All About the D

by Lex Martin

  So he gripped my ass, and thrusted faster and harder. Harder was okay with me, but it didn’t hit the right spots. And I wasn’t sure that I could guide him to the right spots if he asked. I made the decision, then, to just get this over with. Not only the sex but also the relationship. It was a relationship with a little "r" anyway, not a big "R." I could kick him out right now, but that was kind of a shit maneuver. I mean, I invited him here to do this. I wanted to try it. This wasn’t my first time in bed with a man. But right now, I didn’t have the energy to talk with him and tell him what I wanted. I didn’t want to explore. I didn’t want to communicate. I just wanted to be over and done with this night.

  My mind wandered. I was bored and distracted. I knew that I was supposed to be into it—all consumed, all lust and climaxing and shit like that. But no, as he moved, I looked at the ceiling of my 1927 Santa Barbara adobe, darkening in the dusky sky. I noticed patterns in the white plaster. The room was getting really dark. I never had sex in the full light because I didn’t want any questions about my scars. Yet another reason why I put this off. I exhaled.

  What’s on TV later?

  One of the channels was having a Harry Potter marathon.

  I wish I’d gone to Hogwarts instead of law school.

  Wait. Focus. Sex. We're having sex. I was doing it with Paul. He was cute and nice. He had lovely, soft skin and a shy smile. And he was an accountant.

  Okay, so he was bad in bed.

  Really bad.

  Whoever said that sex was like pizza—even when it's bad, it's good—was a big fat liar. There was such a thing as bad sex. And bad pizza. I ought to know. I swear, if a man could make me orgasm—even if I had to break my Rules and do it myself—I’d stay with him for life.

  At this point, I didn’t think that I could turn this into good, or even slightly pleasant sex, nor did I want to. It was all my fault for being a closet romantic.

  Don’t ask me where I’d got it, but I had this impression that accountants were really bad boys who secretly rode Harleys on weekends, with, well, a naughty side, which would be unleashed once they got an erection. Not Paul. He was sweet, but not passionate. Kind, but socially and emotionally clueless. He seemed genuinely perplexed by me and my sense of humor. I’d caught him looking at me like he couldn’t quite figure me out. He was good looking, but bland. Not particularly small, but not particularly big—in every way that you could imagine. He dressed well, but not flashy. He had a nice car, but not too nice. He listened. He was polite. He treated me nicely.

  But there was no spark. My heart didn’t beat harder when I saw him. I’d finally figured out that he wasn’t hard to figure out: there was just no romantic, secret, passionate side to Paul the accountant.

  The bottom line was, he liked taxes. Well, he liked figuring out how to get away with legally not paying taxes, and telling me about it in intricate detail. That was his passion. Sex? Not so much. I’m a lawyer, and I love me a loophole, but give me a break.

  I’d thought this through logically: he was a guy, so he must like sex, and getting him naked would allow me to find out how much he liked sex, and maybe get an orgasm that wasn’t an expensive powdered blush. But now that I was experiencing the naked side of Paul, I’d found out that fucking wasn’t his strong point.

  Wait. I didn’t "fuck." I "had sex." Or "made love." Or "got busy." I was too classy to fuck. It was against my Rules. Well, whatever. He was better at preparing 1040s.

  But he was also safe. There was no chance of him finding out about my Rules and therefore breaking them, because he didn’t question me when I asked to do it missionary. He just strapped on the condom and started thrusting. That was a relief.

  I think.

  In case you were wondering, these are my Rules:

  1. No sex in the daylight. Or any type of light.

  2. No masturbation.

  3. No doggy style.

  4. No oral sex.

  5. No submission. I am always in control.

  6. No toys.

  7. No spending the night, so I never do the walk of shame. And no one spends the night at my place.

  8. Nothing demeaning.

  9. No dirty talk.

  10. I don’t call it "fucking." I only "make love."

  And anal didn’t even need to be on the list because it wasn’t even a consideration. Not in my world.

  Yeah. I really am a princess with a stick up my ass, and yeah, I know that sometimes I say one thing and then do another. Deal with it.

  Paul maneuvered faster now. Bless him. He was trying. But nope. Television was better. The stars weren’t aligning. I wasn’t going to come. The Prozac still messed with me and apparently, it had stolen my orgasm.

  I noted yet another pattern on the plastered ceiling, now barely visible in the fully darkened room.

  And he was really moving. It wasn’t painful or anything. I liked the guy. But he just wasn’t doing it for me. Nope. So …

  What was on TV?

  Focus, girl, focus.

  Better fake it to get it over with.

  "Oh God. Oh God. Paul. Paul!" I clenched my vaginal muscles, took a big breath, and then let the air noisily out.

  He thrusted, sped up, and then stilled, pumping a release into the too-big condom. After a bit, he hugged me, kissed my forehead and rolled over, tracing my arm with his fingertip.

  Maybe he’d leave soon, and I could rewatch Order of the Phoenix.

  Thank God that was over. He looked pleased, though. I'd have to let him down easy. Tomorrow.

  ***

  The next afternoon I made it to my weekly appointment.

  "When do you feel sexy?" my therapist asked.

  "Never."

  "Never?"

  I nodded. "I'm not supposed to feel sexy. I want to feel pretty. Or hot. But not sexy. And most of the time I just feel fat. There's this lump here, on my belly, that's just not going away." She ignored my attempt to body shame myself, and went straight to the point.

  "We'll set aside the issue of whether you are 'supposed to' do anything or not do anything for now. But using your words, why do you think you're not supposed to feel sexy?"

  "I don't know what I'm supposed to feel or not feel anymore," I snapped. "But yes, I'm not supposed to feel sexy."

