by Staci Haines
P.O. Box 881254
San Francisco, CA 94188-1254
(415) 989-7374
www.sfsi.org
The Sex Institute
513 Broadway
New York, NY 10012
(212) 674-7111
Sexuality Information and Education Council of the U.S. (SIECUS)
A national, nonprofit advocacy organization that develops, collects, and disseminates information, promotes comprehensive education about sexuality, and advocates the rights of individuals to make responsible sexual choices.
130 W. 42nd Street, Suite 350
New York, NY 10036-7802
(212) 819-9770
www.siecus.org
[email protected]
The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS)
An international organization dedicated to the advancement of knowledge about sexuality.
P.O. Box 208
Mount Vernon, IA 52314
(319) 895-8407
www.ssc.wisc.edu/ssss/
San Francisco Sex Information
www.sfsi.org
(415) 989-SFSI
Free information and referral switchboard
providing anonymous, accurate, non-
judgmental information about sex.
SkyDancing Tantra International, Inc.
524 San Anselmo Avenue, Suite 133
San Anselmo, CA 94960
(415) 456-7310
www.skydancingtantra.com
Founded by Margot Anand, Sky Dancing
Tantra offers workshops in sexuality and
spirituality for singles and couples
internationally.
Sex Toy Stores and Mail Order Resources
Adam and Eve
Mail-order catalog of toys, videos, and lingerie.
P.O. Box 200
Carrboro, NC 27510
(919) 644-1212
(800) 274-0333
www.aeonline.com
A Woman’s Touch
A feminist retail store of toys, books, and safer sex supplies.
600 Williamson Street
Madison, WI 53703
(608) 250-1928
[email protected]
Blowfish
Mail-order catalog of toys, books, and videos.
2261 Market Street #284
San Francisco, CA 94114-1600
(415) 285-6064
(800) 325-2569
www.blowfish.com
[email protected]
Come Again Erotic Emporium
Store and mail-order catalog of toys, books, and lingerie.
353 E. 53rd Street
New York, NY 10022
(212) 308-9394
Come As You Are
Co-operatively owned store and mail-order catalog of toys and books. Web site features resources on sex and disability.
701 Queen Street West
Toronto, Ontario
Canada M6J 1E6
(416) 504-7934
Condomania
Retail stores and mail-order catalog of
condoms and safer sex supplies.
www.condomania.com
7306 Melrose Avenue
Los Angeles, CA
(213) 933-7865
351 Bleecker Street
New York, NY
(212) 691-9442
Eve’s Garden
Woman-oriented store and catalog of toys, books, and videos.
119 W. 57th Street #420
New York, NY 10019-2383
(212) 757-8651
(800) 848-3837
www.evesgarden.com
[email protected]
Forbidden Fruit
Retail store of condoms, lubes, toys, and fetish wear.
512 Neches
Austin, TX 78701
(512) 487-8358
Good Vibrations
Retail stores and mail-order catalog of books, toys, and videos.
Store:
1210 Valencia Street
San Francisco, CA 94110
(415) 974-8980
Store:
2504 San Pablo Avenue
Berkeley, CA 94702
(510) 841-8987
Mail-order:
938 Howard Street #101
San Francisco, CA 94103
(415) 974-8990
(800) 289-8423
www.goodvibes.com
[email protected]
Grand Opening!
Retail store and mail order catalog of books, toys, and videos.
318 Harvard Street #32, Arcade Building
Coolidge Corner, Brookline, MA 02146
(617) 731-2626
www.grandopening.com
[email protected]
It’s My Pleasure
Feminist retail store of toys, books, and videos.
4258 SE Hawthorne Boulevard
Portland, OR 97215
(503) 236-0505
Passionflower
Retail store.
4 Yosemite Avenue
Oakland, CA 94611
(510) 601-7750
Stormy Leather
Retail store of toys and clothing, specializing in leather and fetish wear.
1158 Howard Street
San Francisco, CA 94103
(415) 626-1672
www.stormyleather.com
[email protected]
Toys in Babeland
Retail store and catalog of toys, books, and videos.
711 E. Pike Street
Seattle, WA 98122
(206) 328-2914
(800) 658-9119
[email protected],
[email protected]
www.babeland.com
94 Rivington Street
New York City, NY 10002
( 212) 375-1701
[email protected]
Womyn’s Ware
Retail store and catalog of toys, books, and fetish gear.
Vancouver, Canada
www.womynsware.com
Xandria Collection
Mail-order catalogs of toys, books, and videos.
