Masturbation: Jean Stengers and Anne Van Neck, Masturbation: The History of a Great Terror (New York: St. Martin’s Press, 2001). The quotes from the below two books are taken from the book above: Thomas of Cantimpré, Bonum Universale de Apibus; Samuel-August Tissot, Onanism.
Gail Dines quote: Gail Dines, Pornland: How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality (New York: Beacon, 2011).
Pornography and intimacy: M. Popovic, “Pornography Use and Closeness with Others in Men,” Archives of Sexual Behavior 40.2 (2011): 449–56.
Pornography and preexisting beliefs: Paul J. Wright, “A Three-Wave Longitudinal Analysis of Preexisting Beliefs, Exposure to Pornography, and Attitude Change,” Communication Reports 26.1 (2013): 13–25.
Pornography and sexual development: Fabien Saleh, Albert Grudzinskas Jr., Abigail Judge, Adolescent Sexual Behavior in the Digital Age: Considersations for Clinicians, Legal Professionals and Educators (Oxford, UK: Oxford University Press, 2014).
My Little Pony pornography: “My Little Porny: MLP Searches on Pornhub,” July 22, 2015, www.pornhub.com/insights/pornhub-my-little-pony.
“After that came”: Izabella St. James, Bunny Tales (New York: Running Press, 2009).
Pornography and erotica: Christine Cabrera and Amy Dana Menard, “ ‘She Exploded into a Million Pieces’: A Qualitative and Quantitative Analysis of Orgasms in Contemporary Romance Novels,” Sexuality and Culture 17.2 (2012).
Diogenes in the marketplace: Diogenes Laertius, The Lives and Opinions of Ancient Philosophers, trans. C.D. Yonge (London: Haddon and Sons, 1853).
Dworkin “limp penis” and “patriarchy” quotes: Andrea Dworkin, “Remembering the Witches,” Our Blood—Prophecies and Discourses on Sexual Politics (London: Women’s Press, 1982).
FIVE Against Outrage
Carol Hanisch quote: Carol Hanisch, “The Personal Is Political,” Notes from the Second Year: Women’s Liberation (New York: Radical Feminism, 1970).
DiFranco quotes: Hilary Crosley Coker, “Ani DiFranco Issues a Real Apology for Plantation Event,” www.jezebel.com/ani-difranco-issues-a-real-apology-for-plantation-event-1493226658, January 14, 2014.
SIX The Boys’ Crisis, The Girls’ Crisis
ADHD diagnosis: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, “New Data: Medication and Behavior Treatment,” Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), updated March 15, 2016, www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/adhd/data.html.
Boys’ crisis in academics: Louann Brizendine, The Male Brain (New York: Broadway Books, 2010); J. Lee, W. Grigg, and P. Donahue, “The Nation’s Report Card: Reading 2007, NCES 2007-496, 2007” (Washington, DC: U.S. Department of Education, National Center for Education Statistics, Institute of Education Sciences, 2007), table A-17; Michael Reichert and Richard Hawley, Reaching Boys, Teaching Boys: Strategies That Work—and Why (New York: Jossey Bass, 2010); National Center for Education Statistics, “Number of Students Suspended and Expelled from Public Elementary and Secondary Schools, by Sex, Race/Ethnicity, and State: 2006,” table 169, http://nces.ed.gov/programs/digest/d10/tables/dt10_169.asp; National Center for Education Statistics, Thomas D. Snyder and Sally A. Dillow, Digest of Education Statistics 2010, NCES 2011-015 (Washington, DC: U.S. Department of Education, 2011), chapter 3, http://nces.ed.gov/pubs2011/2011015_3a.pdf.
Michael Kimmel quote: Michael Kimmel, “Solving the ‘Boy Crisis,’ ” Huffington Post, April 30, 2013. www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-kimmel/solving-the-boy-crisis-in_b_3126379.html.
Studies of gender differences: Bobbi J. Carothers and Harry T. Reis, “Men and Women Are from Earth: Examining the Latent Structure of Gender,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, advance online publication, October 22, 2012, www.psych.rochester.edu/people/reis_harry/assets/pdf/CarothersReis_2012.pdf; Madhura Ingalhalikar, Alex Smith, Drew Parker, Theodore D. Satterthwaite, Mark A. Elliott, Kosha Ruparel, Hakon Hakonarson, Raquel E. Gur, Ruben C. Gur, and Ragini Verma, “Sex Differences in the Structural Connectome of the Human Brain,” in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, ed. Charles Gross (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 2013).
Judith Butler quotes: Judith Butler, “Bodily Inscriptions, Performative Subversions,” in Feminist Theory and the Body: A Reader (New York: Routledge, 1999); Judith Butler, Bodies That Matter (New York: Routledge, 1993).
