Why We Elect Narcissists and Sociopaths- And How We Can Stop!
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
This book is the product of many discussions with many people over
many years. I am especially indebted to my wife, Alice, who has encour-
aged my writing, challenged my
thinking, tolerated my intense preoccupa-
tion with this book, and generously shared her low- conflict lifestyle with me
for over three decades.
I owe a special thanks to my agent, Scott Edelstein, and his wife, Ariella
Tilsen. She gets credit for coming up with the premise of this book after a
discussion they had about the world situation. Scott gets credit for creating
the title and insisting that I was the person who should write this book—and
do it quickly.
I would like to thank Megan Hunter, who cofounded the High Conflict
Institute with me over ten years ago, as well as the speakers and staff who
regularly sharpen my thinking about understanding and managing high-
conflict situations and personalities.
I honor the memory of my parents, Margaret and Roland Eddy, and my
stepmother, Helen Eddy, who gave me an open- minded upbringing, a sense
of service, empathy for others, and excitement about always learning.
The following family and friends gave me very specific and helpful feed-
back: Cathy Eddy, Alice Fichandler, Dennis Doyle, and Norma Mark. I also
appreciate my friends LaRue and Phil Rockhold for providing a wonderful
cabin in the woods for writing some key parts of this book, and Bonnie Elias
and Stewart Kocivar for adding to the inspiration and discussions.
Last, but not least, I want to thank the team at Berrett- Koehler Publish-
ers—and it really is a team. The key diagram of this book in Chapter 3 (4-Way
Voter Split) clicked into place in my mind—and on their whiteboard—when
they had me present my book concepts to the entire office. I especially
appreciate my editor Anna Leinberger for overall guidance; my copyeditor
Rebecca Rider for her very detailed and accurate changes and additions (and
tolerance of my occasional resistance); and Jeevan Sivasubramaniam for his
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always- encouraging editorial supervision. I appreciate the early feedback
from these reviewers of my first draft: Mark Annett, Jill Swenson, Jessa Orluk,
Deborah Nikkel, and Sarah Modlin. I thank Lasell Whipple and Maureen
Forys for their creative (and fun) design, Michael Crowley and Katie Sheehan
for their wise marketing advice (and helping me overcome my marketing hes-
itations), and Chloe Wong and Shabnam Banerjee-McFarland for their work
on the endorsements of the book. And finally, I am excited to work again with