The Mobius Strip Club of Grief

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by Bianca Stone

like someone in a hospital bed

  completely unaware, waiting to be fixed,

  indifferent to everything.

  And perhaps what makes us miss things

  is that once in a while

  we want to stop getting what we’re paying for,

  a small Dostoyevskian mutiny

  like buying a clear plastic box of salad

  that tastes old and poisonous

  then throwing the whole thing in the trash.

  Our lives are a series of

  debts and payoffs that feel barely

  tolerable. And anyway

  whenever I walk across the sky

  to stand in line for the bathroom

  I think, finally,

  I am just like a ghost

  walking over the world

  trying to distract myself

  from boredom

  and hysteria. It’s a kind of

  holy moment

  that unfills

  anger.

  Stenographer

  Never mind where I was.

  It was like 4:45

  and the bartender had great hair.

  I was breaking apart, taking notes.

  I had to stand at the very end

  and wave at her for my drinks.

  Reading VALIS

  by candlelight

  I felt like Buddha

  losing my mind in a back room

  or stenographer women

  who type in courthouses

  while everyone rages around them—it’s a life

  of listening to and typing

  sentences

  said by other people,

  and right now

  it seems like no one in this place

  wants to mean anything,

  which is okay.

  In my head I’m saying

  in 300+ words,

  I’m afraid and very hopeful.

  Elegy with a Swear Word

  A planet may hide hundreds of planets.

  My planet hides in the hands

  of physicists.

  My heart, stoned and eating everything.

  Subspace signature

  telling another signature

  we understand nothing.

  Ghosts in the vocabulary.

  Sorrow is a mansion.

  A burning bush in the middle

  of a transcendental bar fight.

  The known universe

  is saying Fuck, softly

  into the unknown universe.

  It’s a very long winter.

  I can’t remember anyone’s name

  or whether I finished my beer.

  Cliff Elegy

  for Emily P.

  When you’re falling off the precipice

  look up at the finger of the cliff you just stood on

  where there’s a lemur waving his tiny black hand

  getting tinier and tinier; look beside you, when

  you’re falling, like Alice, and see there’s a white

  horse breaking your mind

  in a good way. There’s a whole set of glasses

  filled up with different drinks, and someone

  who wants to get very close to your cheek

  with his cheek, and tell you something loving:

  That you came with milkshakes in the evenings

  and fed the cat. That this is only partway down.

  The air is thin but there are so many particles

  in it. And there’re chairs to sit on, and tables

  to match. Being partway you can see everything,

  the up and the down, the sideways and the

  inwardways. You have all this time. All

  this time to still fall for him.

  The Fates

  I cracked open my skull and out flew Mom.

  She alighted on the rafters, electric in a massive chamber.

  She has abilities accessed by latent genes.

  Quietly terrible powers come

  with great responsibility—which

  you don’t have to honor—either way you still

  have the power;

  a few lives to fuck up, to

  wreck or save—

  wind chimes won’t let go of me.

  I ring whenever I move.

  I feel like the Titanic sailing straight

  into the liquor store on St. Marks at Franklin.

  I’m watching a TV show

  about supernatural detective brothers

  who travel back and forth across the United States

  avenging their parents’ deaths

  until they can’t remember anymore why or how the parents died—

  in general

  the need to kill demons and vampires

  overtakes the brothers’ need

  to remember anything.

  And who can blame them?

  Every night in the hotel the two talk indirectly about their feelings—

  manly men, massive in sex appeal, drinking

  and killing and talking.

  In this episode the Services of Fate are no longer required in the human world.

  Thus, everything in the future is affected.

  In this reality

  I know my brother is living near me,

  so close

  I can wave from my window

  into his.

  He’s telling me he’s writing

  about the way

  the face disappears.

  Dear Sister

  for Hillery

  Dear Sister—After you went, a low wind warbled through the house like a spacious bird, making it high but lonely. When you had gone the love came. I supposed it would. The supper of the heart is when the guest has gone.

  —Emily Dickinson to Mrs. J. G. Holland

  I

  In fear of death we lose out on life. We stuff an owl with arsenic and leave it totally perfectly not alive in the study, like something coveted privately by Calypso, like the greatest line ever written, embalmed with iron, staring down at us from the filing cabinet, never read aloud. What makes us despair is the impermanence of beauty. Until Nothing is beautiful we despair.

