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by Richard H. Smith


  injustice, envy and, 130–134

  Insko, Chet, 42

  intergroup dynamics/relations, 42, 48

  IQ tests, relative performance on, 61–62

  “Isn’t it Romantic?,” 3

  It’s a Wonderful Life (film), 184

  Jackson, Randy, 95

  James, William, 49, 51–52, 93, 177

  Jersey Shore (television show), 96

  Jesus

  on hypocrisy, 75

  on difficulty of a rich man to enter the kingdom of God, 129

  on judging others, 163

  Jesus Camp (film), 73

  Jeeves, 30–32

  Jews. See also Hitler, Adolf; Nazis

  envy of, 220n34

  genocide of, 154–157

  Hitler’s anti-Semitism and, 143–147

  Kristallnacht and, 151–152

  Nazis’ treatment of, xvi–xvii

  scapegoating of, 147–151

  suffering of, 157–161

  The Jimmy Swaggart Telecast, 71

  Joseph II, Emperor, 136

  Johar, Omesh, 133, 134

  John 8:3–11, 163

  Johnson, Bob, 57–58, 64

  Johnson, Samuel, 13

  jokes. See superiority theory of humor

  Jones, Mike, 73

  “just desserts,” 69. See also deserved misfortune

  just world, belief in, 80, 81

  justice

  blaming victims and, 80–82

  desire for, xiv

  fairness and, 65

  restoration of, 202n19

  revenge and, 86–92

  self-interest and, 82–86

  Kant, Immanuel, 1, 67

  karma, 81. See also justice

  Keltner, Dacher, xvii

  Kennedy, John F., 119

  Kentucky basketball fans, 38–39, 41

  Kerry, John, 24, 45

  Kim, Sung Hee, 90

  Kimmel, Jimmy, 101

  Kinsley, Michael, 74, 117

  Kipling, Rudyard, 164

  Klaas, Polly, 102

  Koningsbruggen, Guido van, 8

  Koren, Ed, 79

  Kovach, Bill, 19

  Kraft durch Freude (“Strength through Joy”), 152

  Kristallnacht, 151–152

  Krizan, Zlatan, 133, 134

  Krusty the Clown, 51

  Kubizek, August, 146

  Laettner, Christian, 38

  “Lake Wobegon effect,” 192n31

  Lamborghini, 120–121

  Land of Nod, 127

  laughter. See superiority theory of humor

  Lazare, Bernard, 218n25

  Leach, Colin, 133, 153

  Lee, General Robert E., 173

  Leno, Jay, 120

  Leonard, Justin, 43–44

  Lerner, Melvin, 80

  Leviathan (Hobbes), 27

  Levin, Brian, 25

  Life on the Mississippi (Twain), 112

  Lilliputians, 122

  likeability, envy and, 121–122

  Lincoln, Abraham, xvii, 172–176

  Linz, Austria, 143, 146

  Lord of the Flies (Golding), 59

  Lost in the Cosmos (Percy), 112

  Louisiana Tech, 38, 40

  love, competition for, 49–50

  Lovell, Jim, xiii, 189n3

  low-status, adaptive benefits and, 12

  luxury items, flaunting of, 120–121

  lynching, 158

  Madoff, Bernie, 68–70, 82

  The Magic Flute (Mozart), 136

  Makes Me Wanna Holler (McCall), 17–20

  Malcolm X, 67, 85

  Mandel, Howie, 97–98

  Mandela, Nelson, 182

  Mao: The Unknown Story (Chang and Halliday), 116

  Mao Tse-tung, 116

  “March Madness,” 39

  The Marriage of Figaro (Mozart), 136

  Martha Stewart Living (Stewart), 117

  Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia, 117

  Martin, Ricky, 93

  Marx, Groucho, 28

  Masters, The, 43

  “mate value,” 11

  math ability, perception of, 14–16, 15f

  mating game, 51

  McCain, John, 46, 47f

  McCall, Nathan, 17–20

  McClane, John, 107

  McCollam, Douglas, 102–103

  McCullough, Michael, xvii

  McDonald’s (restaurant), 17

  McKale, Donald, 152, 155

  Meade, General, 173–174

  meat-eaters, self-consciousness of, 75–76

  medial prefrontal cortex, 111

  Mein Kampf (Hitler), 143

  “me-monsters,” 5

  Michael Kohlhaas (novella), 88

  Michigan State University, 85

  Mickelson, Phil, 179

