A 30-Day Online Romance
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Nov 22 9:47 AM
CAMILA: And how many?
Nov 22 9:48 AM
CAMILA: Do you have the child selected already?
Nov 22 9:48 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Just 1 honey.
Nov 22 9:48 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Why are you asking honey?
Nov 22 9:49 AM
CAMILA: Do you know who the child is?
Nov 22 9:49 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes, honey and I want to know more, she is so pretty honey.
Nov 22 9:49 AM
CAMILA: From what country?
Nov 22 9:50 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Australia honey.
Nov 22 9:50 AM
CAMILA: What about biological children, want anymore?
Nov 22 9:51 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Will you give me that?
Nov 22 9:51 AM
CAMILA: Darling, I ask if you want more children.
Nov 22 9:53 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Have never been thinking about that, so the question remains pending.
Nov 22 9:53 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: How about you honey?
Nov 22 9:54 AM
CAMILA: I see.
Nov 22 9:54 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: How about you honey?
Nov 22 9:56 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Hello honey.
Nov 22 9:56 AM
CAMILA: When you adopt a child or children you have to be a very special person.
Nov 22 9:57 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes, you are right but do you wish for that?
Nov 22 9:58 AM
CAMILA: Caring for them, loving them can be just as fulfilling as having your own natural children, right? I admire you and I love you more for wanting to do this. May God bless your efforts always.
Nov 22 9:58 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Thank you honey, you are so special and I will always love you.
Nov 22 10:00 AM
CAMILA: If I should become a part of your life, anything you do regarding adopting a child or children, I will be right there with you.
Nov 22 10:01 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Oh! I see.
Nov 22 10:03 AM
CAMILA: So, a little girl! You are going to love that. I know you are going to just bubble forth seeing her grow into womanhood.
Nov 22 10:04 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes honey.
Nov 22 10:04 AM
CAMILA: Christopher, your are so brave, so strong.
Nov 22 10:04 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Thank you honey.
Discussion About Scriptures
Nov 22 10:04 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Do you believe in second life?
Nov 22 10:05 AM
CAMILA: I don't really understand the full meaning of that.
Nov 22 10:05 AM
CAMILA: I believe in a second chance in life.
Nov 22 10:06 AM
CAMILA: Do you mean to adopt a child and give them a second chance at life?
Nov 22 10:06 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: No darling.
Nov 22 10:06 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Like coming to life again after death.
Nov 22 10:07 AM
CAMILA: I believe in the resurrection hope that Jesus promises us, "All those in the graves will come back to life." John 5:28-29.
Nov 22 10:08 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes, you are right, but they are coming back to face judgment, right?
Nov 22 10:10 AM
CAMILA: They will come back to get a second chance to live in a paradise earth for all eternity yes.
Nov 22 10:11 AM
CAMILA: "Those who do good to life - those who do bad to destruction.”
Nov 22 10:12 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Ok good, where do you learn all this from honey?
Nov 22 10:12 AM
CAMILA: The bible.
Nov 22 10:14 AM
CAMILA: The truths are all in the bible. I don't listen to hypocritical religious leaders those who tell the people what they want to hear. I study the bible.
Nov 22 10:14 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: That is good. I study the bible too honey.
Nov 22 10:15 AM
CAMILA: I would love nothing more than for us to study together.
ALEXISCHRIS60: Do you think heaven is real and hell is real?
Nov 22 10:18 AM
CAMILA: Heaven is real - it's God's throne. The opposite of heaven is earth - not hell as most church leaders want you to believe. In Acts it tells us that Jesus went to hell for 3 days. Hell is simple Hades in Greek, Sheol in Hebrew - means grave, or pit or something like that. Not a place burning forever.
Nov 22 10:19 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: You are so right and I respect you for knowing that.
Nov 22 10:20 AM
CAMILA: The Greek gods and such - many of those false religious teachings are still practice in churches today.
Nov 22 10:21 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes honey, I believe they all do it for money.
Nov 22 10:22 AM
CAMILA: Exactly. In the meantime, they are fooling good hearted people who may want to learn the truths from God's word.
Nov 22 10:23 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes honey, everybody have the grace of God inside, it takes a strong believer to understand that.
I Am Getting Married to You
Nov 22 10:23 AM
CAMILA: So, going back to the adoption, how soon will you take the child?
Nov 22 10:24 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Honey any moment from now. You are so interested in adoption, can I ask why?
Nov 22 10:25 AM
CAMILA: How will this affect our relationship?
Nov 22 10:27 AM
CAMILA: A little girl to a single man with two young boys would not happen in America.
Nov 22 10:28 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Affect our relationship in what way honey?
Nov 22 10:28 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes, and that is why I am holding on until I get married.
Nov 22 10:29 AM
CAMILA: Darling, I thought you said she is coming to you any moment now.
