by Mingmei Yip
“She did?”
“Yes. She said, ‘Miss Du, meet our Little Cookie.’”
Now I vaguely remembered that plump little girl who’d loved cookies and who’d often peeked in the library to stare at Yi Kong and me. “Oh, I can’t believe it-” I stared at the very slim young woman in front of me. “So you’re Little Cookie!”
She nodded and smiled shyly.
I asked, “Oh…but you weren’t an orphan, were you?”
“No. But my parents had seven kids, all boys except me. My father died young, my mother was always sick, and I was very naughty. So my grandmother, who decided everything in the family, made up her mind one day that I should be sent to live in a temple. She said this would help not only to discipline me, but also cast away bad luck, not to mention that it’d accumulate merit for the whole family.”
“But, Shifu”-I scrutinized her-“I don’t see any mischief in you, not at all.”
“But that was what my grandmother thought.”
“For example?”
“I once rubbed our cat’s fur backward and pinched his tail.”
I laughed.
My friend continued: “Another time I forgot to feed our pigeon so it died, its insides eaten away by mice, leaving a hollow shell. When my grandmother saw the dried-up bird, she hit me and screamed, ‘Bad luck, a big black hole!’”
We laughed at this, then I asked, “Did your mother miss you?”
“Oh yes, she did, very much. When I was small, she visited me in the temple all the time, sometimes even stayed with me overnight without letting the nuns know. Then two years ago when I was fifteen, with my mother’s consent, they shaved my head to become a nun.”
After she’d finished her story, we remained silent. Then a question slipped out of my lips before I could stop myself. “Shifu, did you ever have a boyfriend?”
“Of course not!”
I studied her smooth skin, oval face, and large, curious eyes. “Do you ever…regret that?”
She seemed lost for an answer.
“I’m sorry, Shifu. Maybe I shouldn’t have asked such a secular question.”
“It’s all right. You’re a nice person, Miss Du. I don’t mind.” She paused. “Well, I suppose my answer is, I…I…have no idea.”
That made sense.
“Hmmm, maybe I…” She bit her lip. “I really don’t know.” Then she added, her face flushed like a tomato, “Oh heavens, Yi Kong Shifu hoped I’d persuade you to take refuge, and now see how I failed!”
Did she? But knowing Yi Kong’s unyielding personality, I shouldn’t be surprised. Now I suddenly realized that letting me see the Golden Body and sending me here were to lure me back to the empty gate! She even wanted me to donate Michael’s engagement ring to her temple!
Although she’d never imposed, Yi Kong’s wish that I would be a nun in her temple was as clear as the twelve scars atop her bald head. As a nun she couldn’t openly object to my falling in love and getting married, yet even here, over eight hundred miles from the Golden Lotus Temple, I could feel her pull, persistent as ever, toward the empty gate. She would think of it as compassion; she didn’t want me to fall into the burning hell of human infatuation.
That’s why “form is emptiness” was Yi Kong’s favorite quote from the Heart Sutra. For, she taught, human passion, like all other forms on earth, will eventually turn into emptiness. When we see that all human suffering is caused by the impermanence of form, we are led to develop compassion. And for her, compassion was the most important thing in life-not shallow passion, like romantic love.
Maybe we can cultivate emptiness, but still live in the world of form. Maybe even have a boyfriend. Or maybe, after all, I didn’t have to be a nun to be a nun.
Now I looked at Enlightened to Emptiness and remembered what it was like to be with Michael, to be kissed by him, to feel his warmth when I lay next to him in bed. Yes, no matter how our future would turn out to be, it’s fortunate to have, at least once, a man in your life.
Then I ventured another question. “Shifu, do you like being a nun?”
“Yes, this is the only life I know.” She smiled, then added, “But sometimes I also feel fed up with all the rules.”
“Such as?”
She started to recite quickly. “We can’t eat food in overly large mouthfuls. We shouldn’t open our mouths when the morsel has not arrived. We can’t eat food making the susasu, thutyut, and phuphphuph sound.”