  Midsummer Night’s Dream (Shakespeare), 37

  Milgram, Stanley, 166–169

  Milton, John, 128

  “minimal group paradigm,” 35

  misfortune. See also deserved misfortune

  deservingness of, 48, 202n19

  of friends, 50–51

  gain from others,’ xii–xiv

  pleasure from deserved, xiv

  Miss Teen USA Pageant, 23

  Monin, Benoit, 75

  monkeys, in unequal treatment studies, 12–13

  moral behavior. See hypocrites

  Moral Compass: Stories for a Life’s Journey (Bennett), 74

  moral limits. See Nazis Morse, Stan, 6–7

  Mozart, Wolfgang Amadeus, 110, 125, 135–138, 181, 211n5

  “Mr. Clean/Mr. Dirty” comparisons, 6–8

  Murphy, Jeffrie, 87–88

  My German Question (Gay), 47, 198n33

  Napoleon, 53

  narcissism, 60, 133–134

  NASA, 45

  NASA lunar mission, xiii

  National Collegiate Athletic Association, 38

  The National Enquirer, 115–116, 178

  Nation of Islam, 85

  natural narcissism, 60

  Nazis. See also Hitler, Adolf

  in The Doctor and the Damned, 58–59

  envy of Jews, xvi–xvii, 142–143, 148

  Kristallnacht, 151–152

  in My German Question, 47

  persecution/murder of Jews, 142

  revenge on, 86–87

  scapegoating of Jews, 147–151

  New England Patriots, 40

  New York Jets, 41

  New York Stock Exchange, 117

  The New York Times, xv, 19, 117, 157

  The New Yorker, 117

  New Yorker cartoons, 21, 33, 79

  Nicklaus, Jack “The Golden Bear,” 177

  Nietzsche, Friedrich, 51, 132–133, 147, 218n25

  “no-fair” game, 12–14

  Nordegren, Elin, 183

  1935 Nuremberg Laws, 156

  Oates, Constable, 31–32, 184

  Obama, Barack, 44, 46–47, 47f, 53–54

  obedience to authority, 166–169

  Ohlmeyer, Don, 178–179

  O’Keefe, Walter, 4–5

  Olazábal, José María, 43–44

  Old Testament of Hebrew Bible, 127

  omnivores, self-consciousness of, 75–76

  Orwell, George, 33, 49, 98

  Oscar (Academy Award), 9

  other-interest, self-interest and, xiii–xiv, 51–54

  outgroups/outgroup antipathy, 29, 35, 37, 42–43, 47, 149–150, 197n15

  outrunning grizzly bear joke, xii

  Ouwerkerk, Jaap, 8

  Owens, Jesse, 48

  Oxford University, 83–84

  Parade Magazine, 120

  parents, children’s performance and, 34–35

  Parnevik, Jesper, 183

  partisan instincts/interests, 44–48

  Patton, General George S., 33

  peace, vs. war, 116

  Pearl Harbor attack, 91

  pedophile, 101

  Percy, Walker, 112, 116

  Perloff, Andrew, 41

  pe
rsecution, pleasures of, 151–153

  personal happiness, xvii

  personality, as explanation for others’ actions, 165–166

  Pharisees, 75

  Phelps, Michael, 29

  Philippines, 91

  Pitts, Leonard, Jr., 72

  plagiarizing, 76–77

  Plato, 27

  pleasure/pleasures

  of envy, 114

  of persecution, 151–153

  of revenge, 86–92

  “The Pleasures of Seeing the Deserving Fail” (Fenton), 185–187

  politics, schadenfreude and, 44–48

  Portmann, John, 68, 70, 77, 185

  positive psychology movement, xvii

  Potter, Harry, 30

  Powell, Caitlin, 76

  Prager, Dennis, 147–148

  preachers, hypocrisy of, 71–75

  Predator Raw. See To Catch A Predator

  Presidential Debate of October 2012, 53

  prestige, desire for, 105

  Princeton University, 151

  The Principles of Psychology (James), 51–52

  The Protocols of the Elders of Zion, 149

  Pushkin, Alexander, 125

  “Put on a Happy Face” (song), 184

  racial comparison. See Makes Me Wanna Holler (McCall)

  Raisman, Aly, 35

  Rammer Jammer Yellow Hammer (St. John), 36

  Rattay, Tim, 40

  reality television, xv, 23, 93, 96, 105–106, 119–120, 170. See also American Idol; Howie Do It

