How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You, Forever; How to Make Someone Obsessed With You
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HOW TO MAKE SOMEONE OBSESSED WITH YOU
THE ART OF POWER AND CONTROL OVER SOMEONE BY CAUSING THEM TO OBSESS OVER YOU.
scarlett kennedy
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Warning:
I frequently receive emails along the lines of:
“You aren’t just a manipulative bitch. You’re the devil. You need to take down this site. Why are you enabling more psychopaths and sociopaths?”
Why?
Mainly because I am enabling society to become better versions of themselves. We were already this way. We already knew the power we had, but lost it to society’s conditioning. We became powerless slaves. But now I am helping you regain back that power, by giving the most potent form of power in the world: the power of obsession.
For those of you who think I’m the devil:
I am trying to protect you from evil. All this information is used on you daily. From the media, work, to people you know. (whether they consciously realize it or not.) Once you know all this, you are protected and you are less likely to fall prey. Your own psychology is being used against you. For people, and big corporation’s own personal monetary benefits.
Please mentally note that all the things you are learning will eventually corrupt you in many ways psychologically. You will hold in your hands, people’s emotions, and sanities. People will submit tremendous amounts of power to you.
So, be prepared for it. All of the information you are learning here will either make or break a person’s life. If you can’t handle this truth, put the book down.
Table of Contents
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Warning:
introduction
My story.
What is this about:
Why would I want people obsessed with me?
How am I different?
How to read this book:
Chapter 1
The causes of obsession
The person is your idealized version:
The person fills in the cracks within your psyche.
The person revives/relieves a memory/ person you are missing.
The person brings out your most deep suppressed sides.
Chapter 2
Target psychology
how to pick and choose your targets
what is the perfect lover?
masculine and feminine psychology
target type: the nerd
target type: the control freak
target type: the innocent one
target type: the pushover
TARGET TYPE: the “tough” one.
target type: the child
target type: the narcissist
target type: the histrionic
target type: the rich person
target type: the player
target type: the knight in shining armour
target type: the commitment phobe
when two of the same kind get together
the types of people you can’t seduce
Chapter 3
starting the process
pain and pleasure
the essence of grief
timing
get their attention
creating rapport
be a mystery
Imply a dark side
social proof and becoming obsessed
the equal, superior, and inferior
single minded attention
make your target feel insecure
Your exclusivity
play innocent
be in the present moment
become the flawless illusion
the small details
go beyond our physical existence
play against your stereotype
leave your baggage at the door
romanticize everything
their experience with you
reverse psychology
what are you associated with?
will they approach you?
are you listening?
resistance
Conclusion
Chapter 4
be careful what you wish for: the potential corruptions
introduction
stalkers
abusing your power
paranoia
maintenance
guilt
why aren’t they trying to win me back?
Falling into your own trap: falling in love
Who was seduced here?
Analysis paralysis
Identity/existential crisis
apathy
Chapter 5
conclusion
How you cut them off
Leave them obsessed forever
About The Author
other upcoming books by scarlett kennedy
One Last Thing...
introduction
My story.
My name is Scarlett Kennedy. I wanted to earn a reputation as the girl who had massive power over everyone. Primarily through them being obsessed with me. The root cause is because everyone thought I was uglier than the ugly duckling. If people weren't characterizing me as monstrous, spineless, or creepy, they were busy ignoring me. What's worse than being hated? Everyone ignoring you. My insecurities drove me to learn the human mind, to gain power and influence over people. The power of having people under my control, and the pleasure of knowing they believe it was their idea.
My observations about everyone around me, was that they struggled for power. One person wanted to be the "fairest" of them all. One person thought he had all the power because he drove a Maserati to work, and a Ferrari on weekends. Someone else wanted to claim the power of the scholar. Another, felt powerful when they were rescuing their junkie friends. All these people had power. Altho
ugh, it was never sufficient for them. People are consistently searching for multiple ways to acquire power. A common theme between all these people was that they wanted to overpower people. I always had a hunch that power, and obsession had something to do with it.