When I started to laugh again, she said, “Wait, Miss Du, I haven’t finished. We, not being ill, will not make excrement, urine, phlegm, or snot on green grass.”
Then we collapsed in laughter.
32. The Elevator
Around two-thirty in the afternoon, Enlightened to Emptiness and I said good-bye to each other and Little Lam drove her to the airport. After that, I bid farewell to all the nuns and took a taxi back to the city.
A few hours later, I arrived at the Chengdu Golden Cow hotel. Although the pillars and moldings were all painted gold to match its title, the hotel was an eyesore. Loud and cigarette-dangling-from-lips men were talking with violent hand gestures. Exhausted mothers were yelling to their kids to behave. Shabbily uniformed staff walked around slack-mouthed, grunting…
As I was hauling my luggage toward the counter, to my utter shock, I saw a familiar face appearing and disappearing among milling people.
Michael? I couldn’t believe my eyes. Could it be Michael right here in Chengdu, in China, in front of my eyes? Or was it a hallucination?
Then Michael’s tired face and gaunt body were quickly approaching me.
“Meng Ning!” he screamed. A few people threw him curious glances.
“Michael, is that you?!” It was now my turn to scream back.
Suddenly Michael was standing in front of me. A long silence. Then he said, trying very hard to suppress his voice and seemingly rising anger, “Meng Ning, why did you just shut me out like this? Do you have any idea how much I worried about you? My heart is torn when I think of the danger you might have encountered in China -all alone in the middle of nowhere!”
Now a small group of people started to gather around to watch this free drama between a Chinese woman and an American barbarian in a cheap hotel in this Heavenly Capital-Chengdu.
“Michael, please, people are watching. Let’s talk later after we’ve gotten a room. Please…”
“Fuck these people! I don’t care about them, I only care about you! Haven’t you realized that? If I hadn’t asked your mother, I’d have never found out where you are. How can you do this to me?”
“Michael, please, I’m so sorry, so terribly sorry…please lower your voice and…can we talk later?” I was scared and pleading. I’d never seen Michael so angry before.
He demanded, “Then answer me!”
My voice came out like a wounded animal’s. “I…just wanted some time to think things over.”
“Then have you finished yet?”
“Forgive me, Michael. I’m so sorry. Please…”
After some time, he finally emitted a soft, “All right,” then pulled me to him to plant a kiss on my forehead.
The crowd applauded and cheered.
A middle-aged woman split a big smile, while quoting a popular Chinese proverb. “Yes, when a family is harmonious, ten thousand things will be prosperous!”
A cigarette dangling between yellowish teeth, a young man echoed with another popular saying-“Yes, fighting at the head of the bed and making up at its foot!”-to another loud round of applause.
Michael cast the onlookers angry glances, then turned back to me. “Are these people making fun of me?”
“No, Michael, they’re happy that we stopped fighting! Please, let’s go.”
In silence, we lugged our bags to the counter, behind which sat a man in a navy blue uniform and a fortyish woman.
I said, “My name is Du Meng Ning, and I have reserved a room.”
The man stared hard at me, then Michael. “Are you
two going to stay in separate rooms?”
I turned to translate to Michael.
He looked pained. “Now, are you saying that after I flew all the way across the Pacific to see you, you want to stay in a separate room?”
“No, that’s not what I mean. I’m just translating his question.”
“All right, then tell him that not only are we staying in the same room, but also the same bed.” Of course I left out “the same bed.”
I said to the man, feeling ill at ease, “He’s staying with me in the same room.”
The guy’s malicious small eyes ping-ponged between me and Michael. “You’re married?”
Sensing that there might be trouble coming up, I again translated our conversation to Michael.
He frowned. “Tell him that we are husband and wife.”
“But-”
“Just tell him, Meng Ning.”
I turned to the man. “Yes, we’re married.”
His response came as a surprise. “Then show me your marriage certificate.”
