The Truth About Love

by Josephine Hart

  Bishop Fullerton now approaches Mrs. O’Hara. He talks to her. Rather, he talks at her. She simply looks at him. Does he also feel trapped? He steps back from her slightly. I move forwards. Each of us is wrong. She turns away and toward her husband. It’s time to go home. Tom O’Hara guides her away. Mourners separate to make a path for them. Priest and bishop stand aside for them. Their grief takes precedence over the normal hierarchical structure of this community. Murmuring quietly, a procession follows them. Some scatter to left or right to stand by other graves. Eamonn, the bishop’s driver, who takes him to and from my house for our chess evenings, approaches me. Would I like to go with the bishop to the O’Haras’ house? I am uncertain whether this invitation comes from Bishop Fullerton or from the O’Hara family. I decline. I will walk home. Though hours remain this day is over.

  TWO

  It is not true that I discourage visitors from Lake House. It is, however, true that I do not issue invitations. I exclude from this assessment my monthly chess game with Robert Carter and, on separate evenings, with Bishop Fullerton. Since this is a surprisingly formal society I am untroubled by any intrusion by townspeople, other than those who make the three-mile journey for the not necessarily companionable purpose of earning their living.

  There exists between myself and Bridget, my nonresident housekeeper, respect, tolerance, and on her part determination that Irish charm will eventually wear me down and I will, “like all strangers who come here, Mr. Middlehoff, fall in love with the place.” Her use of my name is in its own way an act of intimacy, since I am aware that in the town they simply call me “the German.” As a statement of exclusion this is as accurate as it is definitive. It is one I welcome. I believe I carry with me what every German carries with them, an aura, an emanation. I am German. You know me. I regard myself as under an obligation in this matter. “That this is done shall stand for ever more.” And a day. I am mindful of my responsibility as a member of a cursed tribe. In Ireland there is of course no “te absolvo.” There is, however, little interest in a story of evil that the Irish do not fully believe possible. For had they known the truth, some slight readjustment to their view of their own modern history might have been necessary. The moral demands, even of peripheral images, might have blurred the purity of their ancient vision. However, I continue to appreciate a certain discretion concerning the history of my country that I had not found elsewhere in my exile.

  Though I remain sensible to my inclusion almost two months ago in the congregation of mourners at the funeral of the boy, I do not seek, nor have I been offered, further integration. Robert Carter, whose medical attendance on the day of the accident had been in a sense accidental, has also retreated to the comparatively isolated position of Protestant doctor in an Irish town. My friendship with him, a former Major in the Medical Corps of the British Army, is no doubt mysterious to them. Perhaps they are convinced that it is based solely on a passion for the game of chess, a game for which their temperament renders them wholly unsuited. As I wonder whether my father would agree with this judgement I hear the sound of a car on gravel and, looking from my study window, see Tom O’Hara emerge from his battered Morris Minor like a man who had been trapped too long in a small cupboard and must now carefully test the limbs that had been forced into abnormal contortions. He looks around and then, it seems, straight at me as I stand by the window. I have no alternative but to leave my study and proceed down the long parquet-floored hall towards the dark oak door that separates me from this uninvited guest. I open my heavy door, slowly.

  “Good morning Mr. Middlehoff. I’ve come about the gate.”

  “Good morning Mr. O’Hara.”

  “Good morning Mr. Middlehoff,” he says again. And again, “I’ve come about the gate.”

  The note is abrupt, even peremptory. How am I to respond? This man, whose rather leonine head and large body speak to a slower, calmer nature, is now in a place I recognise and I know the price the terrain exacts. Courtesy, absolute courtesy is now required. It is a balm and today I apply it for my own protection as well as his.

  “Which gate, Mr. O’Hara? Which gate? I’m sorry, Mr. O’Hara, but I do not know to what you refer.”

  “Didn’t your estate manager, Tim, mention it?”

  “No.”

  “I asked him to. You’re sure he didn’t mention it?”

  “I am sure.”

