Haywire

by Brooke Hayward

  To us, Emily was everything in the world. We loved her totally because she belonged to us; she was entirely ours in a way that Mother and Father never were. We loved them from a distance; we admired them as we admired the sun and moon, adoring their beauty and constancy, their infinite power. They were gods; we worshipped them. But we loved Emily in a different way.

  Emily started working for us as a relief nurse and ended up staying full time. On her days off she went home to her husband, Ed Buck, and once or twice, giving in to our entreaties, she took us with her to their little house with hibiscus bushes growing up either side of the front walk. Emily had no children of her own, and considered us hers, which suited us perfectly. Mother and Father used to say fondly that Emily was the homeliest person they’d ever seen, but the kindest. We, however, thought she was the most beautiful, and said so. She had stringy mouse-colored hair, which hung limply in one stage or another of a bad permanent. Her eyelashes and eyebrows were sparse and did less to define her eyes than the discolored hollows under them. Two deep furrows ran from her rather bulbous nose to the corners of her mouth, where they were intersected by a great system of other lines. Her skin was pitted in some places like old tarmac and in others dislodged by moles or wens; it seemed to be permanently redolent of coffee and as nicotine-stained as her teeth. Emily, like Father, smoked three packs of cigarettes a day, preferably Camels, and when they became scarce during the war, she took to rolling her own. On special occasions she wore lipstick, a dark purplish color. She’d apply it carefully to her angular lips, then smack them together and blot most of it off with tissues.

  “Poor Em,” we’d sigh, inspecting the varicose veins in her calves, which gave her trouble when she stood too long. “Someday we’ll take care of you.” Then Father would interject while she poured him a cup of her coffee, which he preferred to Elsa’s, “I hope to Christ the three of you children take care of both of us when you get to be twenty-one years old and I’m doddering around in a state of financial ruin.” Emily would guffaw, and say, “Oh, good Lord, Mr. Hayward, don’t start that again,” and we’d giggle and chorus, “But, Father, we’ll never make enough money to take care of you.” Father would lower his teaspoon into the coffee, carefully submerging three lumps of sugar, one for each of us to suck, and shake his head. “God knows, children, it won’t be easy. But that’s what children are for, to take care of their poor old senile parents. You’re all smart as hell; you’ll get good grades at school—you’d better, by God—I’m counting on you to keep me from the poorhouse.…”

  “But, Father, we’re not allowed to go to school.”

  “Oh, yes, that’s right. Well, someday—now, let’s see—let’s get right down to business. Brooke, what do you want to be when you grow up?”

  This was a game we loved, although the answers never changed. “A painter and a writer.”

  “No money in that. Bridget?”

  “I want to grow up to be a housewife with ten children.”

  “No hope there whatsoever. Disaster. My last chance—Bill?”

  “When I grow up, I’m going to be either a fireman or the President of the United States.”

  “Well, couldn’t you marry a very rich girl while you’re at it? This is just awful. Promise me that one of you at least will be considerate enough to marry somebody with a lot of dough for the sake of your beloved old father. After all, I think I deserve to be supported in some kind of style.…”

  Father’s mother, Sarah Tappin—Grandsarah—moved to Los Angeles in 1943. She had raised champion cairn terriers with her third husband, Lindsley Tappin, at their country house in Wilton, Connecticut. After he died, she decided to come out to California to see her only son and three grandchildren, so she sold the house, packed her station wagon with one poodle, twenty-six of her favorite cairns, and Archie, her black caretaker, and drove all the way across the country herself (since Archie had never learned how), stopping twice a day to take the dogs out of their individual wicker baskets to feed and exercise them.

  Father had bought her a house on Magnolia Boulevard in Van Nuys. Every Sunday we would drive over to the Valley, holding our breaths and making wishes as we came to the entrance of the tunnel through the mountains; then, as Sepulveda Boulevard began its serpentine descent to the lovely clear expanse below, Father would take his foot off the gas as a gesture toward rationing, and the car would careen around the curves, speeding up and slowing down under its own momentum.