It wasn't until the age of sixteen, that I was motivated to actively begin my journey of research about how to influence people. Concurrently, I was desperate to find a boyfriend. Not because I wanted love, but because I was deprived of any love, attention or approval during my childhood. At sixteen, I believed that I could finally fill this void with an external source: a boyfriend.
I had potential prospects, but they had chewed me up, and spit me out. I had gotten my hopes up, then crushed. Repeatedly. I was overtaxed with rejection.
The day the second prospect overtly rejected me, tears fell down my face. As I finished crying, I questioned why we fell in love, and obsessed in the first place. After uncovering valuable information, I felt relief.
Months later, I had disregarded the information and forgotten all about it. Then, I developed another obsession: To have a wealthy boyfriend. The pattern repeated itself again. This time with more progress. My first wealthy boyfriend appeared aloof, and unconcerned with me.
After him and I mutually ended things, I recalled the knowledge I had discovered on how to make one obsessed with you. I became devoted to learning the art of having someone obsessed with you. I purchased books, courses, attended webinars, and seminars. Anything I could get my hands on. I was hungry for all the knowledge.
It took me years to learn and fully master what worked, and what didn't work. And, the courage to test it on people, with the results being positive.
I began a blog, for the sole purpose of recording my target's psychology. What techniques would work for them, and which wouldn't. The mistakes I have made, and how I planned to correct them. A trial and error blog, so to speak.
People took notice to my blog, and my inbox was flooded with emails about the same questions I had, in the beginning. Except, I had the answers.
I created this book to shorten your learning curve, and answer all your questions. Basically, I saw a lack in other people’s informational products, and wanted to fulfill it.
What is this about:
This book is about how and why people become obsessed. It is about the immense power you can have over people, by making fall deeply in love with you. Essentially, obsessed with you. You've seen the power obsession has over people. A part of you questions why a person could be obsessed with another person, place, trend, or hobby. Another part of you, wishes to have that effect on people. You notice actions people take to gratify their obsessions. People will go to the ends of the world for their obsession. Especially when it comes to a person they're obsessed with. A person obsessed is a person under your control. Obsession is the most potent form of power out there. Because obsession is what drives us. Obsession creates a burning desire within us.
Look all around you at the people you're closest to, your co workers, the people walking by you on the street. We're all experiencing a conflicting desire for power. Behind closed doors, we yearn for it, but try to push it away and be "humble." The precise truth is, you see people who are powerful and the flames of desire for power, ignite again. Powerful people can be powerful in different ways. The power of beauty. Intellect, money, an authoritative figure like a cop, politicians, and business people. Everyone wants a different form of power, but the common theme between all them? We want power over people. We try to win over people by doing things that impress us, not them. We believe these things will impress people because it impresses you. Or, society has programmed it into your mind. However, that doesn't mean it'll impress them.
Obsession works because people believe their obsessed feelings are THEIR feelings. People resist other forms of "persuasion" because people are aware of your manipulations. We believe our obsessions are true love. The overused quote is true, love DOES conquer all. Our obsessions captivate us because it takes us to a different level of reality. A more amusing, idealistic, romanticized, one. It makes us feel alive.
If you're going to win people over, may as well go all the way. Don't just get them to like you. That's mainstream. Get them to obsess over you. Be on their minds 24/7. Everything is mental. Obsession starts in the mind. If you can occupy and control their minds, you can do anything. This is what true power is.
Why would I want people obsessed with me?
Because obsession starts in the mind. Obsession is all psychology. If you can control someone's mind, you can control their emotions. If you can control their emotions, you can control their everything. You won't have to worry about the power struggle. Because you'll hold it in your hands.
Why do you think cult leaders, politicians, even the asshole at work are most worshipped? Celebrities could make you do and believe anything. You may wonder why people fall under their spells. It's not because they're trying all these sleazy salespeople tactics on you. It's because they have that obsessive effect on people. They don't need to try. They just do it. Now you won't have to try either.
After all, a person who lusts after you can forget about you. A person "in love" will go to the ends of the world.... just for you.
How am I different?
