by Mei Fong
   gender imbalance and, 116
   Hanbin (Chen) in, 103
   home nursing services and, 145
   hukou and, 80
   human rights lawyers and, 81
   marriage market in, 120
   National Museum in, 38
   population and, 3, 46
   shidu parents and, 41
   Songtang hospice in, 158
   Tiantan Park in, 147
   two children and, xii, 45, 59
   United Nations Fund for Population Activities and, 77
   in vitro fertilization clinic in, xvi
   Yang Zhizhu in, 11
   See also Olympics, 2008 Beijing
   Being Mortal (Gawande), 149
   BGI Shenzhen, 207
   “Big Ball, Small Ball” theory, 35
   Bird’s Nest Stadium, 33–34, 35, 96
   birth control, 51, 68, 70, 73
   birth-planning machinery, 66–67
   birth quotas, 73
   birth tourism, 6, 204
   bonus systems, 75
   Book of Songs, 108
   Boston Globe, 181
   Bowen, Zhao, 207
   Bra Town, xi
   Brave New World (Huxley), 65, 207, 209
   bribery, 6, 75
   bride buying, 16
   bride prices. See caili (reverse dowry)
   Brightman, Sarah, 36
   Buccone (sex toy shop), 132
   Bush, George W., 34
   Bu Xiang, 106
   C
   caili (reverse dowry), 109, 111, 112, 113, 116–17
   Caixin, 172, 184
   Cai Yong, 10, 59
   California, 198, 200, 202, 205, 211
   Cambodia, 130
   Cameron, Lisa, 91, 92
   CaoCaoBa, 124
   capitalism, 7, 161, 197
   Care for Girls campaign, 133
   CCTV (national broadcaster), 87, 193, 194
   Center for Immigration Studies, 204
   Center for Strategic and International Studies (CSIS), 156–57
   Central Adoption Agency, 173
   Chang, Leslie, 6
   Changning orphanage, 179
   Changsha City, 206
   Charter 08, 37
   Chen, Danyan, 93
   Chen, Jenova, 97
   Cheng, Nancy, 132
   Chengdu, 13, 44–45
   Chengjie (son of Yang Libing and Chen Zhimei), 186, 187
   Chen Guangcheng, 80–81
   Chen Hong, 160
   Chen Shoutian, 151
   Chen Youhua, 210
   Chen Zhimei, 185, 186, 189
   Chenzhou City, 197
   Che Yuelian (Moon Lotus), 68–70
   Children of Men, The (James), 85
   Children’s Hope, 172
   Chin, Josh, 96
   China Center for Adoption Affairs (CCA), 174
   China/Chinese, distinction between, ix
   China Ghosts (Gammage), 169, 189
   China Railway Construction Group, 95–96
   China Youth and Children Research Center, 90
   Chinese Academy of Sciences, 196
   Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, 114, 228n
   Chinese Association for Population Studies, 46
   Chinese Dream (television show), 106
   Chinese University of Science and Technology, 53
   Chiya, Lisa, 200
   Chongqing, 24–25, 117
   Christian Science Monitor, 60
   Christmas cake, 126
   civil service exams, 100
   Clement, Charles, xv
   clomiphene, 193
   Cloud (video game), 98
   Club of Rome, 50, 56
   cluster leaders, 65–66
   COBRA (health insurance program), 202
   CoMensha, 173
   Communism, 149, 150, 155, 197
   Communist Party, 28, 53, 87, 126, 197, 208, 210
   economic growth and, xiv
   Gu Baochang and, 58
   on limiting family size, x, 54
   marriage anxiety and, 125
   Olympics and, 4
   on one-child policy, xiv, 10
   on Tangshan earthquake, 12–13
   on use of diaosi term, 96
   women’s rights and, 102
   Communist Party Central Committee, 49
   computer games, 97–98, 104
   confinement centers, 204–5
   Confucius Institute, 127, 181