165 Valley Drive
Brisbane, CA 94005
(415) 468-3812
(800) 242-282
Index
A
“acting out” abuse;
on other children,
on pets
in S/M
acupuncture
addictions
adrenaline
age play
alcohol use
Alcoholics Anonymous
Allies in Healing
Allione, Tsultrim
anal beads,
anal plug, see butt plug
anal sex
analingus, see rimming
Anand, Margot
anatomy;
female;
male
androgyny,
anger
during sex;
expressed safely
antibacterial soap
antidepressants
anti-Semitism
anus
arousal;
during abuse;
see also orgasm
Art of Sexual Ecstasy, The
B
balls
Bass, Ellen
being present
Best American Erotica
Best Lesbian Erotica
bisexual
bladder,
Blank, Joani,
blindfolds
blood
blow job, see fellatio
blue balls,
Body Electric School
Body Hug exercise
body image
body memories
bondage,
see also S/M
bottom
Bottoming Book, The
boundaries ;
with sex educators;
with therapists
breasts
breathing Bright, Susie butt plug
C
cancer
Cartesian philosophy
celibacy
centering
ceremony
cervical cancer
cervix
chakra
checking out, see dissociation
childhood sexual abuse
childbirth
child development
Chinese texts
chlamydia
choice; see also consent
chod
Christianity
clamydia
class
cleanliness
clitoris
clittickler
clothespins
compassion
come cup
“come hither” motion
communication
condoms;
female;
lambskin
Conrad, Emilie
consent;
communicating;
contradictory feelings;
embodied;
informed;
and S/M
Continuum
coronal ridge
corpus cavernosa
corpus spongiosum
Courage to Heal, The
Crisco
crura
crying
cunnilingus;
and triggers
cyber sex
D
Davis, Laura
dental dams
depression
desire;
complexity of;
contradictions in;
diversity of;
embodied;
exploring one’s own;
and fantasy;
healthy;
troublesome
dildos;
and condoms;
and fellatio;
silicone
disclosing the abuse
dissociation,
healing;
physiology of;
as response to trauma;
returning;
as survival mechanism;
tracking
Diva
Dodson, Betty
domestic violence
douche
drug use
E
Eastern philosophy
edge play
ejaculation;
female
Elders, Joycelan
embodied healing
embodiment practices
emotional flexibility
emotional logic
emotions;
as bodily sensations;
centering;
completing;
contradictory;
stages of;
healing;
“held”
sourcing;
witnesses to
endorphins
enema
erection
Erotic Noire
erotica
Erotica: A Journey into Women’s Sexuality
excitement
exhibitionism
F
fantasies;
gender;
punishment;
rape;
related to abuse
fear;
during sex
feces
Feeding the Triggers exercise
fellatio;
and abuse;
and triggers
feminism
fibroid tumors
finger fucking
fisting
flashbacks
flirting
flogger
food addiction
foreskin
French kissing
G
gay
Genital Healing exercise
genital warts
giving head, see oral sex
gloves
Good Vibrations
Grafenberg, Ernst
grief ;
during sex
G-spot
G-spotter
guilt
gynecological issues and care
H
Hakomi
harness;
thigh
Hartley, Nina
healing, defined
Herman, Judith Lewis
Herotica
herpes
heterosexuality
Hitachi Magic Wand
Hitler, Adolph
HIV
Holocaust survivors,
homosexuality
HPV
Hues
hydrogen peroxide
hysterical paroxysm
I
images of abuse
immune-deficiency disorders
immune system;
emotional,
inner child
integration, defined
International Conference on Somatics
intestine
intimacy ;
building;
as different from sensitivity;
with self
K
Kama Sutra
kegel exercise
King, Serge Kahali
Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex
kissing
Kramer, Joseph
L
labia
labia majora
labia minora
latex;
allergies
leather
lesbians
libido
lingum
Lomi School
longing
loss, see grief
love potions
lubricants ;
oil based;
water based
M
Madonna
making noise
male survivors,
Manning, Michael
Marquis d’clips
martial arts
marriage
Masters and Johnson
masturbation;
compulsive;
as healing tool;
mutual;
sacred;
and triggers
meditation
memories
menstrual, blood;
cycle;
irregularities
Miller, Alice
minimizing
Miraculous Mooshy Massage
mistakes
monogamy
motivations for healing
movement
N
Native American
negotiation;
and choosing partners;
and consent;
and S/M
New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, The
Newman, Felice,
New View of a Woman’s Body, A
nipple clamps
nipples, see breasts
nitrile
nonmonogamy
nutrition
O
Oberlin College,
online support
On Our backs
oral sex,
see also cunnilingus and fellatio
orgasm ;
clitoral;
during abuse;
extended;
multiple;
and penetration;
and S/M;
vaginal
Oster
Our Bodies, Ourselves for the New Century
ovaries
Overeaters Anonymous
Oy of Sex, The
P
pain play, see S/M
pansexual
partners;
honesty;
choosing;
finding;
negotiation;
pressure from;
risk factors;
self-care;
and trigger plan
PC muscle
pelvic pain
Pelvic Rock exercise
penetration;
anal;
and triggers;
vaginal
penis ;
as trigger
perineum
phone sex
&
nbsp; plastic wrap
plateau
play parties
pleasure;
during abuse;
unfamiliar
Pleasure in the Word
political organizing,
political prisoners
polyamory
polyurethane
pornography;
industry;
lesbian;
woman-made
positions
power play, see S/M
pre-come
preorgasmic
prostate gland
psychoanalysis
pubic bone
pubococcygeus muscle, see PC Muscle
PVC
R
race
rage, see anger
Rancho Strozzi Institute
rape
raphe
Recovery Systems Inc.
rectosigmoidal junction
rectum
Reich, Willhelm
relationships
relaxation practices
religious beliefs
reproductive health
resolution
rimming
risk, healthy;
and STDs
risk factors
ritual
role-playing
Rosen Method Bodywork
Royalle, Candida
Rubenfeld Synergy
S
sacred spot, see G-spot
sadomasochism, see S/M
safer sex ;
and communication;
and consent;
eroticizing
safety;
defined;
and dissociation;
internal;
and partner sex;
physical;
and sexual healing;
and S/M
safeword
saliva
San Francisco Sex Information
savior and patient roles
scrotum