Storm’s gender: Jayme Poisson, “Parents Keep Child’s Gender Secret,” Toronto Star, May 21, 2011, www.thestar.com/life/parent/2011/05/21/parents_keep_childs_gender_secret.html.
Korean schools study: H. Park, J. R. Behrman, and J. Choi, “Causal Effects of Single-Sex Schools on College Entrance Exams and College Attendance: Random Assignment in Seoul High Schools,” Demography 50.2 (2013): 447–69.
Toy preference: Gerianne Alexander and Melissa Hines, “Sex Differences in Response to Children’s Toys in Nonhuman Primates (Cercopithecus aethiops sabaeus),” Evolution and Human Behavior 23.6 (2002): 467–79; J. M. Hassett, E. R. Siebert, and K. Wallen, “Sex Differences in Rhesus Monkey Toy Preferences Parallel Those of Children,” Hormones and Behavior 54.3 (2008): 359–64.
SEVEN The Case for Living in Filth
Arlie Hochschild quote: Arlie Hochschild, The Second Shift: Working Families and the Revolution at Home (New York: Penguin, 2012).
Male and female housework participation: Judith Treas and Sonja Drobnic, eds., Dividing the Domestic: Men, Women, and Household Work in Cross-National Perspective (Stanford, CA: Stanford University Press, 2010); Man Yee Kan, “Measuring Housework Participation: The Gap between ‘Stylised’ Questionnaire Estimates and Diary-based Estimates,” Social Indicators Research 86.3 (2008): 381–400; S. Lee and J. Waite, “Husbands’ and Wives’ Time Spent on Housework: A Comparison of Measures,” Journal of Marriage and Family 67.32 (2005): 328–36.
Defining housework: Katherine Ashenburg, The Dirt on Clean (Toronto: Vintage, 2008); Margrit Eichler and Patrizia Albanese, “What Is Household Work? A Critique of Assumptions Underlying Empirical Studies of Housework and an Alternative Approach,” Canadian Journal of Sociology 32.2 (2007): 227–58.
The economic value of housework: Nancy Folbre, “Valuing Domestic Product,” New York Times, May 28, 2012, http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/05/28/valuing-domestic-product/.
Gender stereotypes in housework participation: Daniel Schneider, “Gender Deviance and Household Work: The Role of Occupation,” American Journal of Sociology 117.4 (2012): 1029–72; gender-typed housework: Sabino Kornrich, Julie Brines, and Katrina Leupp, “Egalitarianism, Housework, and Sexual Frequency in Marriage,” American Sociological Review 78.1 (2013): 26–50.
Simone de Beauvoir quote: Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, trans. Constance Borde (New York: Vintage, 2011).
The decline of housework: Angela Davis, “The Approaching Obsolescence of Housework: A Working-Class Perspective,” in Women, Race and Class (London: The Women’s Press, 1981); Gail Collins, “Hillary’s Next Move,” November 10, 2012, New York Times, www.nytimes.com/2012/11/11/opinion/sunday/collins-hillarys-next-move.html?_r=0; study of transgendered men: Carla A. Pfeffer, “ ’Women’s Work?’: Women Partners of Transgender Men Doing Housework and Emotion Work,” Journal of Family and Marriage, February 2010, 72:1, 165–83; Suzanne M. Bianchi, Melissa A. Milkie, Liana C. Sayer, and John P. Robinson, “Is Anyone Doing the Housework? Trends in the Gender Division of Household Labor,” Social Forces 79.1 (2000): 191–228.
EIGHT Messy Hope
Illiad quote: Homer, The Iliad, trans. Robert Fitzgerald (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 1974).
Simone de Beauvoir quote: Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, trans. Constance Borde (New York: Vintage, 2011).
Marriage statistics: D’vera Cohn, “Love and Marriage,” Pew Research Center, February 13, 2013, www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/02/13/love-and-marriage/; Wendy Wang and Kim Parker, “Record Share of Americans Have Never Married,” Pew Research Center, September 24, 2014, www.pewsocialtrends.org/2014/09/24/record-share-of-americans-have-never-married/.
Family closeness: “The Decline of Marriage and Rise of New Families: 1. Executive Summary,” Pew Research Center, November 18, 2010, www.pewsocialtrends.org/2010/11/18/the-decline-of-marriage-and-rise-of-new-families/.
Hegel quote: G. W. F. Hegel, Outlines of the Philosophy of Right, trans. Stephen Houlgate, Oxford World’s Classics (Oxford, UK: Oxford University Press, 2008).
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