I don't just focus on generalizing people. The reason you can't get someone to like you in the first place is because you don't understand them. Other programs, and books give you generalized advice. What they don't understand is that people are unique. We have unique minds, and different things appeal to different people. You just have to understand what will appeal to them, then apply required techniques. I'll teach you how to understand people. What techniques to apply to certain people and situations.
Would you feed someone spaghetti, if their personalities revealed they prefer Alfredo sauce? Would you do doggy style in bed, if you knew they hated it? No, you want to appeal to their needs. In this case, you'll have to appeal to their psychological needs.
Everyone fits into a specific category of personas. Usually mixed. Finding out which category they fit into, will aid in appealing to their psychology. Many people disregard the power of what personas people fit into. I don’t. Personas are inherent within us. We play different personas everyday.
How to read this book:
I know the value of having all the important information in one place. Everything is straightforward. I put everything into sections. Nothing is ambiguous. I'll guide you to which sections to read through, if you want to know more information. I answer common questions are dying to have answered.
Chapter 1
The causes of obsession
The most googled things: "How and/or why."
I'm going to supply you the "why" people become obsessed. And, the "how" on how to take advantage of this cause.
The person is your idealized version:
Who are you in your ideal world? In our fantasy world, we are someone different in contrast to who we are, in the real world. In my fantasy world, I'm someone else compared to who I am in the real world. We all have narcissistic characteristics. We want someone to reflect who we are. Oftentimes, we aren't who we want to be. We aren't as self assured, seductive, badass, or impulsive as we'd like to be. Rather, we're incompetent, awkward, and restricted. Have someone obsess over you, by mirroring the idealized versions of themselves.
How to take advantage of this:
Discover what their idealized versions of themselves may be. We all do things that fulfill our psychological needs. What do they try to portray themselves as? What celebrities are they drawn to? What characteristics do they appear to notice about people? What things do they hate? The things they hate, may give you insight into what threatens their idealized version of themselves.
A story:
I mention a friend "Mary" often in this book. She's fifteen years old than me. She talks about her youth till the cows come home. She's in her thirties. She tried to project the image of someone who had mon
ey, many wealthy admirers, and a glamorous lifestyle. She didn't have any of that, nevertheless, I knew that was her idealized self.
Luckily, I did have all those things. I diverted speaking about it. Instead, I gave her a taste of my lifestyle. I brought her to events, only VIP got invited to, took her to where the rich and wealthy hung out, in the city. This made her obsessed.
I would give her a taste, then disappear for weeks, telling her I had been partying on someone’s yacht. I told her these things because it withdrew her desires to live a luxurious lifestyle. This left her wanting more.
Ironically, the last time I saw her, she came to terms with her idealized self, and is trying to make that lifestyle happen. Good for her.
The person fills in the cracks within your psyche.
We all feel hollow in some way. We seek what we are deficient in, internally, externally. People discuss the desire to find a partner to complete a void. The void that they speak of, is what they lack internally. Many people speculate the void they have is one generalized thing. However, everyone has different lacks. Most people aren't aware of what they're missing in their lives. They just assume someone will fill in the unoccupied.
How to take advantage of this:
Find out what a person is deprived of, in their lives. You can usually see what someone is lacking in their lives, through what kind of music they listen to, and what movies they watch. For example, if someone who works all the time, watches action movies often, it may give away that they feel they are needing action, adventure, and variety in their lives.
A story:
A lady named Anna- Belle was permanently at the library. It was like she resided there. The library was my refuge. We never spoke in the library, just made short eye contact. She always caught my eye by how immersed she was in the books she was reading. I recognized what was going on in the books, because her facial reactions would reveal it. We hadn't spoken until, one day when the library was closing, and it started heavily raining. I didn't have an umbrella, nor did I care to have one. I simply accepted that I was to walk in the cold rain that night. As I began to walk, she drove by me, rolled down her windows and asked if I wanted a ride home. I didn't want a ride home, but I wanted the company. I deliberately lied about where I lived, telling her I lived one hour away from the library, rather than five minutes away. Why? Because I wanted to get to know her. Lastly, because I couldn't trust her knowing my address.