  II

  My sister and I write back and forth about Mom. “Have you talked to Mom?” “No. Did you?” Mom is deep into Jewish mysticism. She sits in the second row of an Elie Wiesel talk at the 92nd Street Y. She makes elaborate notes and drawings in her journal. The row is empty except for her. “I had the whole front row!” she says. “It was bizarre. No one would sit by me!” Mom dreams about Grandma. My sister scrubs the table each morning before the children get up. She feels the insects of the mind against her skin. They lay their precious eggs in her, they climb her, sac, follicle, and feeler. She papers the cupboards with instructions on how to feed everyone. She writes about the body confused, lost, undone. Writes about the currency of children. Her neurons fire and smolder—she wants to be loved right. She arranges the weekend away.

  And of those ancient peoples just discovered, who constructed totem poles displaying wolves and demons—where are their bones now? Or the genes, unraveled and rewired, stretched like taffy—do they mean eternity?

  III

  Truth is always getting closer, vanishing everything possessed by inertia. When Grandma died her forehead perspired and a sickly sweet odor filled us, like the calm urine of infants.

  In my mind,

  in my mind, in my mind for days

  after there was only a nail when I closed my eyes.

  A new, straight nail. Upright, unpounded.

  In my mind for days after: Antigone.

  Antigone, whose portrait I was drawing as a horse that couldn’t be tamed.

  A wild horse with goggles who disrupted dinner parties. Antigone, who couldn’t stand the idea of her brother’s body out there with the wolves, and dug a grave with a shovel and her bare hands, all alone in the creepy night.

  Antigone, whose sister wanted to row out into the darkest water with her—

  wicker and
stovepipe, fluid and skin—the body, not assumed, lies still in the ground—

  love’s gross duties—the body is a continuous bloom with a terrible fragrance.

  There is nothing to stop you from taking it into your arms, telling it

  it is good.

  The Gang Elegy

  It lies deep in my psyche.

  Like neuroscience or whatever.

  Like all my old Archie comics.

  Like wind, fooling around with me.

  Like sweet liquid from a sherry glass.

  It lounges in my old punk shadow.

  Blue Jays

  I

  Great men will tell us how they rose from nothing.

  But Mom’s a teenage heartbreak, deadly bright

  blue jay in the snow, her vivid black beak queenly

  inside a flush of blue. She’s a prologue the size

  of a whole book—she’s real poppies

  that will make you sleep—so much

  motherland in her, I’m adrift in an age

  of not giving up.

  A fog lies over everything when she’s upset.

  People used to live in the attic, ones

  who snuck down when we went out, to use the toilet and steal the spoons—

  Nothing’s up there! I said. Though

  I had no idea—

  Mom writing down license plates while

  we sat in the car outside the bakery

  eating croissants—so many similarities in numbers. It can be

  beauty to see.

  In the fields of Illinois

  Mom danced topless for the soldiers headed to war.

  “Probably be the last thing I see before I hit the shit,”

  one man told her.

  And

  Blue, here is a shell for you—

  Text messages like leaves on a river

  moving swiftly toward

  the vast sea of misunderstanding.

  Wouldn’t it be nice to live more than one lifetime?

  I want to be something else for a little while.

  I’m the village idiot savant standing at an empty

  wishing well, lighting a joint and getting paranoid,

  telling one yarn after another to anyone who will listen.

  Mom was always changing her name, asking to be called

  something different. One day she went into the courthouse

  and wrote the name Blue Jay on a blank line; the jay that will gather all the other jays

  when a dead one is found, assemble the others to grieve—

  the name’s still on her license like a hieroglyph;

  unusable, dust long ago gathered upon—

  Who are you? she asked one night

  standing beside the four-poster bed in the dark—who

  ARE you?

  You know me, don’t you?

  I can’t

  remember all the words

  to that one lullaby; I’ve grown backward and down.

  No room to sit,

  no private place to plunder,

  tall as the tallest French bisque doll in the house

  but I barely fit into these collections of genius,

  never shipped

  into society, only stockpiled

  for the end of the world.

  I bought her Mind Whispering. And The Motivation Manifesto.

