Always carry a cell phone. If the situation with someone you meet gets a little dicey, answer your cell phone and excuse yourself.
If in your chosen identity, you are not married, make sure to remove your wedding band. DUH!! Remember, you also need to do something about your two tone wedding finger. DUH!! DUH!!
StoryTime: There was a man who wanted to trace his ancestors. So he paid a research company for the information. He found out about a beggar in Europe who eventually became a stowaway on a ship to America. His ancestors worked in a slaughtering plant but eventually they made it all the way up to poor. He was not happy with his ancestors! So he decided to pay the researchers more money. Then he found out the truth. He actually came from royalty, Lord Johnson.
The moral of the story is that with identity transformation, you can be a poor little Johnson or a big uppity Johnson.
StoryTime: Sometimes you feel that you are dealt a bad hand in life because you feel inadequate in fulfilling your fantasy. We met a guy who had someone with questionable psychic powers read tarot cards to project his romantic future. He shuffled the cards and the psychic read the cards. Unfortunately it stated his love life was doomed. He wanted to shuffle the cards again. So for a little extra cash, the psychic obliged him. This time it came out well.
The moral of the Story is that don't you wish that transforming your identity could be so easy, yes it can?
Summary
Do you live in a box? There are many people who do not want to venture away from their current existence. People are normally scared of the unknown. They prefer to play it safe and live their life according to their everyday routine.
Is that you in that box? What you need is identity transformation. You escape from your box and for a brief time you are free, because you can instantly become anyone that you want to be. This can best be accomplished when you escape to someplace where no one knows your true identity.
Recipe 2: Recreate Fantasy Philosophy
Recreate fantasy is a procedure in turning another person's fantasy fulfillment to include yours. Once fulfilled, you and your fantasy partner may go separate ways taking only life long memories and a smile.
We are constantly recreating our fantasies. The problem is that the fantasies usually stay in our head and are never fulfilled. Going back to your room and doing a little hand aerobics in your bed alone is not fulfillment, according to the Hounds. True fantasy fulfillment is when you take action and fulfill your fantasies with a real person.
The following is an example of recreating a fantasy:
A short middle age obese balding man, let's call him Joe, has a fantasy of having sex with a young beautiful slim girl in her 20s, but not a prostitute. While in Vegas he sees his fantasy girl at a slot machine. Joe could just imagine what he could do with such a beauty. Of course, Joe sees himself as someone that this young girl would never consider in her fantasies. He is probably right.
That young girl may not have a fantasy of having sex with a short middle age obese balding man but she may be fantasying about having a good looking hard body young man with a big . . .Censored. So how does Joe recreate her fantasy to include him?
To accomplish this task, he must recreate her fantasy. What is the secret of recreating a fantasy? The secret is that Joe must first make himself known to that beautiful girl, Martha. It really is that simple, so let's continue.
When Joe approaches Martha, he must get her attention and start communicating with her. To get her attention, he may say "I really like your outfit." (There are hundreds of opening lines) This may seem lame but he does get Martha's attention. She responds and then there is small talk. During the small talk, Joe must then subtly, cleverly, humorously give hints to let her know that she fits his fantasy. Martha starts to think about this guy because he has just entered her life.
Before Joe started communicating with Martha, he was just another short middle age balding obese man who would probably be of no interest to a girl like Martha. But now, Joe has put the thought of recreating her fantasy in her mind, to include him. Martha begins to envision an immediate fantasy fulfillment that includes Joe. She may or may not be interested, but at least Joe took a shot and had a chance.
Like the Hounds stated, it really is that simple. Many people for many reasons are intimidated in approaching a potential attractive person. If Joe had never approached Martha, then definitely nothing would have happened. By approaching Martha and attempting to recreate her fantasy to include him, he now has a chance to be included in her fantasy. If Martha turns him down, there are millions of other beautiful girls that he can approach. If she says yes. . . Jackpot!
Doggy Treat: Just say something to your prey, instead of nothing, then, you may have a chance of getting your fantasy fulfilled.
Recipe 3: Spark and Kindling Philosophy
This philosophy begins with that initial sexual chemistry (spark) between the hunter and the prey. The kindling is when you add fuel to the initial spark. If done correctly, this approach usually results in bagging the prey. Let's start sparking.
There are two strategies in this philosophy. One is when you are at your home-base hotel and the other is when you are away from your home-base hotel. Of course, the Hounds define home-base as the hotel that you have a room at, on this trip. DUH!!
Home-base Hotel Strategy
This is when you are at your home-base hotel. Before you start hunting for your prey, you should have investigated all the events at your hotel and uniqueness of the bars. When you find your prey and there is an initial sexual chemistry spark, the strategy begins.