  My grandmother’s house was dark and cool and filled with beautiful dusty mysteries. Beyond the verandah that ran all around it, softening its borders with six feet of shade, lay the gardens, several acres of them, bounded by high walls and fruit trees gleaming in the sun. Pomegranates overlapped persimmons, peaches and cherries intertwined, a lacy forest of citrus—tangerines, lemons, grapefruits, and oranges—gradually gave way to thick meandering shrubbery, dappled with sweet-skinned kumquats and guavas that Grandsarah made into jelly each fall. We squinted through the shadowy living room toward the blinding green sunlight, bewitched by the contrast between inside and out. Sunday lunch at my grandmother’s house was the most compelling adventure, the most seductive paradise we knew. We were overcome by desires; we wanted to possess everything that we saw or smelled or tasted, to touch it, hold it, take it away with us so that we could have it forever. In her house we became pirates.

  First we headed for the cupboards where she kept her three-odd sets of wineglasses, each with a goblet or two missing, just to make sure none had been broken or rearranged since the previous Sunday. We had, after interminable bickering, staked out our individual territories, and for some reason the wineglasses from which we drank our ginger ale, pretending it was champagne, seemed to exemplify our intangible conquest. “Grandsarah,” I would say, stroking my glass, which had small green bumps blown onto its surface, “you must take good care of these glasses. Right now there are two missing, so—”

  Grandsarah chuckled, amused by my ill-concealed longing.

  “Don’t worry,” she said cheerfully, poking at the chicken frying on the big stove, “I’ll take good care of them for the next ten years, and then—give the gravy a stir, would you, Viola?” Viola came twice a week to clean and on Sundays to help with lunch; she was black and so fat it took her some time to lower herself, grunting, into a sitting position and quite a bit longer to get up from one. Both Viola and Grandsarah laughed at everything we said and let us do whatever we wanted—spoiled us rotten, said Father, but that’s what grandparents were for.

  Bridget’s glass was etched with red leaves. “Mine, too?” she asked, holding it up for more ginger ale, which was forbidden at home.

  “Yes, yes.” Grandsarah smiled broadly. “Now I think these mashed potatoes are done just the way your father likes them—yes, and yours, too, Bill. And in ten years when I’m seventy, I’ll probably be dead anyway—nobody should live past seventy—and then I’ll leave them to you.”

  “Oh, no, Grandsarah,” we’d wail, simultaneously terrified that she would ever die and pleased at the prospect that the glasses would finally be ours. “Don’t die, Grandsarah, don’t die—what would we do without you? You’re going to live to be a hundred.”

  “Seventy’s old enough, old enough. Don’t want to push my luck,” said Grandsarah.

  Fried chicken was the traditional Sunday lunch because Father loved it, and as Grandsarah said, he was her only son and the most wonderful person in the whole world. We all sat around her pink wrought-iron-and-glass table while the grownups talked and laughed a lot, dogs pushed their way in and out the French doors to the patio, and Bridget, Bill, and I shoveled speckled vanilla ice cream into our mouths. “My God, that was good, Mother,” Father would say, putting down his napkin. “Now, there is one thing in this room I have my eye on, wanted it for as long as I can remember.”

  We would all look toward the sideboard where a portable antique liqueur cabinet sat. “Now, Mother,” Father would continue to our huge enjoyment, “you know
how much I need this.” He would fondle its dark mahogany sides and open its hinged top to show off the perfect set of crystal decanters and liqueur glasses arranged inside. “You have no use for it whatsoever, Mother, for God’s sake.”

  “Oh, Leland.” Grandsarah’s eyes twinkled as she smiled and patted her hair, which was pinned in a roll. “I use it when we play poker.” (Grandsarah had a weekly poker game with Junior and Irene Egan, whom she had met while traveling around the world in 1910.) “Besides, Leland,” she continued, “you know perfectly well I’ve never been able to refuse you anything at all—you’ll get it out of me one of these days.” Then she’d hug him and laugh some more.