   Confucius workshops. See woman morality courses/Confucius workshops
   Connelly, Matthew, 56
   contraception. See birth control
   corruption, 73
   crime, 115, 116
   Crossing Bridge Noodles, 101
   Ctrip (online travel site), 60
   Cultural Revolution, 5, 38, 45, 48, 50, 51, 57, 63, 149
   demography and, 46
   filial piety and, 87
   higher education in, 94
   Little Emperors and, 92, 93
   National College Entrance Exams reinstated after, 100
   Olympics and, 4
   social scientists in, xiii
   Tangshan earthquake and, 13
   cybernetics, 53
   D
   dancing grannies, 147
   dandu policy, 59, 62–64, 165, 208
   Danshen Julebu (Singles Club), 124
   dating, 102, 120, 121–22, 124. See also matchmaking
   death/afterlife, xvi, 161–64
   demography, study of, 46
   demystification of parenthood, 155
   den Boer, Andrea, 114, 115
   Deng (husband of Feng Jianmei), 61
   Deng Xiaoping, 3, 48, 141
   Deutsche Bank, 7
   dialou, 134
   diaosi, 96
   Diaosi Man (online comedy show), 96
   D.I.C.E. Awards, 99
   Ding Wanlong, 18
   Ding Xuan, 127–28
   DiYi Consulting, 199, 203–4
   DNA testing, 183–84, 186, 189
   Document 7, 71
   Dollar Store, xi
   domestic violence, 115
   Dongguan, 128, 130
   Dongyue Miao, 162
   Double II, 125
   dowries, 109, 111, 112, 113. See also caili (reverse dowry)
   Duan Yauneng, 171, 172
   Du Benfeng, 104
   Durihana Association, 130
   Dying Rooms, The (documentary), 175
   E
   earthquake in Sichuan (2008), 1–6, 12–21, 24, 26, 28, 29, 32, 42
   Ai Weiwei and, 35
   Lin Hao and, 34
   museums on, 38–41
   pig that survived, 39
   Shejiantai destroyed by, 40
   statistics on, 38–39
   earthquake in Tangshan (1976), 4, 12–13
   Eberstadt, Nicholas, 56
   economics, xiii, xv, 6, 7–9, 46, 50, 60, 61, 141, 209
   aging population and, 155, 156–57, 161
   ascendance of China as global superpower, 37
   China as world’s second largest economy, 141
   China’s economic growth, x–xii, 87, 92, 94, 140
   of fertility treatments, 195–96, 199, 205–6
   gender imbalance and, 116, 117
   income disparity, 95
   population and, 48, 56
   Economist, xiv, 115
   Economist Intelligence Unit, 158
   Edmunds, Alex, 124
   Egan, Raymond B., 190
   Ehrlich, Paul, 49, 108
   elder abuse, 151–52, 155
   enqing, 155
   Enshi, 59
   environment, xiv–xv
   pollution, 7, 9, 19, 26, 30, 43, 104, 157, 196
   Three Gorges Project and, 57
   Environmental Protection Committee (of State Council), 57
   Ethiopia, 171
   eugenics, 28, 206, 208
   Evans, Karin, 188
   exams/tests, 100–102
   F
   factories. See manufacturing
   Families with Children from China (FCC), 181
   family, defined, 125
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   family fragility, 104
   family planning
   policy before one-child policy, xiii
   rules and family formations, 125
   family-planning commission, 65, 133
   family-planning officials, 37, 62, 66, 71–72
   forced abortion and, xv, 167
   seizing children for adoption, 12, 172, 184–89
   surrogacy and, 195
   visiting homes, 27
   in Yicheng, 68–69
   See also population police
   Family Planning Research Institute, 25
   family ties, defined, 166
   fangnu, 117
   Fang Wenxian, 133
   Fan Jianchuan, 38
   Feng Jianmei, 60–61, 62, 72, 196
