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  25. See http://www.supergolfclubs.net/tiger-calls-out-ernie-els-not-a-big-worker-physically/, retrieved May 30, 2012.

  26. See http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/sport/golf/4444156/Ernie-Els-to-celebrate-Open-win-with-Nelson-Mandela.html, retrieved August 20, 2012; and http://www.sbnation.com/golf/2012/7/22/3176267/ernie-els-2012-british-open-speech-video, retrieved August 20, 2012.

  27. See http://www.buzzingolf.co.uk/matchmaker-jesper-parnevik-angry-at-tiger-woods/617, retrieved June 15, 2010; and http://sports.espn.go.com/golf/news/story?id=4924113, retrieved May 12, 2012.

  28. See http://www.snpp.com/episodes/7F23.html, retrieved April 5, 2010.

  29. Ibid.

  30. Why the German language has a word for this concept, and English does not is hard to say. Some languages do (e.g., leedvemaak in Dutch); some don’t (e.g., French).

  31. Ben-Ze’ev (2000); Portmann (2000).

  32. See http://chronicle.com/article/The-Pleasure-of-Seeing-the/125381, retrieved January 12, 2011.

  33. Ibid.

  34. See http://chronicle.com/article/article-content/125621/, retrieved January 12, 2012.

  35. See http://strangebehaviors.wordpress.com/2007/07/12/the-elusive-etymology-of-an-emotion/, retrieved June 27, 2010.

  INDEX

  Note: Page numbers followed by an italicized letter f or n indicate material found in figures or notes. Names in italics indicate fictional characters.

