these vicissitudes tell best in youth;
For when they happen at a riper age,
People are apt to blame the Fates, forsooth,
And wonder Providence is not more sage.
Adversity is the first path to truth:
He who hath proved war, storm, or woman’s rage,
Whether his winters be eighteen or eighty,
Hath won the experience which is deem’d so weighty.
LI
How far it profits is another matter. —
Our hero gladly saw his little charge
Safe with a lady, whose last grown-up daughter
Being long married, and thus set at large,
Had left all the accomplishments she taught her
To be transmitted, like the Lord Mayor’s barge,
To the next comer; or — as it will tell
More Muse-like — like to Cytherea’s shell.
LII
I call such things transmission; for there is
A floating balance of accomplishment
Which forms a pedigree from Miss to Miss,
According as their minds or backs are bent.
Some waltz; some draw; some fathom the abyss
Of metaphysics; others are content
With music; the most moderate shine as wits;
While others have a genius turn’d for fits.
LIII
But whether fits, or wits, or harpsichords,
Theology, fine arts, or finer stays,
May be the baits for gentlemen or lords
With regular descent, in these our days,
The last year to the new transfers its hoards;
New vestals claim men’s eyes with the same praise
Of “elegant” et cætera, in fresh batches —
All matchless creatures, and yet bent on matches.
LIV
But now I will begin my poem. ‘T is
Perhaps a little strange, if not quite new,
That from the first of Cantos up to this
I’ve not begun what we have to go through.
These first twelve books are merely flourishes,
Preludios, trying just a string or two
Upon my lyre, or making the pegs sure;
And when so, you shall have the overture.
LV
My Muses do not care a pinch of rosin
About what’s call’d success, or not succeeding:
Such thoughts are quite below the strain they have chosen;
’T is a “great moral lesson” they are reading.
I thought, at setting off, about two dozen
Cantos would do; but at Apollo’s pleading,
If that my Pegasus should not be founder’d,
I think to canter gently through a hundred.
LVI
Don Juan saw that microcosm on stilts,
Yclept the Great World; for it is the least,
Although the highest: but as swords have hilts
By which their power of mischief is increased,
When man in battle or in quarrel tilts,
Thus the low world, north, south, or west, or east,
Must still obey the high — which is their handle,
Their moon, their sun, their gas, their farthing candle.
LVII
He had many friends who had many wives, and was
Well look’d upon by both, to that extent
Of friendship which you may accept or pass,
It does nor good nor harm being merely meant
To keep the wheels going of the higher class,
And draw them nightly when a ticket’s sent:
And what with masquerades, and fetes, and balls,
For the first season such a life scarce palls.
LVIII
A young unmarried man, with a good name
And fortune, has an awkward part to play;
For good society is but a game,
”The royal game of Goose,” as I may say,
Where every body has some separate aim,
An end to answer, or a plan to lay —
The single ladies wishing to be double,
The married ones to save the virgins trouble.
LIX
I don’t mean this as general, but particular
Examples may be found of such pursuits:
Though several also keep their perpendicular
Like poplars, with good principles for roots;
Yet many have a method more reticular —
”Fishers for men,” like sirens with soft lutes:
For talk six times with the same single lady,
And you may get the wedding dresses ready.
LX
Perhaps you’ll have a letter from the mother,
To say her daughter’s feelings are trepann’d;
Perhaps you’ll have a visit from the brother,
All strut, and stays, and whiskers, to demand
What “your intentions are?” — One way or other
It seems the virgin’s heart expects your hand:
And between pity for her case and yours,
You’ll add to Matrimony’s list of cures.
LXI
I’ve known a dozen weddings made even thus,
And some of them high names: I have also known
Young men who — though they hated to discuss
Pretensions which they never dream’d to have shown —
Yet neither frighten’d by a female fuss,
Nor by mustachios moved, were let alone,
And lived, as did the broken-hearted fair,
In happier plight than if they form’d a pair.
LXII
There’s also nightly, to the uninitiated,
A peril — not indeed like love or marriage,
But not the less for this to be depreciated:
It is — I meant and mean not to disparage
The show of virtue even in the vitiated —
It adds an outward grace unto their carriage —
But to denounce the amphibious sort of harlot,
“Couleur de rose,” who’s neither white nor scarlet.
LXIII
Such is your cold coquette, who can’t say “No,”
And won’t say “Yes,” and keeps you on and off-ing
On a lee-shore, till it begins to blow —
Then sees your heart wreck’d, with an inward scoffing.
This works a world of sentimental woe,
And sends new Werters yearly to their coffin;
But yet is merely innocent flirtation,
Not quite adultery, but adulteration.
LXIV
“Ye gods, I grow a talker!” Let us prate.
The next of perils, though I place it sternest,
Is when, without regard to “church or state,”
A wife makes or takes love in upright earnest.
Abroad, such things decide few women’s fate —
(Such, early traveller! is the truth thou learnest) —
But in old England, when a young bride errs,
Poor thing! Eve’s was a trifling case to hers.
LXV
For ‘t is a low, newspaper, humdrum, lawsuit
Country, where a young couple of the same ages
Can’t form a friendship, but the world o’erawes it.
Then there’s the vulgar trick of those damned damages!
A verdict — grievous foe to those who cause it! —
Forms a sad climax to romantic homages;
Besides those soothing speeches of the pleaders,
And evidences which regale all readers.
