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  but the king still had the marriage voided. Their son, Sir Augustus D’Este,

  petitioned frequently to be legitimated, to no avail.11

  Less elite examples of attempts to get around the marriage laws also

  abound. In Reddall v. Leddiard (1820), the bridegroom, who was twenty,

  swore out an affidavit that he was of age, and the bride and her two guardians

  acquiesced in the lie, all so that he could marry without his parents’ consent.

  Sir John Nichol, one of the judges, complained, ‘they trifle with the sanctity

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  of an oath in a manner to undermine the very foundation of society.’ 12 But

  judges would remain disappointed in the population’s regard for marital

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  oaths. In 1830, the Consistory Court in London heard the case Wiltshire v.

  Prince, a typical case. Henry John Wiltshire married Elizabeth Prince on

  5 February 1828 after the reading of the banns. Henry was a minor who

  changed his name – from Henry John to John – in order to conceal his

  marriage to the family cook. When his parents found out, they sued to have

  the marriage annulled. The court invalidated the marriage; this couple had

  clearly acted fraudulently to get around the statute.13

  In other words, in this and similar cases, couples defied the law, but

  the courts enforced it strictly. The fact that couples refused to accept the

  new legal definition was worrisome, however. Furthermore, other sources

  showed that people married illegal y in a number of ways, and, unless

  parents intervened, the government was reluctant to prosecute. In 1866,

  a parson wrote to the Home Secretary, trying to get him to prosecute

  two cases in which apprentices had gone to local Registrar’s offices and

  ‘obtained clandestine marriages through fraud & perjury.’ The Registrar

  General refused to help, so the parson turned to the Home Office, who,

  likewise, declined to get involved, despite the clergyman’s insistence that

  something must be done to stop ‘so serious and encreasing [sic] an Evil.’14

  The only time the authorities prosecuted was when one of the couple had

  defrauded the other or committed bigamy, both more serious offences.

  Even more disturbing than this flouting of the law was a second

  complication. At times, the courts made decisions that ignored the

  original intent of the parties. In these cases, couples found themselves to

  be accidental cohabitees. In 1830, the common law courts invalidated the

  marriage of Joseph and Mary Betts. The two had married in 1817 by banns.

  The groom used the name Joseph Betts, but the clergyman called the bride

  Mary White, though her name was Hodgkinson. Since the parents did not

  object to the match, and both were of age, the clergyman had simply made

  a mistake. Despite this, the court voided the marriage. The very strictness of

  the Act, then, led to uncertainties. The issues were especial y complicated for

  illegitimates. Because they had no legal parents, their Chancery Court

  guardian had to approve any underage marriages. In Days v. Jarvis in 1814,

  the husband did not have permission from the Court of Chancery, and so a

  marriage that had been celebrated twice in 1805 was nevertheless set aside.15

  Yet a third problem arose when unscrupulous spouses tried to use

  irregularities to rid themselves of their mates. John Cope sued to nullify his

  marriage to Sarah Burt in 1809 because she had declared herself a widow

  and lived under the name of Melville when they married in 1793 (she had

  never previously married). Though the outcome of this case is unclear, Burt’s

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  false declarations put her marriage at risk.16 Wakefield v. MacKay, a Court

  of Arches case in 1808, was more complicated. Isabel a MacKay married

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  Daniel Wakefield in 1805 under the name of Jackson. When Daniel became

  disenchanted with her, he sued to have the marriage nullified. MacKay

  countered that Jackson was her legal name, since she was illegitimate, yet

  the courts found for Wakefield.17 As MacKay’s case indicates, illegitimate

  children had special difficulties. In 1796, Harriet Lydiard, a minor, had her

  mother’s permission, as well as that of the guardian her father had appointed

  for her, when she married. However, she did not have the permission of a

  guardian from Chancery. Her husband used this loophole to invalidate the

  marriage in 1799.18

  To avoid such problems, church courts in particular tried to discover

  the intent of parties when marrying. Judges invalidated long marriages

  only if they could find evidence of fraud. In 1821, a wife could not escape

  her sixteen-year marriage, since the court did not believe her husband

  intended to defraud her when he changed his name on the banns. Similarly,

  Maria Dormer could not extricate herself from her marriage to William

  Henry Williams in 1838, since Dr Lushington believed only one of the

  parties had ‘guilty knowledge’.19 But these cases contradicted some of those

  in civil courts, adding to the confusion.

