For my sons, Leigh and Burns.
I love you for the sons you are and the men you have become.
On those cracks and upheaved parts of the broken road where we sometimes found ourselves living on,
you never left me standing there, all alone.
“Mom, over here, this way, there is a meadow of flowers just over the hill.
Now, you hold our hands until we get there.
Don’t you worry, if the dark of night falls ’round us,
we have a lantern to light the pathway home.”
For my daughters-in-law, Stephanie and Hannah, amazing and beautiful in their hearts.
You lift me up because you believe in me.
You inspire me with every sunrise.
And for that and for so much more,
I give you my love and heartfelt gratitude.
For my granddaughter, Maggie Rose.
A sometimes prickly but otherwise beautiful flower, you bring me joy.
Your life of uncomplicated living challenges me to wonder.
When I am with you, nothing seems to be impossible.
You make me smile within this grandmother’s heart of mine when I hear
“I love you, Grandma Peggy.”
For my husband, Mark.
Who oft reminds me,
What is a storm without thunder and lightning?
Rainbows following rain.
No climbing without holding on.
Without sunsets, no sunrises.
Without valleys, no mountains to climb.
No mending of hearts unless they are broken.
Love is different in times of our lives
and life can complicate things
but love, my dear, endures.
CONTENTS
Foreword by Dr. Wayne Flynt
1 The Bridge
2 In the Beginning
3 Romance in the Air
4 Coming Home
5 The Race
6 Into the Darkness
7 The Broken Road
8 You Got What You Wanted
9 The Victory Is Ours
10 1963
11 Picture Perfect
12 A Storm’s a-Comin’
13 Success Is to Succeed
14 Dynasty
15 For You
16 Stand Up
17 Things Just Change
18 Buckle My Shoes
19 The Book of Lamentations
20 ’Til Death Do Us Part
21 In Tents
22 Testify, Brother Wallace!
23 Stepping Down
24 Benched
25 The End of an Era
26 Doors
27 Letters from Baghdad
28 Back to the Bridge
Afterword
Acknowledgments
Index
A Note on the Authors
FOREWORD
Anyone trying to make sense of our current divided America should read The Broken Road, Peggy Wallace Kennedy’s wonderfully written memoir about the most famous political family in Alabama history. All the elements of white working-class rage that surged to the surface of American politics in 2016—working-class fury at social and education elites that they felt were demeaning them and their culture; economic and technological changes that overwhelmed them; immigrants whom they saw as competing for their low-wage jobs; religious “do-gooders” who seemed to emphasize justice for the poor while ignoring the old-time working-class gospels of hard work and “family values”—had emerged half a century earlier in Governor George C. Wallace’s “politics of rage.” As fate would have it, it may have been Arthur Bremer’s failed 1972 assassination attempt, which left Wallace a paraplegic, that spared the nation a racist Democratic president whose campaigns first cultivated the rich nativist soil of “Stand Up for America” and “Make America Great Again.”
Although historians and biographers have carefully narrated George Wallace’s political career, they have not penetrated the inner sanctum of his closely guarded and dysfunctional family. In this deeply moving memoir, Peggy Wallace Kennedy depicts her mother, Lurleen Wallace, as a grand and noble figure, and her father as essentially an insecure, brilliant demagogue consumed by ambition. Always solicitous of white evangelicals and foregoing alcohol in public, they hid their hard liquor in the Governor’s Mansion. While portraying himself as an example of traditional family values, George Wallace and his retinue of handlers carefully shielded from the public his neglect of family and legendary womanizing. And their children became casualties of parental ambition.
The Irish writer Oscar Wilde once wrote that “children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them.” Readers of this memoir are fortunate that Peggy Wallace completed that entire life cycle—from childhood innocence to adult revulsion, to forgiveness, reconciliation, and finally to personal wholeness. The result may well be the most emotionally searing portrait ever written of an opportunistic American political demagogue, his threat to American values, and the tortured legacy he bequeathed his state, nation, and family. Among the readers, one might hope, would be the children and grandchildren of President Donald Trump, for one can easily imagine some distant Trump descendent wrestling with his legacy, and then going on to pen a similar exorcism of family demons.
—Dr. Wayne Flynt, Professor Emeritus, Department of History, Auburn University
1
The Bridge
In the South, we knew our adversary would stop at nothing to silence our activism. We knew we could never match his readiness to annihilate our resistance. So, we ceded to him that ground and challenged him instead to defend himself against the work of loving peace.
—John Lewis
It was a sun-filled and breezy early spring day in Selma, Alabama, home to one of the most significant events of the civil rights era. Congressman John Lewis held my hand as we walked toward the Edmund Pettus Bridge, where in 1965 sheriff’s deputies and Alabama State troopers had attacked the vanguard of approximately five hundred to six hundred people as they began a march for voting rights. The tempo of beating drums and our voices singing “We Shall Overcome” rode over and above the sound of our footsteps. John seemed oblivious to the disapproving eyes of some of those people who recognized me not for who I was but for what my father, George Wallace, had done in 1965 when he was governor of Alabama.