   Feng Wengguang, 130–31, 132
   fertility
   drop in, xii, xiii–xiv, 209
   sterilization for lowering, 68
   See also fertility rates
   fertility rates, xiii, 56, 58, 59
   fertility treatments, 27–28, 190–93, 205–6
   clinics for, 193, 199
   designer baby techniques, 205–7
   drugs for, 193, 194
   economics of, 195–96, 199, 205–6
   multiple births, 6, 192–95, 198, 205, 212
   See also surrogacy
   filial piety, 86–88, 103, 107, 154–55, 161
   Financial Times, 124
   finding notices, 178, 180
   fireworks, 1, 21, 35
   Fishman, Ted, 140
   Fong, Andrew, 23, 31, 33
   Fong, Eternal Virtue, 212–13
   Fong, Mei
   background of, 5
   birth of children of, 212–13
   family of, 133–36, 140, 213
   fertility treatments for, xv–xvi, 190–93, 211–12
   move to California, 97
   pregnancy/miscarriage of, 23, 29, 31–32, 33, 191
   as Wall Street Journal correspondent, xi–xii, 5, 23
   Fong, Steadfast Virtue, 212–14
   Fong, Vanessa, 129
   Footloose (movie), 175
   Ford, Peter, 60
   forgetting, 40–41
   Fourteenth Amendment (of US constitution), 205
   “4:2:1” phrase, 45
   Francis, Diane, xv
   Fu (god of Luck), 140–41, 158
   Fujian Province, 74
   fuwa (good luck dolls), 32
   G
   Gale, Julia Ming, 181
   games. See computer games
   Gammage, Jeff, 169, 189
   Gandhi, Indira, 50, 77
   Gansu Province, 208
   Gao (family-planning official), 74–77
   Gao, Nurse, 144–49, 151
   gaokao, 100–101, 102
   Gawande, Atul, 149, 150
   gay people, 203–4
   GDP (gross domestic product), ix, xi, 48, 141, 157
   gendercide, 59, 129
   gender imbalance, xiii, xv, 7, 48, 59, 109–10, 114–20, 129, 133, 139, 228n
   bachelors finding it hard to find brides, 18
   dating and, 124
   marriage anxiety and, 125
   sex dolls and, 131, 132
   See also son preference
   genetic diseases, 207–8, 212
   Ghost Month, 163–64
   Gini coefficient, 95
   “Going Home” tours, 181
   Granny square dancing, 147
   Great Famine, 92
   Great Leap Forward, 48, 57, 193
   Greenhalgh, Susan, 3, 45, 53, 55, 209
   gross domestic product. See GDP (gross domestic product)
   Guangdong, 78, 128
   Guangdong Family Planning Commission, 194–95
   Guangdong University of Technology, 131
   guanggun (bare branches), 110, 116, 135. See also gender imbalance
   Guanggun Jie (Singles’ Day), 125
   Guangzhou, 130, 132, 151, 177, 178, 194, 195
   Guangzhou’s Cultural Square, 87
   Gu Baochang, 10, 58
   Guizhou Province, 172
   Guobao (husband of Li Jiayi), 166
   Guo Jingjing, 34–35
   H
   Hague Adoption Convention, 174
   Half the Sky (foundation), 172, 232n
   Hall, Heather, 170
   Hampshire College, 174
   Hanbin, Chen, 103–4
   Han Chinese, 36
   Handmaid’s Tale, The (Atwood), 196, 197
   Han dynasty, 110
   Hangzhou, 47, 79
   Han Han, 85, 102
   Hanzhong, 110
   Harvard University, 194, 209
   He, Vincent, 130, 132
   health-care reforms, 156
   health-care systems, 7
   health insurance. See medical insurance
   Hebei, 128
   Hebei Province Traditional Culture Research Association, 127
   hei haizi (black child), 11
   Henan, 71, 128
   higher education, 94
   Hitchens, Christopher, 1
   Hitdoll Inc., 131, 132
   Holocaust Museum (Washington, DC), 40
   home health care, 143–46
   Hong Fincher, Leta, 120, 126