  “How about my next birthday?” Father would ask.

  “Good Lord, Mr. Hayward,” said Emily, “you’re worse than the children.”

  After lunch we’d follow Grandsarah down to the kennels at the back of the property to watch her feed the little dogs yapping in their runs. For years she was the foremost breeder of cairn terriers in Los Angeles, until the zoning laws changed and the kennels fell into musty disrepair. Even then we would go down to the end of the garden, through the sunny tangle of irises and narcissus in spring, lilies and roses in summer, to play hide-and-seek in the overgrown ruins that were haunted by mildewing, spider-infested wicker cases and shards of earthenware feeding bowls.

  Crisscrossing the gardens was a maze of concrete paths that had taken Archie and the gardener months to lay and that was inscribed at intervals with Archie’s duly noted progress—“OCT. 1943, HALFWAY”—and the occasional graffiti of Bridget, Bill, and me, who had immortalized ourselves in the wet cement under Archie’s drowsy supervision.

  “Grandsarah,” we would clamor before leaving, “it’s time to look at your treasures.” To us, her house glittered with treasures: small boxes with dogs enameled on them, silver trophies from dog shows, and the big oil painting over the fireplace that depicted, in deep perspective, all the champion terriers she had ever raised, posing grandly in their wiry coats of different colors against a green Connecticut landscape.

  “Can I have that someday, Grandsarah?”

  “No, I asked for it last time. She said—”

  “No, me, me—”

  “When I die, children, when I die.”

  And the jewelry boxes, filled with charms and earrings. Our lust had dropped all its disguises somewhere in the garden during the long hot afternoon. “Ooh, what’s this, a moonstone heart? Can I have this when you die?”

  We were motivated not just by avarice but also by our first intimations that people grew old and did not live forever, that maybe we could capture her forever as she was at that moment by simply dividing up her possessions.

  “Oh, Grandsarah, don’t forget, please, you promised to leave this old photograph to me.”

  And she, understanding, found nothing macabre in our articulate greed and inarticulate desire to stop time.

  “I won’t forget, I won’t forget, you darling children. You tickle me, you really do. You’re almost as darling as your father was when he was little.”

  We pestered her for stories about Father when he was a little boy, unable to conceive of such a time. “It’s a long way back to make my poor old brain go,” Grandsarah would say, with a laugh, sitting in her plum-colored armchair with her slender ankles crossed on a footstool. Then she would shake her head and look down at her lap. “Things were easier then, more fun.”

  “Oh, come on, Grandsarah, please.” She wavered, we pressed, awed by the history she embodied. She was born November 7, 1882, in Nebraska City, Nebraska. “It was just a little bit of a town, where nothing much ever happened, just a little country town with one packing house and a few thousand people, farmland all around for miles.” Her mother was Eloise Coe and her father Franklin P. Ireland, a lawyer from Newburyport, Massachusetts. We would lean against her chair, trying to imagine what it was like to grow up in a time and world with scant electricity and no cars at all. In good weather the Irelands harnessed their team of matched bay horses, Claude and Cora, to a trap; in winter Claude and Cora pulled the sleigh. For her fifteenth birthday, Grandsarah was given her own horse and trap, and thought she would faint from excitement. The only paved road in Nebraska City was Main Street, which was laid in brick along the ten or twelve blocks of its shopping and business district. The horse-drawn fire engine was the great attraction in town—“nothing else to get excited about.” There was no place to swim except the Missouri River and that was too dangerous. The weather was “hotter’n hell” in summer and subzero in winter. In the daytime Grandsarah wore checked gingham dresses with petticoats and drawers and in the evening she wore organdies with puffed sleeves. (Bridget and I nodded approval.) Although she had no brothers or sisters, she was never lonely. There were parties and dances everywhere, all the time. The Irelands often covered their twenty-foot fishpond with oak planks, waxed them, and danced.

