Streak: Why Pray When You Can Easily Worry
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Bonus Pages
Listening and Asking
To Yourself
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What do I know?
What can I do with my head? Thinking | Observing,
What can I do with my heart? Caring | Commitment | Discipline | Team Spirit
What can I do with my hands? Driving | Playing guitar
What am I learning? Human resources | Education | Social work | Business | Psychology
What fields do I love deep down? Social media | Writing | Public speaking |Facilitating
What tool am I adding to my mind pack daily?
What solutions do people approach me for?
What questions do people ask me that I love to answer.
Social media | Personal growth and effectiveness | Writing | Speaking | Idea incubation | Practical learning and facilitating techniques.
What kind of people am I comfortable working with? Teenagers | Students | Young professionals
I usually have answers to people like?
Listening To Others
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What are people saying already?
What problems do people complain about that I am interested in helping them solve?
Which of these problems am I learning how to solve now?
Listen Online and Offline.
On writing:
I abbreviate too much. I don’t have anything to write. How can I write that people want to read?
On social media:
How do I get more followers, friends and connections? How do I get more retweets, likes and comments?
On Speaking or facilitation:
How do I speak such that people will listen? How do I engage my audience? How can I speak confidently to crowd? How can I engage my audience or participants so that they understand the topic I am sharing?
On Personal Growth:
I don’t know how to plan. I always procrastinate. I can’t focus for too long during the day. I get overwhelmed very easily.
What did my friends say I helped them out with that they are happy about?
Which problems have I solved in the past?
Think through this, no matter how small. In the house, in your office, on your street, with a business partner.
(This is almost like a Curriculum Vitae)
On Social Media:
I helped a friend to get a twitter account and mentored them on how to use it effectively.
I helped a friend on how to use Facebook group to connect with great minds and mentors.
I coached 7 friends in a Facebook group about how to communicate online like professionals.
On Writing:
I helped a friend to learn how to be descriptive in script writing. This caused a huge shift in her imagination
I tried out the use of chatting to help a friend to write English words in full for 30 days. The habit stuck with her after.
On Personal growth:
I helped 4 young adults to divide their 24 hours effectively and achieve more with their lives.
Why are my friends so excited with the solution? (Asking has started)
Why do my friends consider these things as problem?
How can I offer this same solution to someone like my friend? Perhaps, this goes back to the gift of your heart (Caring, compassionate, etc.)
It makes their work slow. It bring a lot of stress
It doesn’t allow them get a good pay for their work.
Through recommendations, in similar groups where your friends hang out, in the field where your friend works.
Thinking
Getting More Value For A Solution
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How can I put all these solutions together?
Will there be any other person in the future that will need this solution?
Can I find someone that will need the solution so badly as to pay for it? Document these solutions
Yes! Many more people are coming on social media.
People will keep writing, digitally or any other way.
People will always want a better life. So, personal growth is forever a solution that is needed.
People will keep speaking forever. They will want to communicate more effectively.
Acting
It is as simple as act, yet it is as hard as if you don’t try, nothing will happen!
Where can I share these solutions that will be beneficial?
How can I share the solution?
When should I share the solution?
Why should I share the solution?
There are many places to do this >> Social media, your friends’ groups etc.
Share it the same way you shared it with your friends that liked the solution.
Share as often as you can. Help as many as you have the capacity to help. It is blessed to give than receive.
Problems are inevitable, the more you solve, the wider your network and eventually your net worth.
Thank You!
To the Bishop of my soul and the masterpiece of all I believe, I am eternally grateful.
To my parent, your seed produced the physical me, you are irreplaceable.
To my Siblings, Caroline, Charles and Peace, which I couldn’t choose, you couldn’t be any other, you’re such amazing hearts.
To my Jewel, Grace, Je t’aime profondement.
To you, dear reader, You Are Limitless and I love you.
We Are Connected
Damilola Fasoranti is limitless. He is a personal growth strategist who helps young innovators to transform their limitless spark into action and impact.
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