  I bought The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, left it among the Jewish-mysticism books

  and later it appeared in a pile by the front door.

  “Take your self-help book back with you,” she said,

  filling a glass with ice and Diet Pepsi

  like an ocean wave foaming over stones—

  My holes were empty like a cup,

  In every hole sea came up

  Till it could come no more.

  II

  Enough, enough!

  Now I start my own cult.

  I lead

  some commune of rapture

  for these wounds. But it does no good.

  Instead everyone commits

  great big acts of suicide together in my head.

  III

  Back during our brief Mormon days

  Mom wouldn’t let us go to temple

  out in Utah and baptize the dead.

  “But I can baptize your father,” I insisted,

  who’d hanged himself all those years ago.

  “He was a Jew,” Mom said. “He doesn’t want

  to be baptized into the three Mormon heavens.”

  And that was that.

  Soon after, we stopped attending, and really

  I was glad. I didn’t want to baptize the dead so much

  as get into a swimming pool and be held down

  by a gentle hand of the priesthood.

  “Your brother got too serious,” Mom said, smoking

  in the car in her wool jacket with the elastic loops for shotgun shells

  and the flannel insert and loose M&M’s in the pockets

  (I loved her in that coat). “He said I was sinning for drinking coffee.”

  Nowadays it’s, like, two cocktails and my endorphins are spent,

  with a big shiny silver dollar, and I’m an old doll

  that talks gibberish when pulled apart.

  I rush home

  with my golden ticket of shit

  and pass out in the empty tub.

  IV

  No one will talk about her father’s death in a new way.

  It came out quietly that he liked to wear women’s clothes—

  tenderly, Mom tells me this—

  His unfinished dissertation that crumbles in my hands;

  his poems from 1943, student soldier ballads done

  with quivering golf pencils—

  I’m so alone, I’m so alone without you

  my darling—

  Oh, I wish him on her!

  Wish him on her to be loved!

  To be loved properly by a father probably feels great.

  Like winning a medal.

  V

  There’s so much joy in this poem. I’m trying

  to convey how much

  I love my mother, the way I love birds.

  The blue jay always

  is the biggest bird around the bird feeder—makes

  strange, loud songs,

  a little aggressive, but gorgeous, known

  for its intelligence and complex social systems

  with tight family bonds, a biblical fondness for acorns,

  spreading oak trees into existence

  after the last glacial period.

  VI

  I don’t want you to think I’m stealing these things

  from your life. What is stealing when it’s your own

  body parts, manufactured and passed down?

  Like a cameo brooch looking out across the hills

  of the breastbone, layers of skin and fat,

  important bacteria from the vagina,

  bracelets rattling on an arm—

  sometimes it’s just the way the hair falls

  off the skull, or the glass eyeball

  that rolls around at night

  on the floor of the cave in your dark mind.

  VII

  What of those immigrant Lithuanian Jews

  who all married goyim with red hair?

  After his wife died, Great-Uncle Jack, your father’s brother,

  wouldn’t throw anything out,

  filling his house with newspapers and New Yorkers—

  but Oh his seders in Baltimore we screamed through, so happy,

  the delicious sounds of his muttering Hebrew—

  can we go back?

  This poem is for you, hoarders of my blood.

  VIII

  The gentle climate of mothers that shakes the White House

  —and other times drives you

  insane with silence. The silent treatment,

  the defining absence of noise,

  like
an expanding stain, damp and long,

  face of need,

  need more forceful the longer it gets—typing out

  sad sentences like a telegram into the hands

  of the wrong person—

  my sweet placemat I place at my table each day.

  When I sit down with a blue jay, the seeds fall out of my mouth.

  Do you know the game?

  The game is leading you out of the dark

  and then you long to go back in—

  or blowing into your hands to make a fire

  or building something on top of another thing

  and one is more fragile than the other.

  IX

  My sister and I

  are stars in our own reality show

  that no one watches but us

  (“Has Mom responded?”)

  spread out in omnipotent banter

  waiting for our relationship with Mom to really begin

  To be loved without a fight

  with a calm center—not

  passing a mood around like a screaming infant

  this black-market DVD collection

  that cannot be watched

  except when the moon is waning

  and no one paid the electric bill

  and they’re threatening to take the house

 

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