  Abdul, Paula, 95

  Abel, 127–128

  Abraham, F. Murray, 110

  academic misconduct, 76–77

  action/inaction, envy and, 153–154

  adaptive function/benefits. See also evolution

  of compassion, xvii

  of altruistic tendencies, 191n20

  of envy, 132

  of group identity, 42, 148

  of social comparisons, 12–14

  of vengeful urges, xvii, 87

  Aeschylus, 79

  Aesop fable (ant and grasshopper), 83

  African Americans, treatment of, 85–86

  The Age of Empathy (de Waal), xvii

  aggression, envy-triggered, xvii, 133, 138

  Alabama football fans, 36–40

  alcohol/alcoholism, 21–22

  Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland, 85

  Alicke, Mark, 14, 82

  Amadeus (film), 110, 134–138, 211n5

  Ambrosino, Dominic, 69

  American Idol, xv, 93–96. See also reality television

  America’s Next Top Model (television show), 96

  amygdala, 111

  amour propre (self-pride), 5

  “anesthesia of the heart,” 64

  anterior cingulate cortex, 111

  anti-Semitism. See also Hitler, Adolf; Nazis

  envy and, xvi–xvii, 147–151, 218n25

  Epstein on, 219–220n33

  of Hitler, 143–147

  in scapegoating of Jews, 147–151

  Anti-Semitism: Its history and causes (Lazare), 218n25

  antisocial behaviors, 26

  Apaches, 89

  Apollo 13 (film), xiii

  Aquaro, George, 128

  Aquinas, St. Thomas, 70

  Aristotle, 27, 63, 109

  Aronson, Elliot, 119

  Aston, Trevor, 83–84

  Atherton, William, 107

  The Atlanta Journal-Constitution, 19

  attractiveness pairings, 11

  attributional bias. See fundamental attribution error

  Atwater, Lee, 198n28

  Auden, W. H., 88

  Aunt Dahlia, 184

  authority, obedience to, 166–169

  bad, born to be, 51–54

  Baker, James A., III, 163

  Bakker, Jim, 71

  Bataan Death March, 91

  Battle of the Bulge, 157

  Baumeister, Roy, 63–64

  bear, joke about grizzly, xii

  Becker, Ernest, 60–61

  The Belief in a Just World: A Fundamental Delusion (Lerner), 81

  Bellow, Saul, 177

  Bennett, Bill, 74

  Ben-Ze’ev, Aaron, 185, 207n52

  Berga, East Germany, 157

  Bergson, Henri, 64

  Berlin Olympics of 1936, 47

  “the better angels of our nature,” xvii

  “better-than-average effect,” 14–16, 15f, 192n31

  Beyond Revenge: The Evolution of the Forgiveness Instinct (McCullough), xvii

  Bible

  on the theme of envy, 127–129

  on judging others, 163

  on vengeance, 89

  Big Brother (television show), 96

  bin Laden, Osama, 79, 82

  Bonhoeffer, Dietrich, 151–152

  The Book of Virtues (Bennett), 74

  Booker, Sara, xv, 96

  Born to Be Good (Keltner), xvii

  born to be good or bad, 51–54

  Botvinick, Matthew, 41

  Boucher, Katie, 116

  Bradley, Ed, 24–26

  Brady, Tom, 40–41

  Breakfast at Tiffany’s (film), 93

  Brecht, Bertolt, 59

  Bridge of Sighs (Russo), 138–139

  British Open, 182

  Brobdingnagians, 122

  Brooks, Mel, 29

  Brosnan, Sarah, 13, 63

  The Brotherhood of the Disappearing Pants: A Field Guide to Conservative Sex Scandals (book), 73

