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by Greg Lukianoff


  Leahy, Robert, 37, 241–42

  LEAP (Learning Early About Peanut Allergy), 20–21

  learned helplessness, 158

  Let Grow, 164, 238–39

  Licence, 238–39

  Levitsky, Steven, 131

  Lexington High School, 190

  Lilla, Mark, 74–75

  Limbaugh, Rush, 132

  locus of control, 46, 70, 158

  Louisiana State University (LSU), 199

  Lythcott-Haims, Julie, 165, 169–70, 190

  Macaulay, Thomas Babington, 265

  Mac Donald, Heather, 88–89, 126

  Maher, Bill, 48

  Mandela, Nelson, 81, 98

  Manning, Jason, 209, 210

  Mao Zedong, 100–101

  Marano, Hara Estroff, 170

  Marcus Aurelius, 95

  Marcuse, Herbert, 64–71

  marriage equality, 61–62

  Martínez Valdivia, Lucía, 93

  Marx, Karl, 64, 254

  Marxism, 64, 65

  matrix, matrices, 9–10

  May Day, 201

  McChrystal, Stanley, 251

  McElroy, Wendy, 26–28

  McGinn, Lata, 37

  McLaughlin and Associates, 86

  McNally, Richard, 29

  McNeese State University, 203

  McWhorter, John, 86

  media, 130–32, 137

  Meng Tzu (Mencius), 19

  mental health, 26, 140, 143–61, 266

  of college students, 156–59

  in girls versus boys, 149–51, 154–56, 160, 161

  self-harming and, 151, 195–96

  and social media and phones, 146–47, 152–56, 159–61, 265

  see also anxiety; depression

  #MeToo Movement, 12, 27

  microaggressions, 40–46, 51, 71, 77, 145, 205, 210, 260

  Middlebury College, 12, 87–88, 90, 103, 127

  Mill, John Stuart, 248

  Millennials, 30, 31, 156, 160, 175, 178, 184–85, 188, 213

  Milton, John, 34

  mindfulness, 242

  mind reading, 38, 41, 212, 277

  Misoponos, 1–4, 14, 34, 50

  moral dependency, 209–12

  moral judgments, intent versus impact in, 43–44, 46

  moral matrices, 9, 10, 58

  moral values, 61–62

  Morgan, Kathryn Pauly, 68–69

  Murray, Charles, 87–88, 103, 127

  Murray, Pauli, 61, 62, 75–76, 260

  Nader, Ralph, 24

  National Association of Social Workers, 220

  National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, 166, 168

  Nazis and neo-Nazis, 12, 63, 64, 90–92, 133, 139, 140

  negative filtering, 38, 177, 277

  negative partisanship, 131–32, 140

  Neuromancer (Gibson), 9–10

  New Jersey Transit, 203–4

  New Jim Crow, The: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness (Alexander), 74

  New Left, 65, 67

  New Republic, 6

  Newsome, Hawk, 75–76

  Newton, Isaac, 125

  New York, 106

  New Yorker, 205

  New York Sun, 163

  New York Times, 6, 26, 88, 92, 95, 127, 133, 190, 226

  New York University (NYU), 204–5

  Nietzsche, Friedrich, 2, 22

  1960s, 213–14, 216, 230

  No Child Left Behind, 188

  Noonday Demon, The: An Atlas of Depression (Solomon), 143

  Northern Michigan University, 200, 211

  Northwestern University, 208

  Notre Dame vs. the Klan: How the Fighting Irish Defeated the Ku Klux Klan (Tucker), 207