  These difficulties led Parliament to revise the Hardwicke Act, first

  in 1822, with an act which was practical y a repeal of it, and then with an

  amended version in 1823 that substantial y reinstated it. In the 1823 act,

  Parliament acknowledged that some breaches in the regulations were

  inadvertent. Thus, they left it to the courts to determine the intent of

  the parties. Though this did not help the Bettses in 1830, it did lessen the

  number of marriages voided on technicalities. In 1872, for instance, the

  court used the 1823 law to uphold a marriage. This case concerned the 1841

  marriage of William Frederick Gompertz and Georgiana Adelaide Harvey.

  The banns were published in the names Frederick Gompertz and Adelaide

  Harvey, when the couple were nineteen and eighteen. Frederick insisted

  that he shortened the names ‘for brevity’s sake only.’ They lived together for

  twenty-four years until Adelaide’s death when a dispute over her will led to

  the court case. The Chancery Court found in favour of Gompertz, because

  there was no fraudulent intent.20 Nevertheless, the general public remained

  confused, and many couples must have feared making even slight errors in

  their marriage ceremonies.

  Blood, empire, and nationality

  Another seemingly unambiguous issue was that of marriage within the

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  prohibited degrees. Any marriage with those too closely related by blood

  or affinity was void. English laws followed, for the most part, the decrees

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  from Leviticus 18, which barred marriage with kin of first and second

  degrees: ‘parents, siblings, aunts and uncles, children and grandchildren,

  and half-siblings; plus their spouses and equivalents by marriage.’21 But

  even here, the issue became muddled. Before Lord Lyndhurst’s Act of

  1835, such marriages were voidable, but not automatical y void, at law. In

  other words, if someone challenged the marriage during the lifetime of the

  parties, the marriage was invalid. If not, then the marriage, though illegal,

  was not invalid and the children were legitimate. A typical case was Watson

  and Watson v. Faremouth and Others, heard in 1811. Samuel Watson was

  Catherine Kingwel ’s brother-in-law, but they married and had children.

  When Watson’s mother died, his relatives sued to have his marriage voided

  so that they could inherit the entire estate. Since Watson and Kingwell were

  still alive, the Court of Arches duly found against the marriage, declaiming

  ‘this was an incestuous cohabitation that ought to be put an end to’.22

  Despite this danger, many couples married illegal y, particularly if they

  were confused over the status of illegitimate siblings. In Ware v. Ware, Ann

  Ware married a pair of half-brothers; her second mate was Thomas Ware,

  who was illegitimate. When she sued to have her second marriage nullified,

  Thomas defended himself by insisting that illegitimate siblings were not

  included in the laws of consanguinity. The court nullified the marriage,

  since Ware’s assumption was incorrect.23 This would seem to have settled

  the point, yet almost 150 years later, couples still claimed confusion on the

  issue. In 1901, William Perry was charged before the Exeter Assize Courts

  with lying about his relationship with his niece, Alice Jackman, whom he

  married in December 1900. Perry’s defence was that ‘the mother of the girl

  the prisoner married was an illegitimate daughter’. Because of his apparent

  ignorance, the jury acquitted him, though his marriage was still invalid.24

  To add to the difficulties, only registered chapels could perform

  valid marriages, and people did not always know which ones were legal.

  Furthermore, as the population boomed, the Anglican church could not

  keep up with the explosion. Parliament had to pass bil s expanding the

  number of legal sites for marriage in 1781, 1804, 1825, and 1830.25 As the

  empire grew, the problem became global. In 1867, J. D. Powles, the chair of

  a mining company in Brazil, petitioned the Home Secretary to register the

  local Anglican church to perform marriages. The nearest place to marry was

  in Rio de Janeiro, too far for poor miners. Most of them, then, cohabited;

  in fact, two doctors working in the area had not married legal y either. The

  undersecretary wrote to assure Powles that the bill was being prepared;

  these kinds of bil s must have been necessary wherever the British Empire

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  spread.26

  Adding another layer to the confusion, English law was different

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  from Scotland and Ireland, as well as most of continental Europe, and the

  courts had to determine which foreign marriages to recognise. In 1777,

  Edmund Middleton, aged eighteen, married twenty-eight-year-old Martha

  Janverin in Flanders without the permission of his mother, his guardian.