I translated that to Michael. “Marriage certificate?” He looked very upset. “Tell him we don’t have it with us.”
I told the guy. Face hardened, he put on an authoritative air and said, “Then you have to stay in separate rooms.”
“But we’re husband and wife.” My voice sounded unconvincing even to my own ears.
Without losing a beat, he shot back, “Then prove it.”
“I’ve told you that we don’t have it here.”
“Then where is it?”
“Back in the United States.”
“Then why are you not traveling with your American passport but with your Hong Kong Entry Permit?”
“Because I haven’t gotten my passport yet. My husband and I have just been married for a few months.”
We kept arguing back and forth like this for a while before I translated everything to Michael.
To my utter shock, he lost his temper. Face flushed and eyes intent, he yelled at the man in English, thrusting his open hand toward him. “Listen, I’m not going to put up with this bullshit anymore-just give us the damn key!”
I didn’t think the guy understood English, but the yelling worked. With a look of humiliation he handed Michael the key.
Then, when we were walking toward the elevator, I heard him complain to the woman next to him. “It’s not my problem if the police come around here tonight and she fails to show their marriage certificate. And don’t blame me if they stamp ‘prostitute’ on her reentry permit.”
“Old Zhang”-the woman chuckled-“don’t forget she’s with an American, so, believe me, the police won’t give them any trouble.”
Walking toward the elevator, I imagined all eyes were upon us, as if on my forehead were engraved two large characters: jinu-prostitute; and on Michael’s the characters laofan-old barbarian.
As the elevator door closed, cutting off the piercing gazes, a sense of safety immediately flooded the confined area. In this temporary refuge, we listened to the elevator’s humming and felt its rising momentum to the fifteenth floor.
“Meng Ning.” Michael reached toward me, his tone now soft. “Aren’t you happy that I flew all the way to see you?”
“Of course I am.” I looked at his sad face and felt a surge of love swelling inside.
“But you don’t act that way.”
“Because I still haven’t gotten over the shock of suddenly seeing your face here.”
“It’s because you never called to let me know where you were. Please think more about me. Meng Ning, if you’re really happy to see me, then show it-”
Before he could finish, a screeching sound slashed the air and swallowed his words. Then everything went black. I felt my heart leap into my throat as if I were plunging down a precipice. But I quickly realized it was the elevator plunging.
I grabbed onto the rail and fervently prayed, “Guan Yin, now please hear our sounds and come to help!”
Memories of my fall into the well flashed across my mind.
Would I die this time? Or would I miraculously survive, as I had seventeen years ago? While silently praying to the Goddess of Mercy, I heard myself blurt out, “Michael?” and I reached for him, still holding the rail with my other arm.
Then I was knocked off my feet by a strong jolt.
Fate plays games with mortals. I’d survived the well, and now this! This would be the end of everything, nun or not nun, married or single, empty gate or dusty world. I was going to die. I was dying, and Michael…Oh, Michael!
But the elevator had only jolted to a stop, and I didn’t die. Silence roamed tortuously through the dark, expansive confine.
I tried to reach for Michael, but my hand touched only emptiness.
“You OK, Michael?”
“You OK, Meng Ning?” Our voices sounded simultaneously in the dark.
Then his voice, now pained, arose in the eerie obscurity. “I fell. My leg hurts terribly… Meng Ning, I can’t see you at all!”
This was the first time that I sensed fear in him.
I groped in the dark for a few seconds before feeling his body. He grabbed my hand. Though I tried to help him up, he seemed glued to the floor.
“I don’t think I can get up. My leg hurts too much.”
I knelt down beside him and put my arms around his shoulders.
“My leg…” He sounded very upset. “Damn, they may not even realize that we’re trapped here.”
“I’m sure those people at the counter will get us out,” I said, surprised by the sudden calmness descending on me. Seconds later, my hands started to bang on the door.