   Hooters, 8
   Hornby, Nick, 137
   hospices, xvi, 138, 157–60, 164–68
   household registration. See hukous/household registration
   Hsu, Steve, 207
   Hua Guofeng, 48
   Huang Denggao, 44, 67–68, 69
   Huang Guangyu, 95
   Huangjiapu, 65, 66, 67, 68
   Huang Qi, 29
   huaqiao (overseas Chinese families), 5
   Hudson, Valerie, 114, 115
   Huimei (daughter of Tang Shuxiu), 1, 14, 16–20, 22, 30
   Huis, 158
   hukous/household registration, 11, 15, 80, 123, 125, 147, 154, 187
   human rights lawyers, 81
   Human Rights Watch, 175–76
   Hunan Province, 78, 171, 172, 173, 179, 197
   Hut, Ina, 172–73
   Huxley, Aldous, 65, 207, 209
   Hu Yaobang, 45, 48
   hypergamy, 121, 126
   I
   IKEA, 8–9
   income disparity, 95
   India, 50, 51, 109, 114, 140, 199, 210
   Indonesia, 50
   infanticide, 16, 44, 59, 109, 114, 129, 197
   infant mortality, 8, 10, 47, 152
   infertility, 23, 26, 196–97
   infertility rates, 191
   INSEAD (business school), 142
   intelligence, 206–7
   in vitro fertilization (IVF), xv–xvi, 191, 192, 199, 207
   Iron Gourd Village, 16, 18
   IUDs (intrauterine devices), 68, 70
   IVF. See in vitro fertilization (IVF)
   J
   James, P. D., 85
   Japan, 90, 101, 115, 126
   Jeans City, xi
   Jiaen, Liu, 193
   Jiaen Hospital, 192, 193
   Jiamusi, 147
   Jiang, Jennifer, 198–203
   Jiang, Tony, 198–204, 206
   Jiangsu, 59, 73
   Jiangxi, 80
   Jiayuan (matchmaking site), 120–21, 122
   jihua shengyu (planned birth program), 6
   Jinling Evening News, 96
   Jin Yu, 189
   Jiuquan, 59
   Johnson, Kay Ann, 174, 175
   journalism, citizen, 13
   Journey (video game), 98–99
   K
   Kahn, Gus, 190
   Kawaii Club, 131
   Kellehear, Allan, 137
   KFC, 9
   Koolhaas, Rem, 30
   Kroeber, Arthur, xi
   Krywokulsky, Amanda, 200–203
   kubi, 94–95
   Kunming, xvi, 12, 13, 32, 137, 157, 158, 164
   Kunming’s No. 3 People’s Hospital’s Section on Palliative Care, 138, 165
   L
   labor shortage, xi–xii, xiii–xiv, 48, 208
   “Later, Longer, Fewer” campaign (wanxishao), xiii,
 10, 47, 48
   Lavely, William, xiii–xiv
   lawyers, human rights, 81
   Lee, Kim, 115
   “Leftover Women” campaign, 125–26, 127
   Legend of Sword and Fairy (video game), 98
   Lehi, Utah, 175
   Lehman Brothers, 37
   Lei Yuanli, 197
   Leshan Buddha, 26
   Li, Uncle, 81–83
   Liang, James, 60
   Liang Zhongtang, 44–48, 52–53, 54, 58, 60, 63–64
   Lian Si, 95
   life expectancy, 46, 47, 141
   Li Guangyuan, 52, 53, 54
   Li Jiayi, 164–68
   Li Keqiang, ix
   Lim, Louisa, 41, 84
   Limits to Growth, The (Club of Rome), 50
   Lin’an, 88, 89
   Ling (daughter of Chen Zhimei), 185–86
   Lin Hao, 34
   Li Shizhen, 153
   Li Shunqiang, 24–25
   Little Emperors, 85–86, 90–92, 93, 103–4, 139–40
   Chen (Jenova) and, 97–99
   dating/marriage for, 102–3, 104
   Du Benfeng on family fragility and, 104–5
   employment for, 95–96, 99–100
   kubi and, 94–95
   letters from only children, 93–94
   Liu Ting and his mother, 86–89, 92, 93, 96, 105–7
   test taking and, 100–102
   liudong renkou (flowing population), 15
   Liu Jishu, 14–18, 20–21, 22
   Liu Shaokun, 29
   Liu Ting, 86–89, 92, 93, 96, 105–7, 109, 228n
   Liu Xiaobo, 37
   Li Xiuzhen, 52
   Li Xue (Snow), 11–12
   Los Angeles Times, 172