  The Red Badge of Courage (Crane), 16–17, 192–193n41

  Redick, J.J., 38

  Regan, Brian, 5

  Reiss, Steven, 105

  Rekers, George, xiv, 72, 74

  relative advantage/differences, 12–14

  relative performance, on tests, 61–62

  relative standing, biased perception of, 15f

  relativistic thinking/rule, 12

  Republicans/Republican Party, 44–46, 47f, 53, 198n28

  research/studies

  on “culpable control,” 82

  on envy, 113–114

  on fandom, 39, 41–42

  on hypocrisy and deserved misfortune, 76–77

  on inferiority, 133

  on “just world” belief, 80

  on “minimal group paradigm,” 35–36

  on narcissism, 133–134

  on obedience to authority, 166–169

  on reality TV watching, 105

  on relative standing/unequal treatment, 12–16, 61–63

  on revenge, 89–91

  on self-esteem, 6–10

  resentment, envy transmuted into, xvii

  respect, 64, 90, 102, 164, 221–222n67

  ressentiment, 132–133

  revenge

  desire for, xiv

  high-status and, 105–108

  instinct for, xvii

  pleasures of, 86–92

  restoring self-esteem, 90

  rumination and, 90, 207n50

  revenge plots, 67

  Rich, Frank, xiv

  Rickles, Don, 28

  righteous pleasure, 79

  rival group suffering, 41–42

  The Road Runner, 54

  Rochefoucauld, François de la, 9, 55

  Romney, Mitt, 46–47, 53–54

  Rooney, Mickey, 93

  Roseman, Mark, 155

  Rosencrantz and Guildenstern, 92

  Rosten, Leo, 67

  Rousseau, Jean-Jacques, 5–6

  Rowling, J. K., 30

  The Rubáiyát of Omar Khayyám (Fitzgerald), 131

  rumination, effects of, 207n49

  Russo, Richard, 138–139

  Ryder Cup matches, 43–44

  sadism, 89, 92, 157, 166, 171, 220n59, 207n54

  Salieri, Antonio, 110, 125, 134–138, 181, 211n5

  Satan, envy linkage to, 128

  “satisfied indignation,” 202n19

  scapegoating, of Jews, 147–151. See also Jews

  The Scarlet Letter (Hawthorne), 106

  schadenfreude

  age of, xv

  zero-sum, competitive situations and, 34, 180

  antidotes, xvii, 163–166, 170–176

  belief in a just world and, 80–82

  in biography, 17–20

  definition/meaning of, xi, xiii, 202n19, 204n4, 207n52

  deservingness and, xiv, 67–71, 79, 181, 202n19, 204n4, 207n54. See also deserved misfortune and justice