Now you need some alone time, with your prey, to add kindling to the initial spark. One way, is to entice your prey to go with you to a bar at this hotel because of its uniqueness. The next kindling is added when you entice your prey to go to your room for the lousy view. We like using the 'lousy view' line because it is funny. The Hounds believe that if you can make your prey laugh, it relieves tension and puts them at ease. Now, you are on the path for a howling good time. When you arrive in your room and your prey is enjoying the lousy view, the Hounds highly recommend that you fluff the pillows and then gently start rubbing your . . . censored.
Away from Home-base Hotel Strategy
Even if you are going hunting away from your home-base hotel, you still need to make sure that you check out the events and the uniqueness of the bars at your hotel. This may sound a little silly but we are not finished. You need to have a justification to bring your prey back to your hotel because that is the goal of this strategy.
For example, you have a room at the MGM and you decide to go hunting at Caesar Palace which is down the strip. Before you left the MGM, you found-out that they are going to have an Elvis impersonator.
At Caesar Palace, you meet your prey and there is the initial sexual chemistry spark. You do not want the spark to cool off. Here comes the problem. If you ask your prey just to go to your room at the MGM, they may get cold feet before they leave Caesar Palace. Plus, you should not be so direct, as you know, people like to play games.
We all know the objective of the game but you have to play the game. So you need to add more kindling. You tell your prey that you know something fun to do like going to the MGM and see an Elvis impersonator. Do not tell your prey that you have a room at the MGM unless they ask. Here is the kicker, your prey may know what you are trying to do but human nature steps-in. You are helping them justify going with you to your room. In other words, they know, you know, but no one wants to say what this is really leading to. You are adding the kindling.
Now you got them to the MGM. You watch the show and have a few drinks. You feel it is time for more kindling. You say something like "Let's take the elevator to look at the lousy view from my hotel room."
When you arrive in your room and your prey is enjoying the lousy view, remember, they are definitely interested and we are not talking about the view. The Hounds will leave you for now; we don't want to get censored again. So this t
ime it is up to you to get your prey from the window to the bed for some horizontal aerobics.
Doggy Treat: Remember, most everyone is at their best behavior in the beginning. So you want to have your fun and quickly move on while you both are on good terms.
Recipe 4: Hunting to be Caught Philosophy
The Hounds also know people who are hunting to be caught. They are constantly hunting for a prey, with the hope of getting noticed. Once noticed, these hunters become a willing prey in the anticipation of getting caught.
For example, Mary is hunting to be caught. She is strolling in the casino and finally sees her prey. She approaches him in the pretense of asking for gambling advice. During the small talk, Mary tells him that she is going to the bar because it is time for another drink. She seductively walks slowly away, using the language of motion, toward the bar leaving her prey. If her prey follows her to the bar, then he now becomes the hunter and she now becomes the prey. She has successfully achieved the Hounds 'Hunting to be caught' philosophy.
Of course, there are some people who are not hunters. They do not appreciate the challenge of the hunt. They prefer just to go to the supermarket and purchase their meat.
As for the Hounds, we are born hunters. We lust for the challenge of the chase. We are thrilled about getting the scent, tracking down and successfully catching our prey. The excitement of the hunt is what stirs the Hound's blood and other body functions such as our quivering bulging . . .censored.
Of course, we are not fools, if a good looking lady wants to pick-up the Hounds, well that will probably blow our desire for that hunt. We know a good thing when we see it. DUH!!
Doggy Treat: If you do not like hunting, go to the supermarket and pay for your meat. If you want a stimulating challenge, go hunting.
Recipe 5: Online Dating Service Philosophy
It seems that a lot of people these days are turning to online dating services. They may be looking for the love of their life, a quickie sex partner, or just a quick date. Have you ever used an online dating service?
The Hounds do not have a problem in using an online dating service but we are gearing our online philosophy in helping you fulfill your Vegas fantasy. You can use this online philosophy as a tool to successfully find your prey in advance of your Vegas trip. Can you imagine arriving in Vegas already knowing that you have one and/or several potential preys waiting to meet you?
Most online dating services have an intimate relationship section, such as "Intimate Encounter". It seems that those who advertise or visit these sections want more than just a date; they want to fulfill a fantasy. This is definitely the Hounds section.
For discretion, most online services have their own email system, so you do not have to give out your real contact information. Your potential prey, who reads your advertisement, can contact you through this email.
You need to arrange a time and location where you want to meet them.
Trying to find someone online could be a gamble and then again, you are going to Vegas.
Recipe 6: Offline Approach Philosophy
On the other paw, the Hounds prefer the offline dating approach. With all due respect for the ever growing online dating services, the Hounds have a simpler method. We refer to it as the Hounds offline dating approach. This is more of a human-to-human, instead of a computer-to-computer method. The Hounds prefer to see our potential prey live and in person as opposed to an "image" on a screen. Is this current image, the real image, or the image 300 pounds ago?
Again, trying to find someone offline could still be a gamble but since you actually meet, talk, and touch the person, it is less of a risky gamble. The Hounds refers to this as the old "Kick the tires before you buy approach".