I had been asked to speak at the forty-fourth annual bridge crossing ceremony, commemorating what had come to be known as Bloody Sunday. After Bloody Sunday, the marchers had tried two more times to cross the bridge. It was only after President Lyndon B. Johnson and Attorney General Robert Kennedy federalized the Alabama National Guard to protect them that they succeeded. They walked for three days and then rallied at the capitol, which led to the passage of the historic Voting Rights Act of 1965.
My daddy had been a key player—on the wrong side—of this inspiring and heart-wrenching history. He publicly maintained that he had given an order to stop the marchers but not to harm them. He claimed that his deputy, Al Lingo, disobeyed. Even if this was true, though, he should have, at the very least, protected the marchers and their right to march. It would have been easy enough for him to issue an order to stop Lingo. Daddy’s public denials that he had any part in what took place that day were like Pontius Pilate washing his hands.
I knew that I had to come to Selma following the inauguration of President Obama in January 2009. It wasn’t easy for me. I had risked the disapproval of friends and family with my open support for Obama’s candidacy, and I wondered if I dared to come before those who had suffered at the hands of my father in the 1960s and speak. It was a test of my courage. Would I be able to stand up and introduce America’s fir
st African American attorney general, Eric Holder? Holder’s wife, Sharon, was the sister of Vivian Malone, who had met my father for the first time during another key event in the struggle for civil rights. Daddy had made his “stand in the schoolhouse door,” as it came to be known, in June 1963, blocking Vivian’s admission to the University of Alabama, which he had refused to desegregate. He infamously proclaimed: “Segregation now, segregation tomorrow, and segregation forever.”
My husband, Mark, and I parked a few blocks from the church where I was slated to introduce Holder. Few recognized me as we walked through the streets, which were busy with people coming to commemorate the day, but as we approached the church’s front doors, it became apparent word was spreading that George Wallace’s daughter was going to be on the program.
Mark took a seat in the church while I was escorted to a small study to meet John Lewis and the legendary civil rights leader Joseph Lowery. I vividly remembered their heroic actions in Selma all those years before when I was just fifteen years old. I had sat beside my mother that night in the sitting room of the Governor’s Mansion, watching Judgment at Nuremberg on TV, a film about the trial of German judges who had sentenced Jews under Hitler’s regime.
“Weren’t the Jews Germans too?” I asked.
“Yes,” my mother replied.
The screen went blank and then came back on. Alabama state troopers and men on horseback chased a group of African Americans. A young man in a tan trench coat was bludgeoned and, on the ground, savagely beaten. I would learn that man’s name was John Lewis.
My mother didn’t outwardly react to the broadcast. She kept her feelings to herself, and so did I. But inside I was horrified. People were being beaten! How could my daddy allow that to happen? Bloody Sunday would haunt me and my family. My support of Obama and coming to Selma were part of my commitment to make things right. We must live our lives with inspiration, always aspiring to make the choices that lead us to higher ground, that guide us to understanding, of not just who we are but who we can become.
John and Joseph greeted me warmly. We talked about my father’s later years, when he was crippled and in the twilight of his life and had renounced his former positions and tried to make amends. John, Joseph, and Jesse Jackson as well as other African American leaders had gathered at his bedside. He asked them for forgiveness—and they forgave him. What an incredible gift. And now they gathered me in the arms of collective friendship, and I felt all things were possible, and that indeed, in the words of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., we would all cross over, cross over and reach the Promised Land.
John intimated that he understood the complexity of Daddy’s character. He saw in him a conflicted man whose Achilles’ heel had been his monomaniacal quest for power.
“I am from Pike County,” John said.
“Well, I went to college at Troy State,” I replied.
“I wanted to go to Troy State,” John told me. “But I couldn’t, so I called Dr. King to see if he could get me in. And Dr. King said, ‘Why don’t you just come and help me?’ ” That was the beginning of John’s involvement in the civil rights movement.
It was impossible not to sense history when I entered the sanctuary of the Brown Chapel AME Church, a National Historic Landmark. It was from here that the voting rights march began. I was seated on the dais behind the pulpit with the others who would speak that day. The choir was behind us.
The sanctuary was full when the service began. For those who had lived through Bloody Sunday and its aftermath, what joy they must have felt to come to the very place where the voting rights march began, to celebrate the election of America’s first African American president and see the first African American attorney general. As I walked to the lecturn to introduce Holder, I felt my soul climb up beyond my fear of public speaking. I thought of my sons; it was a moment they could share with their children. I was there not because of who I was—the daughter of George and Lurleen Wallace—but rather for who I had become: a staunch advocate for civil rights and racial justice.
At the conclusion of the service, I stood arm in arm with Reverend Lowery and Jesse Jackson as we all sang “We Shall Overcome.” We kept singing that anthem of the dream of freedom and equality for all people as we flowed out into the street and marched toward the bridge where the marchers had been met by sheriff’s deputies and Alabama state troopers when I was just a girl.