  “Well then I’m sorry. I wouldn’t be here otherwise.”

  “No?”

  “Do you think I would just turn up at a stranger’s house, Mr. Middlehoff? Just turn up here and ask him for a gate? Is that what you think of us? Is that the kind of people you think we are?”

  “I’m sorry, Mr. O’Hara. This a surprising visit and a most surprising request. As for Tim, he is spending a week in Wexford.”

  “In Wexford?”

  “Yes.”

  “Must be the sister then.”

  “Yes.”

  “Well, well! The gate. The one with the helmet on the top. You know the one: it marks the end of Lake Lane. You brought it here. Took down Edmund Pennington’s old wooden gate.”

  “I know the gate, Mr. O’Hara. It marks the perimeter of my land. So indeed I know the gate.”

  “Of course you do. It’s yours! Well, I want to buy it from you.”

  “You wish to purchase my gate from me? Why?”

  “My son, the lad, admired it. Saw it all the time when he waited in the club rowing boat for the island swimmers to be ready. Gazed at it, told me he made up stories about it. Said it was a warrior’s gate because of the carved helmet at the top. He was at that age. Warriors, heroes, you know.”

  And I remember my last conversation with the boy.

  “I know what you mean and may I again, Mr. O’Hara, express my deepest sympathy to you and your family.”

  “Thank you. Thank you. I’m aware it’s a very strange request.”

  “It is, Mr. O’Hara.”

  “I’ve got it in my head no other gate will do.”

  “That is something that often happens. Will you please come in, Mr. O’Hara? Coffee, perhaps?”

  “Coffee? No, but thank you. We’re not great coffee drinkers here. We don’t want stimulants, you see. We want oblivion.”

  They all talk like this. It’s their gift, their armour. Now he begins to pace around my courtyard.

  “Do you mind if I just stay outside? Keep walking? It helps me.”

  “Not at all.”

  It’s a common reaction in extremis. Mostly people walk in circles. They know there is no escape. As if he reads my thoughts he says, “Walking helps me … movement without escape. Sissy, my wife, wants to escape. I don’t think there’s anywhere to escape to. Leaving the place won’t work.”

  “Ireland is full of towns like this, no?”

  “No. Not for us, Mr. Middlehoff”

  “I see.”

  “Let me ask you, Mr. Middlehoff, did it work for you? Leaving the place?”

  “I don’t know yet.”

  “Well I don’t trust the idea. Living close to what is lost, that’s the only way.”

  “Living close to what is lost? I will remember that, Mr. O’Hara.”

  “Isn’t it too late? For you?”

  There it is! The sudden, assumed intimacy. So quick. So unexpected. I have noted this characteristic before in conversations with them. Close, closer. Then the essential distancing. For protection?

  “In what way?”

  “You left the place.”

  “True. But you will not?”

  “No. We will not.”

  “How does your wife feel about that?”

  “How does Sissy feel?”

  “Yes, how does Mrs. O’Hara feel about your decision?”

  “It’s early days. But I think she’s resigned.”

  “Resignation! Ah.”

  “We learn it early here. God’s will.”

  “Resignation, even without the comforts of religion, can be very important.”r />
  “Our religion is not always that comforting.”

  “Is Mrs. O’Hara resigned?”

  “To staying here?”

  “To everything.”

  “It’s her only hope, Mr. Middlehoff. Resignation is her only hope.”

  “Hope in resignation? I will remember that, Mr. O’Hara.”

  “Well now, Mr. Middlehoff, you seem to be paying a lot of attention to my words. Thank you. You’re a most courteous man. I appreciate it. But what I really want is to buy your gate from you. If that sounds rude, I’m sorry. I’m a bit raw at the moment.”

  “I do not consider you at all rude. But I do need to consider your request.”

  I do not wish to say no immediately. He is indeed too raw.

  “You are certain you will stay here? That if I give it to you it will stay with you?”

  I lie, of course, in this false pursuit of truth. Kindness? Perhaps.