Nov 22 10:33 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes, because I am getting married any moment from now.
Nov 22 10:33 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Or I will employ a maid.
Nov 22 10:33 AM
CAMILA: What are you saying?
Nov 22 10:34 AM
CAMILA: Who are you getting married to?
Nov 22 10:35 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: You, who else.
Nov 22 10:36 AM
CAMILA: Christopher, have you lost your mind? We have not discussed any of this.
Nov 22 10:36 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes, with you.
Nov 22 10:36 AM
CAMILA: What are you saying?
Nov 22 10:38 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: I do not have any one else in my life, just you and you have taking my heart away so honey who else will I get married to?
Nov 22 10:38 AM
CAMILA: You want to marry me to become a maid to your children? Children who are not even yours? You are nuts.
Nov 22 10:39 AM
CAMILA: What is happening to you? You have not asked me? Is this the kind of romance you want with me?
Nov 22 10:42 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: No honey, you being in the house will make it complete, I can employ a nanny, so do know I am not interested in you because of my kids.
Nov 22 10:42 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: I am interested in you because I want true love.
Nov 22 10:43 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: If you truly love me then you love my kids and everything about me.
Nov 22 10:43 AM
CAMILA: I don't think you are ready to handle 3 kids Christopher. You are not ready to get married at all.
Nov 22 10:43 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: I am ready, I was adopted and it’s time for me to pay back.
Nov 22 10:43 AM
CA
MILA: What's the rush? Raising a girl is not the same as raising boys?
Nov 22 10:44 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: I don’t know if you understand.
Nov 22 10:44 AM
CAMILA: What's the rush?
Nov 22 10:44 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Honey, I will get a maid.
Nov 22 10:44 AM
CAMILA: You can't even show your face on a webcam to me, but you want me to take care of your children?
Nov 22 10:45 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Do not go there ok, I don't have a cam, don't you understand.
Nov 22 10:45 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: You are still doubting me, what is all this for?
Nov 22 10:45 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Be mature please.
Nov 22 10:45 AM
CAMILA: Getting a maid is not the issue, I can do all of that, I am capable, but what is wrong with you?
Nov 22 10:46 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: What is wrong with me in what way?
Nov 22 10:46 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: I don't understand.
Nov 22 10:46 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: It’s as if you have your own way in upsetting somebody Camila.
Nov 22 10:46 AM
CAMILA: We need to meet first. We need to talk more. We need to plan. We need to do a lot of stuff, even before this comes up.
Nov 22 10:47 AM
CAMILA: You just told me you are getting married now. You have not discussed any of that with me.
Nov 22 10:47 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Forget about that.
Nov 22 10:47 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Maybe you are not yet interested in the marriage life right.
Nov 22 10:47 AM
CAMILA: Forget what? All the love we shared for the past 3 weeks?
Nov 22 10:48 AM
CAMILA: Christopher, we have not met each other yet. Do you even realized that?
Nov 22 10:49 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes, but I am in love with you, I don't know about you yet.
Nov 22 10:49 AM
CAMILA: I think you are tired.
(Camila’s comment: I thought he was going nuts here.)
About Sex
Nov 22 10:49 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: This is not what I do, coming online chatting with you and seeing on the webcam like having sex online, I don't do that ok, if you want that then I can lead you to someone that does that.
Nov 22 10:50 AM
CAMILA: You are nuts. It's not about sex.
Nov 22 10:50 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: I don't do online webcam and I will never do that.
Nov 22 10:50 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: If you can’t.
Nov 22 10:50 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: If you can't still trust the man I am, then I will move out.
(CAMILA’S COMMENT: GO RIGHT AHEAD AND MOVE OUT)
Nov 22 10:51 AM
CAMILA: Go to the internet cafe, go the restaurant, go somewhere in public and use the webcam. I don't need to see or get naked like that.
Nov 22 10:52 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: I don't want to use the cam.
Nov 22 10:52 AM
CAMILA: This is not about webcam or sex. This is about a future I thought we were building together.
Nov 22 10:52 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Please stop talking about this.
Nov 22 10:52 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: I don't use that please.
Nov 22 10:52 AM
CAMILA: I said it is not about either of those.
Nov 22 10:52 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: Then what is it about?
Nov 22 10:53 AM
CAMILA: It's about building a relationship towards marriage at some point, but not like - NOW.
Nov 22 10:54 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: But I just want to tell you what I want and why I am chatting with you.
Nov 22 10:54 AM
CAMILA: Then come to America first, if you love me.
Nov 22 10:55 AM
ALEXISCHRIS60: To do what? I should leave my job behind, going to America because of a woman that has no trust in me? Impossible?
Nov 22 10:56 AM
CAMILA: Come here, marry me here then we go to Berlin and you get your little girl then.
Nov 22 10:56 AM
CAMILA: Who says I don't trust you?