Michael joined in the banging, but feebly. I told him to save his energy and kept banging until my hands hurt. But nothing happened; we were again engulfed in a dark, ominous silence.
“Michael, let’s just wait. This is a hotel-sooner or later someone is going to use the elevator.”
“All right,” Michael said, sounding dejected, then, “Meng Ning, please hold me.”
As I reached to embrace him, a tenderness rose in me, a different sort of tenderness than I’d felt with him before. I held Michael gently, aware of his neediness and feeling warmth grow in my heart and, to my surprise, between my legs. These were feelings I’d never considered-or even knew existed-when contemplating a life inside the empty gate.
In the darkness I smelled his scent of sweat and cologne; felt the texture of his cotton shirt, his warm breath.
I nestled his head tighter against my chest. His heart felt strong-but also vulnerable-beating here with me in the dark. A feeling of deep karmic connection with Michael rippled through me.
I thought of the phrase xinxin xiangyin, two hearts merge in one. I had known this Buddhist saying, but it had not meant much to me. And another that I had heard only recently, the fortune-teller’s saying: With absolute sincerity, even metal and stone can be opened.
It was as if the moon, pure and luminous, slowly emerged from behind a cloud to light up the dark earth. I’d fallen in the well and fallen in love with Guan Yin; now, in a shabby elevator in a cheap hotel in China, I fell in love all over again-with a man. This fall, like the earlier one, had somehow pacified my mind. In Zen it might take a blow with the master’s stick to trigger insight. For me it had taken two steep falls.
I’d never imagined that Zen would lead me to a life with one of the species called “man,” which I’d so despised. I’d recognized my need for people, but I hadn’t realized being needed myself. Just as Yi Kong was needed by her disciples inside the empty gate. Which, however empty, was still built upon the same ground of this dusty world.
“Don’t let go of me, Meng Ning, please. Ever. You’re all I have in life,” Michael said, his voice much calmer now.
I touched his cheek. “I won’t.” Then I teased, “Though, as a Buddhist, I should Let-Go-and-Be-Carefree.” Let-Go-and-Be-Carefree was Michael’s Buddhist name.
He let out a nervous laugh.
I asked, “Ho
w’s your leg?”
“It doesn’t hurt as much now. With China ’s five thousand years of history, how long do you think it will take before someone will rescue us?”
Just then the light was snapped on and mingled voices were heard from above. “Hey, are you people all right in there?”
I yelled back in Mandarin, “Couldn’t be better!”
I looked at my watch. We were only trapped in the elevator for seven minutes. But it already felt like a whole incarnation.
As soon as Michael closed the hotel room door behind us, he hugged me. He held me so tightly it seemed as if he were trying to squeeze out anything that might be between us. The world around us seemed to fall away slowly, leaving only him and me in the cocoon of this dilapidated hotel. We clung and kissed for what seemed an entire incarnation until he finally released me.
He said, “Meng Ning, are you happy to see me?”
I touched his hollow face as my heart swelled with pain. “Of course.”
“Promise me you’ll never run away from me again.”
“Michael, I’m so sorry.” Then I lied: “I did try to call you from a public phone, but it just never connected.”
“All right.”
Some silence, then I asked, “Michael, how’s your leg?”
“It’s a bit sore, but I think it’s no big deal.”
“Then let’s go eat. I’m hungry.”
“But I have my dim sum…right here,” he said as he picked me up and carried me to the bed.
“Michael,” I protested, “they might hear.”
But he ignored what I said.
33. The PeachBlossomGarden
The next morning, after breakfast, Michael suggested we visit the famous Le Mountain to see the big Buddha-to pray to him to bless our reunion in China.
The taxi ride toward Leshan was bumpy and dusty, as expected. Michael stared out the window, seemingly entranced.
“There’s really not much to see, Michael.”
“I don’t care; I just want to see China.”
His enthusiasm pleased me.
Some silence, then Michael suddenly pointed out of the window. “Here’s something. Meng Ning, look-maybe it’s a temple.”