  Bryant, Paul “Bear,” 36

  Bumfights (DVD series), 25

  Burke, Edmund, 115–116

  Bush, George W., 45

  Bushman, Brad, 63–64

  Buss, David, 12, 132

  Cain, 127–128

  Capone, Al, 55–56

  Capote, Truman, 57–58

  Capra, Frank, 184

  Carlin, George, 16, 21

  Carlsmith, Kevin, 89, 90–91

  Carnegie, Dale, 55–57

  Carraway, Nick, 163

  Cassavetes, John, 68

  Castro, Fidel, 119

  To Catch A Predator, xv, 98–108, 170–172, 223n14. See also reality television

  Chang, Jung, 116

  Chase, Chevy, 1, 119, 163

  cheating, moralizing about, 76–77, 77f

  Cheever, Susan, 21–22, 193n6

  Cheshire Cat, 85

  children

  envy over inequality, 130

  parents experience and, 34–35

  unequal treatment of, 13–14

  unguarded behavior of, 59–61

  Chronicle of Higher Education, 185

  Cialdini, Robert, 57, 75

  Cikara, Mina, 41–42, 151, 153–154

  Civil War, 16, 19, 173–174

  Clutter, Herbert, 57–58, 64

  The Code of the Woosters (Wodehouse), 30–32, 184–185

  Cohen, Alexis, 96

  Cohen, Roger, 157–160

  Cohen, Taya, 42

  Colbert, Stephen, 46

  Cold War, 86

  Columbia Journalism Review, 102

  Columbia University, 36

  Combs, David, 45

  comedians. See superiority theory of humor

  Commando (film), 88

  comparisons with others, 2–4. See also social comparisons

  compassionate responses, xvii

  competition

  in life, xiii

  self-interest in, 52–53

  competitive instincts between groups versus between individuals, 42

  Conspiracy (film), 156

  Coscarelli, Joe, xiv

  Cowell, Simon, 95–96

  Crane, Stephen, 16

  Crowley, Candy, 54

  Crystal, Billy, 33

  Cuddy, Amy, 148

  “culpable control,” 82

  culturally shared standards of deservingness, 68, 79

  Dante, 128

  Dateline NBC, 99–100, 103–104

  “Dead Putting Society” (television show episode), 122

  Democrats/Democratic Party, 45–46, 47f, 54

  De Palma,
Brian, 68

  deserved misfortune. See also justice

  examples of, 68–71

  impersonal satisfaction and, 202n19, 204n4

  of hypocrites, 71–77

  “just desserts,” 69

  pleasure from, xiv, 185–187

  research/studies on, 76–77

  shame and, 48

  Die Hard films, 107

  Diener, Ed, xvii

  A Discourse on Inequality (Rousseau), 5

  The Doctor and the Damned (Haas), 58

  dog behavior, in unequal treatment studies, 13

  Don Giovanni (Mozart), 136

  Dover, Kenneth, 83–84

  downward comparison. See also social comparisons

  antisocial behaviors and, 26

  dark origins of, 24–27

  drunkenness and, 21–22

  experimental evidence of, 6–8

  group identity in, 32

  humor and, 27, 30–32

  in media, 23–24

  passive vs. active, 22, 25, 31

  personal benefits/gain, xii, 111

  as pleasing, 22, 24–26

  reality TV and, xv

  restorative power of, 25

  “safe” targets for, 26

  strategies for, 22–23

  drinking/drunkenness, 21–22

  “drunkenfreude,” 21, 193n6

  Duke University, 37–38, 41

  Dutch soccer fans, 39

  Eastern Kentucky, 91

  Edwards, Jonathan, 70–71

  Eichmann, Adolf, 86, 154–155, 158

  Einstein, Albert, 150–151

  Els, Ernie, 180, 182

  Elster, Jon, 130

  Emmons, Robert, xvii

  empathy

  human capacity for, xvii

  self-interest and, 62–65

  Entertaining (Stewart), 117

  entertainment, humiliation as, xv

  envy

  adaptive function of, 132

  balm/cure for, xvi

  in competitive situations, xiii

  denying feeling of, 126–129

  description of, 109–110

  hostility and, 114–115

  inferiority/hostility in, xii, xvi

  injustice and, 130–134

  of Jews, 147–151, 220n34

  likeability and, 121–122

  motivated action/inaction and, 153–154

  Nazi anti-Semitism and, 143–147, 148, 218n25

  neuroscientific evidence on, 111

  pleasure link, 114

  schadenfreude link, xvi, 113–114 See also schadenfreude and envy

  self-deception and, 129–130

  of Stewart, Martha, 117–119, 122, 123

  tabloids and, 115–116

  transmutation of, 125–139, 137

  as universal emotion, 110

  Envy: The Seven Deadly Sins (Epstein), 144

  Envy Up, Scorn Down: How Status Divides Us (Fiske), 6, 111

  Epstein, Joseph, 144, 150, 219–220n33

  “equalization” of lots, 130

  ESPN, 178–179

  evolution. See also adaptive function/benefits

  altruistic tendencies and, 191n20

  rival group suffering and, 41–42

  self-interest and, 63

  social comparison and, 10–16

  evolutionary psychology, 28–29

  experiments/research

  on consumer schadenfreude, 120

  on “culpable control,” 82

  on dispositional inferences, 170–171

  on envy, 113–114

  on fandom, 39, 41–42

  on hypocrisy and deserved misfortune, 76–77

  on humanizing effect of a pratfall, 119

  on inferiority, 133

  on “just world” belief, 80

  on “minimal group paradigm,” 35–36

  on narcissism, 133–134

  on obedience to authority, 166–169

  on identification in politics, 45–47

  on reality TV watching, 105

  on relative standing/unequal treatment, 12–16, 61–63

  on revenge, 89–91

  on self-esteem, 6–10

  on tabloid press, 116

  on Stereotype Content Model, 151, 153