  When they returned to England, they kept the marriage a secret. In 1780,

  Middleton refused to support Janverin, and she sued for maintenance. In

  this instance, the judges declared the marriage void because they concluded

  that the marriage was invalid both in Flanders and in England, but they

  saw the principle as wider than this. Sir W. Wynne concluded, ‘It is true

  that a marriage had abroad is not within that act. But it does not follow

  from thence that it is good by the law of England.’27 English subjects had

  to follow English marriage law, and under the latter, Middleton was too

  young to contract a marriage without his parent’s consent.

  English judges equal y had to deal with cases coming out of Scotland,

  as Scottish law on both marriage and divorce varied from English law.

  The English law of divorce was quite strict. Divorce virtual y did not exist

  before 1857, and even after the Matrimonial Causes Act of that year, it

  was limited. The Divorce Court met only in London and the process was

  expensive. Furthermore, the grounds for divorce were few and biased in

  favour of men. Men could divorce for a single act of adultery, while women

  had to prove adultery and some other offence, such as cruelty, desertion,

  or bigamy. In addition, divorces required an innocent party; if both mates

  were guilty of actionable behaviour, the court almost always refused relief.

  As a result, most legal marriages were lifelong unions.28

  The Scots had a looser marital regime. For one thing, they still

  recognised irregular marriages. For another, Scottish law allowed divorce

  on the grounds of desertion of four years and, for women, simple adultery.

  As a result, English couples eloped to Gretna Green to marry secretly, since

  it was just over the English–Scottish border and couples could wed there

  without parental consent from age sixteen. English couples also tried to get

  Scots divorces when their English marriages failed. Scots courts accepted

  jurisdiction at times, but English courts did not uphold their decrees.

  Samuel Beazley married a Miss Richardson in 1810 in England, but they

  separated in 1813. Mrs Beazley went to Edinburgh in 1823 and divorced

  Samuel on the grounds of adultery. On the strength of that divorce, Samuel

  married Emily Conway in Edinburgh. In 1831, Emily, too, found Samuel’s

  society uncongenial and sued to have the marriage annulled on the grounds

  of bigamy. The question, then, was if an English marriage could be ended

  in a non-English court. The English court found that because Samuel

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  and his first wife were both English subjects, they could not divorce in

  Scotland.29 In short, the first Mrs Beazley used the difference between the

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  Scots and English laws to escape her marriage, and this allowed the second

  Mrs Beazley to escape hers as wel .

  The differences between Scotland and England sometimes worked

  the other way. In Fenton v. Livingstone (1859), the issue was reversed. In

  1808, Thurstanus Livingstone married his deceased wife’s sister in England;

  both husband and wife were English and their son was born there. Since no

  case was brought to void the marriage before the death of Mrs Livingstone

  in 1832, the marriage was legal in England. However, Livingstone had

  property in Scotland, and when his son tried to succeed to the land in

  1859, he could not, as the Scottish courts considered him illegitimate. In

  Scottish law, marriages with a deceased wife’s sister were automatical y

  void.30 Thus, though some couples managed to use these escape clauses,

  the majority did not. If the English courts would not accept Scots divorces,

  English couples had little incentive to attempt it, and the number of such

  attempted divorces reduced to a trickle by 1820.31

  These high court cases show that many issues unsettled marriages,

  but the uncertainty of marriage law is even clearer when reading the

  correspondence of magistrates across England. The main journal of these

  men was Justice of the Peace, and in each issue the editors included a section

  answering questions from JPs. Magistrates were primarily concerned with

  finding support for those chargeable to the parish. If a woman was not

  married to her mate, he was not responsible for maintaining her or her

  children, at least after 1834. Thus, magistrates constantly sought guidance

  in defining a legal marriage. Their questions showed how many people

  ignored the law, as well as the limited knowledge of many JPs.

  Sometimes magistrates asked about basic provisions of the Marriage

  Act, showing a worrisome degree of ignorance; for instance, one JP (in

  1839) did not even know that a marriage of a minor without parental

  consent was void. Most, though, were about the many grey areas of the law.

  One correspondent wrote in 1868 about a marriage in a Mormon chapel;

  the editors duly informed him that it would only be valid if the chapel

 

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