  NW Anxiety Institute, 163

  Oakton Community College, 201

  Obama, Barack, 11, 96, 140, 214

  Obama, Malia, 250

  Oberlin College, 24–25

  Occupy Wall Street, 129

  Oliver, Kelly, 106–7

  Olivia (Claremont student), 53–55, 175

  Once and Future Liberal, The: After Identity Politics (Lilla), 74–75

  On Liberty (Mill), 248

  oppression, 6, 44, 46, 57, 64, 65, 68–71

  Orlando nightclub shooting, 12

  Ostrom, Elinor, 191

  Ostrom, Vincent, 191, 192

  Our Kids: The American Dream in Crisis (Putnam), 173–76

  overgeneralizing, 38, 39, 50, 277

  overprotection, 13

  in parenting, 126, 148, 164, 165, 167–72, 183, 201–2, 235, 236, 266

  see also fragility; parenting; safetyism

  overreaction, 201, 203

  overregulation, 201–3

  parenting, 125, 126, 163–79, 192

  and actual versus imagined risk, 167–68

  and arrest for neglect, 171–72, 266

  and assuming capability in children, 237

  and child’s walking to places alone, 169–70, 237–39

  cognitive distortions and, 177–78

  concerted cultivation style of, 173, 174, 176, 179, 235–36

  free-range, 164, 211, 238, 266, 268

  Let Grow License and, 238–39

  natural growth style of, 174, 179

  overprotective (helicopter), 126, 148, 164, 165, 167–72, 183, 201–2, 235, 236, 266

  prepare the child for the road, not the road for the child, 23, 237–40

  risk taking and, 238

  school policies and, 245–49

  social class and, 173–76, 179

  societal pressures and, 171

  suggestions for, 235–51

  Parker, Sean, 147

  Paros, Mike, 118

  Patz, Etan, 165, 166

  Paxson, Christina, 27

  “Paying the Price for Breakdown of the Country’s Bourgeois Culture” (Wax and Alexander), 107–8, 121

  peanut allergies, 19–21, 23–24, 30, 164, 236, 237

  Peck, Don, 10

  personalizing, 277

  Pew Research Center, 128

  phones, 30, 146, 147, 152–54, 159–61, 194, 214

  and limiting device time, 249–50

  school and, 247

  see also social media

  Pinker, Steven, 264, 265

  play, 125, 126, 178, 181–94

  brain and, 181–84, 193

  free, 183–86, 188, 189, 191, 193–94, 235–37, 245–46, 266

  importance of, 181–83, 193–94

  outdoor, 184, 186, 266

  playgrounds, 183, 238

  risk and, 183–85, 236, 238, 246

  polarization, 121, 125–41, 251, 265

  affective, 129, 131–32, 141

  outrage and, 133–38, 261

  police, attitudes toward, 219–20

  political correctness, 46, 94–95, 202

  Political Tribes: Group Instinct and the Fate of Nations (Chua), 267

  politics, 213–14

  alt-right, 81, 84, 118, 139, 266

  bipartisanship in, 131

  birth year and, 213–14

  filter bubble and, 130–31

  left-wing, 5, 110–13, 126–27, 132–38, 141, 199

  negative partisanship in, 131–32

  from 1940s to 1980, 130

  right-wing, 5, 63, 110–13, 118, 126, 127, 132–38, 141

  universities and, 110–13, 121, 126–27, 132–38, 141, 199, 258

  see also polarization

  Pomona College, 89–90

  positives, discounting, 38, 177, 277

  post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), 25, 28–29

  power,
53, 66

  intersectionality and, 68

  prejudice, 25, 40–44, 46

  see also racism

  Princeton Review, 189

  principle of charity, 42, 51, 55, 243–44, 260

  privilege, 68–71

  problems of progress, 13–14, 170, 264

  procedural justice, 217, 219–22, 227, 230, 231

  professors:

  political perspectives of, 110–13, 121, 258

  retraction demands and, 103–4, 107–8, 121

  social media and, 137, 141, 201

  trust between students and, 205–6, 212

  viewpoint solidarity and diversity among, 108–13, 121, 258

  proportionality, 217–19, 224, 227

  proportional-procedural social justice, 220–23, 231

  Putnam, Robert, 173–76, 236

  racism, 6, 42, 44–45, 64, 71, 140

  civil rights movement and, 60–61

  Halloween costumes and, 56, 102, 165

  intimidation and threats, 138–40

  Jim Crow laws, 221

  white supremacists, 12, 86, 87, 89–91, 94

  Rage, The: The Vicious Circle of Islamist and Far Right Extremism (Ebner), 266–67

  rape culture, 26–28

  rape law, teaching of, 205

  Rational Optimist, The (Ridley), 264–65

  Rauch, Jonathan, 59, 267

  Rawls, John, 213

  Redelsheimer, Katrina, 82

  Reed College, 93, 127

  regret orientation, 278

  religion:

  American civil, 60–61

  rituals in, 100

  Renaissance, 136

  “Repressive Tolerance” (Marcuse), 65–67

  Republicans, 129–31, 213, 216

  see also politics

  rider-and-elephant metaphor, 35, 36, 51, 62

  Ridley, Matt, 264–65

  Righteous Mind, The: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion (Haidt), 9

  Right on Crime, 74

  Rise of the Warrior Cop: The Militarization of America’s Police Forces (Balko), 74

  risk, 185, 237

  actual versus imagined, 167–68

  play and, 183–85, 236, 238, 246

  see also safety

  rituals, 100

  Roberts, John, 192–93

  Roman statues, 136–37

  Roof, Dylann, 139

  Roosevelt, Franklin D., 74

  Sacks, Jonathan, 53, 64

  safety, 6–7, 9, 14, 24–25, 29–30, 96, 148

  and actual versus imagined risk, 167–68

  crime and, 167, 186, 238, 266

  improvements in child safety, 168–69

  meaning of, and concept creep, 24–25, 27, 246–47, 259

  threats and, 138–40, 260–61

  safetyism, 29–30, 85, 104, 121, 125, 164, 165, 194, 203, 246–47

  on campus, 12, 24–26, 96–97, 125, 145–46, 148, 195–212, 268

  cognitive distortions and, 177–78

  dangers of, 168–71

  exclusion and, 246–47

  iGen and, 30–31, 156, 158, 161

  overprotective parenting, 126, 148, 164, 165, 167–72

  rise of, 24–26, 121

  safe spaces, 26–31, 96, 145, 210, 259

  school and, 236

  trigger warnings, 6–7, 24, 28, 29, 31, 145, 210

  Salem witch hunts, 99–100

  San Bernardino attack, 12

  Sanders, Bernie, 213

  Savio, Mario, 84

  schemas, 36–38, 57, 150, 177

  Schill, Michael, 92

  school (K–12), 59, 185–89, 194

  college admissions and, 189–91, 194, 235, 236, 257–58, 268

  debate teaching in, 248

  discussions on coursework in, 248

  first-grade readiness checklists, 186–87, 238

  grades in, 190

  homework, 185–86, 245

  ideas for elementary schools, 245–47

  ideas for middle schools and high schools, 247–49

  identity politics and, 244

  influencing policies at, 245–49

  kindergarten, 185, 187–88

  phones at, 247

  recess at, 245–47

  safetyism and, 236

  year of service or work between high school and college, 250–51, 257

  Schulz, Kathryn, 244

  “see something, say something,” 203–4

  Seligman, Martin, 158

  September 11, 2001, attacks, 200, 203

  Service Year Alliance, 251

  sexism, 6, 44, 71

  sexual misconduct and assault, 27

  law education and, 205

  #MeToo Movement and, 12, 27

  Shakespeare, William, 34

  Shapiro, Ben, 83

  Sheskin, Mark, 218

  shoulds, 277

  Shuchman, Daniel, 238

  Shulevitz, Judith, 26–28

  Silverglate, Harvey, 74

  Simmons, Ruth, 259

  Singal, Jesse, 106

  Skenazy, Lenore, 163–65, 169, 171, 172, 177, 185, 211, 238

  sleep, 250

  smartphones, see phones

  Smith College, 72

  snowballs, and danger, 236

  social class:

  parenting and, 173–76, 179

  universities and, 174, 176

  social justice, 111, 125, 126, 213–32

  and correlation as causation, 227–29, 231–32

  definition and use of term, 217, 220–21, 223

  equal-outcomes, 223–27, 230, 231

  major news stories related to, 214–16

  proportional-procedural, 220–23, 231

  social media, 5, 10, 30, 130, 133, 139, 145, 194, 203, 259

  call-out culture and, 71–73

  curation and comparisons in, 154–55, 161

  Facebook, 49, 55, 105, 107, 130, 146–47, 207, 265

  impact on girls, 154–56

  and limiting device time, 249–50

  mental health and, 146–47, 152–56, 159–61, 265

  positive trends in, 265–66

  professors and, 137, 141, 201

  Twitter, 81, 130, 135–37, 147, 265

  virtue signaling and, 73

  Socrates, 49, 50

  Solomon, Andrew, 143

  Solzhenitsyn, Aleksandr, ix, 243

  Soviet Union, 130, 243

  Spellman, Mary, 54–55, 57, 71, 102–3, 105–6, 134

  Spencer, Richard, 139

  Spock, Benjamin, 174

  sports, 152, 189, 225–26

  Title IX and, 224–25

  spurious correlations, 152, 228

  Stalin, Joseph, 243

  Stanger, Allison, 87–88, 103, 127, 140

  Starmans, Christina, 218

  statues, Greco-Roman, 136–37

  “sticks and stones” saying, 210

  Stoicism, 95–96, 98

  Stone, Geoffrey, 255, 279

  Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee, 84

  Sue, Derald Wing, 40–42

  suicide, 5, 24, 30, 143–44, 152

  academic competition and, 190

  rates of, 150–51, 160, 183, 190

  sharing thoughts of, 195–96

  Suk Gersen, Jeannie, 205

  summer camps, 240

  Supreme Court, 61

  Tajfel, Henri, 57–58, 76

  Taleb, Nassim Nicholas, 22–23, 28, 164, 170

  Tannen, Deborah, 154

  Taylor, Keeanga-Yamahtta, 135–36

  Tea Party, 129
/>   telos, 253–55

  Tenbrink, Tyler, 139

  terrorism, 11–12, 204

  September 11, 2001, attacks, 200, 203

  Tetlock, Phil, 229

  Texas State University, 63–64, 67

  Theodoric, 34

  Theory of Justice, A (Rawls), 213

  Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don’t Have All the Facts (Duke), 248–49

  threats, 138–40, 260–61

  Three Felonies a Day: How the Feds Target the Innocent (Silverglate), 74

  Thucydides, 108–9

  Title IX, 206–8, 223–25

  Tocqueville, Alexis de, 191, 195

  tolerance, 65–66

  transgenderism, 104–5, 205–6

  transracialism, 104

  trauma, 25–26, 28–29, 31–32, 33

  PTSD, 25, 28–29

  Treatment Plans and Interventions for Depression and Anxiety Disorders (Leahy, Holland, and McGinn), 37

  tribalism, 57–59, 76, 130, 131, 153, 267

  see also groups

  trigger warnings, 6–7, 24, 28, 29, 31, 145, 210

  Trump, Donald, 12, 82–83, 87, 96, 112, 114, 127, 135, 139, 140

  Charlottesville and, 91, 94

  supporters of, 75–76, 81, 83

  truth, 253–55, 268

  Tucker Carlson Tonight, 118, 133, 134

  Turning Point USA (TPUSA), 138

  Tuvel, Rebecca, 104–7, 121, 127

  Twenge, Jean, 30–31, 146–49, 152–54, 159, 160, 164, 185

  Twitter, 81, 130, 135–37, 147, 265

  Tyler, Tom, 219–20

  Tyranny of the Majority, The (Guinier), 222

  UCLA, 92

  Unequal Childhoods: Class, Race, and Family Life (Lareau), 173–75

  unfair comparisons, 278

  universities, 5, 8, 10, 11, 59, 125–26, 214

  admissions to, 189–91, 194, 235, 236, 257–58, 268

  amenities at, 199, 211

  bureaucracy at, 125, 126, 192, 194, 195–212

  canon wars at, 7

  Chicago Statement and, 255–56, 268, 279–81

  consumerist mentality at, 198–200, 211

  corporatization of, 197–98, 211

  cross-partisan events at, 261

  distorted thinking modeled by administrators at, 200–203

  diversity among professors in, 108–13, 121, 258

  diversity among students in, 43, 258, 260

  expansion of, 197–98

  freedom of inquiry at, 255–57

  free speech at, 5–6, 31, 65, 84, 200–203

  heckler’s veto and, 257

  iGen and, 31, 145, 148, 156–59, 174–75, 185

  intellectual virtues and, 258

  intimidation and violence at, 81–98

  mental health and, 156–59

  as multiversities, 197, 253

  political orientation and, 110–13, 121, 126–27, 132–38, 141, 199, 258

 

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