  “Yes. We’ll stay. And don’t think I didn’t try to help Sissy in her sudden search for escape to another place. I played fair though I knew she was wrong. I always knew there was no escape from what we have to suffer. I’m not certain anyone here understands exactly what we have been through. The violence of it, you see …”

  “Yes.”

  “I’ve taken her to half the towns in the Province of Leinster. Didn’t take long—there aren’t that many of them. We went on little drives, just looking you know, in the evening or on a Sunday. We even went to the city of Dublin—where I was born.”

  “I did not know that.”

  “Why should you? Anyway, after Dublin, which held too much noise for her and too many noisy memories for me, we tried Tullamore, where she was young once. But as I guessed it would, it reminded her too much of her youth and what was lost. Not youth but everything since youth. Then we went one day all the way down to Tipperary—longer drive, that one. She knew no one in Tipperary and neither did I. Well, I suppose Dr. Sullivan’s son, but that’s another story. We looked at houses from the outside, you know just looking and getting the feel of the place. I’d point out the advantages of each spot. Like I said, I was fair. She was beside me in the front, the other two, Olivia and Daragh, sitting in the back, saying nothing. The whole business was silent apart from, “Look at that one Sissy!” Or, “What do you think of Tipperary?” No response, of course. But what was there to say? There was some idea in her mind that a new place would change, if not everything, then at least something. Help with the memories. That the newness of a scene would make memory fade. But whatever road we drove down it was following behind. Whatever house we looked at along the way—just from the outside they all seemed to be empty. Empty of our lives, which, in the end, was all we had.”

  “I understand.”

  “And Sissy, you see Sissy is so tired. She’s beyond tired, to tell you the truth. Too much loss. She’s in some place where I can’t find the old Sissy.”

  “After a tragedy, many survivors are lost.”

  “Say that again.”

  “After a tragedy, many survivors are lost.”

  “Well now you’ve given me a thought there.”

  “A balance perhaps, Mr. O’Hara. After all you gave me living close to what is lost.”

  “That’s how we exist here: lines from poetry, from prayers, the Bible. Life-lines, handed down. We live in a world of words. So, after a tragedy many survivors are lost! Pretty bleak. But it’s good. Though not very kind in the circumstances, Mr. Middlehoff Or is it a warning you’re giving me?”

  “I would not presume.”

  “Mmm … I know what you’re saying and I’m doing my best.”

  “Forgive me. The line is not specifically aimed at you Mr. O’Hara. It is a line from a book I hope to write.”

  “I heard you’re a writer—but sure we’re all writers here.”

  “You, Mr. O’Hara?”

  “Yes. But like much of the rest of the country I don’t put pen to paper. Too much talk here. But writers, we’re all still writers.”

  “Certainly story-tellers … raconteurs.”

  “Story-tellers? Yes. Raconteurs? No. Makes us sound a bit false.”

  “I’m sorry. I did not mean to offend you.”

  “You didn’t.”

  “No harm done, then? As you say here.”

  “Aha, and where did you pick that up?”

  “I have become, of necessity, a jackdaw? Yes? Of expressions.”

  “And what else have you picked up here?”

  “More than you might imagine.”

  “And tell me, Mr. Middlehoff, are you happy here?”

  “On and off.”

  “Then you’ve learned more than you came with. Which I suppose is the purpose of exile.”

  “So you will stay in this town?”

  “Yes. And in the same house. I’ll be carried out feet first, as we say.”

  “Feet first?”

  “In a coffin, Mr. Middlehoff. Unlike the lad. I want to die at home when my time comes. Even though it’s not been a lucky house for us. Let me ask you this, I’d like your opinion—you’re a knowledgeable man. Do you think houses can break our spirit? Not through evil but through some old sorrow we know nothing about?”

  “Perhaps. Strange things happen to houses. They are invaded. Sometimes their original purpose subverted.”

  “Subverted?”

  “Yes.”