Recipe 7: Cheating versus
Fantasy Fulfillment Philosophy
As the Hounds have stated throughout this book, we do not promote or even condone cheating on your significant other. But in the real world many people have sexual urges that they act out with someone different then their significant other. It is the Hounds contention that our version of fantasy fulfillment has many advantages and is less destructive to a relationship then what most people would consider "normal cheating".
To the Hounds, normal cheating is a continuous affair with someone other than your significant other. You have to constantly cover-up in order not to destroy your relationship, whereas the Hounds define fantasy fulfillment as a temporary fulfillment of your secret adult fantasies whatever they may be.
The Hounds believe in the many benefits of our fantasy fulfillment. Think about it, a person is fed up with their humdrum routine, they wish to escape to an exotic place just for a few days, change their identity and experience their secret adult desires they always fantasize about. They return home satisfied that they have fulfilled their fantasies without destroying their relationship. They now have a memory that will last them a lifetime. We give paws up to fantasy fulfillment.
On the other paw, normal cheating is a continuous affair with the same person which you have to constantly cover-up. The paranoia of this constant cover-up, not to mention the continuing guilt is overwhelming, this is what eventually will ruin your relationship. Therefore, we give paws down to normal cheating.
We have a theory, think of your fantasy fulfillment in Vegas as being just a one-time dream. Now, normal cheating cannot be considered a one-time dream because it is an ongoing reality.
Here is an experiment that will enhance our theory. Start imagining that you are having an affair even if you are not. Think about every step in detail from flirting to seduction to the cover-up. Now keep this in mind when you are around your significant other. All of a sudden, you will start showing signs of someone who has been cheating. Did you cheat, no, only in your mind? But you begin to show the signs of cheating like sweating, stuttering, and increase heartbeat.
In summary, fulfilling your Vegas fantasy ends when you leave Vegas. All that you are taking home is just the memories. Normal cheating is an on-going affair which could eventually ruin your relationship.
Here are 10 arguments about normal cheating versus fantasy fulfillment:
1. The Slip-up Argument
With normal cheating, there is a very good chance that you are going to eventually slipup and say something that will incriminate you to your significant other. "What happened to that mole on your butt?" If you said this to the wrong person, you are going to be crucified.
With fantasy fulfillment, you enjoy the fantasy with no exchange of your real personal information. They have no idea about your significant other nor do they want to know. If you follow the Hounds' instructions in this book, there should be no chance of an incriminating slip-up.
2. Communication Argument
Once you are back from an exotic location, you should not discuss your fulfilled fantasies with anyone that does not have a need to know. DUH!! We know of people who like to brag about their exploits to anyone that they want to impress. This is not good if you are trying to keep a secret. DUH!! It is best to re-run your sexual exploits only in your mind.
A cheater on the other hand has an on-going affair which increases the chances of getting caught. Sooner or later their lover will find-out about their significant other or visa versa. If you follow the teachings in this book, you should not have this problem because your lover will be in your Vegas fantasy. Plus you and your lover know nothing about each other, since you did not trade personal information with each other. It is almost like a wet dream.
3. Problem with Friends Argument
After a successful Vegas fantasy fulfillment trip, only those in your travel group know what really happened. Based on your agreement, because you are following our theories, you will not discuss the blow-by-blow events of your trip except in private. The Hounds are getting a little excited. Your fantasy is now only a memory.
As a cheater, your friends could be a dead give away by acting strange when they are around your significant other. The reason is that they know that
you are an on-going cheater and your friends are constantly afraid that they may say something that will bring your affair to light.
4. Hiding the Relationship Argument
As a cheater, you constantly have to find ways to continue normal cheating which increases your chance of getting caught. DUH!! Remember, there are two in a relationship with twice the chances of getting caught. Your routine could be disrupted because you are cheating. You have to find the time to cheat. So you have to make excuses to break your normal routine with your significant other. This is another signal that something is wrong.
On the other paw, with a fantasy fulfillment, this is not a problem because you are away from home and without your significant other. All you are bringing home is just the memory and a smile.
5. Caught in Lie Argument
A normal cheater will have to constantly lie to cover up the cheating. If they are ever caught in a lie, that could be the thread that starts the unraveling and eventually ends their relationship.
With fantasy fulfillment, it is just a memory among the thousands of other memories in your head. Do you and your significant other tell each other every thought in your head? We think not and we suggest not.
6. Talkative Argument
If your significant other wants to discuss your trip, just make sure that you have a story to tell, but don't be too talkative. A really chatty person is usually a nervous person trying to hide something. So when you are telling your significant other about your Vegas trip, just don't make it sound too chatty or rehearsed. You can just discuss your trip but just leave out certain memories.
On the other paw, a cheater will have to constantly cover-up their ongoing affair. Eventually, all these cover-ups could be exposed. The Hounds are getting excited again.
7. Disconnect Argument
Since normal cheating is an on-going relationship, it means that the cheater could start having an emotional and/or physical disconnect with their significant other. This is not good since it sends a signal to their significant other that something is wrong.
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