  Yes, I’m weird. My belief is completely at odds with marketing today. Nowadays, everything’s sex; I’m supposed go around feeling sexy since I’m a modern, enlightened woman. And it’s true: I’m no virgin. I want my orgasm.

  But somehow along the way, like a lot of us, I'd come to believe that sex, pleasure, and feeling good were all wrong. I felt guilty about sex, even though that was embarrassing to admit at my age. I was raised Irish-Catholic and taught to believe that anything pleasurable was bad. I had also learned that a woman was not supposed to be openly sexual. When that belief was ingrained in you, it was hard to believe anything else. If it felt good, it must be bad.

  Really, it’s part of the stern, cultural tradition of prudish sexual morality in America. I could blame it on the Puritans. But since they've been fucking gone for centuries—at least the kind with buckled shoes—I wasn’t sure who to blame for my personal pathological repression.

  How do you reconcile the fact that we’re sexual beings with our mixed up cultural norms? And how do you do it on a personal level?

  I did it by establishing my Rules. I gave my body sex but only on limited conditions. It worked.

  Sort of.

  Okay, it didn’t.

  After my experiences the past year, I was seriously considering revising these Rules. Indeed, after my sessions with my therapist, I now thought that this was a key part of the cause of my depression: denying myself pleasure. The thing was, when I really thought about it, what was wrong with sex? It's natural, biological. I didn't want to get a disease, or get physically or emotionally hurt. But after wanting to have sex, but only under certain conditions, for so long, I couldn’t help but feel that I needed to change something.

 
; "It's okay to have that feeling, you know?" said my therapist with a smile. "You don't have to like sex."

  "But I think I want to," I said in a quiet voice.

  "Then let's try something. I'm going to give you some homework. Do a few things to make yourself feel sexy. Make a list and do it. Buy some incredible lingerie. Get a Brazilian. Buy a vibrator. Read a romance novel."

  "I don't read trash."

  "The greatest way to turn on a woman is through her mind," my therapist said firmly. "I'll give you a list of books to check out. That's what e-readers are for—so you don't have to go to the store and deal with walking to the register holding a book with a half-naked man or woman on the cover. Look, I understand you may feel uncomfortable about this, but I can assure you that it's part of healthy sexuality. Just try it and be open."

  Healthy sexuality. Now there was a concept. I was almost giggling with glee. What would happen if I tried it? After so much therapy, I had broken through so many barriers and allowed myself to get out of a very bad place. But this was the final frontier. Giving myself permission to enjoy sex, huh? That could be good.

  It was funny how quickly I dropped my defenses about this. Thirty-one years old now, I had lost my virginity when I was eighteen. That was a long time of simultaneously wanting to have sex and feeling bad about it. But now that I’d thought about it logically, I really wanted to engage in pleasure. I bet my brain would feel so good with an orgasm. I was ready to dial in.

  "I'll do it," I pledged.

  Available on Amazon.

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  Each book in the Giving You … series can be read as a standalone. Warning, mature content.

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  The Ground Beneath Our Feet

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  Lumbersexual (winner, 1st place in Romance, Summer Indie Book Awards 2016)

  Maggie Washington has always been the fling or the friend. Court Thompson is a gorgeous (and bearded) forest ranger with a love-em and leave-em reputation. When he shows interest in her, she’s torn. Even though she's flattered by his attention, she doubts his sincerity—and her ability to get out of the friend-zone. Will Court be able to coax Maggie into trusting him that he's for real? Or after a summer of s'mores and skinny dipping, will he let her down like everybody else?

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  Acknowledgments

  To our husbands, who appreciate our mischief and mayhem. Our guys are fucking awesome and the reason we have time to devote to writing. To our children, may you never read our books. We love you but no.

  Many thanks to Wong Sim for the gorgeous cover photo; Najla Qamber for the stunning design; RJ Locksley for squeezing us into her editing schedule; Cassy Roop for formatting our gorgeous paperbacks; and Amanda Maria and Jerica MacMillan for proofing.

  There’s an actual person who inspired our story, and you can find him on his blog, Things My Dick Does. “Simon” also graciously provided some pics for our teasers. His blog is endlessly entertaining and incredibly NSFW! It’s addictive, so pace yourself. Simon, thanks for being our inspiration. Josh and Evie are completely fictional, but we appreciate your trust in us. We love you.

  That sexy guy on our cover is Mitchell Wick. Go stalk him on Instagram. He’s a sweetheart and rocks an Aussie accent like nobody’s business. Prepare yourself to crush hard.

  We have a small army of friends who helped us on this tandem project. Thanks to Kimberly Brower, Lex’s agent extraordinaire; Whitney Barbetti, KL Grayson, and Stacy Kestwick, our critique partners, who kicked our asses in the best way; and Becca Hensley Mysoor, Becky Grover, Kristy Lin Billuni, Mary Carr, Temitope Awofeso, Deb Markanton, and Selena Lanovara-Scott, our amazing beta readers. Huge hugs also go out to Angela Rodriguez, Lex’s life-long BFF, who let us borrow her first name and keeps Lex’s embarrassing childhood secrets safe; Cory Stierley, Erin Remaley, and Taylor Lotre, for all-around awesomeness; Heather Roberts, for being Leslie’s spirit animal; Serena McDonald, for general bad-assery, magical gifs, and friendship; Doris Gray, Jullie Anne Caparas, and the girls in Tribe & FTN, for their incredible support; and Nelson Wells, for his mad tech skills.

  Our darlings in Wildcats and Southwinds, we love you and couldn’t do this without you.

  Bloggers, thank you for posting our teasers and taking the time to read and review. You rock our world.

  Readers, we hope you enjoyed Josh and Evie’s story! Thanks for taking this journey with us. Stay tuned for Drew and Kendall’s book.

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  Lex & Leslie

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