  “Well do you think they were always unlucky? Cursed in some way?”

  “The long history of a house is indeed often thematic … Perhaps … I …”

  “I see that even you’re not certain. We loved that house. Maybe love isn’t enough. We fought so hard to get it years ago. Well, we got it. When God wants to punish us He answers our prayers! Bitter thought. Unlucky houses. Unlucky families. Which comes first, do you think?”

  I note the verbal commas and full stops that are often eccentrically placed in an Irish sentence. Their conversation a tracery of question marks not always positioned to elicit information.

  “I confess, Mr. O’Hara, that I simply do not know.”

  “That’s honest. So, at the end of all this, Mr. Middlehoff, will you sell me the gate?”

  “I don’t know that either, Mr. O’Hara.”

  “I’m aware the gate is valuable. But is it also special to you? Above the value? Is it more than a magnificent gate to you?”

  “Perhaps.”

  “How special?”

  “I’m no longer sure.”

  “So I’ve got a hope then?”

  “Yes. Though I note you do not ask me where the gate has come from.”

  “Its history, you mean? Because you’re German?”

  “Yes. Its history. Because I’m German.”

  “Well, I’m going to take a gamble on that. And the lad had his own dreams, which he wove around that gate, so what ever history the gate had it’s wreathed now in his dreams and it’ll at least be one dream I bought him. And bad luck has had its way with us. Like I said, I need to give him something he loved. Do you understand?”

  “I do.”

  “Good. We have an understanding then?”

  “Yes? Where would you put it? If I agree.”

  “I’m going to put it at the entrance to the back garden, you know, where …”

  “Yes. I know. I have spoken to Dr. Carter …”

  “Dr. Carter did his best—his very best—but I know now what he probably knew then—there was no hope. No hope at all. He’s a fine doctor, Carter. It’s hard for him here, an English Protestant doctor. I’ve never felt that way myself but others do. They leave him to his own practice. It’s good enough, I suppose, there’s quite a number of Anglo-Irish around here. I admire the English in many ways. And we owe them a debt, a great debt. A harsh thing to say to you, Mr. Middlehoff. Though it’s not something we speak about much here, admiration of the English.”

  “I’ve noticed. Dr. Carter is an admirable man.”

  “So is Dr. Sullivan. Sullivan delivered the
lad. Sullivan and matron. I remember the day well, my first son.”

  “A man does not forget that day.”

  “You have a son, Mr. Middlehoff?”

  I hesitate. On this subject I often do. It’s a matter of tense.

  “Yes.”

  “I can see from your face I should go no further.”

  “Thank you.”

  “I must talk to Dr. Carter properly and tell him of my appreciation. I suppose it makes it easier attending these things if you don’t know the person, the body that was before. You both know more than I do about that. I bow my head. I couldn’t do it. Couldn’t look at it.”

  “Of course not. You’re his father.”

  “Dr. Sullivan would have found it very hard as well. Peace time injuries is all he’s had to train on I suppose, the odd tractor disaster. You and Dr. Carter know other things. You’ve seen other sights. In that way you’re linked.”

  “In a way.”

  “But from different sides.”

  “Yes. But it’s the same experience at the time.”

  “And afterwards?”

  “Different. Very different.”

  “Victor and vanquished?”

  “Yes. As you put it.”

  “When they came to try to find—well you know—the lad lost his arm—when they came to try to find what was missing—to bury it with him—I sat on the wooden bench in the other yard way up from the back garden. Ah well, never thought I’d live to say such a line. Nothing was found. And poor Father Dwyer. I’m sure he was praying he’d find nothing. They’re great on the search for truth when the answer is a prayer they know by heart. I sat on the bench on that unimaginable day, sky blue. A sky-blue day, eighty-eight degrees in a country unused to such temperatures, to such fierce light. The whole thing a dream. This can happen, I said to myself. This kind of death. And then I started thinking, what am I going to do with that back garden? Madness! The way the mind works in such circumstances. Foolish, unimportant details.”