LXVI
But they who blunder thus are raw beginners;
A little genial sprinkling of hypocrisy
Has saved the fame of thousand splendid sinners,
The loveliest oligarchs of our gynocracy;
You may see such at all the balls and dinners,
Among the proudest of our aristocracy,
So gentle, charming, charitable, chaste —
And all by having tact as well as taste.
LXVII
Juan, who did not stand in the predicament
Of a mere novice, had one safeguard more;
For he was sick — no, ‘t was not the word sick I meant —
But he had seen so much love before,
That he was not in heart so very weak; — I meant
But thus much, and no sneer against the shore
Of white cliffs, white necks, blue eyes, bluer stockings,
Tithes, taxes, duns, and doors with double knockings.
LXVIII
But coming young from lands and scenes romantic,
Where lives, not lawsuits, must be risk’d for Passion,
And Passion’s self must have a spice of frantic,
Into a country where ‘t is half a fashion,
Seem’d to him half commercial, half pedantic,
Howe’er he might esteem this moral nation:
Besides (alas! his taste — forgive and pity!)
At first he did not think the women pretty.
LXIX
I say at first — for he found out at last,
But by degrees, that they were fairer far
Than the more glowing dames whose lot is cast
Beneath the influence of the eastern star.
A further proof we should not judge in haste;
Yet inexperience could not be his bar
To taste: — the truth is, if men would confess,
That novelties please less than they impress.
LXX
Though travell’d, I have never had the luck to
Trace up those shuffling negroes, Nile or Niger,
To that impracticable place, Timbuctoo,
Where Geography finds no one to oblige her
With such a chart as may be safely stuck to —
For Europe ploughs in Afric like “bos piger:”
But if I had been at Timbuctoo, there
No doubt I should be told that black is fair.
LXXI
It is. I will not swear that black is white;
But I suspect in fact that white is black,
And the whole matter rests upon eyesight.
Ask a blind man, the best judge. You’ll attack
Perhaps this new position — but I’m right;
Or if I’m wrong, I’ll not be ta’en aback: —
He hath no morn nor night, but all is dark
Within; and what seest thou? A dubious spark.
LXXII
But I’m relapsing into metaphysics,
That labyrinth, whose clue is of the same
Construction as your cures for hectic phthisics,
Those bright moths fluttering round a dying flame;
And this reflection brings me to plain physics,
And to the beauties of a foreign dame,
Compared with those of our pure pearls of price,
Those polar summers, all sun, and some ice.
LXXIII
Or say they are like virtuous mermaids, whose
Beginnings are fair faces, ends mere fishes; —
Not that there’s not a quantity of those
Who have a due respect for their own wishes.
Like Russians rushing from hot baths to snows [*]
Are they, at bottom virtuous even when vicious:
They warm into a scrape, but keep of course,
As a reserve, a plunge into remorse.
LXXIV
But this has nought to do with their outsides.
I said that Juan did not think them pretty
At the first blush; for a fair Briton hides
Half her attractions — probably from pity —
And rather calmly into the heart glides,
Than storms it as a foe would take a city;
But once there (if you doubt this, prithee try)
She keeps it for you like a true ally.
LXXV
She cannot step as does an Arab barb,
Or Andalusian girl from mass returning,
Nor wear as gracefully as Gauls her garb,
Nor in her eye Ausonia’s glance is burning;
Her voice, though sweet, is n
ot so fit to warb-
le those bravuras (which I still am learning
To like, though I have been seven years in Italy,
And have, or had, an ear that served me prettily); —
LXXVI
She cannot do these things, nor one or two
Others, in that off-hand and dashing style
Which takes so much — to give the devil his due;
Nor is she quite so ready with her smile,
Nor settles all things in one interview
(A thing approved as saving time and toil); —
But though the soil may give you time and trouble,
Well cultivated, it will render double.
LXXVII
And if in fact she takes to a “grande passion,”
It is a very serious thing indeed:
Nine times in ten ‘t is but caprice or fashion,
Coquetry, or a wish to take the lead,
The pride of a mere child with a new sash on,
Or wish to make a rival’s bosom bleed:
But the tenth instance will be a tornado,
For there’s no saying what they will or may do.
LXXVIII
The reason’s obvious; if there’s an éclat,
They lose their caste at once, as do the Parias;
And when the delicacies of the law
Have fill’d their papers with their comments various,
Society, that china without flaw
(The hypocrite!), will banish them like Marius,
To sit amidst the ruins of their guilt:
For Fame’s a Carthage not so soon rebuilt.
LXXIX
Perhaps this is as it should be; — it is
A comment on the Gospel’s “Sin no more,
And be thy sins forgiven:” — but upon this
I leave the saints to settle their own score.
Abroad, though doubtless they do much amiss,
An erring woman finds an opener door
For her return to Virtue — as they call
That lady, who should be at home to all.
LXXX
For me, I leave the matter where I find it,
Knowing that such uneasy virtue leads
People some ten times less in fact to mind it,
And care but for discoveries and not deeds.
And as for chastity, you’ll never bind it
By all the laws the strictest lawyer pleads,
But aggravate the crime you have not prevented,
By rendering desperate those who had else repented.
LXXXI
But Juan was no casuist, nor had ponder’d
Upon the moral lessons of mankind:
Besides, he had not seen of several hundred
A lady altogether to his mind.
A little “blasé” — ‘t is not to be wonder’d
At, that his heart had got a tougher rind:
And though not vainer from his past success,