The bridge loomed large in the distance. My hand was in John’s hand. My voice rose with John’s voice. We walked through the streets of Selma, once one of the wealthiest cities in the South, ringed by cotton plantations worked by slaves. I thought of another moment that had brought me to this point: November 5, 2008, the day after Barack Obama had been elected president. CNN had published an article I wrote in support of an Obama presidency. In it, I told the story of going to Greenwood Cemetery in Montgomery, where my parents were buried. I heard a car door slam behind me and turned to see an elderly but spry woman heading my way. The night before, a gang of vandals had swept through the cemetery desecrating graves, crushing headstones and stealing funereal objects. My parents’ graves, situated on a windswept hill overlooking the cemetery, had not been spared. A large marble urn that stood between two granite columns had been pried loose and spirited away, leaving faded silk flowers strewn on the ground.
I was holding a bouquet of them in my arms when the woman walked up and gave me a crushing hug. “Honey,” she said, “you don’t know me, but when I saw you standing up here on this hill, I knew that you must be one of the [Wallace] girls and I couldn’t help myself but to drive up here and let you know how much me and my whole family loved both of your parents. They were real special people.”
I thanked her for her kind words as we stood side by side gazing down at the graves of my parents. She leaned in to me with a conspiratorial whisper: “I never thought I would live to see the day when a black would be running for president. I know your daddy must be rolling over in his grave.”
Not having the heart or the energy to respond, I gave her bony arm a slight squeeze, turned, and walked away. As I put the remnants of the graveyard sprig in the trunk of my car, I assumed that she had not noticed my Obama bumper sticker.
As a young voter, I’d had little interest in politics. Daddy marked my ballot for me. Leaving the cemetery, I mused that if Daddy were alive and I had made the same request for this election, there would be a substantial chance, though not a certainty, that he would have put an X by Obama’s name. Perhaps Obama’s election would have been the last chapter in the search for inner peace that became so important to him after becoming a victim of hatred and violence himself when he was shot and gravely injured in 1972.
The article on CNN.com had gotten 150,000 hits and brought me to national attention—here was obviously a very different kind of Wallace. And it was that article that led me to be invited to Selma for the anniversary of Bloody Sunday.
With his arm around me, John and I stepped to the bridge’s rail. “Peggy, crossing the bridge with you shows how far the human heart can go.”
I finally felt I had fulfilled the promise I made to my son Burns when he was a nine-year-old. Mark and I had taken him to Atlanta to visit the Martin Luther King Jr. National Historic Site and Museum. As we moved through the exhibits, we turned a corner to face photographs of the Edmund Pettus Bridge, the bombed-out 16th Street Baptist Church, fire hoses and dogs in Birmingham, and Daddy standing in the schoolhouse door.
Burns turned to me. “Why did Paw Paw do those things to other people?” he asked.
I knelt beside Burns and drew him close. “Paw Paw never told me why he did those things to other people. But I do know that he was wrong. So maybe it will just have to be up to you and to me to help make things right.”
It was really Burns’s question that had compelled me to stand with John on the Edmund Pettus Bridge. It made me realize that I had to come to terms with my family’s history. It awakened in me the deep desire to create my own chapter in the
Wallace saga.
John and I stood together, watching the Alabama River flow beneath us. It was as if the water was reaching up to me, washing away the pain of the past and giving me courage to step away and find my true self.
“Well, sister,” John finally said. “Guess it’s time for the two of us to move forward. Now you hold my hand ’til we get to the other side.”
2
In the Beginning
Family quarrels are bitter things. They don’t go according to any rules. They’re not like aches or wounds, they’re more like splits in the skin that don’t heal because there’s not enough material.
—F. Scott Fitzgerald
Like many of us, I have often wondered how my parents came to be the people they were. They are gone now and their early lives and the lives of my grandparents and great-grandparents will always be a mystery to me. My parents didn’t like to talk about their pasts. We were always so intent on pushing forward, focused on what was coming next.
My father’s grandfather, Dr. George Oscar Wallace, arrived in Clio, Alabama, in 1891. He and his first wife moved into a wood-framed house across the street from the town’s small collection of stores. He worked long hours, caring for ailing patients and tending to his drugstore in town. His meager success allowed him to build his own home, and he purchased three small tenant farms. His first wife died in 1920, and he later married Nora Mae Wyatt.
In my father’s later years, Dr. Wallace and Mother Mae, as he called her, would be his touchstones. In his mind, there seemed to be no others sitting on the limbs of the family tree who could have passed along his intellect and ambition. Daddy’s extended family members remained strangers, nothing more than awkward moments at campaign rallies or large family reunions where everyone bunched up to speak to the governor, ate, then left for parts unknown.
Daddy in the first grade.
His parents were both, in their own ways, difficult people. My uncle Gerald laughingly characterized my grandfather George Wallace, Daddy’s father, as “a man of indiscretion and perpetual drunkenness.” My grandfather had gone to Southern University and returned home to Clio to manage his father’s three farms. His endless hours of intoxication fueled his anger. He was prone to blinding headaches from a deviated septum, made worse when a friend hit him in the forehead with a pair of brass knuckles during a drunken brawl. With only one lung and a weak heart, George Wallace Sr., as described by one author, spent his days leaning on a counter in Clio’s general store, a cigarette in one hand and a Coke in the other, ready to chase another headache powder.
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