  Grandsarah went to boarding school but never finished the last year because she was beginning to fall in love with Will Hayward, the son of Monroe Leland Hayward, U.S. Senator from Nebraska. Grandsarah first met Will when she was sixteen and he was twenty-one, a dashing young graduate from the University of Nebraska where he had starred on the baseball and football teams and was president of his class of ’97. When the Spanish-American War broke out in 1898, Will exhibited signs of the adventurous streak that was to underscore his life, and promptly gave up his new law practice in Nebraska City and volunteered for service. He was placed in command of the 2nd Nebraska Infantry as captain and, after serving through the war and the Philippine insurrection, was mustered out in 1901 as a colonel.

  Grandsarah thought he was irresistible, with blue eyes and a dimple in his chin: “The best-looking man I ever saw—always took good care of himself, played football night and day.” After divesting herself of another beau, she married him in March, 1901, when she was eighteen. The wedding created an uproar in the Ireland family, who thought she was much too young, but her father stormed and wept to no avail. The Haywards were a clan of Baptists as diehard as the Irelands were Episcopalian; a compromise was reached, according to Grandsarah’s directive, in which she and Will were married by a Baptist minister (“I didn’t care who did it”) in an Episcopalian ceremony (“not as boring”). They moved into a two-story house that Will had had built for her, and right after they were married, he brought home the first car in Nebraska City, a Locomobile. On September 13, 1902, she gave birth to Father. He was much adored, being an only child, and his nurse from infancy, Mary Coots, stayed on with Grandsarah for the next thirty years just to keep an eye on him.

  Will Hayward, in 1901, became Nebraska’s youngest county judge. A newspaper account of the period said, “He was an ardent bowler and paid for a telephone booth at the bowling alley so when someone wanted a marriage license he could be called to the courthouse.” He ran for the State Congress in 1910 and was defeated. Grandsarah used to say he never got over it. To mend his broken heart, they went on a trip around the world. With Father in tow, they traveled by boat from San Francisco to Japan and China, making their way back through Europe. Although Father was only eight years old, he had persistent memories of the journey, highlighted by his various illnesses in every country they passed through.

  When they returned to the United States, the Haywards, accelerated by a new sense of discovery, moved to New York City. Grandfather joined the law firm of Wing & Russell, and Grandsarah took ballroom ice-skating lessons every day in Central Park. Father went to school at Horace Mann. Still, despite the lure of pretty shops and a bracing social climate, life wasn’t moving quickly enough. In 1911, Grandsarah went back to Omaha, Nebraska, and divorced Will Hayward. (“I just got bored with him and he was probably as bored with me.”) Her family and friends were scandalized; divorce was immoral and totally improper. Grandsarah, high-spirited as always, married a very wealthy man, Shepherd Schermerhorn, the vice-president of the United Fruit Company. They lived at 375 Park Avenue and traveled to S
outh America every winter. Father, allegedly hating them all, went to a series of boarding schools—Garden City, Pomfret, and finally Hotchkiss, from which he graduated.

  Grandfather, meanwhile, distinguished himself as a lawyer and soldier. Appointed Assistant District Attorney under Charles S. Whitman, then District Attorney, he ran Mr. Whitman’s successful campaign for Governor of New York in 1914. He went to Albany as Governor Whitman’s counsel and became Public Service Commissioner of New York in 1915, a position he resigned in 1918 to devote all of his time to the black 369th Infantry Regiment of Harlem, which he recruited, trained, and then commanded. The 369th was among the first fighting units to land in France; it served at the front under fire for 191 days, the longest period of fighting endured by any unit of the American Expeditionary Force. Highly regarded by the French, the regiment was sometimes used as shock troops because of its striking power. It was cited for valor and, after the Armistice, became the first Allied unit to enter Germany. Grandfather, known to his men as Colonel “Fighting Bill” Hayward, received the Croix de Guerre, and was made an officer of the Legion of Honor.