  extreme circumstances, self-interest in, 57–59

  Eyre, Heidi, 61

  fable (ant and grasshopper), 83

  Facial Justice (Hartley), 5

  failure/success, of others, 61–62

  fairness, justice and, 65

  fans, emotional life of, 36–39

  Farber, Leslie, 153–154

  Faust, 52

  Feather, Norman, 68

  Fenton, Alice, 185–187

  Festinger, Leon, 6

  Fiske, Susan, 6, 41, 111, 148, 151, 153–154

  Fitzgerald, Edward, 131

  Flanders, Ned, xi–xii, 122–123, 183–184

  football fans, 36–40

  forgiveness, instinct for, xvii

  Fort Lauderdale, 81

  Foster, George, 130

  Foundation for Humanity, 69

  Frank, Ann, 86

  Frank, Robert, 12

  “free ride” experiment, 89–90

  Freud, Sigmund, 55, 130, 218n25

  friends, misfortune of, 50–51

  From Here to Eternity (film), 9

  From This Day Forward: Making Your Vows Last a Lifetime (Haggard), 73

  fundamental attribution error, xvii, 165, 169–172, 175, 223n14

  The Fury (film), 68, 69, 88

  Gangnam Style dance, 43

  gain, from others’ misfortune, xii–xiv

  Gandhi, Mahatma, 93

  Gardner, Howard, 52

  Gay, Peter, 47–48, 198n33

  genocide, of Jews, 154–157. See also Jews; Nazis

  Gergen, Ken, 6–7

  Germans, suffering of Jews and, 152. See also Nazis

  Geronimo, 89

  get even, desire to, 105

  Getting Even (Murphy), 87

  Gettysburg, Union victory at, 173

  Ghost Soldiers (Sides), 91–92

  Gilbert, Dan, 89, 170

  Gilbert, Darius, 40

  Gilligan, James, 141

  Glick, Peter, 148–150, 156, 220n34

  glückschmerz, 187

  Goebbels, Propaganda Minister, 152

  Goethe, Johann Wolfgang von, 125

  Goffman, Erving, 95

  Golden Gloves winner, 91

  Golding, William, 59

  Goldman, Lev, 195n39

  golf/golfing spectators, 43–44. See also Woods, Tiger

  Golfweek Magazine, 182

  good or bad, born to be, 51–54

  Google NGram Viewer, xv, xvf

  Goncz, Hungary, 160

  Göring, Hermann, 141

  Grammer, Kelsey, 2

  “grandiose” narcissists, 133–134

  gratification, self-focused, xvii

  Greenson, Ralph, 9

  grizzly bear joke, xii

  group identity. See also outgroups/outgroup antipathy

  “us” versus “them,” 32

  adaptive function of, 42, 148

  in downward comparisons, 32

  group membership, self-esteem and, 34–36

  group psychology, downward comparisons and, 26–27

  Gruner, Charles, 28–30

  Gulliver’s Travels (Swift), 122

  Gusen I, 87

  Haas, Albert, 58–59, 64, 85, 87, 92

  Haggard, Ted, 73–74

  Hahn, James, 43

  Halliday, Jon, 116

  Halliwell, Stephen, 84

  Hamlet (Shakespeare), 92

  Hannibal, Missouri, 112

  Hansen, Chris, 99–101, 103–105, 107

  happiness

  social comparisons and, 5

  understanding, xvii

  Hareli, Shlomo, 121

  Haring, Bernard, 70

  Harrington, Padraig, 180

  Harrison, Brian, 84

  Hartley,
L. P., 5

  Harvard Medical School, 113

  Harvard University, 51–52

  Harvard Yard, 113

  hate crimes, 25

  Hatfields and the McCoys, 91

  Hauer, Mordecai, 157–161

  Hawthorne, Nathaniel, 106

  Heider, Fritz, 130, 131

  Herzog (Bellow), 177

  Hesse, Fritz, 152

  Hewel, Walther, 147

  Heydrich, Reinhard, 154–155

  high-status, adaptive benefits of, 12

  Hill, Grant, 38

  Hill, Sarah, 132

  Hitchens, Christopher, 30

  Hitler, Adolf. See also Nazis

  Battle of the Bulge and, 157

  envy of Jews, 141, 143–147, 219n29

  evolution of anti-Semitism, 143–147, 149, 154, 217n24, 219n29

  Kristallnacht and, 152

  delight over suffering of Jews, 152

  sense of humor of, 217n19

  “solution of the Jewish Problem,” 154

  watching the defeat of German sprinters, 48

  Hobbes, Thomas, 27, 55

  Holocaust/Holocaust survivors, 86–87, 157–161. See also Jews; Nazis

  homeless men, assaults on, 24–26

  Hoogland, Charles, 41

  hostile responses, xvii

  hostility, envy and, xvi, 114–115

  Hotchkiss, Sandy, 134

  How to Win Friends and Influence People (Carnegie), 55

  Howard-Johnston, James, 84

  Howie Do It, 97–98. See also reality television

  Huffington Post, 99

  human motivation, understanding of, 51

  human nature

  children’s behavior, 59–61

  competing sides for, 52

  self-interest and, 54–57

  humiliation

  as public punishment, 106

  in Frasier example, 4

  in reality TV, 23

  sanction of, 108

  “humilitainment”

  appeal of, 94–98

  To Catch A Predator, xv, 98–108, 170–172, 223n14

  as term, xv, 96

  humor

  in downward comparisons, 27, 30–32

  of Hitler, 217n19

  perceived sense of, 14–16, 15f

  superiority theory of, 27–30

  Hung, William, 93–96, 105

  Hungary, 157

  hypocrites

  fall of, 71–75

  suffering of, 75–77

  In Cold Blood (Capote), 57–58

  inaction, envy and, 153–154

  “individual-group discontinuity effect,” 43

  inferiority. See also Makes Me Wanna Holler (McCall)

  feelings of, 133

  in others, 8–10

  Influence: Science and Practice (Cialdini), 57, 75

  ingroups/ingroup identity, 29, 35, 37, 42, 47, 149, 197n15

  injuries, of opposing teams, 41

 

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