  empathy and, xvii

  envy and, xvi–xvii, 109, 111–114, 130–134, 153–154, 181

  evolutionary roots of, 10–13

  in fiction, 16–17, 30–32, 138–139

  felt by Hitler, 152

  first hand suffering of, 157–161

  from gain, xii-xiii, 2

  gossip, 141, 187

  hostile action and, 134–139, 153–157

  human depravity and, xvi–xvii, 48

  humiliation and, 94–98

  humor and, 27–30

  hypocrisy and, 71–77

  inferiority in others and, 8–10, 21–24, 94–98

  ingroup gain, 35, 64

  injustice and, xiv, 130–134

  in media, 93–108, 115–121, 178–179

  as natural human emotion, xviii

  persecution and murder of Jews, 141–143, 151–153, 157–160

  passive vs. active, xvi, 22, 91, 153, 207n52

  in politics, 44–48

  punishment and, 70

  revenge and, 67–68, 86–92

  sadism and, 92, 157, 207n54, 220n59

  self-interest and, 50–54, 82–86, 182–183

  superiority and, xii, 1–4, 10–12, 16–20, 27–30

  in sports, 39–44

  usage in books published, xv, xvf

  Scheler, Max, 132–133

  Schurtz, Ryan, 41

  Schwartz, Michael, 69

  Schwarzenegger, Arnold, 88

  Scroggins, W. T. “Dub,” 21

  Seaman, Ann Rowe, 74

  self-affirming thoughts, 9

  self-deception, envy and, 129–130

  self-esteem

  experimental evidence of, 6–10

  group membership and, 34–36

  illusions and, 16

  inferiority in others and, 8–10

  movement of, 7f

  narcissism and, 133–134

  revenge and, 90

  social comparisons and, 6–10, 29

  self-evaluation, social comparisons and, 4, 6–10, 16, 180

  self-importance, 105

  self-interest

  children and, 59–61

  culture and, 64

  empathy and, 62–65

  extreme circumstances and, 57–59

  human nature and, 54–57

  justice and, 82–86

  other-interest and, xiii–xiv, 51–54

  self-interested behavior, 64

  self-pride (amour propre), 5

  self-serving feelings, in mating game, 51

  self-worth, downward comparison and, xii

  Seligman, Martin, xvii

  sense of humor

  Hitler’s, 217n19

  perception of, 14–16, 15f

  sexual predator, 101. See also To Catch A Predator

  Shakespeare, William, 37, 92, 100, 125

  Shapiro, William, 158, 161

  shared standards, 68, 79

  “She Bangs” (song). 93

  Shepard, Alan, xiii, 189n3

  sibling rivalry, 60

  Sides, Hampton, 91–92

  Sideshow Bob, 51

  Simmons, Carolyn, 80

  Simpson, Homer, xi–xiii, xvi, 109, 122–123, 183–184

  Simpson, Lisa, xi, xvi, 109, 183

  The Simpsons, xi, xii, xvi, 51, 109, 122–123

  Sinatra, Frank, 4, 9

  situational causes, role of, 165–166, 168, 171–172

  60 Minutes, 24–25

  Skinner, B. F., 5

  Slate Magazine, 74, 100, 117

  slav
ery, 85–86

  Smith, Adam, 62

  Snierson, Dan, 105–106

  Snyder, Don J., 1

  soccer fans, 39

  social comparisons

  in biography, 17–20

  evolutionary roots of, 10–16

  in fiction, 16–17

  at intergroup level, 29

  self-esteem and, 6–10, 16

  self-evaluation in, 4

  self-interest and, 61

  in “state of nature,” 5

  Social Psychology and Human Nature (Baumeister and Bushman), 63

  Soldiers and Slaves (Cohen), 157

  solitary state, social comparisons in, 5

  South Africa, 182

  Spears, Russell, 133, 153

  Speer, Albert, 146, 217n19

  SpiderMan, 121

  Spinoza, Baruch, 109

  “sport killings,” 24

  Spode, 30–31

  sports, schadenfreude in, 39–44

  sports fans, emotional life of, 36–39

  St. John, Warren, 36–38, 40

  St. Andrews University, 83–84

  standards, culturally shared, 68, 79

  Stanford University, 75, 120, 177

  “state of nature,” social comparisons in, 5

  status, revenge and, 105–108

  stealing, 76

  Stereotype Content Model, 148, 151, 153

  Stevens, Helen, 48

  Stewart, Jon, 28, 54

  Stewart, Martha, 117–119, 122, 123, 178

  Stuckart, Wilhelm, 155–157

  studies. See research/studies

  success/failure, of others, 61–62

  “sudden glory,” 27

  suffering, of hypocrites, 75–77

  Sundie, Jill, 120

  superiority. See also social comparisons

  evolution and, 10

  inferiority in others and, 8–10

  superiority theory of humor, 27–30

  Survivor (television show), 96, 119–120. See also reality television

  Swaggart, Jimmy, 71–72, 74

  Swift, Jonathan, 49, 52, 122

  tabloids, appeal of, 115–116

  Tajfel, Henri, 35–37

  Takahashi, Hidehiko, 114

  Telushkin, Joseph, 147–148

  Thornburg, Richard “Dick”, 107

  “thrill of victory,” 28–29

  The Today Show (television show), 23

  Toland, John, 147, 152

  The Tonight Show (television show), 119–120

  Toobin, Jeffery, 117–118, 122

  Totleigh Towers, 31

  Tucker, Sophie, 4

  Turner, Terry, 113

  Twain, Mark, 21, 112, 114–115, 141, 147, 212n21

  Unamuno, Miguel de, 130

  unequal treatment, studies of, 12–13

  University of Alabama, 36–38, 40

  University of California at Berkeley, 93

  University of Bristol, 35

  University of Florida, 37–38

  University of Kentucky, 38–39, 41

  University of Michigan, 6

  University of Tennessee, 38

  University of Vienna, 13

  Upton, Caitlin, 23

  upward comparison, 6–8. See also social comparisons

  U.S. invasion of Cuba, 119

 

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